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  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited April 2014

    Nettie,

    I was Dx in January 2010 with a mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy.   

    I had last BC treatment in March 2011.

    I now only have 6 month MO follow-up visit with a yearly mammogram.

    MO continues to treat Me symptomatically.   I gave a ThumbsDownto tumor markers which can be a crapshoot.

    I've not had a recurrence or metastasis.   However, MO without testing had to convince Me of *not having* bone & skin cancer.   But did have an ultrasound to rule out possible recurrence.

    I live in fear of mammogram, coming up in May.

    Scary Crap!!Shocked

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited April 2014

    MORNING OWLETTES,  been working since 5:30 am. Nothing like someone coming to visit to get the body moving. YAY.. Di will be here to do the stuff I don't wwant too. 
    phillyoson her way from Tallahassee if she's out of bed yet. She'll be here between 4-6.

    Need to grocery shop......should clean the frig.....it may get done

    Thrifted on Tuesday. 2 large platters---Stars and Bars --I think. 3 large wexford bowls all footed. Anything footed is always more valuable , than non footed. Punch set in federal windsor pattern, 2 covered windsor sugars, A 64 oz wexford picture(ds--beer), a sweet little handled plate etched and scalloped---will never be able to find the name. A AH Prescut large vegetable for Di. A beautiful decanter for DS------IT was a great glass day never found so many pieces in one day. Only could have been better if it was half off day. They --SPCA --does it when to much of something builds up on the shelves. Still GREAT deals.

    Collecting the Winsdor for DS friend. Wexford DS, cousin, and me. Prescut for DI. A small ABC relish. 

    The small old upright covered sugars are great for bathrooms to use for ear cleaners or cotton balls/pads. Love crystal on the bathroom counters.

    The bottles that have wire lids with the seal can be taken apart and used as tooth paste and brush holders. Looks great when you can find them in patterened and or colors that match your colors

  • Nettie1964
    Nettie1964 Member Posts: 759
    edited April 2014

    Cami, you made sense to me!!  But I must say that I have never had a bone scan!  Even with all the complaining about back and arm pain!

    I know I stated this on one of these threads, so if I'm repeating, sorry!  This is what I've had done:

    1. Found lump myself
    2. Went to GYN
    3. Had diagnostic mammo, was held over for US (pretty much knew at that point)
    4. Had lumpectomy and SNB
    5. Got infection in incision
    6. Took serious round of Antibiotics
    7. Got serious GI trouble from Antibiotics
    8. Ended up in hospital from GI issues
    9. Cat scan while in hospital - only showed inflamed colon which was expected due to symptoms
    10. Met with MO - got plan. Chemo AC x 4, followed by taxol x 12, followed by 33 rads
    11. Before chemo, had chest x-ray and heart test
    12. During chemo, had weird pains, demanded abdominal US - all clear!
    13. And of course, weekly blood work during treatment!
    14. Started Aromasin in January
    15. Had my last MO appt in February - felt like he basically blew me off
    16. Had mammo and bone density (showed osteopenia) on March 12 also GYN visit on March 12
    17. Followup with surgeon (he ordered the mammo), the mammo was all clear
    18. Due to debilitating knee and back issues, I self stopped the Aromasin to see if the issues would clear
    19. Issues are clearing, will start Aromasin again on Monday, April 14
    20. If issues return, will talk to MO
    21. Constantly having issues from scar tissue in radiated breast and under arm, seeing Chiro and Massage therapist for this!  So far, not much relief

    So, that's my story!  Now you see why I'm so paranoid, never had a PET or Bone Scan!  Now I've been told that issues of the spine would show on chest x-ray and/or the abdominal US as when a patient is known to have cancer, they look extra close at things and had something appeared, I would have been sent for further testing! This was NOT told to me by MO! So I don't know if it's true!

    Sorry to bore everyone - just in a weird state of mind the last few days!

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited April 2014

    Nettie u'r not boring at all. So don't ever think u can't talk openly here about how u feel. Remember I don't know anything medically, I'm just telling u my experiences, But I did think everyone has a bone scan--I know my niece, sister, cousin and I had one at the start maybe cuz cancers were of a different kind even tho they are all BC.??? or maybe cuz I'm older oh wait, my niece is in her 40's Hmm I know I've had--Mugas, echos, US, bonescans, MRI's density, nuclear crap and heart different ones and cat and pet at different times so I don't know why. all I know is everytime I see her I get some kind of goofy test and now I say nothing to try not to get them but I'll be damned when she examins me she always sees where there is pain, maybe mine is just a nut for tests. I know my Primary is another nut that I have all kinds of tests and I see these people often so that's why I really hate going to them. haha the only ones I don't get are mammos and paps-----U said u asked u'r Dr. about it, ask again and ask why she doesn't want a baseline of what u inners are like. And Nettie mayb not everyone gets them I of course can be totally wrong about everything cuz Teka didn't get a bone scan???? Please don't go by me, Sas will b getting to really post and she'll get  on this and no doubt explain so so so much better than I ever could and she knows what she's talking about, I don't.

