BCO , past , present and futur

Jramick, 

I also went and read your post, and you are not just discussing night sweats. You repeatedly ask about symptoms of mets and could this be mets, etc.  There is a forum right under the stage 4 forum that is for people concerned about mets and their symptoms. It was put there because we were being bombarded with questions like yours.

I have a feeling that is why you are not getting a lot of responses. A lot of us have little desire to keep going over what can be signs of mets and reassuring early stage women  that their symptoms are not mets.

Laurie

Celine, I do understand what you are trying to do and I say more power to you for trying to make a difference here.  At least it can give all members pause and think about how we respond to each other regardless of groups or numbers or types....often when complaints are made suggestions do not follow.  I appreciate the thought, time, and work you have put into this. I did read your post that you just started also.

Laurie.....this is just MY point!!! The sentences in my post under night sweats with question marks were rhetorical.  I am Triple Negative and there is a TNS only forum.  I, however hope that I am compassionate enough to offer help, suggestions, request information, be encouraging in ALL rooms regardless of a number or type which each member has.  I hope I never "get tired" of any of it!!!!  If someone is in an ONLY room and they are labelled differently, I believe they have the freedom and a purpose for being there!!!!!

The DISEASE does not discriminate no matter who you are, what your stage is, what your type is, what your fame status is, or financial statement or what room you are in.    METS does not discriminate nor do symptoms.  

This whole issue started over the Amy Rohbach thread.  Personally, I do not wish this disease on anyone and hope I would never cuss out anyone who has it no matter what they say about their struggles or their outcomes with this disease.

Celine:   I haven't chimed in before now, but I caught one of your posts, and have since been reading. You really need to figure out what you're doing and why.  It's not just a matter of you putting out a different viewpoint.  It's that you've put out your viewpoint, and then when people don't agree, you get really upset.  You've also put out your viewpoint repeatedly and in places where it is not appropriate.

Feeling discriminated against?  Left out? Really?  Stage 4 is not a club.  It is not a religious group.  People who are there do not want to be there. I suspect any one of them would gladly trade places with you, in terms of cancer status, and let you post all you want on the stage 4 forum.  Women on that forum are trying their best to cope through the support of others also going through the same thing, and while i sometimes read the posts because there are women I care deeply about who are stage 4, I do not post.    Complaining about the Stage 4 forum rules, because after all you have had breast cancer, too,  strikes me as both petty and lacking empathy.   

Don't you have something better to do?  

The mods have made their current position clear. This has become completely unproductive. To keep starting thread after thread on the same subject suggests that you are having difficulty accepting the fact that you are not receiving the groundswell of support you had hoped for. I hope the mods continue to close these threads.