Here's what cheezed me off today

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  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited December 2013

    thanks sas...I have my union steward on it.  you get some rest!!! hope you feel better.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2013


    lovewins, I think the way you're being treated is a crime! I hope the people sas suggested can help you. Unfortunately, employers get away with this shit too often. Keep us updated.


    Rocky, it's so good to hear from you! You may not be cheezed, but Girl,you still got your swag! (Yeah, I've been watching too much TV!)


    Spook, here's something that'll cheer you up. Go into a crowded department store when they're playing those sugary Christmas carols and say in a really loud voice, "Now where did I put that bag with the snake I bought at the pet store?" Stand back and watch the mayhem ensue!


    new2bc, like someone with BC brain, I forgot to mention that the bras have removable pads! Thanks for mentioning that. Since I have very little breast remaining on the left side, I put both pads there and look semi-balanced. I'm so glad you found them!


    sas, I hope you're feeling better. If I lived near, we'd go out and get hammered. 'Course with pain meds it says not to mix with alcohol. But for one night, wouldn't it be great to say SCREW IT?

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited December 2013


    I always heard if in a crowded store to yell MOUSE

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2013

    Hi EVERYONE!. this is called the insomnia thread, but threads evolve. They become what the users want. Overtime I wanted to be here in the day, so I wouldn't miss the night folks. I've always loved being able to talk with the southlanders--the Aussie's and Aucklanders. ChrissyB , Alyson, and Aussie Sheila.

    Of recent times for several reasons, it has become a safe haven. Add to that I am in a period of insomnia. This will be my permanent home base. I would like to have this evolve into a 24 hour thread. It is already, but this makes it official. :) For those that didn't notice I started the thread. so, changing the modus operandi is the prerogative of the originator.  I assert the prerogative LOL.

    I have and will invite some old friends to come and join us. If you wish to invite old friends to join us here do so :) Not that you would invite a negative person, but I would like to keep the kind fabric of this thread intact.

    Discussion will flow where it will as all threads do. In a 180 pages, there has never been a fight or nastiness. This will be a happy place. I hope with lots of laughing. Please, put this in your favs and visit. Talk of things ,needs, rants as  your mood or thoughts take you. Each person here has a history of helping others.

    Threads develop pseudo family groups. Fancy way to say we become like family. This family will have all the best a family has to offer, but none of the negatives.

    I'm adding the link as I will be pm'g some old friends. Badger and I use a sign off from a previous time L&H&P's--Love & hugs & prayer' s  It says allot for an abbreviation. L&H&P's sheila

    http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/102/topic/767259?page=180#idx_5398

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    To all here, the above is from me. I sent invites to everyone here or tried to, Except then I got lost where I was on the list. On pain meds, no further explanation needed. LOL and I know you understand. So, in case you didn't get a pm. forgive me.

  • iowagirl1
    iowagirl1 Member Posts: 130
    edited December 2013

    Sorry that you work for such a sucky company with no compassion.  I hope it works out for you.

    Here's what cheezed me off this week.  My son and his girlfriend have been living off me in my house for three years and they now have a 2 year old son.  Last week I was stepping off the bottom stair into the living room when the little guy ran out in front of me and I lost my footing trying to avoid him.  I hurt both feet and was in awful pain and figured at least one was broken.  I had promised to take care of my grandson so his parents could celebrate her birthday so I didn't go to the ER until the following morn.  Broke 3 bones in 1 foot and badly sprained the other ankle.  Got  an air cast on one and a splint on the other and was on crutches.  The girlfriend was coming in from smoking outside the next morning and I asked her if she could please start my car for me but she walked on by me and went to their room.  My car should have been in the garage but it is full of their junk.  I would have kicked them out last winter but her mom was dx with stage 4 BC and she never had a dad.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2013


    Sas, thanks, now we can talk all the time! I took a pain pill at 5 this morning. We should chat after taking pain meds and record it. Bet we'd make a fortune on YouTube! My DD says I'm crazy funny after pain meds. And I'm not the rest of the time?Hmph!


    iowa, I'm so sorry you're going through this especially with ungrateful relatives. It may be hard, but think about kicking them out. You've done more than your part and it sounds like they're taking advantage. You had to wait all night in pain! And she couldn't start your car? I have found that when you help some people, instead of being grateful, they treat you with disdain so they won't feel guilty. That's when I decide their "visa" is up and it's time to deport them!