  • Nettie1964
    Nettie1964 Member Posts: 759
    edited April 2014

    And that's another thing, my PCP, well that visit was almost a joke!  Just skip this if you are tired of hearing me whine!

    Went to PCP because MO said blood pressure was high!

    By the time I saw PCP, I was having other issues - vertigo, arm pain, left hip into leg pain!

    So the nurse takes all the info and checks my BP, low and behold, when she checked it was normal!

    Dr. comes in, I give him the spill and I swear he never touched me, he had me stand up and bend and touch my knees, that was it, did NOT look in my ears, eyes, nose or mouth, never touched my neck ( I also see him for thyroid meds)!  He then proceeds to tell me, since MO said BP was high, he would give meds for it, and since I was having vertigo, he would give script for Antibiotic "in case" I had a sinus infection!  GO FIGURE!  Made me feel like a big old hypochondriac!!  I swear I don't know how I find these Drs.!!  I'm just so outdone with it all!!  I need to feel better!!  I felt better while on chemo than I do now!!  Who else can say that?

    And I know, I need to find a new PCP, but with my work schedule and where I live that is easier said than done!

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited April 2014

    Camillegal, correct, seems like each member has been through a different BC experience!

    Nettie, My PCP is a good listener and gives an excellent examination!

  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Member Posts: 2,478
    edited April 2014

    Nettie, I agree it is frustrating. The only reason I had a Pet Scan was because of the 6 positive nodes, matted & growing cancer on the outside. I actually said NO thanks, did not want to do it. BS convinced me it was necessary.

    Now, I am told, your done, no more tests. I asked PCP about a 3D mammogram, I would need to go to the big city. She said NO, does not improve my odds...hmmm....why can't someone that is stage 3 get a little more testing? 

    Now, I cannot even get the MO office to call me back about a biophosphante tx...& they called me to say she would do it, call & make an appt... Arrrrrrggggg

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited April 2014

    Granted that my BC was early and not especially aggressive, but I have had no testing beyond a yearly mammo and 2 x year manual breast exam. I'm a little paranoid about the lack of testing also.

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited April 2014


    I wonder about some of these dr's....it can be so frustrating! I had a PET scan right after dx, I was in such shock that I didn't even question what or why I was having it done. It was only a couple of months ago that they did this because of my stage 3 dx.

    Nettie I'm sorry you dealing wtih all of this crap!!

    Hole-you have a new dx? I'm sorry I'm out of the loop ((hugs))

    So we don't get any further scans after tx's are finished? This is a concern to me...how do we know anything is working or has worked?? I gotta talk to my MO about this!

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited April 2014

    Apparently there is no set standard of care for before, during, or after treatment. I had so dam many tests before, I felt like pitching a tent in the hospital lot. Now, my PCP is assuming the MOs place. I just put myself on a 1 year check with BS. I did have a DEXA after all was done. PCP will be watching tumor markers. No further tests scheduled, no Mamo, nothing to slam. 

    I've read here that if a pain lasts 2 weeks, get it checked. My former NP said bone mets HURT, and it doesn't stop. 

  • Nettie1964
    Nettie1964 Member Posts: 759
    edited April 2014

    Well, no doctor has ever told me that bone mets hurts or doesn't hurt or stops or don't stop!  They have told me nothing!  I will tell you that the pains I'm having have lasted well over 2 weeks, however they are not constant!!  So maybe that is why they seem so unconcerned!  

    I just don't know anymore and makes me want to throw my hands up and just say F*** it all!!  I'm so tired of second guessing my pains and worrying when the doctors think it's nothing to it.

    Also from reading on BCO, I found ladies diagnosed with mets when they presented with absolutely no symptoms and also blood work was fine, so go figure!  Outside of testing, when or how would their situations been diagnosed!  Would it have been too late?  I'm told that once symptoms present, the mets is usually well advanced!

  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Member Posts: 2,951
    edited April 2014
  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited April 2014

    I cannot help but------

    My body was so beaten down from BC treatments that I took a *vicodin* to relieve the lameness while cleaning for 2011 Thanksgiving.

    The next day, I ached from head to toe!

    Our bodies will never again feel like Pre-BC.

  • ziggypop
    ziggypop Member Posts: 1,071
    edited April 2014

    Hi all,

    Hi Ho - I'm really sorry about your friend, it is so particularly hard when someone is young.

