INSOMNIACS place to talk in the wee hours

No dusting of snow!

However, Husband and I managed to drag out this morning for breakfast at a local Fire Department.

Faith and You doing OK?   Did You come down with a cold?

I finished the Fall outdoor clean-up, then relaxed in the recliner while watching TV.

I try to do as much Fall outdoor clean-up as possible which makes Spring outdoor clean-up easier.

I am no longer able to do Spring raking because of lymphedema.   Husband and Daughter did Spring 2014 raking.   Stronger arms!!

Have a restful night too, I have full body lymphedema

Hi Rosevalley, I was 95 percent er and less than 10 percent pr. I had the generic anastrozole and the joint pain became too.painful. exemestane is better.

Oh yes I would agree with that. Arimidex's joint pain was debilitating, did me in. Aromasin is better but still makes me ache. I was wondering, since most I talk to stay on it until their 5 years are up.  

Your cats are cute. I need to put something in my avatar. Maybe my  prick eared Border collie whose effervescent personality and sheer joy in living makes me laugh. Tess does not know the meaning of the word sad. You can not be sad around this dog. She is irrationally exuberant! I have had folks drive by roll down their window and laugh and tell me -"shame that dog is so sad!" She literally bounces on walks, wagging her tail like a black and white flag. Wish I could keep up with her! Thank goodness she can get exercise with frisbees and balls and pull toys! 

2TA- Vent all you need. We have all been there or will be at some point. My Mom has dementia and it breaks my heart to see the changes in her personality. Pitiful. You have both your folks to deal with and that's tough- and your own needs. ugh.. Hugs for you. 

You know I just read that report about Brittany and her death. Why they would put in all that crap about priests for life and the "culture of death that permeates our culture" and then not have the other side of the story. I wonder how many folks against assisted dying have watched some one with a huge brain tumor suffer headaches, seizures, inability to talk, walk, express themselves just  wither under the crush of something growing inside a closed skull squeezing the brain against bone and their lives with it. It took courage to do what she did and bless her for doing it publiclly so folks have a choice.  America is about choices. Don't want death hastened - don't use it. I have often said if my doctors won't treat my pain, I know how to end my life without a script. 

One of the saddest conversations I hve ever had was with my father in law. He was 90 and had a brain mets from colon cancer. He called while I was making dinner and stammered to find his words. I was trying to help him and couldn't, since what he was saying mostly didn't make sense. Finally he blurted out, " Love you all." I started to cry and said," I love you too." Thankfully besides right sided weakness and losing his speech he seemed to have little pain. He died in his community with hospice. Not everyone is so lucky.  Funny to think that after my FIL's death, 10 months later my Dad would pass and 1 month after that I would get stage 3 cancer. When it rains it pours.

maddy-don't feel bad about talking about your stuff ((hugs))

I'm praying for peace of mind and strength for you and comfort for your parents. Take care and vent when you need to!

Did you hear about the Skeleton that walked into a bar and asked for a beer and a mop?

*Good Morning Owlettes*

I think the frogs are now buried in the bottom muck in our little frog pond.

Now the countdown to Thanksgiving!

MO's nurse suspects the tamoxifin, probably because you aren't the 1st patient with similar side effects.   Are you feeling any different?   Even slightly better?

good morning ladies. 

2nd. Vent all you need to. We really don't mind listening.  That's what we are here for. Quit trying to compare your problems to everybody's else's problems. You have your hands full and running over. Your shoulders have got to be weighed down like a bunch of cement blocks. Def is not whining or piddly.  Don't be sorry. I pray for you and your family at least daily. If that is offensive just please let me know. ( I'll still pray but not tell you about it ). We are here for you. Someone is almost awake and on here. Wish we could get you in the middle and give you a giant group bear hug. Guess we will just have to do a virtual hug for now.  

Chevy / you are correct ( as always) about what stress can do to our bodies and brain.  Sex is a great stress reliever. As is most exercise. 

Susan / iron sharpens iron. Never heard that but I love it.  Hope you are feeling good. 

Tang - no idea what the symptoms of brain mets are but do know what kind of problems stress can create for you. I am not a dr so can't sag no chance but can say unlikely. You always make sense to me. So how long does it take for tamoxifen to get out of our bodies fully once you quit taking it ?  There are def some. other treatment choices available if this one is giving you too hard of a time.  I agree, scans and waiting SUCKS.  Just wondering did you ever call the lady from church ?  (It was you that told the story right?). Sometimes I get confused. If you haven't called yet let me encourage you to do so. Don't put it off another day. Just call and get it over with. Of course you can always count on us when you need some encouragement, a laugh, or a shoulder  to cry on.  

Hope everybody is off to a great start for Monday. Hugs for all who need or want them.  I guess I need to start on my to do list if I plan on getting anything done today. Still in my pjs right now and it's 11:30. Very unusual for me.  Funny hoe just getting a shower , getting dressed and doing my hair and makeup makes me feel better mentally. However physically it is exhausting. 

Hootie hoo

To my sweet friends on IT: I so very appreciate all the kind words of friendship and support, you have touched my heart! Not knowing where to turn for support may have been at the center of my frustration and loneliness, but that's not a problem any longer. Yes, I would welcome and appreciate any and all prayers if you feel inclined for me, I would never be offended by any kindness displayed, prayers are so very much important. I am, however, not a public prayer person (as some of you know), mine are done in private between me and the God of my understanding. (hopefully this pity party for one has ended)

Just a quick stop and post as I have been preparing for another interview this afternoon.

Love and hugs and prayers to all who want or need them!

I stopped the Tamox on WED, still having some ringing in my ears but head not hurting as bad so far. Just a dull ache now....not sure how long it takes for it to leave system.

Patty, you are right i need to call her.

I'm putting one foot in front of the other ((hugs))

2nd ((hugs))

Sorry i have been MIA lately ladies. I have been working mad overtime, had a family reunion, am getting ready to fly out to England on Saturday, and find myself with a sinus infection, bronchitis, and laryngitis after i got too many vaccinations at once. (stupid me!!)  I've been looking in now and again, but can't seem to get caught up. 

Maddy, we are all here for you. 

Spookie- hope your arm feels better soon. 

Sas, Chevy, Holein1, Sudan, PattyPepper, Mags, Teka, tang, Rose, Cami, Foots, Meow, Ace, EVERYONE!  giant hugs and healing thoughts all around. I will try to post a link to photos of my travels here if anyone is interested. 

Will be glad to get back and have a week or 2 before the holiday madness begins. Maybe i  can get caught up when i get back. 

LOVE YOU ALL!

jeni