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Love the kitties Blue.
I booked for us to go to our daughters for Nicholas's 2nd birthday in May last night - can't wait

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So we haven't left for Vermont yet, but it looks bad. Possible 2 feet. We still may go, but not taking as much stuff as we'd planned.
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Bad storm here yesterday. What a world!
For those that need to know...
slang for republican.
right wing political follower who's lack of critical thought is repugnant
repug politics are based in liesNot to be confused with one of these, in case you try to make a connection.

And, I'd rather have a tea party with these guys! Much more fun!

I'm off to visit!
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alexandria - it was 4 degrees here at 7am. Still snowing, very windy so not much accumulation but it's on top of last night's sleet. Expect near blizzard farther north. Moving fast so should be out of our area by early afternoon.
I'm not even trying to get outside. Sad, cuz I missed my favorite art class, but have learned NOT to venture out when it's this icy. Even those needly ice cleats I put on my boots don't make me comfortable with all the ice. Gads, am I that old ;-)))))))
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It finally stopped snowing here in Niagara about 9 last evening, leaving at least a foot of snow in its wake. Today is sunny and very cold. Tomorrow the temp is supposed to go up to 5C (or about 40F) but.....not fast or high enough to melt! Shovel here I come!
Yes Sunny, I know what you mean about avoiding ice -- I fell flat on my keister about 4 years ago which made my hip go out of alignment and caused significant pain, to the point of having to use crutches. Finally, physio sessions got me back on track, but I've been so fearful of falling ever since.
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Morning Friends,
Sunnyflowers and Carrots .. your weather sounds dreadful. It's very windy here and cold. Supposed to have a 70% chance of snow on Sunday. WTH. I swear I am not shoveling another inch of snow! Tim had to pull over last night. He's somewhere near New Jersey I think and the wind was so bad his semi was blowing all over the road. It's in the 20's here with the windchill. Like Alexandria said the other day "I.AM.SO.OVER.WINTER."
Have some errands to run today. Wondering what I should get to plug the hole up in the living room floor to keep the mouse out. It's a small hole, just big enough for the mouse to come in. Mice attract snakes .. I just can't have that. Don't like the snakes up near the house. It's also getting to be tick season already. My sis had one on her back yesterday. Those damn things are like roaches ... they could survive a nuclear holocaust!
I get nervous around the ice and mud too. I've slipped a couple of times on the ice and even slid down the path a bit in the mud. Dogs don't care .. and like at Jackie's house, Tank sinks about an inch into the mud.
Hope everyone has a great Thursday,
hugs,
Bren
PS .. Blue ... I'm guessing you're going to visit your newest grandson. Have lots of fun and cuddle him for me!
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WOW - c4c. Small world. Just what happened to me on "black ice" near my newspaper "sleeve" ( where daily paper is delivered, like an open mail box) at the street and I fell FLAT WHOMP on my back. Think it was the very padded parka I was wearing ( with my lanz flanel nightgown AND polertec bathrobe underneath) which kept anything from breaking. Was going to pick up my morning newspaper. Have a very long driveway ( down hill to the street) and literally had to crawl on all fours to get back to house. My feet went completely out from under me, really knocked the wind out of me.
Took weeks to get back to normal. Has made me VERY aware of how dangerous ice can be. So many women I know have falled this winter, and broken bones. There was even an article in the paper about how much busier the emergency rooms are this winter because of people falling.
Snow, very windy, sleety ice underneath snow means "STAY HOME" to me. Very very grateful I get to do it too. Love the Saturday Life ( what my friends call retirement)
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Yep, wild and windy and freezing cold here in DC metro, too. And I hear you about the ice - in 2003, I broke my arm falling on the ice. I have been terrified of it ever since. We are no longer made of cartilage and rubber bands like we were when we were teenagers. We are all bone and ligament -- we don't bounce, we break!
And here is your thought for the day:

