How vain are you?
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AH, the joys of wearing baggy sweats ( landsend jersey knit, a little better than exercise sweats) in winter, and FLAX floods, elastic waist linen pants which friends call my Pajama pants, and of course, t shirts, comfy, soft/warm in winter, cooler fabrics in summer. Can tell I'm gonna' get kicked off the Vain thread... ;-)
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Me too Sun!
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well, good to have company - the Powers that Be or Not to Be, can't do without BOTH of us ;-)))
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nothing wrong with comfy sweats! When I get home from work, I change into something comfy right away.
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*facepalm*
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uh, oh...me thinks us sweaty pants folks have dismayed LaWolf?
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I have gotten men's sweatpants because they are longer, have pockets and are usually much cheaper than women's.
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I'm vertically challenged, so long isn't a problem. Pockets and cheaper are always good!
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GramE and they're usually made of heavier material. Also, pockets on sides & back. Very good for cold brrrrr New England winters. Big enuf to have lotsa room for long winter underwear underneath -
our Fearless Leader (SW) is plotzing as I write ;-)))
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Long johns? I have been away from the east for some 30 odd years. I don't think I could hack it anymore. When it gets to be 50 degrees here, I'm shivering!
Caryn
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exbrn, me too! Cold weather is not for me. One big reason o live in Florida.
Comfy is good, agter a long day at work I get home and change my suit for shorts. And to walk my dogs in the morning I don't wear my high heels with suits, but flip flops. I don't want to get blisters and then ugly feet for walking my dogs!
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Honestly, I could be in fleece at 70 degrees. Jacket for sure. I don't do cold well at all.
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Even when I went thru menopause, I didn't have hot flashes, I had COLD FLASHES. Still do. Wore my sweatshirt on a day it was 105. My electric blanket (dual control) stays on the bed year-round. I think my thermostat is permanently broken.
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My mother is a fleece-and-sweats gal; my sister is a comfort-over-style and flat shoes kinda gal; wonder what the hell happened to me?
I do wear sweats while hiking or on my bicycle, but around the house I wear either jeans and a sweater, or dresses. My winter "house-dress" is a maxi, long-sleeved cashere-blend sweater dress. Comfy and witchy. On some of our bitterest nights this past winter, I even slept in it (we live in a century house which can be quite draughty). In the summer, I find dresses cooler than anything else, so I have a number of them in tee-shirt blend or cotton that I can just pull on and phutz around in.
And, yes, Blessings, everyone talks about the "hot flashes", but no one ever mentioned the cold flashes. I, literally, shivered for six months after chemopause.
What I find that I'm struggling with - at the age of 53 - is that I'm at a dangerous crossroads when it comes to style and fashion. I do not want to start dressing like my mother, but - on the other hand - I don't want to be seen as "trying too hard" or "desperate" by dressing too young for my age. And since so much out there that is fashionable is geared toward the young crowd, it's become a delicate balancing act.
Oh... and to whoever mentioned "crocs" earlier in the thread? I found a store selling them while on vacation in South Carolina.
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LOL - cold? Ya mean when it's almost 20 below on the thermometer and wind chill of MINUS 45, in New England. Yikes, how do the people in the Minn and their neighbors SURVIVE? We had SUCH a cold winter.
Yes, silk long underwear when it's only cold, and THERMAL from LL Bean when it's COLD - and that's indoors. Which is why the Goddesses created Lanz Flannel nightgowns, and polertec bathrobes, don't suppose any of you remember Lands' End Snuggle Sacks?
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To Selena`s dilemma....I find that I shortened the length of my skirts and look WAY more fashionable!!! I still wear jacket and cami underneath or sleeveless top as I get too warm in a jacket. But in an environment where men have to wear suits it`s more appropriate. Where I have MY trouble is my legs!!! I have great shape, but they have bumps on the backs that look kind of ugly. They`re not varicose veins but just lumps. I saw them in a change room mirror one day when I looked from behind and kind of freaked out!! In the winter I`ve been wearing cute patterned tights with my shorter skirts (nicely above the knee) and the look has worked. But, now we`re getting into warmer weather. What do I do??? I just cannot do pantyhose - cannot STAND the warmth and binding feel. Is there a summer type of tights that I don`t know about? Strangely, tights don`t feel binding....and I love the patterns on them. How do I hide my lumps without just wearing pants? I also look slimmer in skirts.....
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Well, here's the rub. I went to a vein specialist who had me do a vein ultrasound (this is years ago) before he even saw me. He said the ultrasound seemed fine so I turned around to show him the lumps and he said (and I kid you not) "Wow, those look like tumours!" My appointment was then over and I never had a follow-up with anyone. I just let it go at the time and that was about 8 years ago. I mentioned it to my cardiologist two years ago who didn't even look and he said (and I kid you not) "Lumps on your legs have nothing to do with heart circulation". I gave up.
