Plastic surgeon red flags?
My breast surgeon gave me the names of two different plastic surgeons that she works with for reconstruction with implants. I had an appointment with one last week and left feeling slightly underwhelmed. First he was running about an hour late, which wasn't the issue—just that he seemed "rushed" during our appointment. He brought in samples for me to look at. One tissue expander and one implant (a silicone round). I asked about the anatomicals and he held up the implant by the edge so it was hanging down to show me that when upright, the rounds ARE anatomically shaped. He went on to explain that he did not use the anatomical implants due to the possibility of shifting in the pocket.
I guess by reading many posts here, I was expecting to see and feel the different type of implants. And talk to the doctor about what size, including projection, I would be. He just asked what size (cup) I would like to be. I am a C, so I just said about the same size I am now. He told me that the TE's would be filled until I was happy with the size. So would those variables be worked out later, during the fill process?
I have another appointment with the other plastic surgeon on Wednesday. Any tips for important questions I should ask? Is it a red flag if the doctor only shows you one type of implant?
--Lorie
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It seems that the PS and you are just a little different. You like to be in the loop about what is happening and he is the type that tells you just to trust him. He could have at least explained how he picks an implant for you and what affects the choice. My surgeon had 3 types of implants available during surgery and picked from them. It is easiest to decide about size by just filling the tissue expanders until you like them and not to get an idea in your head about specific cc's. Most doctors probably have their favorite brand or type of implant they like to work with. You can achieve different looks with the same implant too, it depends on how they make the pocket. The same implant can give you the "porn star" look or a more natural teardrop look. When it comes to projection it largely depends on how large you want to go in relation to the size of your ribgage, the only way to get large implants on small ribgage is to go with high profile implants.
You should pick a surgeon you are comfortable with, if you like to know all the ins and outs then you need to go with somebody who will explain the whole process better. The first surgeon may not have been bad but he just had a different work style. I hope you like the other surgeon better. And it helps to do your own homework and research since the surgeon may not bring up points that are important to you.
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I ended up changing PS because the first was inflexible and quite frankly a bit stuck on protecting his behind rather than listening to me. He always had a nurse in the room with us sort of as "insurance" possibly against harassment or inappropriate touching. He refused to listen to my complaints, dismissing them as irrelevant and acted surprised I wasn't completely happy with his work. The second PS is so kind, thoughtful, patient and not at all concerned with decorum. In the end I had all the work done by the first, removed and went flat. I'm so much happier I just wish I never went through 4 surgeries to get it right.
Good luck to you
Amy
PS if the first guy doesn't feel right, he's not.
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My surgeon said the same thing about the rounds ending up shaped like the anatomical, although he did use the anatomical. Also when pushed about a different type of implant he said offices tend to use one brand. He politically correctly explained what sounded like a quantity discount to me if they use a lot of them, so they push that brand (but gave me a different one). I was also asked about the size and was told something similar to what you were.
I spent more time with the plastic surgeon than my breast surgeon, so you will want to keep looking until you find one you like and are comfortable with.
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Thanks for the insight, ladies! I just met with PS #2 this morning and was very pleased! He sat back in his chair, relaxed, like he had all the time in the world to answer my questions! I left feeling soo much better than after seeing PS#1. Whew!
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I am glad you had a better visit with PS #2. Every PS is different, and everyone needs to find their "fit". You will be starting a long relationship with them, which can include many visits and so on so you need that comfort and confidence!
Not working with anatomicals is not necessarily a sign, some just prefer not to, but I did for myself want a PS experienced with various forms of recon, including both tissue expanders and direct to implant, and both rounds and anatomicals, so we could come up with best plan for me based on me and my circumstances, not based on his limitations and products. Make sense?
Your tissue expanders will be selected on your measurements, their purpose is to stretch the tissues not necessarily look pretty or even. You should check out Breast Implant Sizing 101, as there IS a difference going from expanders to implants....even for the same volume implant you can expect to look smaller/have less projection as expanders have hard backs and project more off ribcage...implants are soft and conform more. If you want projection, you need to look at higher projection implants, but there are limits as you need to consider your chest diameter too so you don't end up with a funny looking narrow high projection implant!
My first surgery we did direct to implant with rounds. I let my PS know my size preferences (i.e. same or smaller than I was) and he brought 3 different sets of round implants (plus spares) to OR based on my body measurements and our discussions. He used sizers during surgery to determine best one to use. For my exchange we switched to anatomicals and, again, we talked about what I liked and did not like about current implants, and he brought in 6 sets of implants and spares to OR (all anatomicals) per my measurements and current implant dimensions to determine what fit best in pocket and looked best.
The risk with anatomicals shifting in pocket is actually quite minimal (like less than 1-2%) if properly placed and pocket is properly made (snug), they are textured to allow adherence to the tissues so it is very important to follow PS instructions in early weeks to allow this adherence. These early weeks really affect whether the implant will rotate then or in the future. To me the lower risk of capsular contracture and the reduced rippling I got, and better shape, all outweigh that low risk of rotation (and I made sure to follow my PS instructions in early weeks to make sure they "stuck" in place). You definitely want a PS who is trained and experienced in placing anatomicals though, whether you need expansion or do direct to implant.
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Yes, if the PS says "my job is to make you look good in a sweater"...you should seek another opinion!
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