Imagine, indeed. Imagine if all the effort put into repealing the Affordable Care Act, hating President Obama, suppressing the rights of women, people of color, LGBT people, and people the knuckledraggers don't agree with, suppressing the vote, legislating people's personal medical choices, attempting to force religion on other people and subverting the Constitution - imagine if they put all that hate into making sure children were properly fed, housed and educated. Imagine that.
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WHAT RL SAID:
Imagine,
indeed. Imagine if all the effort put into repealing the Affordable
Care Act, hating President Obama, suppressing the rights of women,
people of color, LGBT people, and people the knuckledraggers don't agree
with, suppressing the vote, legislating people's personal medical
choices, attempting to force religion on other people and subverting the
Constitution - imagine if they put all that hate into making sure
children were properly fed, housed and educated. Imagine that.just had to repeat while I read it to myself, again, and again. What's it going to take to have this kind of a world?
If you haven't yet watched the segments which NBC Nightly News is doing this week on the Children of Syria, check their website. Very Important.
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Can't get any more clear than that. If you don't understand it, that is a failure of intellect on your part - not a failure of the law.
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Libby, the irony is that your insurer will tell you what docs you can see, whereas the idjuts who criticize Canada's "socialized" medicine insist on saying that our government tells us what docs we can see --- not true! We can see any doc we want to. And 97% of the costs of our healthcare are actually spent on our healthcare. Oh my!
Warning: rant starting! The folks who are always yelling about "freedom" are blind to the relative lack of freedom they have compared to those of us in other western countries. We women don't have governments telling us what we can and cannot do with our own bodies. We don't fear going into public places that allow folks to carry weapons, concealed or otherwise. We don't permit our broadcasters to tell lies to us to further a political party's agenda. We don't allow corporations (which are NOT people, BTW) to spend untold amounts of money via secret PACS to influence election outcomes.
Yes, I could go on, but I know our gal pals here already know both these and other examples. It behooves those who brag about American "freedoms" to start investigating the situation in other countries. Maybe then, and only then, will my American gal pals start experiencing the freedoms that the rest of us enjoy.
Rant over!
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Yaaaay C4C!!!!!
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Love the rant, C4C, and am totally on board. The REAL "death panels" are and have ALWAYS been the insurance companies who denied care to people on the flimsiest of pretexts - or on no pretext at all. Thousands of people (tens, hundreds of thousands) died because they could not access medical care because they didn't have insurance. It is disheartening to watch this from the inside ... it must be frightening to look at us from the outside!
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I was just reading an article about a Cdn doc testifying before a Senate sub-committee on healthcare. Her main interrogator was Sen. Richard Burr. He asked her why so many Cdn docs were fleeing to the U.S. She replied that no Cdn docs were doing so; in fact, the opposite has been happening for some years now (an I can vouch for that, knowing several U.S. docs and researchers who have come north). He asked her why a Cdn politician went to the U.S. for heart valve replacement. She replied that she had no idea, since the actual procedure was developed and first performed at Toronto General Hospital many years ago. He asked her how many folks died because they waited so long for healthcare. She replied that she had no idea, although the noted the recent study that said some 45,000 Americans die each year because they can't afford health insurance.
Then he boasted that those 45,000 folks could always access the emergency room......obviously the Senator knows so little about healthcare and the U.S. healthcare "system" that he comes off as the true idjut he is. Pathetic! And very sad that far too many of your elected officials are so uneducated in the areas in which they've been given legislative ability (Michele Bachmann on the House Intelligence Committee comes immediately to mind -- gag me with a sock!!).
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Sunnyflowers ... I'm glad you're okay and you had all those clothes on! Being alone in that bad weather makes it even more scary. Last time I shoveled snow it was so freakin' cold out I couldn't breathe. I thought I was going to pass out in the snow and Tim would find me sometime in the spring. I'm not good at setting reasonable limits for myself, but with the ice I have to be really careful.
hugs,
Bren
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I almost can't read anything the Repugs say anymore. It makes me so angry. The lies that they tell - all to make sure the real repug constituents - Wall Street, corporations, and the extremely wealthy - get to keep as much money as possible - ok, I need to take calming breaths.
On the weather - In Jersey it's dropped from 70 degrees yesterday to the teens with a stiff wind - but it's sunny. No snow. We're heading for Vermont tomorrow - and that will change. In the meantime, nice to see grass.
Sun, C4C - stay warm and safe. No falls!
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Alex -- I don't wear fashionable winter boots anymore. Give me deep treads instead! Glad you missed the snowfall but take your boots to Vermont -- this has just GOT to be the last snowstorm of the season, please!
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Sandy - as you think about all the lies the repugs tell - one of which is that our current president is a Socialist. Remember who it is who truly embraced Lenin's philosophy... "A lie told often enough becomes the truth." Exactly the disinformation process the Republicans use.
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What kills me about all the lies is that mostly what they are against has been implemented up here and we are happy and free. That's why they always have something bad to say about Canadians, We prove them wrong at every turn. We are not a socialist country but we do have many social programs in place, even with our conservative government.
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A thunderous roar of handclaps for RL, CfC, and GG. Loved the right on rants. There are none so blind as those who will not see.......and who damn well don't have the guts and fortitude to REALLY educate themselves. It is so much easier to take the lemmings route. Lastly but not least.....no one sees how un-becoming the whole party has become since people like The T. Party crowd, Bachmann, Cruz, Paul, and many of the others spew out with the hilarious non-facts and extreme blunders. Hats off to the few who 'know" what is going on and don't like it. There is not enough of anyone....in the whole pieces of this group to get much going.
A bit past 50 degrees here today. Whew !!!!! Hope the ice is done for the year. We could get more snow yet, but it won't have a lasting quality. I had to chuckle about the falling.......time was when I barely felt it.....now I go down so hard the ground shakes. I likely make a seismic register and even when I don't seriously damage anything.....I ache for days and days. I'm all for avoiding ice and falls. Will be 69 on my birthday and I've had enough falls some time back for two or three people --- so I'm all for staying in and staying up-right.
Jackie
ETA: first husband's mom was French Canadian ---- and I spent lots of happy hours in Canada.