    My 36 yr. old neighbor's mom called me tonight and asked me if I would "help" her daughter get through a "rough time". After more conversation, it turns out her daughter is off her bi-polar meds and is violent. They had to remove the 2 little girls from the home. I'm 5' feet tall and still dealing with medical issues and this daughter is built like a linebacker. She's only lived there a couple of months and I hardly know her. I grew a pair and told her NO. The woman's mom is perfectly healthy and lives 4 blocks away. I told her I was already helping keep tabs on the man with Alzheimer's who lives 2 doors down after his wife broke her hip 2 days ago. She said "Well, I just thought since you're home all the time.......". I said "Yeah, on pain meds!" I think she got a little miffed. I DON'T CARE!


    After a while, we have to put ourselves first because nobody else will. I know we've been taught to be of service to others and we feel guilt if we say no. But I've figured out that a lot of parasites are banking on that and saying no now feels good. I'm sending you hugs and healing prayers.

  • nostrilb
    nostrilb Member Posts: 24
    edited December 2013


    I put a rant on here a couple weeks back, and thank everyone for their replies and support. I just wanted to share something funny, and I am sure a lot of you might be able to relate. I found a pillow-like breast form in my stuff from the hospital, so decided to wear it one day to work. (I'm only 2 fills in, 60cc, and normally just go without) In the morning I showed off my new 2 breasted form to my friend at work, and by 2pm, that thing was out and in a bag to go back home. What I learned, is while the fake one looked much nicer then mine did (it should, the other one is 35 years old), it would not stay in place! I keep ending up with a boob at my throat. I'd push it down, and shorty, it would return to it's place at my collar bone. How perky that one was. lol It was so funny, and now I know why women use the special bras.

  • iowagirl1
    iowagirl1 Member Posts: 130
    edited December 2013

    I so understand nostrilb.  A friend gave me a prosthesis that feels like it is batting filled...very lightweight.  I hardly ever wear it but stuck it in my bra one day as I was going clothes shopping.  I had a very thin turtleneck on and after being in the store for an hour or so I looked down and it had crawled out of my bra and up by my collarbone in the middle.  It looked like a third  breast.  I started laughing and pushed it back where it belonged.  This clerk saw me and I explained what had happened and she said she had seen it and just thought I had something wrong with me.  I quickly left the store.  Never again will I wear it without pinning it in.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2013

    Hi ladies hope this finds you well and happy. Popping in with a bit of research on drugs and hypertension(high blood pressure). Hope you find it useful :)  Have a blissful Christmas L&H&P's Sheila, sassy

    EXCELLENT NEWS, WILL MAKE US ALL HAPPY------------YOO_HOOOOOEVERYONE :)

    I was looking for the journal article on google re: Tylenol, NSAIDS, an Hypertension.. This is a different article. It was a synopsis of the original article Written for the lay public. It's written very well. It states what I stated about NSAIDS and tylenol.  EXCEPT that aspirin was found to NOT be a problem in older ladies, but can be a problem in younger ladies. Please, save this article for future reference. You may be able to help someone else.

    http://www.drugs.com/news/otc-pain-relievers-linked-blood-pressure-women-1517.html

    Another article written so lay people can read it. Information taken from the original journal article.

    http://www.medpagetoday.com/Cardiology/Hypertension/1555

    Original abstract that above articles were taken from. An abstract just hits the highlights of a research paper. The full article is the source for the above articles.

