9 year survivor :)
Today marks 9 years since I heard those dreaded words!!! I'm not the same person I was before diagnosis, but then again, I'm 9 years older!! Anymore its hard to tell what is from all the treatments and what is from age!
I am grateful for each day. I have seen my children grow for 9 years!!! My youngest was in 2nd grade when I was diagnosed. She is now a junior in high school and looking at colleges. My son was a junior in high school and now he is 25 and finishing university (finally)!! and my oldest daughter was in college and is now 28, a college graduate and married.
During these 9 years, with my youngest daughter, I celebrated her Bat Mitzvah, watched her finish middle school, get her drivers license as well as all the other milestones and events of a typical teenager...and now we are planning for post high school education....I've seen my son finish high school, travel to Hawaii and to Israel (3 times) and will soon graduate university and is applying for internships and jobs. I've attended my oldest daughter's college graduation and danced at her wedding
The year after finish chemo, in the summer of 2007 my husband, younger daughter and I went to Israel for 2 weeks to celebrate life!! Since then, I've been 3 more times. In 2010, I went with my oldest daughter to participate in the RFTC. In 2011 I spent almost 4 weeks and in 2012 I spent almost 5 weeks and volunteered on an Army base!! G-d willing I will go back this coming summer.
My husband and I have celebrated 9 more years of marriage and growing together. He was my co-survivor.
I went from working full time to working 3 days/week. I have time for me to do whatever my heart desires!!! Life is good
I've met several "sistahs" here on fb that live all over the world and I've had the good fortune to meet several of them in person.
So, there is life after breast cancer!!!
Looking forward to continuing to growing old. Karen
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Awesome Karen!!!
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Love to hear these stories ! Thanks for sharing & continued good health to you.
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What an inspiring account of living life to the fullest! Thanks for sharing Karen. These stories really do give us all hope and the reminder that we all have lots to celebrate and appreciate. I definitely plan to be around for at least at least another 9 years....and almost 3 years out from a nasty diagnosis, am planning a big blow out for my 50th in May....Yikes😀. Here's to many more years of health and happiness for us all!!
Hugs, Deirdre
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Excellent! Thanks for sharing and giving hope, Karen!
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Such a happy story Karen! Thank you for sharing it with us
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YAY KAREN! I'm right behind you at 9 years too, come April - and I'm guessing by your screen name that we're about the same age as well
Really needed to see a post like this today - thank you!
All the best - Julie
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Congratulations Miss K!! Unbelievable how quickly time has passed, but blessedly we've seen and experienced so much joy in these past years. I am so happy for you and your family>
Mazel Tov!
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Wonderful to hear that you are doing so well and celebrating this important anniversary.
Sending warm hugs, G. -
Yay Karen ! Thank you SO MUCH for sharing with us. Gives us all hope.
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Julie...yup, we are the same age....Congrats on coming up on 9 years....I'm hoping my 60th will be a much better celebration that my 50th. I had my 3rd chemo 4 days before my 50th birthday!!!
Thanks everyone for your kind words
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congratulations Karen! What a wonderful story to share. May you have many many more blessed years 🌺
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That's soooo great to hear! My little sister is going thru treatment now and having trouble seeing the light at the end. You are an inspiration. Thanks, congratulations, and here's wishing you many more milestones. :-)
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Thankyou for sharing! Such great and happy news!
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Wonderful post, Karen! Keep living life to the fullest!!
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Karen,
Thank you so much for sharing such uplifting and wonderful news, and congratulations.
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Thank you for sharing
Needed to hear this today in such a bad way!!
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