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The second cardiologist I had to see before my pacemaker surgery said not to worry as "Sudden death is the perfect way to die!" I felt like a walking time bomb and was terrified to drive as I was blacking out without any warning!!
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Oh, barbe - I just had two surgical consults for getting my spider veins done. The purple lacy marks are easy to spot, as are the bulging, larger, blue varicose veins on my legs. But I did have one lump on my left leg that both surgeons identified as a "feeder" vein to the spider veins, which would need a separate procedure.
(Both surgeons did ultrasounds of each leg; all were normal.)
If you search Google Images for "varicose veins" you'll see the everyday blue veins, some colorless snakey looking veins under the skin, and some isolated, skin-colored lumps that look just like tumors.
I decided to postpone the decision to have anything done until Fall - the compression stockings you have to wear are boogers, and it gets up to 110 here in the summertime. In the meantime, I'll get me some of that self tanner in case I want to wear capris. (No shorts for me, just in the back yard.)
kayb - your "Urticaria" story reminded me of the time when I had been having intermittent skin itching and rashes, and my dermatologist told me the next time it happened, he was referring me to the Dermatology Clinic at Stanford.
So one Friday morning I woke up with itching and hives, called Stanford, and got in the same day. I drove four hours to get there. I saw a resident - clueless - and then the Chief of the Department came in and examined me. His exact words were "You have Papular Urticaria. Go home and put a flea collar on your cat. You're allergic to flea bites."
So off I went, spending the night with family in the Bay Area, and driving home the next day (Saturday). On Monday morning I was in such pain I couldn't move; my pee was the color of root beer, and my poo was the color of chalk.
I called a different Dermatologist (a kid I went to Elementary school with), who took one look at me and said he suspected I had Hepatitis. He said that one in a THOUSAND patients will present with hives as a first symptom of Hepatitis.
He took a biopsy of one of the hives just in case, ran some bloodwork, and referred me to a Gastroenterologist a few minutes away. I was admitted to the hospital the same day and remained there for a week. The dx was Serum Hepatitis, or HepB - ("dirty needle hepatitis") and I had no known means of transmission. No shared needles, no sex with an infected partner, etc. Later, the Gastroenterologist said I was the sickest patient he had who didn't die. I was on Disability for a year.
So what was wrong with the idiots at Stanford? Maybe they were just doing their jobs, hearing hoofbeats and looking for horses, not zebras. Thank God for a Dermatologist who was willing to think outside the box.
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Holy CRAP Blessings!!! Thank God you were smart enough to return to a doctor!!
I will look it up on Google. I had to wear compression stockings years ago but they are too hard for me to pull up, even with rubbeer gloves. My arthritis in my hands is just too bad and I wanted to "save" what I had for my art, not for my stockings!
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Sorry you're dealing with this today, kayb, I'm here, hand holding if required! Hugs too!
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Repeat...these are not zebras, these are not zebras!
Thinking the best for you.
Caryn
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HORSES!!!!!!!!
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kayb - right now, is the hardest time, the only thing you KNOW is that you don't KNOW. Hideous place to be - so we're all neighing for you, and I'm thinking roan, cuz I like the word. Also thinking "SHIT, SH DOESN'T NEED THIS" - but there we are - all thinking HORSES.
I once had the opposite problem - too MANY white blood cells, and it wasn't until weeks after the routine, when a dentist did a routine every 2 year exray, and I was off to Root Canal doc the next day - who knew I had such a bad infection? Seems I was lucky it didn't head brainward, but I figure even da fection couldn't find enuf brain cellls left to bother with...
Gotta be a simple explanation - are you eating enuf oats? NEIGH, NEIGH, NEIGH....
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Kayb, I am also dealing with neutropenia 8 months since my last chemo. My tests with the onc have been right at the low end but my PCP sent me for bloodwork...different lab, and my counts are below normal and dropping after a retest. I have an appointment with the PCP tomorrow and have no idea what she plans to do about my low WBC. I feel great and this is so very annoying. I will let you know what I find out.
MsP
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Andalusians, Clydesdales, Cutting horses, Hanoverian, Westphalian, Arabians,
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Aussie Stock Horse, Brumby (your Mustang)
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kay, it's weird how teeth can cause so much trouble. But I really get how we don't feel pain, I guess once the nerve in the tooth is dead, the infection just takes over. What totally shook me was how dangerous it can be. Yuck.
Allergy season. I'm gonna hibernate ( with temps in the low 30's at night, it's not THAT strange an idea.) - big article in our paper about how crops are a MONTH late.
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HORSES!!!!
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