Is there a type which is 100% not hereditary?..

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Papillon1
Papillon1 Member Posts: 308

oh girls, I am so confused.

My mum has bc. It is metastatic. It's in her brain, lung, liver and bones. Her mum did also. So I saw genetic oncologists who gave me a moderate risk of 1 in 4, familial. Less that 2% likely to be BRCA. Ok. So I thought I might consider mastectomy even without BRCA tests. After all, 20% of breast cancers are in my category! and may be genetic! environmental Or a mix of all.  BC is fatal in my family. So 1 in 4 doesn't please me. I went ahead and chatted with a surgeon.

The genetic oncologists didn't think there would be a BRCA link, but I asked my mum to speak with her doc and see what he suggested just to clear it up. His simple answer was "the sort of breast cancer you have is not hereditary". What? She has never had a genetic test. All I know is she is her2+ and er+..

Any thoughts? I am so confused..

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  • lintrollerderby
    lintrollerderby Member Posts: 483
    edited March 2014

    I'm very sorry you're in this position. Having a BRCA mutation is very rare, but there are many of us with them. Many oncologists mistakenly believe that HER2+ breast cancer has no correlation with BRCA mutations. While it is less likely to be positive for a BRCA mutation and have HER2+ breast cancer, it can and does happen. Please keep in mind that there are other genetic links besides BRCA and for this reason, I strongly recommend you speak with a genetic counselor. When someone speaks in absolutes, such as the information you were given, it is a good indication that you should seek another opinion. There are many of us who wind up on the wrong side of a small statistic, and there are very few absolutes with this disease. The HER2 support web site has several members who were told that their type of cancer precluded a BRCA mutation, only for them to find out otherwise when they got their results back. Good luck to you.

  • lintrollerderby
    lintrollerderby Member Posts: 483
    edited March 2014

    I just wanted to add that I firmly believe there are other genetic links that have yet to be discovered. Also, I had no family history of breast or ovarian cancer when I was blindsided with a breast cancer diagnosis out of the blue in 2011 at age 34. I put off genetic testing because I didn't fit the model for a typical "breast cancer family". Imagine my surprise when I tested positive for a BRCA1 mutation after active treatment was over. My daughter subsequently tested positive and had her prophylactic bilateral mastectomy with recon last week. I have since learned that my dad was the likely carrier and his being male along with his small family size that had few females meant the mutation was better able to hide. Even my genetic counselor was surprised at my positive result. If you feel you are at risk and would like to explore it further, it really is best to talk to a genetic counselor. You may find support and advice at facingourrisk.org if you haven't been there already. Best of luck to you both.

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    I kind of understand we are probably not BRCA positive. We don't fit. But that doesn't mean it's not hereditary right?  As a few of you say, there are other genes they can't test for yet....

    The risk may be due to other genes, interaction of several genes...environmental factors....anything....

    Genetic counsellors say I have a 25% chance....clinical oncologist seems to think otherwise. Apparently he was taken aback by my mastectomy plans...

    The surgeon I spoke with wasnt....but he is a breast man, a gynecologist who specializes in breast surgery after cancer...but he isn't an oncologist,,,

    The genetic counsellors didn't think I was crazy either...

    I am just so baffled by the statement the very experienced oncologist made.... This "type of breast cancer isn't hereditary"... ...

    Even a familial moderate risk MAY have genetic links I thought? He's seemed so sure it wasn't hereditary....

    Even when BRCA comes back negative, the 25% chance I was given by the genetic counsellors will still be jumping out at me...

    So many medics, too many opinions or views. To make matters more complicated I am out of the uk and my mum is in uk, so doctors spread all over...

    Thanks for letting me waffle ladies.

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    alex , its good to know there is someone else in much the same boat...but sorry you are here too! You post sounded exactly how I feel. Except the mastectomy idea more that flicks through my brain. I had fully decided. Until this random spanner in the works today...

    I was hoping to get BRCA tests out of the way. I know they will be negative but just wanted to be sure, because there was a way out of mastectomy there for me - I was thinking that if I a could prove mum was BRCA positive and I am negative then that is my one chance to prove I am "safe". Without that, and in all likelihood, mum isn't BRCA, and our family cancer is due to another reason....and without being able to test for it I was heading off for mastectomy ...but then mr big oncologist gets all random and throws life changing statements about....

  • lintrollerderby
    lintrollerderby Member Posts: 483
    edited March 2014

    While BRCA mutations are rare, no one--expert or otherwise--should tell you that there's no hereditary link without so much as genetic testing. In fact, even if you had genetic testing and it came back negative, it could still be genetic because testing only gives results for what they are specifically looking for and there are most assuredly plenty of mutations that have not been identified.