    http://hyper.ahajournals.org/content/46/3/500.abstract?HITS=10&andorexacttitle=and&maxtoshow=&RESULTFORMAT=1&FIRSTINDEX=0&searchid=1124292305011_1111&hits=10&title=Non%20Narcotic%20Analgesic%20Dose&journalcode=hypertensionaha&stored_search=&sortspec=relevance&search_url=http%253A%252F%252Fhyper.ahajournals.org%252Fcgi%252Fsearch&andorexacttitleabs=and&andorexactfulltext=and

    I like to read the original articles only to see if they are done according to good science. BUT they can be difficult to read b/c they get real crazy with techno speak. After reading the techno speck original article then I look for the best "human" translation. The above two sited articles are the best translations from the original journal article YAY>

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2013

    Interesting info, sas, thanks! I hope you're feeling better.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2013

    MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU CHEESERS L&H&P's sassy

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2013

    MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL ! SAFE TRAVELS, MANY LAUGHS, GOOD FOOD, AND BETTER HEALTH! LOVE YOU, CHEEZERS!

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited December 2013

    A Blessed and Peaceful Christmas to all! May your Holidays be Happy.

  • Rockym
    Rockym Member Posts: 1,261
    edited December 2013

    Happy Holidays to everyone!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2013

    Tree is put away, decorations down, and lights stored. Now to finish all those Christmas desserts. I'm such a tub!

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited December 2013

    Bring the deserts, come take my tree down, snag some beach time away from the frozen north!

  • Rockym
    Rockym Member Posts: 1,261
    edited December 2013

    I used to put up decorations for Hanukkah, but I only put up some lights around the bushes in 2011.  I skipped 2012 and did the same for 2013.  It's hard work and none of my family seems to care that much anymore.  I was feeling guilty this year and screwed some blue blubs into our front lights.  I had them in there for a couple of weeks and hated how dark the house looked.  The day after Christmas, out they came :-).  My holiday spirit is lacking.  To me this is a very lonely time of year.

    Hey Rohanna, pass the desserts.  I could use some sweets :-)

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2013

    Rockym I put up a ceramic tree and a menorah. Even though Hanukkah was at Thanksgiving, I'm so used to doing in Dec. I will take it all down Thursday.

    Happy New Year Blessings to All

    Paula

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited January 2014

    Rock. I sure understand the "I don't give a f#%k spirit thing. We only did the tree for the grands, and they haven't been here. Is this something else bc steals from us?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    This was the first time in 5 years that I was healthy enough to celebrate the holidays, so I went a little apes#*&. Actually, it was just an excuse to eat the aforementioned desserts! Now I wish you all a very happy and healthy NEW YEAR! May we all have a minimum of contact with stupid people who cheeze us off! I love you guys! Oh, and Spook, I'm in the deep south, but we had snow yesterday! I'm bringing some cheesecake and heading your way! Ice down the wine! I could use some sand in interesting places!

  • Rockym
    Rockym Member Posts: 1,261
    edited January 2014

    Yep, I am definitely dragging.  I almost wish I would be cheezed because then it would mean I have some spark in me :-).  Before cancer I was very physically fit.  I used to have a lot of stamina.  Now I am struggling.  I walked for about an hour around the neighborhood today and felt wiped out afterwords.  I've gained 10+ pounds since treatment ended in 2/2012 and I can't seem to do anything about it.  I'm only 5' 2" on a good day and this weight is dragging me down.

    I never thought menopause was going to be like this.  I remember thinking it was going to be this slow process and that I would stay fit and sharp for years.  Some say these changes are linked to being 49, but I think that's bullshit.  Before cancer I was only 46 and I do not believe that people age this fast.  Okay, off my pity party rant.

    Here's to 2014 being a better year with a stronger mind and body.  I'm not giving up!

