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  • tucker3
    tucker3 Member Posts: 17
    edited October 2014

    Lolis...congrats on week one done and thanks for the info regarding your work out regimen. Can anyone explain why the RO recommended an oil free moisturizer. I have been using Bio Oil to help with healing the scars. Should I stop?? First rads will be on Monday.

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    Tucker3, I'd ask my RO Monday.  Don't use anything Monday morning (including deodorant).  Aquaphor might help with your scars.

  • MommyQ
    MommyQ Member Posts: 117
    edited October 2014

    Bippy625: Rads are not as bad as chemo. Chemo knocks you down much more. I had tissue expanders (TEs) put in place during my BMX, and will have them exchanged for silicone implants about 6 months after rads are done. My PS says that rads will shrink your skin and tissues, so she wants to wait 6 months after rads are done to do the exchange because by then, the skin and tissues should have healed to a steady state condition. She expanded the TE on my radiation/cancer side a bit bigger than my other side, to account for the expected rads induced shrinking.

  • SailingWind
    SailingWind Member Posts: 110
    edited October 2014

    You need to ask all these question on your next visit. You may need second opinions too. There is no hurry for all this so, make sure all questions are answered. If you read these posts you will find many ways to go about it. Just stick to cancer site and not the www. Going through Rads now. It's ok. You are scared of the unknown. Don't wait to make first appointments with all dr. PS, RO. MO etc. really . Do all first appointments soon to be informed.

  • Jenwith4kids
    Jenwith4kids Member Posts: 635
    edited October 2014

    hi Bippy,  I have five rads left. Had a BMX with TEs in February, did AC/T chemo through August and started rads in early September.  I chose to do radiation at a different hospital system since it was closer to my home, that system insists on recon before rads.  My PS (and my RO despite her organization) prefer delayed recon after rads.  So, I finish rads next week and will likely wait six months for my exchange to implants.  

    Everyone reacts differently to rads, I have been using aquaphor several times a day since my first treatment, last week I added hydrocortisone because I was itchy.  Here is a pic...twenty treatments behind me (it went fast!):

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  • willowreed84
    willowreed84 Member Posts: 47
    edited October 2014

    Bippy:

    My treatments were in this order.  I did chemo first then I had bmx with te's placed during bmx.  Next my te's were fully filled and next week I start rads.

    My treatments are not the normal order I see for most here, but i have seen a few others like me.


  • Bow1965
    Bow1965 Member Posts: 127
    edited October 2014

    Done with 14/33 (Did DD Act chemo, finished Aug 26) and the fatigue hit like a brick this week. Damn. I actually fell asleep at my desk on Tuesday, brought a cot to hide in a back office on Wednesday & took a 25 minute snooze. Took Thursday afternoon and Friday off. My onc verified that I don't operate machinery and basically said "good luck with that, it will last until a couple weeks after radiation" - ugh. Going back to acupuncture on Monday...cross your fingers.

    My skin has held up great so far, I am wearing my mastectomy tanks this weekend, with the pocket for my foob. It's not so bad except I am not sure I can pull the braless look off for work, will have to head out and find a wireless cotton bra. Any suggestions?

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    Bow1965, not a bit surprised that the fatigue hit you.  You've been through so much and I'd think you just plain wore out.  You'll be fine.  You're smart to rest.  I'm very tired and I didn't have the stress of chemo.  Hubby gets out of the hospital Monday (hopefully) after 3 weeks and goes to rehab for 4-6 weeks.  Once he's in rehab I should be able to rest.  When he's in the hospital I have to be there most of the time to meet with doctors and make sure they don't over medicate him, besides wanting to be there.  I don't get anything done at home.  Frozen dinners are my friends :)

  • ncollett
    ncollett Member Posts: 862
    edited October 2014

    I start my radiation on Wed at 2p. They told me I would have 33 treatments. They also told me to make sure I am drinking plenty of water and to increase my protien intake. Hope it all goes well.