    Here's the thing--it can be genetic without being due to a BRCA mutation. Testing can be done for some of the other known mutations besides BRCA. Of course, not all mutations have been identified, but there have been other known variations that are tied to elevated familial breast cancer risk. That's where a genetic counselor can come in handy because they can assess your personal risk and can also recommend other genetic testing besides BRCA (such as ATM, CHEK2, PTEN, CDH1, PALB2, and p53 among others). But, as I said in a post above: I didn't fit for a typical BRCA mutation carrier, but I certainly am. 

    Many people, oncologists included, use genetic breast cancer risk and BRCA interchangeably when they most certainly are not. I am betting that your mom's doctor is looking at two things to make his sweeping assumption: her age and the fact that her cancer is HER2+. First off, age doesn't mean anything. I'm not saying she is positive for a BRCA mutation; however, carriers of BRCA2 mutations are generally diagnosed post-menopausally. The other is that many doctors mistakenly assume that HER2+ breast cancer means there is no BRCA mutation. While it is rare, women with BRCA mutations can and do develop HER2+ breast cancer and the fact that she has that type does not preclude her having a genetic  mutation. It may very well not be a genetic abnormality, but the point I'm getting at is he certainly does not know that and for him to state otherwise in absolutes is wrong.

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited March 2014

    Well, I confess I know little about HER2 specifically, and whether or not it indicates hereditary cancer, but not all hereditary breast cancer (or ovarian cancer) are BRCA1 or 2 related. There are other potential genetic mutations, some known, and some not. There are also families like mine where the reason is NOT known (we are BRCA-), and it may be the result of a combination of genetic variants/polygenic factors, but it is clear there is a hereditary pattern. It can be a little frustrating to not have a clear answer as to WHAT the issue is in my family, and I tried searching for a while, but I have accepted the uncertainty of it and that we may never know...or maybe one day we will. I have my suspicions. But either way, I can only go with what I do know now.

    I know I have been assessed with a 40% risk from 3 seperate genetics experts. I know that in my family the breast cancer hits in a woman's 40s. I know in my family the cancers are sneaky and aggressive. And deadly. I know that while I am a risk taker in some things, I am NOT a risk taker when it comes to the breast cancer that strikes my family. I know that screening to "catch it early" failed my mother and grandmother. I know that an awareness of my risk has impacted my life and life decisions ALL through my life. I know that screening causes me anxiety. I know that I cannot do that high risk screening for, oh, 40-50 (3-4 different screenings a year!) years or until I am too sick and old for surgery anyway. I know that a PBMX does not remove all risk, but I know it removes enough risk to bring me some peace that I did all I could and won't have what ifs. I know that I am booked for a PBMX on April 24th, 2014 and my family, friends, and medical providers are overwhelmingly supportive. Even if I don't know WHAT genetics are at play, I know in my family there is a genetic risk...or we are INCREDIBLY unfortunate to have such a terrible number of sporadic cancers (or to always be in the 1 in the 1 in 8!). I can remember being in various public places...the gym, the supermarket line, and thinking....there are 20 women around me. On average, a little over 2 of us would get breast cancer (I know not necessarily 2 in THAT line, but I am playing averages here!) and I always thought right away..."I wonder who the second woman in this line would be?" as I ALWAYS felt I was one of them. That plays with your head over the years!

    I can't tell you what is right for you. Everyone has their own risk comfort, and there are different clinical guidelines (for example, I know some surgeons won't consider 25% assessed risk as "high risk", here where I am the guidelines do say 25% is high risk BUT a PBMX is more on a case-by-case basis, not "automatically" recommended as it might be for a higher risk).

    Anyway, I agree with LRD...your mom's doctor is wrong to speak in absolutes. It is very likely he is making sweeping generalizations based on assumptions or rather superficial genetics knowledge, but he certainly does not sound like a genetics expert!

