Camisole with pockets but not shelf bra
Hello,
I've looked through much of the posts here, but haven't seen anyone mention whether they've found a camisole with pockets, but without a shelf bra. I'm 2 months post BMX and still get uncomfortable with anything around my ribcage. I have an official post-mastectomy camisole with pockets and a shelf bra, and a few regular tank tops with shelf bra and key-hole pockets which work well for exercise, but I can't stand to wear it longer than a few hours. I don't have my official protheses yet and am just using the fluffy things plus soft cups. I'm probably going to start rads soon too. I can't sew, or I'd sew my own. Does anyone know where I could purchase something like this?
Thanks
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I don't know if yours are like the ones I have, but if they are you could just cut the elastic band that stretches across the front out.
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Hi Lojo,
I've mentioned this camisole a number of times before, but I see that you're new to the forum, so probably it's way far down in the threads. I love a camisole that's made by Still You, a small company. It's called the Still You Post Surgical Tank Top, but it really looks like a classic camisole and while it's a good post-surgery garment, it's also a staple to have in your permanent wardrobe. It has pockets for unweighted or lightweight forms, which are held up by a thin elastic band, so I guess technically it's a shelf bra, but about the least you could get away with and still have pockets. I had a bilateral mastectomy in 2006 and, although I don't have pain or nerve sensitivity, I still find that tight bras and certain fabrics bother me (even when I had breasts, I hated constricting bras). The Still You camisole is made of a soft, comfortable material that always feels good against my skin.
Now for the bad part -- at $68, it's not cheap. However, I still have the original camisoles I purchased over seven years ago and they're in excellent condition. I machine wash them and dry them flat. So, although purchasing them involved an initial investment, it's been worth it for me. In fact, I've now purchased quite a few of them in all the available colors, since I don't know what I'd do if the company ever stopped making them. They truly are my go-to garment. I wear them almost every day and wouldn't wear anything else for exercise. Worn with unweighted foam forms, I find they give me a very natural-looking shape and once I position the forms in the camisole, they stay put all day. For me, wearing the Still You camisole is as close as I've come to feeling as if I'm wearing nothing at all.
I have no relationship whatsoever to the company, though I've talked to the owner on the phone a number of times and find her to be thoughtful and caring. I've recommended the camisole on my non-profit website, BreastFree.org, because it meets the criteria of being a high-quality, comfortable garment.
Hope this helps!
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On the TLC website, there is something called a radiation camisole that has pockets but no elastic or shelf bra. I used it all through radiation with great comfort, and I think it would work for your purpose. There's also some kind of really stretchy bra that I use. I don't know the name of the brand, but it is made of a almost a jersey material and has a pocket containing shields. I remove the shields and put light forms in. It is the most comfortable thing ever. It doesn't do much about securing the forms in place, so I wouldn't wear it to work or a big event. There are also some sports bras with pockets for shields that can be used this way, and they are a bit more supportive. I've gotten these bras at the Hanes outlet store in outlet malls.
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My favorite is the Amoena Valletta.They make a Camisole with a built in bra with pockets, and also a T shirt with a bra with pockets. Again, as Erica points out, not cheap. I have found a couple on Ebay at reasonable prices.
The bras inside these garments are not tight or restrictive, but as everyone is different and our sensitive spots are in different places, it may not suit you.
My big bugbear is the dreaded "Fall Forward". I hate how the normal camis and tanks are cut too far down the chest so that the weight of Silicone prosthesis will make it all fall forward if you bend over, showing an empty space right through to your waist.
I have found some higher cut camis and tanks with pockets that can hold a soft foob just like Erica mentioned. I love the Marika sports bra, which is more like a crop top with pockets which holds a soft foob and it is a really comfortable because it sits much further down on the chest well away from the incision. It is all just research and trial and error to find what suits your situation.
I spent a lot of time on Erica's site Breastfree.org, when this was all new to me, and I leaned a lot from the women who have told their stories and uploaded their pictures for others to learn from.
All the very best!
