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  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited February 2015

    Hi girls, sorry I have been absent.

    Wilsie I do so hope that you can find a way to get that nutrition into your system so you can get that healing process going well.......it's time for you to start feeling better.

    I have been watching the weather forecasts for the USA and I must say...BRRRRRRRR!!!!! Are you kidding me??!! Those snow falls and low temperatures are so totally alien to me that I really can't comprehend them!

    Nancy you back area with the snow on it is just so pretty, looks like a postcard but I'm sure you are really glad that you are inside and not out.......lol.

    Lisa that pic is great!! You have such talent for your composition of shot.

    Kathy, so glad that you didn't end up with a power outage.......that sure would have been a right pain! I cannot imagine how you would keep warm without electricity!

    We are off to the travel agent in the morning to start the process of organizing our trip to France later this year! It really is going to happen and I am so excited......lol. I am really going to be a bit of a nomad this year as I am off to Cairns for two weeks in three weeks time......love it!!!! That trip is to catch up with family so more of a relax and talk sort of trip , I lived there for fifteen years so really don't have to do the tourist thing......lol.

    Stay warm all!

    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited February 2015

    Chrissy, Planning trips is so much fun. And hope you really enjoy your trip to Cairns. It's always fun catching up with family and friends.

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2015

    Hope all who are snowed in and freezing are OK

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  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2015

    we need to get going on our annual trek to the Indian Wells Tennis Tournament. We stay in Palm Desert.

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  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited February 2015

    Wow Lisa, those pics are beautiful as usual!

    I sure hope all that snow and ice starts to ease and things start to warm up soon for all you US girls! I'm not quite sure I would know what to do to survive your winters.....Brrrrrrr!

    I had a friend and her two gorgeous grand daughters over this afternoon for a tea party..........it was such fun! The little one (aged 8) is right into tea so I gave her a selection of fruit teas to choose from ........... it was so good to get my lovely fine chine tea cups out. I do hope that when they visit their Gran again we could do the same thing.

    Take it easy girls and do stay warm!

    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited February 2015

    Should be thinking about sleep but as I have found a comfortable and almost pain free position I don't want to move.Have been having a lovely few day because my dear friend in here from England. We are busy planning what we are going to do, so far includes going down to Nelson where my brother lives and then a trip to Tauranga the next week.

    Had some rain today which is a real blessing as the garden in so dry,

    Wilsie I do hope you are feeling better.

    Big hugs to all.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited February 2015

    We woke up to snow this morning and more is predicted for tomorrow afternoon and night.  Maybe up to 6 inches!  I know that doesn't seem like a lot to many of you, but it'll be paralyzing for us.  NC just doesn't have the proper equipment to deal with it except in the western part of the state.  School was closed today and there's a 2-hour delay tomorrow.  I'm really paying close attention to the school situation because DD's a teacher and her baby's due 4/8.  She can only take 6 weeks leave, and I'll be keeping the new baby from the time DD returns to work until summer break.  Each "snow make-up" day extends the school year.

    Beautiful pictures, Lisa. And Alyson, I wouldn't move either!  Enjoy your friend's visit!

    Chrissy, a tea--what a great idea for little girls!  Glad all had a good time.

    Kathy

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited February 2015

    Oh Wow Kathy!! Snow in NC? I didn't think you would get know there.........just shows how much I know......lol. I do so hope that the snow days don't extend the school year so much that your DD doesn't get her full six weeks and that the bub doesn't arrive before the school term ends.

    That tea party was a lot of fun, and I had almost forgotten what it was like to converse with little girls.........lol........they are just so different than the grown up ones. Hubby and I are madly planning this trip to France, both of us on the computer doing a whole heap of research into where we want to go and what we want to do, accommodation, car etc........all the things that make a holidays fun.