  • cp418
    cp418 Member Posts: 7,079
    edited March 2014

    http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2006/02/060213091101.htm

    old article but YES there are other genetic hereditary Breast Cancer defects that are non-BRCA.

    http://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/breast-cancer


  • YoungTurkNYC
    YoungTurkNYC Member Posts: 334
    edited March 2014

    There are non-BRCA mutations out there, and new ones are discovered every year.  I do not have a BRCA mutations but there are two other women with breast cancer in my family - my mom and her aunt from her dad's side.  We all got our BC in our 40s.  After my mother discovered she had BC (and her aunt also had it), she had the BRCA testing done.  She was negative.  Since she was negative, I was told these exact words: "Your mother's cancer is not genetic, and if she does not have a BRCA mutation, you are not likely to have a BRCA mutation."  And I was really happy.  I ignored the fact that I knew that statement was wrong.  I knew there could be undiscovered mutations in our family line, and I knew the women in my family got their cancers early, and my mom's was a Stage Ia cancer but metastasized several years later.  So, ignorance was bliss.  Since I was told that a PBMX would not be recommended for me, I did not get one.  This is the only thing I regret, that I listened to so-called professionals, and not my instinct.  Now that I have a very aggressive BC (and I am also negative for BRCA), my onc said flat-out: "I have no doubt your family has an undiscovered mutation."  I will not give my daughter (who is only 9) a false sense of security about being BRCA negative.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited March 2014

    The BRCA mutations are known mutations. It is highly likely that there are other mutations that are not known and for which no test exists at present. This makes decisions very difficult for those who have a family history of bc, but test negative for BRCA. Hopefully , this will change!

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    you are all on the same page as me. Thanks girls. It's so confusing when experts give differing views....

    Maybe I should see another genetic expert for a second opinion. But it took so long to find the first team who have their opinion. Don't think there is another one nearby... I have written to them informing them of the comment made by the I oncologist (who is head of cancer research at an NHS hospital and v experienced) to see their take on it'll....

    My grandmother got bc in her 50s. My mum got bc in her 50s. It returned to my grandmother 10 years later, when she died of metastatic bc. My mums returned after 12 years. She will no doubt die of it now it is in her brain and liver and other places.

    According to the oncologist it is all "coincidence". 

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    I had done it all the right way I thought...seen the genetic experts, met with a surgeon who understood and is happy to operate ifi want. And now this comment from a super expert I am thrown. Maybe it's all a waste of time? I don't know who to believe.

    I want the mastectomy. I want to know I have done everything I can. I want to see my grand kids. My children won't remember my mum. I never knew my grandma.

    I think these days doctors may assume we all want to do an Angelina? 

    But I have been thinking of this long before she made her operation known.

    But now this comment. Confused.com

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited March 2014

    Papillon,

    When I went in for genetic testing, the genetic counsellor discussed with me not just the possibility of the BRCA genetic mutations, but some of the other less known mutations as well.  In looking at my family history of cancer, we decided to only test for the BRCA mutations because these other mutations tend to drive different types of cancer (in addition to breast cancer) and other health conditions, and my family didn't have a strong history of those other conditions.  But when my results came back negative, the counsellor was clear in explaining that while it meant that I do not have any of the known BRCA variants, there was still a possibility of a genetic connection either from BRCA variants that are yet to be discovered, or from another type of mutation (PTEN, as an example).  In fact the counsellor told me that if I wish, I could come back to be retested in the future, because undoubtably there will be more known mutations as time goes by. 

    So it was pretty clear to me that being negative on the BRCA test didn't necessarily mean that my breast cancer was not genetic. 

    The other thing to keep in mind is that even without having a genetic mutation in the family line, you could still have inherited features that increase your risk.  My mother is in her late 80s and still has very dense breasts.  I'm a few years post-menopausal now, and while my breast density appears to finally be coming down a bit, I still have very dense breasts.  Did I inherit that from my mother?  And did that possibly contribute to the development of my breast cancer and my mother's breast cancer? There is no way to ever know, but I think that's certainly possible.  We know that ER+ cancers are driven by estrogen, and that some women have more estrogen in their systems than others.  Could that be an inherited trait?  I think that there is a lot more to hereditary cancers than just the known genetic mutations. 

    Given how little we know about hereditary cancers and all the possible genetic causes, I think it's absurd for any doctor to say that a particular type of breast cancer "is not hereditary".  The known BRCA mutations tend to be HER2- and ER- but there certainly are exceptions to that rule - it doesn't take long on this board to find that out so you would think that any breast cancer oncologist or genetic specialist would know that too.  And then there are all the yet-to-be-discovered mutations that might drive a different type of breast cancer. 

    Papillon, I'm sorry that you have been getting so much confusing and conflicting information.  Your situation is difficult enough without having the 'experts' you consult be proven to not really be experts at all.

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited March 2014

    Ditto to Beesie, but will add that BRCA2 mutations are more commonly ER+ than ER-, and often BRCA2+ related breast cancers do show up post-menopause (BRCA1 mutations are more often ER-, and more often show up pre-menopause). 