  • flat13good
    flat13good Member Posts: 93
    edited January 2014


    Rockym  I have the same issue  I used to take the dogs for long walks 3-5 miles no problem - now I can do about 3 miles and it is really hard. That is how I knew something was wrong  my walks became shorter and harder so I started to look into why and guess what I found.............  Suprise  Suprise  that was in 2011 so I just keep on trying to get it back and hope someday it will.  Flatsy

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Hi, Flatsy! I see you're on Femera. If you don't mind my asking, can you tell me about your experience with it? I was on Tamoxifin but the SE's were too bad. I switched to Arimidex but now that's become too much too. I've asked to be switched to something else but my onc. wanted me to tough it out for another 3 months to see if the SE's went away. THEY DIDN'T! I go back in a couple of weeks and I'm going to ask to be put on something else. Just don't know what. Thanks. Anyone else on a different AI?

  • flat13good
    flat13good Member Posts: 93
    edited January 2014


    Hi Rohanna  I have issues with joint and bone pain and it can make me nausiated when I take it so I eat and apple or something and that helps.  I have had a bone density scan and they will watch how it effects me but so far I can deal with the side effects.  I also have nerve pain so I take Gabipentine (sp?) if I miss that one I have horrible pain. So I will continue with the Letrozole  and manage the side effects for now.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Thanks, Flatsie! I will let you know what my onc. says. He believes most of my pain is from fybromyalgia but I noticed a big difference when I took a break from the AI. Still pain but not as bad.

    Meanwhile, -5 degrees wind chill factor tonight. In the Deep South? Say it isn't so! I'm going to go get under my electric blanket. Stay warm everyone!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    OK, here's one for you. My ninety year old neighbor fell in her yard and broke her hip. Her DBF is just this side of senile, but he managed to call an ambulance. It was just after dawn and I was still in my bed, but I jumped up and got dressed when I heard the ambulance. I went next door to stay with the BF until his son could pick him up and to lock up the house. The EMT's and firemen kept looking at me funny but I just figured they were wondering who the hell I was. Anyway, when the dust settled and I got home, my DD asked, "Mom, did you go over dressed like that?" I couldn't figure out what was wrong with sweats until I noticed I had put my pants on backwards! Then I noticed my sweatshirt said "Dance Your Ass Off!" I realized that the emergency guys were trying to figure out if I had danced it off or if it had just moved around front! OK, laugh at me if you must, but I'm going to start a rumor that I'm a heavy drinker! Maybe people will forgive my weirdness.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited January 2014

    oh that's funny! Is everybody ok now?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Hi, Spookie! My neighbor is in a nursing facility getting physical rehab. She's a real spitfire so I fully expect her to come home but not for a while. Unfortunately, I don't think her BF will be able to come back and stay with her. Thank you so much for asking!

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 3,945
    edited January 2014

    thats so funny rohanna. and i see that rockym has been to utah! i just went there in november. beautiful! and, Rockym, also, i am 54. i was 52 when diagnosed, and very fit, and 8 years into menopause. treatment kicked my A&&! and i feel much older, but my docs try to tell me, oh, youre just getting older!!!!! WTF.?!? no. chemo etc is the accelerated program. its what we get for being so unlucky as to get the dreaded bc beastie.

  • Rockym
    Rockym Member Posts: 1,261
    edited January 2014

    Okay, so I said I wasn't giving up and I'm not!  I've started using the Calorie Count website to keep me honest.  It's been almost 2 weeks and I've taken off 3 pounds so far.  I have a feeling it's going to take at least a couple of months to get back to pre-chemo weight (PC before BC).  The next thing I did was buy the game Brain and Body Connection for Xbox.  There are lots of fun exercises for memory, mathematics, logic and coordination.  I've been practicing the games with short term memory activities since that is where chemo hit me hardest.

    I used to be able to multitask like nobody's business.  My short term memory took such a hit that it embarrasses the heck out of me.  Anyway, I'll let you all know in a few weeks if my neurons and dendrites are forming new connections.  Wait... I remember my neuropsych classes from the 1995.  Oh shit, that's long term, not short term.  :-)

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