    I'm going to chime in on the scans question because it's one that I had for awhile too (at this point I'm like Cami - I told my doc I really don't want to see any docs at all for anything for at least 2 months, he said okay just get your mammo so I did and I have a callback - he wrote me and said please just do this one more thing and I will leave you alone). Anyway here's what I understand to be the case or have been told to be the case & it could be wrong.

    As far as getting a PET scan at the 'beginning' - they will do one if there is a significant risk that the cancer has metastasized beyond the local area. And they do this because it will change the treatment protocol if there are distal mets. This is the basic reason for tests of any kind - to determine what treatment you should or should not have. 

    By far the single most predictive factor for Mets in distant locals is lymph node involvement. Fluid from the breast drains into the auxiliary nodes, so if the cancer has lodged in the node it means both that it has traveled and that it has the capacity to live in different environments. If it's not in the nodes, then the risk that it is in distal areas of the body is relatively low. So the 'standard' for pretreatment testing is the degree of lymph node involvement, there may be some other instances when a PET is done - ie. the tumor is close to the chest wall, but otherwise the increased radiation is not considered to be warranted. Exposure to radiation is a serious thing - particularly for a cancer patient because radiation has a cumlative effect and a cancer patient is likely to undergo (over a period of time) more tests that will expose him or her to more radiation than the normal person. The type of scans that one would need to determine location & metabolic activity (what you need if you're looking for mets) are PET/CT & you're talking a lot of radiation with there - a chest CT normally has the same amount of radiation as over a hundred  chest X-rays. 

    As to having regular scans following treatment - the 'standard' is not to to do scans unless there are symptoms that suggest mets have occurred. The first reason is to limit exposure to radiation - imagine your doc telling you that he wanted to expose you to the radiation of one hundred X rays every year for the rest of your life - we're not talking Chernobyl - but that's pretty significant. Think about what RADs does to your breast tissue & how changes can occur years after. The second reason given is that it is very very rare that finding mets 'early' has a great deal of benefit. The benefit of detecting BC early is that if BC is contained to the breast, it won't kill you - because your individual breasts are not necessary for your survival. That is why surgery is the primary treatment for BC that has not spread beyond the nodes. This surgery can in fact 'cure' you (you don't know whether you have been cured or not, but there is a good chance that ALL of the cancer can be removed from your body if it has been found before spreading elsewhere). Other treatments (RADS, Chemo, AIs, SERMS) are basically prophylactic in nature - they are done to treat cancer cells that may or may not even be there. When BC metastasized to distal locations, it tends to lodge in a lot of places (although they may not show up on a scan because they are too small). So surgery is generally not the primary treatment. The primary treatment is some combo of those prophylactic treatments & the thing is that the cancer cells eventually find a way around these treatments - so the treatments have a limited time span of effectiveness regardless of when you start them. If you use up the arsenal of treatments earlier all that has really happened is that you've used it up earlier (that's how the argument goes anyway).   

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited April 2014

    Oh, and so who IS this making all kinds of sense?  OMG it is Cammi and Lilshit!  Who knew?  I have to go back and read all this that is going on with you Nettie so I can fix you!  Because I have so much knowledge and experience and so on and so forth!   Just wait right there girls.....  I have to go tend to DH.... 

    HE is soooooooooooooooooo much better, that now he scares me!  He shaved, cleaned up, and is walking with my Grandma's cane!  I mean walking like a Penguin, because I told him to do that... but he is soooo much better!  So I am really happy, and he is REALLY happy!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2014

    thanks Smaarty, I needed that! So, are you safely home now?

    Thanks for posting Teka, I need the reminder it's ok if my house isn't perfect

    Nettie, yikes, that's a lot, I'd get lost after a couple of those steps

    Blessings, how did the dentist visit go?

    Chevy, great he's feeling better. Walking like the Penguin, no big deal. Especially if he got all pur-teed up for you.

    Sassy, hoping you're ready for your guests. (Don't know why, but I wanted to type: ready or not, here we come). Relax, enjoy and have fun with Phyllimahere and Spookiesmom. Hoping the visit isn't too many females for DBF. I'll ask for pix - especially before everything that happens in FL stays in FL.

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited April 2014

    Ladieeees! Happy Thursday...

    2TA - Dentist visit went fine. I thought it had been two years, but my last visit was a year ago. The Hygienist was pleased at how well I take care of my teeth. Dentist said all Xrays looked fine.

    Decided to go to Joanne's for Easter decorations afterwards (seeing as how it was so EARLY) and almost threw up when I got there. WTH????? I suddenly remembered that I took two HUGE Erythromycin at 7 am... just a prophylactic antibiotic treatment before cleaning, thanks to implants.