    When I was tested, I also tested for PTEN, etc...all negative. Later did testing via a research program where I was found to have a few variants/single nucleotide polymophisms (SNPs) that have been "linked" to higher breast cancer risk and may work in a cumulative way but there is still little known about their impact and no clincal guidelines, so I continue on as "uninformed" . 

  • Lojo
    Lojo Member Posts: 303
    edited March 2014

    Hi papillion,

    I don't have any answers for you, but I would encourage you to get the BRCA test anyway - just to clear that up. You're probably negative. I can share my story, which is similar to yours. My mom was dx in her mid 40s (in the 1980s) and died about 8 years later  in her early 50s of metastatic breast cancer (well, congestive heart failure probably from the adriamycin, but she had mets in her bones). Her mother (my grandmother) and and sisters (two of my aunts) were fine and all lived / have lived into their late 80s (one aunt is still around at age 87). However, my mother had a first cousin on her father's side who also had premenopausal BC and died from it. And, there is also a lot of cancer on my father's side too - dad died of lung cancer in his 50s, and his sister died of "stomach" cancer in her 60s, though we suspect this might have been metastatic BC, as she'd had a lumpectomy in her early 40s. I have no sisters. My gynecologist and PCP thought I had a moderate familial risk, but thought I was probably BRCA negative. I have very few other risk factors - except not having kids until I was 30 (though I tallied up a total of 3 yrs of breastfeeding between the two kids). My ob/gyn started my mammogram screenings at age 35. I was scheduled for my first MRI when my gyn felt the lump at my annual check up (at age 41). My mammograms had been clear (and the diagnostic mammogram that was taken after the lump was felt was also clear), and the lump really only showed on MRI. 

    Long story short: I had the lump biopsied, it came back as invasive lobular. During the wait between diagnosis and surgery I had the BRCA test done to evaluate my risk and help decide surgical options. It came back negative, which didn't really surprise me. My surgeon said what many of the other comments have said - that there are genetic variants out there that haven't been discovered, but that it doesn't mean it's not hereditary (direct genetic, or possibly epigenetic factors - my mom was the youngest in her family by a decade - - a menopause baby - born when my grandmother was 46). 

    It was suggested that due to my young age (younger than when my mom had been diagnosed), the type of cancer (lobular has a slightly higher chance of contralateral) and my family history, that my risk of eventually developing cancer in the other side (which appeared healthy on the MRI) was about 15-20% lifetime (if I live another 40 years, which I certainly plan to!). It was a tough decision, but I went with the prophylactic on my healthy side, and mostly do not regret it, as I didn't think I could stand the screenings (two spots that showed on the MRI might have needed biopsy) or live with myself if it ever came back on the other side and I hadn't taken the opportunity now (and I didn't have to have my lymph nodes disturbed on that side). 

    What I do know is that I would NOT have done a prophylactic mastectomy prior to diagnosis - especially now knowing I am BRCA negative -- even given the knowledge I now have. That may seem like a crazy statement, but cancer is a crapshoot, and a mastectomy is a major, life changing surgery, and from what I've read and heard from friends, reconstruction is not a piece of cake (I haven't had recon, and my recovery has been pretty easy). I'm not saying definitely don't do the prophylactic surgery - you should think about it and come to a conclusion you're comfortable with, and I completely understand your reasoning - I saw my mother die - and I was barely out of my teens. My kids did not get to meet either of their grandparents on my side, and I definitely want to be around for their adulthoods. 

    You can also think about intensive screenings (how old are you now? have you had any biopsies yet?) that includes mammograms, ultrasounds and MRI's. You can also look into tamoxifen as a chemopreventative and see if any of the oncologists would recommend that for you. A few other things to consider - as time marches on, the treatments and screenings will get better - they are already much better than they were when your grandmother was diagnosed, and even when your mom was diagnosed the first time. 

    I wish you all the best in this difficult decision. 

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited March 2014

    Excerpt from cancer.gov...as you can see BRCA2+ is more likely to be ER/PR+, and while 87% of BRCA2 + is HER2-, this leaves 13% that are HER+:

    The phenotype for BRCA2-related tumors appears to be more heterogeneous and is less well-characterized than that of BRCA1, although they are generally positive for ER and PR.[225,267,268] A large international series of 2,392 BRCA2 mutation carriers found that only 23% of tumors arising inBRCA2 mutation carriers were ER-negative; 36% were PR-negative; 87% were HER2-negative; and 16% were triple-negative.[231] A report from Iceland found less tubule formation, more nuclear pleomorphism, and higher mitotic rates in BRCA2-related tumors than in sporadic controls; however, a single BRCA2 founder mutation (999del5) accounts for nearly all hereditary breast cancer in this population, thus limiting the generalizability of this observation.[269] A large case series from North America and Europe described a greater proportion of BRCA2-associated tumors with continuous pushing margins (a histopathologic description of a pattern of invasion), fewer tubules and lower mitotic counts.[270] Other reports suggest that BRCA2-related tumors include an excess of lobular and tubulolobular histology.[226,267] In summary, histologic characteristics associated with BRCA2mutations have been inconsistent.

    http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/genetics/breast-and-ovarian/HealthProfessional/page2

    The link also includes an excerpt on BRCA1 + related cancer pathology if interested, and a bunch of other interesting info on BRCA1/2, and even on other high penetrance mutations.


  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited March 2014

    Divecat, thanks for that info!

  • edwards750
    edwards750 Member Posts: 3,761
    edited March 2014

    Wow you guys are so knowledgeable about this topic. I have BC - IDC and my sister also has it ILC. Our mother had breast cancer in her late 60's which was in the 80's. She had a MX - no node involvement. The doctors wanted my sister to have the BRCA test and she refused. She is married with no children and in her mid-60's. We all know stats are not 100% and in fact I didn't fit the criteria for women who were at higher risk for getting BC. Obviously my mother and an aunt as well both got BC so my sister and I were at risk genetically. My Oncologist told me 70% of the BC cases were not genetically connected. My sister in law had DCIS and her mother had BC. She has 3 sisters - none of them have BC. It is really a crap shoot. We have a cancer history in our family too. I am wondering if there is such a family who doesn't anymore. Dad had lymphoma, brother had melanoma, grandfather had pancreatic cancer and then Mom and us with BC.

    I think if it were me I would not play with the percentages. I am the poster person for anxiety so to me with the projected odds against me I wouldn't play Russian roulette with what if or maybe or it could be or your case defied the odds. That totally scares me to much. I remember my OB-Gyn talking about this lady who elected to have a double MX because of cancer in her family because she wanted peace of mind. He didn't necessarily agree with that decision and in fact thought it was a bit drastic. I disagree peace of mind is more important to me than my boobs. No guarantees of course but maybe a little less anxious. Good luck you guys have tough decisions to make. Just make sure when you make them you don't second guess yourself or look back. Its your bodies and your lives. Diane

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    thanks girls. Reading your posts helps so much.

    I did already start yearly mammos with ultrasound. I am 36. However, my mum had a mammo in the 90s. 18 months later she found a huge lump that, unbeknown to her at the time, had already travelled through her body. Her fate was already sealed. So the mammo doesn't offer me much peace of mind... Who knows when that lump started....18 months before? 9 months before?..

    I just can't answer the question "why keep something I don't truely need if it just might kill me...

    The genetic person agreed that with familial risk we just don't know the causes...I could live a healthy life, avoid all toxins, run every day and still get cancer..hat I found scary, almost more so that the thoughts of knowing of a definite genetic risk....it's an unknown beastie...sneaky...

    Thanks again all xxx

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited March 2014

    edwards...

    Surprisingly, I do know families where there seems to be no cancer history. My husband's is one of them. But, then in these families you tend to have other issues too, be it heart issues, senility, etc. My husband's family members just seem to die of old age, but maybe given how much dysfunction and drama is in that family (we live far away) their trade-off is a lot of stressful years? 

    Have you ever thought about testing? Even your brother's melanoma and grandfather's pancreatic cancer can be signs of a mutation. 

    Anyway, I wanted to comment as you talked about how your OB/GYN thought a MX was a "bit drastic"....as I despise when people say that. I have only had a couple people say this to me and I look at them like they have three heads, because of COURSE it is "drastic". It is a surgical procedure that amputates what are (hopefully) healthy breasts to reduce risk. It is like they think that I have not considered the surgery thoroughly or just think of it as a minor nip & tuck. Ha, if only they knew! I did not really get into it with either of those that said this, as they are more the type who believe that disease can be prevented and cured by tinctures and mushrooms (and seem to forget that I am a very healthy, active person overall...just like my mother, grandmother, etc), and because well, honestly I do have a lot of support from family, friends, and my medical providers, so a few naysayers who do not have the same experiences or family history I do are not a big deal. Also, my impression is they aren't really that interested to hear my experience anyway...they have already made their judgment.

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    people may think its "a bit drastic"....but what we stand to lose is enormous. The biggest loss ever. I just don't see why I would gamble it..

    Love this site.