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Thank you all for the suggestions - I'll definitely try and find some of those - esp the radiation camisole without any band, though I will try the simply you one too. I've already cut the arm holes of my post-mastectomy camisole (whose arms are that small?!). I looked at Erica's site extensively pre-surgery, and it is the main reason I'm not sitting here with expanders in my chest facing radiation. I just don't want any more surgery, and my chest appearance really isn't that bad My BS was a little surprised when I said I didn't want plastic surgery, but he just blinked and said, ok, we'll give you the flattest line possible, and has been very supportive since. (I do have a little poky out corner on the cancer side as they had to get pretty close to get clean margins).
I'm thinking of getting size A cup prosthesis instead of my original B, so the difference between wearing boobs vs going flat won't be quite as noticeable (mostly so people will stop saying I look so skinny). Has anyone else done this?
Does anyone know if my scar has to pass some sort of appearance hurdle before radiation? (I have a little tiny infected spot along the scar line).
Thank you for the support. I'm feeling pretty good at this point and am glad to not need chemo.
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Hi Lojo,
Glad you're doing well. It's sounds as if you're already thinking creatively, so with some trial and error (and more healing) I hope you'll be able to find bra/camisole/breast form solutions. Really glad to hear your BS was supportive. I get messages at BreastFree.org all the time from women who aren't so fortunate.
I can relate to your idea of getting A cup breast forms. I was a B/small C cup before surgery and started out with B-sized breast forms. I've gradually moved to A or even AA size forms and feel that I could go flat without people really noticing. If you choose silicone forms, the smaller the size, the lighter the weight, so that's also a plus.
As far as the small infected area along your scar line, I assume you've checked with your BS or his nurse about ways to speed up the healing. I had radiation after my first cancer (I had a lumpectomy at the time) and, as I recall, they wanted the surgical site to be fully healed before starting radiation.
Hi Ariom,
I looked at the Valetta when it first came out but can't recall -- does it have a hook closure in the back of the shelf bra? Or is it elastic all around? I gather it's supportive enough to hold a silicone form. Is that right? I notice that it comes in clothes sizes -- i.e. U.S. sizes 8, 10, 12, etc (maybe different in Australia?). I also recall that the fitter in the mastectomy shop where I looked at it said that the cup size of even the smallest camisole, the 8, was a B. I didn't try it on because it looked too big for me and for my size 3 (A cup) breast forms.
Don't mean to hijack this thread from Lojo, but I'd appreciate any details on the Valetta as I'm thinking of adding it to my recommended camisoles list--even though it may be too large and structured for some women, others (like you) seem to love it. If I've learned anything on this journey, it's that even the best products almost never work for everyone. Thanks!
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Hello Erica!
The Valetta doesn't have a hook, it is elastic all the way around. I am a size "D" on my remaining side and the fit is very good for me. The bra inside holds a Silicone Prosthesis without a problem. It does come in sizes 8,10,12 etc and I found that going up a size at the very beginning was great for me because the cups still fitted and it was looser around the band. I also like that it is a looser fitting cami in the body. I have plenty of fitted tanks and camis, but this one skims the tummy and my favorite part, is that the slightly higher cut on the chest can be really custom fitted to your chest by the adjustable straps. It comes in a great range of colors, lovely fabric, washes well, but I do all mine by hand.
I also discovered a very cost effective way to create a very similar look by converting a Maternity Cami from Target or KMart. They are under $20.00 and by changing out the plastic clips at the front and attaching the strap to the body of the Cami and adding a piece of fabric to the Breast Sling inside, to form a pocket, or by just pinning a "softee" or a a micro bead "Foob" inside you have a really smart looking cami,for next to nothing.
You're so right about there being nothing that just suits everyone. My collection of Mx related things is growing all the time, but I have managed to find both clothing and forms to fit almost any occasion and one of the members here actually named the place where I keep all my accoutrements, the "FoobMoire". LOL
I hope this helps Erica, as I've mentioned before, your site is excellent.
I am actually going to have a revision done to remove my Dog Ear in a couple of weeks. If you feel a before and after pic may be of any help, please let me know. I am not sure how many actually have these removed. Take care!
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Very Good answers! I have found the Still You Post Surgical to be the best, even though I am 4 years from surgery now. My chest is very sensitive, I hate any elastic around me, so the Still You is the winner. I am buying one every other year, I have 2, and the older one is just as good as the newer one. No dryer for it, and I do machine wash but I put it in a lingerie bag.
I also have gone from a C to a B. So yes, you can make yourself more comfortable.
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