    Love n hugs to all! Chrissy

  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 8,458
    edited February 2015


    Last week was the best week! On Sunday I had the "Prayerbook Party" for my granddaughter. In the religious schools here in Israel when the first-graders are reading they receive their first prayerbook. The "party" is songs and dances they do for the parents, then each child is called up. They are all SO excited. Monday was another granddaughter's "Prayerbook Party" (the cousins are 3 weeks apart) so I was one happy lady. On Tuesday I went on a 3-day retreat held my an organization called Beit Natan, which offers support services for women with cancer. I've been going to the yearly retreat since I was dx and it's just wonderful. The hotel spoils us, and the activities are wonderful.

    This week - not fun. On Monday I had a liver biopsy (checking if HER2 changed from - to +). Awful. Local anesthesia for that procedure is a joke.

    Thurs I start the new chemo.

    I want last week again.

    Leah

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited February 2015

    Lisa, I used t stay at Desi and Lucy's Indian Wells Resort every year. My friend and I attended a big Realtor convention, she is handicapped ane the smaller hotel suited us so much better. It is a lovely place and suited our needs. Wish I could go back once more. Wilsie.

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited February 2015

    I am having a rough time. Latest treatment failed, markers doubled in a week. Colostomy still difficult, they are threatening a stomach tube for nutrition. Very weak and depressed. Need prayers. Wilsie.

  • lilyrose53
    lilyrose53 Member Posts: 216
    edited February 2015

    Wilsie, Sending prayers your way. I hope your docs find a treatment that works for you. Lots of gentle hugs to you. ((Wilsie)). Much love, lilyros

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited February 2015

    Chrissy......was looking for something and saw your name......so long since we have talked......sometimes you get on certain threads and have a tendency to forget the ones you were on before.......but you never forget the people.......so many familiar names I see....Carol, QCA, and there's my gal Ally.......fancy meeting you here.

    Hope all my sensible ladies are doing ok.........I won't be a stranger, going to put you in my Favorites and will stop by soon.......missed you all.....hugs

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 3,945
    edited February 2015

    Wilsie, thinking of you, and hope it gets better for you. if i pray before my bed tonight, then it will surely be for you. because i also think you should get well enough to go and see indian wells one more time. I am sorry for your trouble. How come they havent tried herceptin yet on you?!?!?! I would ask for it, because I have read about women, even ones who were low expressors of her2, ask for and get it. Because tumors are not heterogenous. Myself, I was equivocal, but they decided to treat me like i was a +, and it is pretty gentle on you. Thinking of you.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited February 2015

    Oh Wils, I'm so sorry that your last treatment didn't work. Keeping my fingers crossed that you will find something that kicks cancer's butt really soon but in the meantime, you are in my prayers.

    Yay Ducky!!! Nice to see you here!! Just as an aside, there are times when we are not all that sensible but we do try........hahahahaha! Don't be a stranger girl, make sure you pop in a little more often!

    Hey Tomboy, nice to see you here as well.

    Like all threads, we have periods when everyone is busy for a number of reasons and that's okay. I just want to put it out there that I do read mostly every day but there are the occasional times when I am absent for a little while like everyone else.........I call it 'life taking over' and that's a good thing. For those who need support or an ear, I am never far away for long.

    Some happy news, we have booked our flights for France!!! The trip once again has ballooned, (now why was I not prepared for that to happen......lol), and we are going for six weeks instead of four! Can't say I wanted to say 'oh no dear, we can't be away that long', I just felt like hugging myself (and then hubby) and dance around the kitchen when he told me.......yay!!!!!!!! Now comes the time when we will be liaising with the travel agent to get everything else into place and organized so when we get there everything will be a breeze.

    Stay warm and well all!

    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2015

    you are going to love it I just know Chrissy...

    saw this little guy this afternoon

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  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 3,945
    edited February 2015

    Oh, Lisa, what a pretty little bird! Is that a finch by any chance? In San Diego? So yellow and bright!

    ChrissyB! So happy for you! Of course you can be gone from home that long! And then when you get home, You will be so happy to be back, I always love coming home too, home is the best!

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited February 2015

    Chrissy, Six weeks in France - whoopee!! We were there once for about a week and I loved every minute.