  • mkkjd60
    mkkjd60 Member Posts: 583
    edited March 2014

    Hello,  I am 54.  My mom just passed away in May at the age of 73 from bc.  She had 1 aunt with bc (my great aunt).  Other than that, no one else we know of.  Mom had the brac and bart tests and was thankfully negative.  But I know what it is like to worry about this coming for you.  I worry constantly.  I have a wonderful breast specialist who arranged for a yearly mri along with a yearly mammo.  but the stress of the testing is getting to me.  I have my yearly mri this Friday.  I'm petrified.  Just watching mom take her last breaths from that horrible disease was enough to throw me over the edge.  I have considered a pbmx also.  I just don't want to live like this.  I have had two biopsies already.  Both negative.  It sounds irrational to the doctors but they should walk a mile in our shoes.  Watch your mom writhe in pain from liver mets, become so confused she doesn't remember who her daughter is or where she lives, have her diapers changed by her family...Divecat,  can you tell me what Alloderm is?  I admire your courage with all this.  And Pap,  do what's good for you.  I feel better when I take charge of a situation and I'm sure you will feel better, no matter what you do, if you are truly and completely informed.  Blessings.

  • Lojo
    Lojo Member Posts: 303
    edited March 2014

    Hi Papillion,

    I also hate when people ask "why did you do both when you're BRCA negative" and "isn't that drastic?" and I have to explain the familial and now personal history risk factors. 

    That being said, as I sit here on the other side of this now, I can tell you fear is a powerful motivator - and it's difficult to think clearly and evaluate risk. I was terrified when diagnosed and kept having flashbacks to when my mother was dying and I was convinced it was going to happen to me too. I feel a lot better now - my mom's was in her lymph nodes when diagnosed, mine is not.  

    Would I do the same thing again? Probably, and there is peace of mind from having both of them removed, but there are days when I do sort of wish I'd only done the uni-mx and kept the other side on high surveillance and tamoxifen (which would have reduced the chances of contralateral recurrence).  And I can only imagine that I'd have similar thoughts if I'd done something completely prophylactic -- though if I had decided to do something at age 36 when I was done nursing kid #2, I suspect that the lump was already there and would have been found at mx. 

    I do regret not insisting on getting an MRI at age 36 once I'd finished nursing, as it might have been visible then and I could have had a lumpectomy. Mammograms and ultrasounds failed me in early detection. I'm nearly certain the MRI would have found it a little earlier. I was lucky in some respects as my lymph nodes were negative, I had a low oncotype, and I've avoided chemo. 

    I would strongly consider getting an MRI before you decide on surgery - for two reasons ... 1) If there is anything there, you can make plans for looking at your nodes, get an idea of the grade and other tumor characteristics, and 2) There might be nothing there.... which might affect your decision process. 

    There are two outcomes for the "nothing there" 1) There are things that pop up on the MRI but are benign on biopsy and 2) Nothing really is there. 

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited March 2014

    Divecat, 

    From your posts, it's always been very clear that you - and obviously most if not all of the others posting here - are well educated about what's involved with having a BMX (whether wholly prophylactic or partially prophylactic, for those who have BC in one breast).  But I will say that from reading this board, it's equally clear that many others who are considering or even choosing this procedure are not nearly as well educated.

    It is like they actually do think that the surgery is just a minor nip & tuck.  Often they compare it to cosmetic breast enhancement ("I know lots of people who have implants and their breasts look great!") or they think that it's just a simple surgery and everything will be over and done quickly, with few risks and side effects.  The focus too often is on the physical appearance of the breasts and not what it's really like to go through the surgeries and live a lifetime with the results.  It's bad enough to have someone who has not had BC talk about how a MX and reconstruction is a "free boob job" and how you'll end up with "the breasts of a 20 year old" but it's worse when it's someone here.  And worse still when it's someone here who is planning to have the procedure and who has made her decision in part because of what she thinks is involved, rather than learning what's really involved.  Consider all those who come here without a significant family history but who think they are high risk ("my great aunt had breast cancer") and who may have a benign condition or two ("I have fibrocystic breasts" or "I've had 3 cysts and I'm just sooo frustrated" or "My breasts get so painful before my period") and they say that they are considering having a PBMX or they ask if a PBMX would be a good idea for them. 

    Of course many women do their homework and make thoughtful, well-educated decisions.  For many women who are high risk - whether they have a known genetic mutation or not - the decision to have a PBMX is absolutely the right decision.  But the "Angelina Jolie" effect was around even before Angelina Jolie announced that she'd had her surgery, and since then, we've been seeing more and more women come through here, thinking that a PBMX is the easy solution to some minor and harmless breast issues.

