4 years can't believe it
4 years.....wow. I hope some of you can find some comfort with my post. When I was DX I was always looking for survivor stories, especially with lots of node involvement and prayed Someday I would be able to return the favor. 2014 I had no scans and had a lot of fun. I hope that continues. Life does get back to normal, our new normal. Some days I don't think about it and sometimes I dwell on things. I wish you all a drama free new year and if you need me I,m here.
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Orlandpark2011-
Congratulations on 4 years! We love that you're sharing your story here, there are so many in our community who needed to hear this. Thank you, and we wish you continued health!
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Thanks Orlandapark2011. I too look for the survivor stories and appreciate you coming back to tell us! It helps us as we go thru this terrible battle. Congratulations on your 4 years! -
Thanks for coming back and telling us your story! It helps us newbies so much! Wish you continued health
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For me, it's been 5 1/2 yrs since DX. I'm still NED, loving and living every moment to the utmost. Still a VERY active 'outdoor' woman - have even taken up a couple of new 'things' to do and plan on trying kayaking next summer. Do I have some 'issues' - ya betcha. The arthritis in my upper back has gotten worse, my osteopenia is now osteoporosis, have had 2 cataracts and 2 detached retinas during those yrs. all of which MIGHT have happened anyway without IBC DX anyway by the time I hit 68 last June.
No matter what the future may hold for me - my Faith and my deep belief that the power of positive thinking will continue to sustain me as it has throughout the years (good and not so good) along my journey down this road called Life. To not waste any precious time by allowing negative darkness in to the sunshine.
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5 1/2 years, I'm glad to hear that....sorry about your other problems. I still need to hear positive stories. I was DX at 45 and now I'm planning my 50th birthday. My son and I have the same bday, he will be 21 and me 50 that's a party..lol. Thank you ladies my best to you
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thank you so much, you too.
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I'm planning on outliving my Grandmother who lived a very active healthy life til 96. 3 G-grandmothers also lived active lives to between 95 - 97. So
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Congrats!!!
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orlandpark...fantastic! Congratulations! So glad you're happy, may it continue for years and years and years to come
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4 years is great! I remember getting the impression that my onc was quite surprised to see me at 4 years with my loads of nodes etc at IIIC and she seemed to give the impression that it was an important milestone. I was dxed in 2009 so I'm a little ahead of you.
It was so disappointing when the original "5 years and out thread" was pulled. I went back to it quite often during the dark days. It had loads of stories of women who beating the odds. Also, it's good to remember that bc.org hasn't been around that long so there is a whole group of survivors who will never post on this forum.
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Good point clariceak, never thought of that. Love to hear about women like you. Thx
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OrlandPark2011 - congratulations! Always brings HOPE and encouragement! And thanks
so much for coming back to pay it forward!!
I'm 3 years 3 months out - who is counting - LOL...Honestly, I never thought I would be
here one node shy of IIIc, huge tumor and only 3 months of Herceptin as I had a heart attack during chemo
and major valve damage during Herceptin.
My Onc is so happy - he said on my last visit that he usually lets his patients go after
5 years, but with me, he's keeping me on to watch me! Honestly, that makes me feel better!
I still have flashbacks and an occasional bad day, but mostly life is good!!
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Just the inspiration and medicine for my soul to read. It is truly a blessing to make it five and half years! Only have to do chest x-rays and blood work in April and September! Birthday is in September, the big 50 and my last oncologist visit! Ain't going to make time for my friend Anxiety to visit. Going to make each day a crazy adventure! Keep the positive energy flowing.....
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great stories. Thank you
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O.P. Congrats and welcome to the long timers club.
Live large, Belly laugh often and enjoy thorougly !!
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Orlandpark2011...congrats on 4 years and a wonderful thank you for taking the time to stop by and cheer us on!! Congrats also to you kicks for being NED for 5 1/2 years...bet you outlive your grandmothers ages!! Little flower congrats to you also for it seems your 8 years NED....such an encouragement to us all! Clariceak I also was very upset with the pulling of the original 5 year out thread....I would go read it in my darkest hour over and over...Congrats to you also on being 5 years out!! Denise-G..sounds like treatment was a very rough go for you...thankful you still continue NED and hopefully for many many years to come.
Thanks for this lil party of encouragement!!
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Fantastic news, Orlandpark! Congratulations!
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