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    Nancy, you'll do well.  And it goes surprisingly fast.  Only 9 left!

  • Bow1965
    Bow1965 Member Posts: 127
    edited October 2014

    Thanks for the love PontiacPeggy - be kind to myself, be kind to myself. A new mantra for me. And you're from The D, a city I send all my good energy to always. I'm a Saginaw gal born and raised, but have been in the mountain west for 25 years and always rooting for Michigan to succeed and overcome in all aspects. 

  • ncollett
    ncollett Member Posts: 862
    edited October 2014

    Yay Peggy I am glad your almost done. Hope your DH is doing ok.

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    Bow1965, actually from Pontiac. Pontiac Central HS - we played Saginaw (and Arthur Hill) many many times in sports back in the day.  Just be realistic in your expectations right now.  Much more important to take care of yourself than complete another chore.  Do only that which is absolutely, positively necessary!

    Nancy, thanks!  DH is improving but definitely needs the time in rehab so he can literally get on his feet!

  • Bippy625
    Bippy625 Member Posts: 890
    edited October 2014

    thanks all for the responses, and the pic from jenwithekids. I have a better idea now what to expect,  Not so freaked out about rads now! Chemo sucks and I cannot wait for it to end.  This is great too for all my August chemo ladies group that are doing rads, that have similar questions and fears, so I am sending them over!  This site is my lifeline, I have no idea how I would make it through all this without it. 

  • jhodro
    jhodro Member Posts: 240
    edited October 2014

    33 treatments down. I am officially finished with rads. 

    Overall, for those of you starting out, it's definitely not as bad as chemo. The hardest part was getting started, but like others have said, once you're in the routine, it goes by. I have been getting up for my 7:20 appointment for the past 6 1/2 weeks. Not wearing deodorant on my right side was sometimes frustrating, but I'm done!! Tomorrow, I plan to sleep as late as possible, but still get my son to school at 9. :) Hopefully in the next week or two I'll get some energy back and my skin will get back to resembling something like normal. 

    Now all I have is every 3 week Herceptin through until April and a most likely surgery to get some symmetry going on.

    Thanks to everyone for your posts - it has been a great inspiration knowing that I'm not on my own through all of this.

    Good luck & you can do it!!!

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    jhodro, congrats on finishing your rads! I still have 8 to go. You Do get into a routine. Luckily my radiation facility is right next to the hospital where DH has been the past 3 weeks, so I just run over, get my rads and run back to the hospital. Today he leaves for rehab! 

    I envy you sleeping in! 

  • agness
    agness Member Posts: 576
    edited October 2014

    I will be starting soon. I went for planning session a week ago. I am opting for proton therapy as I am on Herceptin, am young, and I had an affected node behind my breastbone. Trying to limit the damage from treatment has been my modus operandi.

  • Susug
    Susug Member Posts: 193
    edited October 2014

    jhodro that's great I know yourrelieved. I have had 5 treatments so far. Feel fine but know I have a ways to go. I want to put a picture an here I'm not good at that kind of thing can I take a Facebook pic and apply it on this forum

  • Puffin2014
    Puffin2014 Member Posts: 961
    edited October 2014

    This
    morning I met with the radiologist and had my simulation. The gals were
    great at finding a position I could put my left arm that would be out
    of the way and still comfortable after my shoulder surgery. Because it's my left side that's being
    radiated they want to avoid the heart and lung as much as possible.
    They ran me through a CT scan while having me take deep breaths and hold
    my breath for 15-20 seconds at a time. I have 3 black tattoo dots to
    help them line everything up exactly the same each time. I start next
    Monday, and only have to do 3 weeks. I was really excited to hear that,
    hope it keeps the skin problems to a minimum. The nurse went over what
    creams to use to keep my skin lubricated, and gave me the list of
    changes to be concerned about, like if it gets moist and has drainage

    So Halloween should be my last day of treatment, and then I ring that bell for good.

