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Barbe, huh? Dallas. What made you think New York?
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HAHAHAHAHA, just went back to read the post where I got confused and it said "new WORK" area!!!! hehehehehhee
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Funny. I thought maybe you were likening the pastiche of ethnic neighborhoods to NY. A lot of people really think Texas is all country and that we all ride horses, wear stetson's and have oil wells in our back yards.
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Last summer a friend of my moms came from Australia to see the US. He stayed at her house as a home base for all his trips. I think he very disappointed that it wasn't the Wild West here. Of course, his second full day here was spent in a hospital waiting room while I was having my bmx. After a few days he asked her but where are the ranches? Lol. Yeehaw!
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yeah, their entire idea of what it is like here is from watching Larry Hagman in Dallas.
For what it's worth, I grew up in a small town and many of my friends and family are farmers & ranchers. My mom's family does have oil & gas leases on land in the Panhandle & wheat land in Colorado & I did ride horses at friend's houses. My sister worked at a Western Wear store in college, many of my high school friends were in FFA. My first boss was Rex Cauble's girlfriend (remember the cowboy mafia & Cutter Bill?) & we occasionally waitressed at cutting horse auctions in our young & cute days.
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lol. Melissa, you are a cowgirl! It's always been Northpark and paved streets for me. I grew up in Prestonwood area. When I got married I moved in to my husbands house in Dallas but near Baulch Springs/mesquite. That was totally country to me. I've been to the stockyards in ft worth a couple of times now and watched the daily cattle drive through the streets. Its all for show though. I told my mom she should take her friend there so he could have a real Texas experience but they never has time. I went to a rodeo in Oklahoma once and that was total culture shock.
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DP, I laugh thinking about college years when we would routinely in the same night go back and forth from a disco to the Broken Spoke Ballroom. Donna Summers to Waylon Jennings. Yes, I can two-step, waltz, scottisch, polka, and do the cotton-eyed Joe, but still love Nazareth, Led Zeppellin & Foghat too.
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And Prestonwood is a whole different thing...my point is that "country" and education aren't mutually exclusive. My parents were school teachers, well educated & sophisticated. My granddad's family, besides being dust bowlers from the Panhandle, also held the record for having the most kids from one family graduate from OU. Most of them (out of12 kids) went on to become physicians and RNs.
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Wow, did I miss a lot over the past 24 hours. DS borrowed my computer and then forgot to bring it back before going off to work and I had to wait until today. Melissa: I thought that I was the only one who considered my shopping at the Italian and Asian markets as a shopping spree. My DH is a trained chef and I love to cook and purchasing exotic ingredients is very exciting for me. Even getting kitchen gadgets for Xmas excites me. I received a $300 scanpan frying pan for Xmas and was thrilled. My girlfriends all think I am crazy, until they come over for dinner.
Barbe: What took you on all your travels? Were you a flight attendant also? I love to travel and can never stop unless my health makes me. I was so worried about TE, but everything is looking good. DH just booked us a three week stay in Tuscany where I can shop at all the fresh markets and cook my heart out. We actually love to plan our travels now by the food.
I hated walking around on an airplane, but will now wander up and down the aisles as I see fit. The attendants hate it at the beginning of the flights with their carts, so will wait until the second half of the journey. I always reserve an aisle seat so that I can move around without having to wake someone up next to me. Unless it is just good ol DH. When DS travels with us we just fill one aisle nicely on the smaller jets.
Barbe: I live north of Winnipeg at the beach area and our home is right on the lake. But I have lived all across Canada and spent four wonderful years in Oakville, ON. Actually, the market, Longos, in Oakville, is what turned me into a foodie.
Caryn: Those years of flying with Pan Am were so romantic appearing. What did you think of the show "Pan Am"?
And I love rodeos. The Calgary Stampede was my favorite thing when I lived in Calgary. I still watch it every year on television. The Calgary Stampede is urban and rural coming together for one big party.
Melodie
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TB90,
The show Pan Am... well they got the uniforms right as well as the strict grooming supervisors. The pilots were way too young! During the era that the show was set in, you still had many WW II and Korean War vets flying. They were far older than most flight attendants. 707's were great jet set work horses but not nearly as wide and comfortable as they looked on the show,not even in first class. I was thrilled when they finally retired them. As for all of the intrigue, I never saw a bit of it! We did have a great deal of fun on layovers and as difficult as a particular flight may have been, once we landed and the pax disembarked, those circumstances would never happen again! I feel very fortunate to have been able to continue my exploration of the world, which started in the Peace Corps, and get paid for it.