    Went home, made a scrambled eggie on toast with a big ginger ale... now I feel like I can handle Costco this afternoon.

    DANG - IT'S HOT HERE IN CALI....

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  • Nettie1964
    Nettie1964 Member Posts: 759
    edited April 2014

    Thanks ziggy!!!!

    And chevy, I'm waiting. 

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited April 2014

    Phillyois here5pm and weare ON the deck YAY SHE MADE IT :)

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited April 2014

    Well Holy Moly Guacomole! I assumed there would be more scans after tx's, thanks Ziggy for the info. I just assumed they would do something to see if it had worked, but I can see how there is probably no way to really know for sure. ugg...scary chit this cancer is.

    Hole-I forgot to mention earlier that I was sorry about your friend too. Was she on BCO? ((hugs))

  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Member Posts: 2,951
    edited April 2014

    got home yesterday just intime to make the weight management class I'm signed up for. Get the "food" next week and start! Little anxiety over starting this but also a little excited too. I sure hope I have the will power to do this. Really want to lose 40-50 lbs., seems like a lot. By end of summer I should be skinny! Last summer I couldnt swim, this summer not eating. But to a better version of me!

    How can you tell if a boob is slipping? Anybody experience this? Mine are textured and not suppose to slip. Maybe I'm being paranoid? 

    Hope you guys are doing better or having fun. SAS, post a pic please. Nice to see who you're talking to all the time.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited April 2014

    Okay Sass and PhyllitroublejustWAITING..... be careful going anywhere with her Sass.... You know.... that ankle monitor and all.... Did she ditch big Alice?    And Yes!  Take a picture of you too hooligans! 

    Netti, I went back and looked at that bunch of stuff that you have gone through...  I don't think I can fix you.... not now anyway....  I THINK, and this is just my own experience, that when we take Antibiotics it screws up things in us....  and SOMEtimes, like with me, and Sulfa, AND Pennicillin, we can wind up in the emergency rooms!  And these foreign substances that we take for infections, etc, just hang around IN there, and wreak havoc on OTHER parts of us! 

    And you have gone through entirely too much for any one woman!  So just don't do that anymore.....  If they want you to take something, tell them to "Hold on.... I have to run this by my team first!"   And then come here, and see what WE, the EXPERTS have to say about it..... 

    Smaarty!  Your boob is slipping?  OMG.....  Put some Duck tape under it, and run to the Doctor's!    That just doesn't sound normal....  Geesh!  Now I have to fix you AND Netti! 

    DH is walking ON THAT DAMN FOOT!  He is limping, but is doing so much better.... I tell him to walk like a Penguin.... that's what they told me!  But we are both so happy that he can put weight on it!    He can't have my flowered cane.... He can use my Grandma's....   But thank GOD he is better!    So I fixed him anyway.... Now I have to fix YOU guys!  xoxooxxo

  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Member Posts: 2,478
    edited April 2014

    Smaarty, from your bear photo, you looked like a normal, healthy weight.....40-50 lbs ? You would be rail thin....I do hope I can keep the weight off. I weigh now what I did when I was 25... Only benefit of this stinkin' cancer.

    Tang, same dx as always, lots of bursting nodes. He only took 7, he does not like to take many, as the problems with lymphdema. He believes the chemo will take care of the rest.... Hope he is correct...where are you right now, # 4 coming up?  

    Thanks for the comments on Mary Ann passing. She was not on BCO, but would be pleased that we all wish her DH & DS well. 

    Sas & Philyiss, look out, here comes trouble.... Wish we were all together for a evening of laughter & fun out on the deck...

    Welcome back LMG

    Hello to all, BBL...

  • Chevyboy
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  • FierceBluebird
    FierceBluebird Member Posts: 758
    edited April 2014

    Hey girls back in hospital again.really scared but looks  like like it's a bad pneumonia. Keeping me prisoner while running iv antibiotics. Better than the alternative, I'll take it!

    Hugs to all

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2014

    FBB, that sucks, but thanks for letting us know. Sending lots of gentle hugs and love your way. Will keep you in my prayers. Rest up and check back when you can.

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  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited April 2014

    Ya'all just wait till Sunday! Smaarty will hear us in Cali laughing! This is gonna be soooo much fun!! I'll keep my phone charged ready for pics. 

  • Nettie1964
    Nettie1964 Member Posts: 759
    edited April 2014

    FBB, wishing you a speedy recovery.

    Chevy, thanks for trying to fix me as it seems the drs aren't interested.

    Believe it or not, I didn't have it that bad just a lot of crud.

    Just tired of having to second guess all these dang pains.

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