  • Jaimieh
    Jaimieh Member Posts: 2,373
    edited October 2014

    Okay so today I have off because of an upgrade to their system and I don't want to go back.  Can you hear the whining in me ??  I just want to get back to normal but I will get up early and head over there in the AM knowing I will be one step closer to the finish line....crap I just realized tomorrow will be x-ray day.....dang....  15 down with 18 to go.....blahhhhh

  • HomeMom
    HomeMom Member Posts: 1,198
    edited October 2014

    Congrats Jhodro - and you too Puffin - how awesome to be done or just know you only have three weeks to do this!  Puffin I went this morning for my sim as well. I met with the nurse last week and went over the cream etc. The RO is going to call me tomorrow and let me know if I need to get the TE deflated some. He wasn't too optimistic. He did say that I could go without radiating the middle of my chest, it is not solid evidence that it is really beneficial. I'm one though that has from the beginning wanted to do everything possible to make sure it doesn't come back. If I have to get it drained down to a reasonable size then I will do it. It will delay me about a week or two . I thought originally I would be done before Thanksgiving, now if I have to take this detour, it will be more like the first week of December. :(

  • Blownaway
    Blownaway Member Posts: 760
    edited October 2014

    Homemom - I have regualar saline implants and no one said anything about deflating. Maybe because it would be more of a production to deflate/reinflate a regular implant. I do have to incease my rads from 6 weeks to 7 weeks since they are reducing the dose due to my having the implants. I just hope the breast doesn't shrivel up around the implant and if it does, I hope my insurance will cover any necessary measure to fix me back.

  • charusa
    charusa Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2014

    I am so excited with everyone finishing and near finished. No matter where you are in this journey everyone is moving forward with 1 less treatment then yesterday....we celebrate every step in the forward process!!! I don't think no one evades skin issues of some kind but honestly I think even with the 2 small areas that got somewhat broke down I have had worse cases of good old sunburn!!! I was done on the 24th and have been slacking on aftercare with the lotions but honestly I just turned tan in those areas. Last week I picked 2 rooms and did some light cleaning, really just dusted and swept and mopped. It was not overwhelming although I wanted to more but resisted that urge until I am more 100% or close to. It felt really good to accomplish a goal. Over the weekend I kept 4 of my grandchildren; ages 15,13,3, and an almost 2...it was pleasantly chaotic...lol!!! Chaos has broken out in my family and I am kicking myself in the rear because under the stress of it all I started smoking again....oh I am so angry with myself!!! I have to buckle down and get some more patches and start over again. Other then that life after cancer treatments has been good....different but good. At the end of this month it will be a year since diagnosis and I can not tell you where the year went. Every segment...chemo (4 DD of A/C + 4 DD of taxol), then surgery and dealing with the drain for such a long time and finally radiation, seemed to take forever and I thought I would never reach the end. So those of you just starting your radiation, it does end and rather quickly!!!

    I forgot who is having the long waits/rides and is blind, so sorry but scrolling up and down these pages is hard to concentrate. My city offers a program through the transit authority called DART and if you are disabled and unable to ride a bus you can get door to door pick up and return trip through a taxi company. It cost me $4 each way and sometimes there was a wait to be picked up on the return trip they always had me to my appointments on time. I was fortunate that my facility ran very smoothly and on time. I hope you get some kind of assistance. I know when I go to my PCP the office is always running behind schedule so I learned to get the first appointment after lunch and can get in and out quickly.

    Continue the fight girls...you are almost there!!!!

  • HomeMom
    HomeMom Member Posts: 1,198
    edited October 2014

    Blownaway it is because they want to radiate the middle of my chest, between my breasts because I had node involvement. He said that there is a chance it could be in those nodes. My TE is like 750cc's. My PS wanted me to be 200cc's larger then what I want because he said that rads will shrink the TE and he wants another 100ccs for recon. Even before I knew there was node involvement the plan was to replace my implant (saline) with a TE because they were concerned it would shrink the implant. I don't want to leave any stone un turned here so if I gotta deflate for 6 weeks or so, then I'll have to deal with that. It hasn't been too bad up to now anyway.

    charusa I cleaned out my walk in closet this past weekend and my office the weekend before. They were really bugging me!