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited February 2015

    prayers are starting to work. I had a good night and was able to eat a bit. Adriamiciy starts Monday, I know it's tough but better than doing nothing. Wilsie.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited February 2015

    Yay Wilsie!!! hopefully that will be the start of many good nights for you. So glad you were able to eat a bit as you need to build your strength. Slowly does it as every little bit helps. Sending more prayers that the Adramyacin is not too tough on your already fragile system and that it kicks cancer butt big time!

    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited February 2015

    Wilsie, great that you had a good night and were able to eat!  I so hope this will be a turn-around and things will look up from here.  Isn't Adriamycin the one called the Red Devil?  Well, let it live up to its name and do its best stuff for you!!  Prayers.

    Chrissy, I'm so excited for you and your DH!  SIX WEEKS!!!  I'm having fun thinking about what my DH and I would do on a 6 week vacation in another  country---it would be interesting to say the least!.  What are some of the things you want to do and see?

    Hi Tomboy--I don't believe I've welcomed you, but glad to see  you!

    Lisa, love the little bird!

    We did NOT get the "snowstorm of the century" that was predicted, despite all the television coverage, weather alerts, bare grocery shelves, school closings, government office closings, road brining, etc, etc.  The Raleigh area and areas north of there got substantial amounts, but in the Charlotte area we got rain and temps just above freezing. 

    Hope we all have a good weekend!

    Kathy

    PS: Hey Ducky--good to see you.

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited February 2015


    Beautiful native beech forest where friends have a cabin or as we say a Bach.



  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 8,458
    edited February 2015


    Wilsie, I so much hope the new tx works well and is not too difficult for you. When I was on the Red Devil (at Stage III) I would find that I absolutely could not eat a few foods though others tasted normal. To add to the weirdness, after each tx (once every other week) it was something else I couldn't eat but stuff I hadn't been able to eat on earlier tx went back to being OK.

    Chrissy, that trip to France sounds wonderful. Pictures! Pictures! Pictures!

    So I didn't start my new chemo. I went in on Thurs as scheduled and the secretary pulled out my file, on the cart with all the Thurs files, and there's a note clipped to it from my onc saying they should tell me no tx this week - he wanted more healing time from Monday's liver biopsy. A very sweet young DUMB AND INEFFICIENT volunteer had clipped it to my file instead of giving it to the secretary. Sigh. I'll start on Wednesday.

    Leah

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited March 2015

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    There is something magical about butterflies

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited March 2015

    There certainly is, Lisa.  These are gorgeous!

    Today was a rain-free, warm,  beautiful day here and late this afternoon DH and I went for a drive in the country looking for signs of spring.  Somehow we eventually wound up at our favorite ice cream shop too, so it was a good day. 

    This thread is too quiet lately!  Wilsie, I'm thinking of you and hoping you're improving and able to eat more, and Leah, hope you had an uneventful start to the new chemo and are doing well.  (That was a real crackerjack volunteer, too!)

    Kathy


     

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited March 2015

    Hi girls! Great pics Lisa! Love butterflies and you certainly have captured that one well.

    Kathy, what a nice way to end a drive........icecream is good no matter that the weather is like.......lol.

    I am in Cairns at the moment, arrived here yesterday. What a shock to the system as it is very warm and humid here, and and thank goodness my BIL's house is fully air conditioned, it makes it a little easier to manage. The last two days have been spent catching up with family but the next couple will be spent with the camera in hand........yes, I will share....lol.

    Wilsie I hope you are doing okay.

    Love n hugs to all. Chrissy

  • mysunshine48
    mysunshine48 Member Posts: 1,480
    edited March 2015

    Beautiful! I have a good friend who has visited your country and is now visiting New Zealand.....has been there 2 weeks and will be there for 1 more. Maybe one day, I will be able to do that. I hope so. I am just beginning this breast cancer journey and hope it goes well. Have a wonderful day!

  • mostlymom
    mostlymom Member Posts: 466
    edited March 2015

    my sunshine - my folks lived in bonita springs in the 60's and early 70's then they moved to arcadia. it was a beautiful place.

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited March 2015
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    looking right at me.

    I sit until tomorrow to see the orthopedic surgeon, wonder what is going to happen?

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited March 2015

    multiple spiral fractures of the humerus

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