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I honestly don't know what makes me angrier - the morally bankrupt people who deliberately lie, knowing what they are saying is false and hurts many people, or the people with the intelligence to know better who deliberately refuse to do the research to know the lies are false.
It used to be in this country that we all wanted the same things for the country - a country that offered opportunity for all, that helped those who needed help, that didn't leave anyone behind. We wanted people to be fed and housed and educated and given opportunity to move up. We wanted a strong country, a prosperous country, a country in which everyone had the opportunity to participate - for ALL. We disagreed on how to get there, but we didn't used to want to leave anyone behind.
Today, the regressives only want these things for themselves. Oh, they might say they want people to have opportunity, but they don't and their actions show it. The screaming about EEO programs, the frothing and foaming that people might get an "unfair advantage" because of their skin color or national origin, the tsunamis of hatred toward people who look different, who believe differently, who weren't born here, who speak with an accent. They want to suppress the votes of people who believe different things than they do, they want to disenfranchise women and people of color. They want cheap labor but hate the people who provide it. They are PROUD of the roadblocks they put up in the way of people who want to participate in society. And they seem to glory in letting people, especially children (see school lunches), go hungry, saying, "It will build character" or "Their parents should make them a sandwich," refusing to see that there is nothing with which TO make a sandwich in a household where both parents work minimum wage jobs and can barely make rent.
We are so badly off course. How did so many people get to the point that they think this is OK? We used to be better than this.
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Libby I think it's the WWW that has caused all this hatred to come out. It is so easy to spew stupidity behind a screen and there are so many that will capitalize on the climate of stupidity to get what they want,
Girls, I don't need ice to fall! I can do that anywhere, anytime!
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There's always been an element that hates anyone different, hence the No Irish Need Apply and the exclusion of Jews at the beginning of the 20th century. However, I do think that what's going on now has a lot to do with economics. The wealthiest and the corporations have garnered so much of the economy, so many people have lost ground or fear losing everything, and so what happens? The top .01 percent, not merely the top .1 percent, the .01, Koch brothers and their ilk, use Fox and other media to point to people of color, women, immigrants, gays, transgenders, to say, look over there, they're the reason you're losing or could lose your middle class life style. It's not the CEOs taking too much money - or companies outsourcing - or the disbanding of the unions that is destroying the American middle class, it's the minorities and the liberal policies they advocate. The thing that's infuriating is that it works - that lies are told by Repugs, by Fox,and there are so many stupid people who believe them. Back in the depression, the average person knew that the people heading corporations were not generally speaking going to offer a living wage out of the goodness of their hearts - hence the union movement. If I say that I support a minimum wage of $15 a hour, people will start yelling about communism - without the slightest idea what communism actually is. ARRRHHHH
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back in the days of the depression people had fewer lies thrown at them on a daily basis. They more easily recognized lies because they didn't willingly drink the koolaid day after day. They conversed and exchanged ideas rather than simply sitting in front of a box being spoon fed with the lie of the day.
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Wow. You gals must have cabin fever. Love the rants.
I must say that it has always surprised me how many "regular" people buy into what the wealthy and corporations tell them about finances. (I think the "trickle down" theory was the best sell yet) If they would only think about it for a minute, they would see how self serving their policies are.
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Ah yes !!!!
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Hi, PiP! No, no cabin fever here - I was just prompted by the zombie-eyed granny starver Paul Ryan's latest "I-am-not-a-racist" racist screed about inner-city urban men being a problem. And Snowdrift Snooki taking Dr. Seuss in vain. And sometimes I just get sick of the racist, sexist, hateful comments on articles where the commenters should know better .... And I get sick of watching people flock to the idea of dismantling the very institutions that helped them get where they are - and will help their children stay where they are. Nothing like watching a bunch of educated people (figuratively) burn a library down because their corporate masters told them to. And I haven't ranted in a long time ... Just needed a good rant-stretch, I guess! :-)
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RL....I can see that. Real stupidity ( since so many, and very much so including otherwise educated idjuts ) makes one terrifically tired. I identify ( and count myself there ) in the group that struggles to know.....and has the ability to be flexible. Despite the volumes that I don't know, and there are plenty of them, I'm thankful that I've 'wanted' to know and have never -- no matter which side ( which is why I feel so sad there is little left of a viable Repug party ) been so rock solid that I couldn't adapt, or give each party a chance to "stand" out enough to make a difference.
Has been rather amazing that even my Repug family are jumping ship. Rather sad about what they are jumping to, but I've mentioned to them on a number of occasions 'what Republican party' as I don't think there is much of one left. Now the one ( they are all quite pushy ) is doing a T. Party thing. Says he doesn't watch the infamous news channel.....but if that were true I don't think he would be snuggling up to people whose total purpose is removing the government that now takes care of him through Medicare and Social Security.
Going to be nice again here today though too many clouds to suit me. I'll get by though. Lots to catch up on and probably a visit to the Rec center here to walk. Could walk outside, but it would be harder to make myself without full sunshine outside.
Keep praying that most of our winter weather ( Chicago area getting more though ) will by-pass us now. I'm ready for Spring to come in as soon as it can....despite a huge amt. of items needing attention here.
Jackie
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