    So I get it when doctors raise this issue with patients.  They should, because not everyone is as educated about this as most of the women posting in this thread.

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    my surgeon asked me if I like my breasts, he said some women may make the decision easier if they have always thought they are too big, too lop sided etc. maybe he was checking I if had really thought it through. Perhaps those women think its a cheap "boob job"? I said yes I like them, have no issues with them. they are a jolly good pair. but yes they probably need to go. I am most certainly not seeing this as an easy option. And my husband is so very on side. That's a massive help!

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited March 2014

    Beesie, 

    I do agree with you. I DO think medical providers should raise all those issues with their patients directly and honestly. I know my own breast and plastic surgeons were surprised how informed I was (they appreciated my "realistic goals", ha) but they did still seek to discuss the risks of infection, necrosis, loss of implant, that I would lose sensation, and so on to ensure I really understood what I was choosing to do and what risks came with that choice. It still surprises me how many women don't seem to realize that a mastectomy means the loss of sensation (and for many who derive it from breast stimulation, a bit part of their sexual pleasure). So, there is a lack of information there from the doctors, but also a lack of self-guided research. 

    I am a bit of a natural Negative Nelly though...I tend to have this
    curiousity that drives me to research all the potential negatives as
    well as positives of anything I do...you should have seen me when I took
    up scuba diving and was reading all sorts of dive accident analysis
    reports and telling my husband about all the ways things can go horribly
    wrong underwater for us both...but for me this actually helps me feel more prepared
    when things do go wrong. I looove diving and was not discouraged at all
    by that knowledge. It just made me aware and cautious. But, I know not
    everyone is like that and some people do need to focus almost only on
    the positive to jump in the water, or on the surgery table, or wherever
    else.

    Many of the women here on these forums in particular are dealing with a diagnosis and I can't put myself in their shoes so rarely comment on those with a cancer diagnosis making the choice, though I do feel an uncomfortable twinge when I see someone with an invasive cancer say that they are going to get an MX to prevent mets or something...because if that is the purpose, well I fear they are not properly informed and may be trading in something they would not if they were better informed. I step out a little more when it is someone without a diagnosis, though. I do feel quite horrified when I see someone look at getting a PBMX when everything seems to indicate they are at rather average risk, and think of it as a straightforward surgery, with the bonus of perkier boobs or a tummy tuck, or whatever else! I feel just on edge when someone IS high risk but thinks that a PBMX guarantees them a future without fear of breast cancer...it is surprising how much I see that actually.  PBMX can be the right choice for some, but it does have its limitations and definitely has its risks.

    I agree the AJ effect was around long before AJ made her decision public.

  • lintrollerderby
    lintrollerderby Member Posts: 483
    edited March 2014

    I second what Beesie wrote regarding how ill-informed many people are regarding mastectomy and their personal risk level. Sadly, when it comes to the subject of genetic breast cancer risk (namely as it relates to BRCA and Angelina Jolie, but the subject in general), there are so many people who have read just enough to consider themselves experts when they are anything but.

    I was hopeful immediately after AJ announced her BRCA status and mastectomies that perhaps the light that would be shone on the subject because of her celebrity would be a positive thing to come out of her unfortunate situation. Instead, almost immediately, those of us in the BRCA community came under attack from self-proclaimed experts who not only know nothing of breast cancer, but have zero knowledge of what it means to have a BRCA mutation, other genetic pre-disposition, or a truly strong family history. The small but vocal minority of people who attacked AJ and proclaimed that she just wanted a "boob job" make me sick. Those are the people who not only don't understand the genetics of her situation, but who also have taken no steps to learn more about it.

    It also irks me to no end when people assume that mastectomy is some simple procedure that is all about the cosmetic results or when someone comes here and complains like Beesie mentioned of growing tired of pre-menstrual breast pain and wants a mastectomy. Ugh. The posters who list a distant relative who had BC and now they self-identify as "high risk" or as having a "strong family history" just shows how much awareness has failed in spite of the too-numerous-to-count breast cancer campaigns. I think most of those women see mastectomy as a slightly more invasive breast augmentation procedure rather than the big deal that it actually is. I wish that were the case and it was no big deal. My daughter had her PBMX last Wednesday and it looks as if she has necrosis on the right nipple. I guess we will find out for sure tomorrow. It makes me want to scream that there are huge risks and people who think it's all for bigger, perkier boobs are woefully ignorant. There is absolutely an "Angelina Effect" and it's talked about on other sites with frustration. The new hurdles those with real reason to seek out PBMX now face because many women fail to see that PB(MX) is indeed a huge deal. In no way do I blame AJ, she was doing what she needed to do and writing about it because she felt that was the best approach; however, I get so frustrated with those who have little to no understanding of her situation but act as if they are cancer/genetics experts. I also agree that the effect was around long before AJ, she just put a well-recognized name to it is all.

