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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014

    Got the news this morning that my mother is going into the hospital tomorrow to have some skin cancers removed from her face. She had a couple of biopsies last week and they won't tell her the results until she gets there tomorrow. Guess we all know what that means. She is 83 and an 8 year breast cancer survivor. She has said that she will never take cancer treatments again because the last ones were so bad and she really did have some terrible experiences. I'm so worried , I feel like throwing up. I'm going to spend today praying harder than I ever have. And the sage will surely be burning. I would appreciate your prayers as well. God, will this ever stop?

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited February 2014

    Rohanna, Sending healing thoughts for your Mom. I had a skin cancer on my face and they just sanded it off. Hopefully that's all she'll need.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014

    Wren, thank you so much. Did you have to wait until you had the procedure to get your biopsy results? That's the part that has me tearing my hair out. It always scares me when a doctor won't give you test results over the phone. But, I'm glad yours turned out well. I hope Mom has the same good fortune.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited February 2014

    My family doc did the biopsy, told me it was cancer, and sent me to a plastic surgeon. I have a little white scar which I cover up with taupe eye shadow if I want. I usually don't bother. It really looked like they used a dremel.

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited February 2014

    Rohanna- my sister had skin cancer twice and don't think what you got through with that is as nearly as other types of cancer treatments. My sister is also a bc survivor (she had the skin cancers before). Important to get those removed as if any of that moves, the prognosis is usually not good if it is melanoma. Hopefully the doctor will give you options if things turn out to be positive. 

    Thinking of you and hoping the trip to the doctor goes okay and things are better for you soon.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited February 2014

    RO, my derma treated my face for basal cell cancer, about a year later she cut a squamous cancer out of my arm. We knew it was cancer, office did call to say she got clean margins. Then I got bc. 

  • Rockym
    Rockym Member Posts: 1,261
    edited February 2014

    rohanna, I hope it goes well for your mom. In fact,
    I'm sure it will! My mom is almost 82 and for what it's worth, she is at
    the dermatologist almost as often as a rich kid with acne :-). She has
    had so many basal cell things burned off and she just keeps on trucking.
    I think the few she had on her face were a little more scary since it was
    well... her face. They did a great job and you can't even tell where they
    cut. I think that was last year. Basal cell cancer is nothing in
    the big scheme of things. It's not the same as breast or lung. I
    think that even squamous isn't that much of an ordeal since my mother-in-law
    had a few of those cut out. I'm crossing my fingers that it's just a snip
    and toss for her.

    I hate when our moms have to deal with medical crap. Getting old
    sucks.

  • MaryFox
    MaryFox Member Posts: 121
    edited February 2014

    Rohanna - my prayers are with you both.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014
    Thank you all so much!  The skin cancer was malignant of course and the surgery was more extensive than they thought. But it's over and they think they got it all. I gotta tell you, I was a mess and she was like,"What's the matter with you? The worst they can do is cut off half my head and I've been half out of my mind for years." Yep, that pre-surgery pain med is some kinda kickass!
    I had called a few "friends" when I was panicking and they all dismissed the fear. Then I came here and it was like pouring lidocaine on a severe burn. Thank you all for the soothing prayers and thoughts. I couldn't make it through half this shit without you. I LOVE YOU, CHEEZERS!!!





  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited February 2014

    Rohanna- good to hear you and mom are on the other side of this and they got everything removed! Hope she recovers well and that you all have a good weekend.

  • Rockym
    Rockym Member Posts: 1,261
    edited February 2014

    rohanna, Yay!  I'm so happy to hear they removed it and now you both can heal.  Our moms are tougher then we think sometimes.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Ro, hadn't checked in ----sorry you've gone through the worry and pain. You're Mom too. Glad the excision is successful. You're Mom is resilluent(sic). She's lived through allot. There's something different about 80 & 90 year olds. I've seen so many handle things so matter-of-factly --duh, lack of ability to communicate it decently. Follow her lead, one step at a time.

    You know I'm going to get nursey here, your PTSD is fipped into overdrive again. whatever you do for the PTSD peaks, put your plan into action. HUGS XOXO

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited February 2014

    I watched my mother go through so much at the end of her life and handle it with such grace. I hope I learn to go through things with more grace as I age. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014

    Thanks, everyone. Mom is doing fine. She just seems to take everything in stride. I hope I'm being half as brave as her.

    Yep, sas, the PTSD has been kicking my butt. I'm working on it.

    On the bright side, the snow was very pretty today. It didn't stick but it was fun while it lasted.

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited February 2014

    Rohanna- glad your mom is doing well and hope things with your PTSD is better soon.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014

    Much appreciated, Jazzy!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Ro hey Banti's Rule remember Sweetie.

    I know there are places in the country that have it awful bad with the weather, BUT today in the vicinity of kennedy space center-------it's stunning. Bright blue skies. Crisp air. Blowing nicely. Long pants and sweater temp. Delightful.

    I run my dogs on a back road next to a horse ranch. Schatzi --german wired haired pointer --gorgeous dog 75 lbs. I can run her off leash. I drive in the car behind her. She has the freedom dogs love. She doesn't bother the horses or the gopher tortoises. Trouble though if the pesky cat shows up. Then she dives into the woods. Dini is the lab also 75lbs. I run Dini on a leash from the car. 

    They love it. Today was special b/c of the weather. Usually they run .8 miles. Today, I let each of them run +- 2 miles. They signal when they are done by running closer to the car.  It took a long time to train them. They each run at there own pace. Usually about 10 mph. When they open up it's 19-20 mph. 