Caryn
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DP: I have been scrolling trying to find where it is that you are traveling to and cannot find. How long is your flight? There is lots of help and advice here from the pros as to how to make the flight comfortable and relaxing.
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TB90, I cooked Ethiopian yesterday. I've never used so many onions, even for onion soup. I made chicken doro wat, cabbage with carrots, potatoes & carrots, green bean stew & yellow split pea puree. No injera because the packages are huge, plus my butt doesn't need the carbs. Very good.
i have a huge closet full of kitchen stuff and a whole bookshelf of cookbooks. Baking is my love. I even aced macarons on my first try.
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Melissa: There is obviously a lot I could learn from you! The dinner sounded amazing and notice how other cultures incorporate so many veggies and spices into their food. That is why I love cooking ethnic food. Tonight I am cooking Indian food and the number of spices out on my counter are (I just counted 12).
I am not a baker, although I make my dough from scratch and make homemade doggie treats. I have had too many disasters with baking and it is not nearly as forgiving as cooking. But I make pasta from scratch, etc. Your cookies look amazing. You could definitely have a bakery out of your home kitchen. Now if only we could taste them from that picture
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Melissa ,
The macarons are gorgeous! With all the other yummy things you cooked, I can understand skipping the injera, but it's one of my favorite parts of an Ethiopian meal.
Caryn
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Mine too Caryn, but I just can't make it myself, and the package of them at the little Ethiopian shop must weigh two pounds. even if it freezes that is a lot of bread for one person. it is funny that on a thread on a cooking board I participate in, when people were talking about foods they loathe injera came up several times, but I think it is lovely.
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TB90' I find Ethiopian very similar to Indian, just a little different spice profile.
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I wasn't in the travel industry, but when I met my current DH (best one!!!) his previous wife wouldn't fly so we did a LOT of travelling in the first half of our marriage. I even felt guilty that we were spending so much but am SO glad we did it while we could. Cannot imagine the pain of flying on my poor body now.
Anyone remember "Coffee, Tea or Me?" LOVED that book!!!
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE REAL macarons!!!! Most people have no idea what they're eating when they have them! My DH's work party one Christmas had trays and trays of them and I ate probably 8 of them (tiny ones) and then someone gave away a box of normal sized ones to us. Last year I took a purse with me to the party to take some home and they didn't serve them!!! I had waited all the way through the buffet to get to desert and there they weren't!!!!
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those look delicious Melissa! I have been craving those lately. Been seeing them in a lot of magazines. Our higher education is definitely above average here in Texas.
TB90, I am going to Hawaii. It is 8 hours direct. I have been scouring the board for info and have found quite a bit. I'm just a little freaked out because of the unknown I guess. I had lung surgery 4 weeks ago and have not actually gotten the final go ahead from the thoracic surgeon yet. He was skeptical at first but I think he is going to ok it. I see him on Wednesday. I have felt a lot better over the last week pain wise but my energy level still isn't great. I'm hoping for a vast improvement quickly. My (what I assume is) LE in my chest has gotten a lot worse since the sx and the swelling is still quite painful. I'm also catch myself hunched over a lot of the time and i think that is contributing to back pain. If I could I would postpone the trip a month but no can do and I really don't want to miss it.
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Delirium Pie,
I didn't realize that you had had lung surgery. Please make sure that your thoracic surgeon is really comfortable with the flight. Is your flight direct or non-stop? Non-stop would be best, so you wouldn't have the pressure changes involved in take offs and landings. Other than that, please, please walk around as much as you can to avoid DVT (deep vein thrombosis). If you can't walk around a lot, there are "in seat" exercises you can do that will help. Google it. Lastly, enjoy Hawaii! My initial Pan Am training was in Honolulu. Six weeks at a Holiday Inn near the airport (so long ago that the H1 freeway didn't go out to the airport yet!)