    As I mentioned above, I don't have a strong family history--almost no family history actually. I just recently learned that my great-grandmother died of breast cancer in 1945, but that means almost nothing in terms of my own risk level. I put off BRCA testing for so long after diagnosis and treatment because I really did not think I'd be positive. I knew that I kept coming up on the wrong side of an unlikely statistic, so I guess I really shouldn't have been all that shocked that I'd again draw the short straw with regards to my BRCA status. These are the circumstances surrounding my BC diagnosis: 

    • I was 34
    • No family history
    • I had fibrocystic breasts which lead me to have mammograms and ultrasounds at 29 and 33 for suspicious lumps
    • Clear mammogram and ultrasound 10 months prior to finding the lump that would ultimately turn out to be cancer
    • Was given a BIRADS-3 rating by the first radiologist I was sent to for the new lump (I didn't accept this)
    • An experienced and qualified breast surgeon told me he was sure it was a fibroadenoma due to my age, the feel of the lump, and my lack of family history. Because of this, he refused to remove it and sent me to another radiologist who only reads breast imaging
    • The new radiologist gave me a BIRADS-4A rating and agreed it was likely a fibroadenoma but thought a biopsy would be wise 
    • Breast surgeon reluctantly agreed to remove it because it was painful even though he was adamant that breast cancer tumors don't hurt
    • Ultimately, I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer that is also basal-like


    My point in mentioning my history is that there are no absolutes with any of this and before I found my lump, I had no reason to think that I'd ever get breast cancer, let alone be at extremely high risk and that my daughter would need a PBMX. I didn't fit the mold for someone with an elevated risk, yet here I am and it's been a life-changing experience. So, therefore, I view those with a more evident risk level than I originally had as needing to explore their options until they feel they have an accurate picture of the role their genes play. I realize I see the world from the perspective of someone who kept getting hit with all the unlikelihoods and I try not to let that color my responses to people here. I realize that this may make me more conservative in my approach to tell people to check it out and push for answers, but my personal situation dictates such. If you have a family history and feel concerned, please, by all means, look into it until you reach your personal comfort level with regard to your risk.  

    Divecat, I am exactly the same as you when it comes to researching the potential negative outcomes in order to feel prepared. That description fits me perfectly also.

    Everyone on this thread is very well-informed and my rant does not apply to anyone who has been posting above.


  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    ". I do feel quite horrified when I see someone look at getting a PBMX when everything seems to indicate they are at rather average risk,.."

    I have lost my way in this thread, this isn't aimed at me is it?...

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited March 2014

    Papillon, speaking for my own post, and I think speaking for the others as well, NO, this isn't referring to you.  

    Sorry if I took this off track.  I picked up on Divecat's comments about a PBMX being "a bit drastic" and the warnings that doctors give to some patients.  Some patients (not referring to you) really need those warnings.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited March 2014

    AlexB, may your mother get the miracle that you are hoping for.  (((Hugs)))

  • Papillon1
    Papillon1 Member Posts: 308
    edited March 2014

    Alex, yes my mum has one sister. 70 and no bc.

    It's also on my dads side too. His paternal grandma, and dads sister had bc and my grandma (dads mum) had ovarian. 

    Thanks girls, I think last night I was feeling a little sensitive and tired and just wanted to check it ain't about me. Excuse my temporary insecurities. It's all so confusing at times. 90% of the time I am certain of what I know and want, and then there will be a comment that throws me. Like that oncologist. For a second I thought maybe there was a chance it was all untrue, maybe it really isn't hereditary at all. Then I realized he was making no sense.

    One think I do know about mastectomy is that I feel lucky I have the opportunity to act now. I get the option to take control now while I can still be in control. I feel lucky.

    I asked mum once if she would have had the op 30 years ago if she had know and she said no. Said she wouldn't have felt like a. Woman. But I think its a different generation. I don't feel my boobs define me. I think I can cope without them.

    I don't feel I want to go ahead while mum is still with us. So I am not rushing in to it. As you say Alex, its not something to decide under stress. It's been 1 year of thought so far and hopefully some time until mum isn't with us yet. We will see. 

    How are partners about it? 

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