    Talk about smiling dogs :)

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited February 2014

    Sas- weather is outstanding where I live too. Sunny and mid 60s. I will do an end of the day walk before daylight goes. 

    Your dogs sounded like they had a blast, and you too!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014
  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited February 2014

    SAS, Knew someone who ran his dog on a leash from his little sports car. Someone reported him for animal abuse. He had the investigator get in the car and observe. Investigator said no case. What a good idea.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Wren, at the end of this road is the Sheriffs ranch for adolescents. I've had them follow me or pass me and be patient cuz I drive on the wrong side of the road with my flashers on. I do wear my seat belt on the off chance one of them decides to stop me someday LOL 

    I wish you could see the dogs. It thrills me each time. Shats is so trustworthy. 

    Dini , I'll never be able to leave off leash, but he was the abused dog that came with DBF in Dec 2013. Oodles of nervous behaviors. Responded in fear only. Had to teach DBF as well as Dini. Both are doing well. It's a treasure to see DBF use hand signals now and simple low voice commands. He had no clue how to train animals even though he grew up on a farm.

    Dini --Now responds to so many commands--verbal and non'verbal. He so loves to run. Part of the training is any swerve towards the car. The car is stopped and the dog put back in, no 2nd chances. He had to watch shatzi run free for about 9 months before I started training him. He learned very fast, not to break the rules. You could tell he knew he broke a rule. He kept looking at the road, but I wouldn't relent on a rule. Basically, it's b/c I could run over them.

    Schatzi comes to a honk routinely.  Some ranchers were watching one day and Shats went running towards them. I honked then a second honk , she did a running turn 180 in the air. It was amazing. All the folks involved with the two ranches always wave. :) 

    Hope I never have to stop, getting a little concerned . Some orange stakes have gone up on either side of the road. Afraid there markers for work.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited February 2014

    Sas do you run them in the summer? Is there a dog park close?

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Spookie, yes, I run them all year long. In summer it's either early or late, I pay attention to the temperature. Today was a perfect temperature. As you know Spookie the dogs love it crisp. The dog park is not monitored. Some very unruly dogs that have no manners. Owners that are clueless, and haven't got verbal control of their animals.

    Schatzi got ripped one time, 290$ to sew her up. Never went back. The vet said they had quite a few injured dogs from the dog park. Plus, showing up with parisites. Figured it was safer doing what I'm doing.

    The horses come to the fence and they nose each other. Quite a feat with Dini b/c of his history. It was an accomplishment the first time this happened :) Took work, easing him closer, and closer to the horses, a few feet at a time. Having him lay down for a few minutes until he was relaxed. Then moving a few feet more and same maneuver. 

    The funniest is when there are new calves in the field. They want to run with the dogs. It's so cute.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited February 2014

    We self police at our dog park. If a pooch is over 30# we show them the big dogs park. If somebody is aggressive, we ask them to leave. But just as with humans, some dogs just don't like each other. Spookie is afraid of some who come and wants picked up. Kris isn't crazy about 3 Basenjis that come.  

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Spookie I was so excited to have a dog park. It's huge, biggest in the county. Only had Schatzi then. But I'm serious, the owners for many of the dogs are absolutely clueless as to what proper well trained dog behaving is. That video that was posted about the dogs in the polar vortex. That was a great group of dogs. 

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited February 2014

    I've seen them at doggy fund raisers. Know exactly what you mean. That's why Spookie has a stroller now. Poor dogs, their people need a slap upside the head. But not all dog parks are like that. I wouldn't take my two if it was. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014

    sas, "had to teach DBF as well. Both are doing well." I almost fell off my chair laughing. I've always told my DD that men are like dogs. A rolled up magazine up side the head can do wonders. JK. After 3 serious dog bites, I'm now a confirmed cat lady. A friend of DD has a solid white husky that I do love to visit. We sing together. She seems to prefer AC/DC. Can't say we'll make it on The Voice, but we give it a serious effort. My big Siamese thinks he takes me for walks. He gets in front of me and serpentines me to his food bowl so I'll give him chicken treats. He has trained me well.

    Happy Valentine's Day, Everyone! Bantis rule and Cheezers kick ass! Love you all more than cake!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Ro, glad you got a laugh :) The first hand signal DBF used was supposed to be closed hand up to down. What he did was a kind of flopping circle. The dogs still laid down. I had to stifle my laugh. He's doing it better now :)  BRCKA  Banti's Rile Cheesers Kick Ass :) If we use that abbreviation people will think we are getting BRCA wrong LOL. That's fine with me I like the thought You might want to explain Banti's I think it was before spookie came and certainly before jazzy and Lovewins

    Lovewins yoo -hoo where are you?

    Rocky What up?

    Happy valentine's Day BRCKA sassy

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2014

    OK, I hope I explain this properly. Sas, help me out. A Banti is a mean little member of the chicken family that thinks it's 10 feet tall and bulletproof. They strut around the farm yard and take no @#*& from humans, animals or other fowls. When we were children, they terrorized us every time we visited my grandmother and had nightmares that they were still chasing us. This from a fowl not much bigger than a pigeon! They are quite handsome though. OK, sas, how'd I do?

    BRCKA!  (Even sounds like a Banti!)

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited February 2014

    Ro, that is a dead on description of Bantum's plural Banti's . Could add that one to Wikipedia.

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