Caryn
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it is a direct flight. Glad to hear that that is preferable as I was starting to second guess that. Back when this was arranged, the lung issue was not known and it just seemed like less hassle and travel time. It will be a whirlwind trip. I think that it is only 2.5 days of actual time there and a day and a half spent traveling. I'm still awaiting my final itinerary, but I think I may only end up with one day to fit in anything that I want to plan for myself. Of course I don't even know what that may be that I want to plan because I've been a bit preoccupied lately and also didn't want to get overly excited in case the surgeon nixes the whole idea anyway. I've got BF on the lookout for stress balls at the jobs fairs he will be participating in during the next week. I feel like I read that that is good exercise for the arms in flight. I've had a history of clots in my arms and around my port and currently take Coumadin. My biggest fear has been the whole chest explosion type thing, or more realistically, giving LE a real strong hold. Oh the things I go through to uphold my duties as the reigning SPAM Queen of the universe. Ha!
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DP,
I think you mean that your flight is non-stop. Direct means that there can be stops, but passengers who are going to the final destination don't have to disembark. You still have more than one take off and landing. Happy travels and as long as you take the recommended precautions you should be fine.
Caryn
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yes caryn, you are correct. How long do we get to blame things on chemo brain?
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you keep blaming chemo brain as long as you want! Actually, many people, especially if you've never worked for an airline, use the terms interchangeably .
Caryn
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Caryn, I'm sure I've used those terms interchangeably too!! Thanks for the explanation. The worst one I did left from Bonaire to Aruba and then back to Canada. Aruba is a HORRENDOUS banking and landing!!!!! I was SO ill from the landing in Aruba that I couldn't get off the plane for re-fuelling no matter how much they pushed me stating legalities!!! I just couldn't move - literally. That wasn't truly a "direct" flight as we had to disembark, but I made it one! hehehhehe I also had to land while in the washroom once when coming back from B.C. Again, I was too weak to move. The flight attendant made me open the door so she could see that I was "okay" and then let me stay there. They were going to get me a stretcher or wheelchair at landing but I stumbled off finally. Happens sometimes when I scuba dive and return to the boat. Just total muscle failure with nausea.
DP do you know how to do manual lymph drainage? That would be a good thing to do on the flight both for LE and your lungs, I'm sure. Hoping it all works out, sweetie!!
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DP, was just going to suggest what barbe said about mld, especially when flying. DO NOT BE brave about this - make sure your surgeon is ok with your flying. Sudden ( and sometimes necessary when flying) changes in air pressure are HARD on anyone's lungs. Your surgery is so, so recent. Can you possibly "rethink" this trip?
Thinking of all participants, and volunteers in Boston today. BRAVE people. In case there is anyone who doesn't understand WHY the celebration is so vital to those of us in Massachusetts ( the MA after my name!) here's a brief explanation of Patriots' Day, and why the attack last year was SUCH a strike against a beloved tradition here, gathering at the Finish Line and then going as a group to the Green Monster ( known also as Fenway Park) to cheer on the Red Sox. And the timing, last year, was when the MAJORITY of people are approaching the finish line, and where most of the people gather celebrating Patriots' Day.
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I have always said, direct-non-stop. I think that non-stop would have it covered unless I want to jump!
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And Caryn: GREAT news about your PET scan. Wish all the MO's were as wonderful.
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TB90,
Yes, lots of folks do but to the airlines, direct (one flight, with more than one stop) and non- stop are very different.
Caryn
PS: thank for the PET scan congrats.
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Morning all! Just been reading back because I haven't been arouund for a few days. I have my Daughter here and had a big Yard Sale on Saturday, needed some tome to get over it!
DP, I have everything crossed that you re fine for that flight!
Caryn, so pleared to hear about your Pet Scan too.
And I am with Caryn....Non Stop...the only way to fly! Unfortunately, for me, Aus is so far away from everything that it is hard to do. It takes about 16 hours Lax to Melbourne, but to go to Europe anything up to 30 hours with a stop over in Dubai or Singapore...it's the worst flight. I used to stay a few days in Dubai or Singapore in each direction just to make it less of a nightmare trip. Asia was easier with about 8+ hours travel time. I used to jump on a flight after work on my last roster day and have 4 days somewhere in Asia and then back with 1 day to spare, till I started my roster again.
Kay, I have pieces of Cedar scattered through my wardrobe to deter the moths. It smells great, not offensive at all and does the job. It is available in slices with a hole drilled to fit over a hanger or in balls that can be hung in little muslin bags, I bought mine from a haberdashery store, but I think they are available at hardware stores too.
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