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    I'm so envious of you gals doing all your cleaning.  I can barely manage to microwave my dinner right now.  Got DH out of the hospital after 22 days and have finished 25 rads.  DH is now in a rehab facility for 4-6 weeks and I'm praying I can finally get some rest.  When Hubby's in the hospital I have to be there to see doctors, make sure "stuff" is getting done etc.  Now I can get up at 6 instead of 5 - hooray!   But I sure don't have any energy to spare beyond what' necessary for hubby!

    HomeMom, I love your attitude.  I certainly feel the same way you do - whatever it takes to kill this disease, I'll do it.  And what you may have to do (and have done) is far more challenging than what I've faced.  Kudos and love to you!

    CharUSA - so glad you're done.  Do take care of yourself and try not to overdo.  It's been a hard year for you and you're forgiven for smoking again.  You'll conquer it again.  Love!!

  • Puffin2014
    Puffin2014 Member Posts: 961
    edited October 2014

    Here's the acceptable deodorants my RO gave me this morning that don't have aluminum, which he said causes the rads to scatter, and the stores he said carry them:

    Natural Care Tom's of Maine: Walmart,CVS pharmacy

    Naturally Fresh deodorant crystal roll-on with or without Aloe Vera: CVS pharmacy, Walmart

    Jason Tea Tree melaleuca deodorant

    Crystal body deodorant

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    Puffin2014, I have an allergy to aloe and tried the Tom's of Maine.  I am still numb under my arm from the SLNB but I sure was able to itch from the aloe.  I've gone "naked" since and, if I stink, I stink.  I'll go back to my regular deodorant in 2 weeks :)  Hopefully, the rest of you ladies will be able to use one of the ones Puffin lists (great list, Puffin!).

  • Gilesmt
    Gilesmt Member Posts: 65
    edited October 2014

    thanks charusa, I can get shuttle now that I am feeling better, when I could barely walk and breathe they would not take me, but today I took it, it is $1 for me, but it can not take you out of county and my services are in three different counties, my MO is 45 minutes one way, my RO is 20 minutes straight down town, and my PCP is 30 minutes in the other direction. So rads is not a problem now able to breathe hope I don't have to see MO for months, and once I am ok hope I don't have to see PCP to often. 

    My blood work was great for the first time today since starting chemo, or since blood clots, medication has helped a lot, actually did so much this weekend thought I would never be able to get out of bed, but I was up and full of energy which feels great. My house is clean, my skin is holding out, my granddaughter was here for weekend, so life is great. Hope it keeps going. 

    I moved my rads to 8 am, my lymphodema therapy will be at 9:30 and I hope I won't need blood work to much longer, but realize it will be at least once a week for six months. I go for job interview tomorrow and hope life can start again. 6 down, 26 to go. 

    Now when will hair start to grow back, I know I did not loose it all but nothing and it has been 5 weeks?

  • lilyrose53
    lilyrose53 Member Posts: 216
    edited October 2014

    Puffin, Great list!  Tom's and Jason are in most grocery stores here.  My RO just told me today to avoid any deodorant that includes an antiperspirant.  He suggested cornstarch also, to help with any itching.

    Pontiac,  I hope your DH improves.  I can't imagine dealing with that AND Cancer!  You must be one strong woman!

    charusa and jhodro,  Congratulations!  Must feel good to be finished!

    I had #8 today...26 to go.  My skin started turning pink yesterday.  RO looked at it and told me it's expected-not to worry.  ok.  

    Wishing you all well,  lilyrose

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited October 2014

    Lilyrose53, strong?  Don't know about that but do know "exhausted" fits me to a "t".  And as we all know here, you do what you have to do and just get through it.  And some of you have been through so much, I'm in awe!

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