Triple negative and wondering about chemo...
Hello,
I have an appt with my oncologist next week and wanted to get some more information prior to this. My tumor was only 3mm so my surgeon said that the oncologist is leaning toward no chemo. I am not so sure I like that. I am brca1, triple negative and have a huge family history of breast and ovarian cancer. I am 28 years old with a 4 year old and a 4 month year old and I would like to make sure that this curse is held at bay for a while. Am I wrong for wanting chemo regardless of what he recommends? Even having a small amount of chemo would put me at ease. Has anyone had a scenario similar to mine. Please help I want to make a good argument with the oncologist other than my crazy head tells me I should have chemo
Thanks
- Andrea
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Andrea,
I can't give you any help on a good argument but I can say tell you I agree with you. You have family history, you have small children, and are pretty young.
I know it sounds crazy, "I want chemo" but I hear you! My IDC was thought to be "extremely minimal" based on the Stereotactic biopsies pathology that were done but ended up being much more extensive. Even prior to surgery, my thoughts were right along what you stated, I wanted chemo no matter how small or minimal the cancer was. Cancer can spread.......that's all that I know.
However, keep in mind chemo can be a balancing act. It may be that the risks of chemo far outweigh the benefit you could receive from it. (that's what my surgeon said to be post surgery and it was food for thought).
If you don't like the answer you get, always remember you can get a 2nd opinion.
Take care and good luck!
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Lili,
Thank you for your response. I realize that they may have good reasons for me not to get chemo and I plan on taking them wholeheartedly. I just hope that my oncologist will also listen to my reasoning how unreasonable it may sound to him. Thank you for responding. Sometimes I think I am okay with this whole having cancer thing, but it is really nice to hear from other women in the same boat. Good luck to you as we'll. Xoxo -
Hi Annie,
I had 2 tumors 25mm and 27mm and have been having chemo, I was thinking the opposite - I don't want chemo, listen to your gut instinct and I agree on getting a second opinion if you feel. After the research I've been doing (and I regret googling so much as the scare factor is pretty strong) I'm pretty happy to be having it now and I would have been an idiot to have said no.
All the best on your journey hun!!
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I, too, had a 3mm tumor (plus numerous microinvasions) when the final pathology was done after a MX for what was thought to be only DCIS. I am triple negative. Unlike you, however, I have no family history and was over 50 at diagnosis. It was felt my chance of being BRCA positive was so low that testing was not recommended. I was treated at what many consider to be the number 1 or 2 comprehensive cancer center in the nation.
The protocol is no chemo for a tumor under 6mm and my MO said no chemo. Like you I was fearful about this because I wanted to smash this thing at the outset. When my MO took my case to the weekly case review, the oncology staff was split with some MOs saying that due to TN and multiple microinvasions, I should be offered a series of CMF treatments, although none said I had to do chemo -- only that it should be offered to me. Other MOs said absolutely no on chemo, with one even saying that treating me with chemo would only be treating my mind by making me feel less fearful.
At this point I sought out second opinions. I saw an MO whom I know to be very aggressive with adjuvant therapy when he thinks it is necessary, and he said no to chemo and that he would make the same recommendation for his wife, daughter, etc. He said the benefits were too small for the side effects. He was most concerned about chemo brain.
I saw one additional MO -- a world famous breast MO in Europe. He said I did not need chemo but he too was willing to do CMF as extra insurance. He said for TN he lowers the threshold. He says 5mm is a must do for chemo and at 4mm he highly recommends it. So, according to him, I was 1mm away from needing chemo.
I tell you all this because at 3 mm and triple megative we are in a real gray area. Since no doctor said I needed to do chemo, I ultimately decided not to do it, which my primary MO says was "absolutely the right decision". The decision was agonizing for me, however.
For you, I think it would be wise to get a couple of additional opinions. Every case is different and your young age, family history and BRCA status may cause some MOs to recommend chemo despite the tiny 3 mm tumor.
I wish you the very best as you consider your options. -
I have also been very recently diagnosed with triple negative. Oddly, my primary care doctor went through treatment at MD Anderson and was also triple negative.
My primary care doctor was adamant that I get into the oncologist ASAP...its good to have MD advocates. I will start chemo next week with the same drugs that she had at MD Anderson. Dr. G (the oncologist) went to chemo first thing. He seems to be the go-to guy here and very highly rated.
Everyone seems to agree that having chemo for this type is important and preferably done before surgery. Apparently they want to know if the particular chemo cocktail shrinks the tumor like they want it to. Dr. H (my primary care) says that when you have the correct chemo mix your prognosis is even better. And if it does not shrink the tumor fast enough, they know to alter the drug therapy to get the correct bullet for the target so to speak. Having the tumor still in must give them a test subject.
One thing Dr. H did say was to NOT read about triple negative online because it will scare the crap out of you...which we don't need. So far I have not looked...but my type A personality is tempted.
GET A SECOND OPINION if your gut tells you this is wrong. What's the worst that could happen? Doctors generally are not threatened by a 2nd opinion and if your is maybe he or she is a putz. (That's Yiddish for A-hole.)
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Andrea, I am 68, have had surgery and started chemo 10 days ago and I have triple negative breast cancer.The tumor was only 6mm and my surgeon said I did not need chemo. From all I read, and I read tons on the disease, every single one said that no matter what the size of the tumor, we need chemo. I am only having 4 treatments of taxotere/cytoxan three weeks apart. They started with an intermediate dose and will increase the strength with each successive one. I went to an oncologist on my own and talked to him. He said that if I were his own mother, he would not tell me to not do chemo because if I had a recurrence in the next year or two, which is typical with TNBC, the I would say that I wished I had had chemo and he would agree. He sent me to a specialist in Indianapolis, Indiana, who called him and told him what she and her colleagues recommended. He said that after thinking about it, he agreed with us because there is no 5-year medication for us to take like with positive BC. I will have radiation after the chemo ends on Nov. 4. I think we have to stand up and fight for what we feel is right for us. There were several reasons I wanted chemo. First, all articles said chemo and radiation are all we have to fight it and if it comes back, it is typically resistent to chemo. Second, When the surgeon removed my lymph nodes, he reported that he only removed two, the sentinel and the next one, but pathology said the tissue had no nodes; it was only adepose tissue. My question was then: If you didn't find my nodes (they said they were very deep and if they accessed them, it would leave my whole side numb down to my wist) than how do you know cancer isn't in the nodes no one saw? The MO said, "We don't." Third: My tumor was the most aggressive: 9 on the Nottingham scale and grade 3. It was invasive ductal carcinoma when found by the mammogram, so how long before we found it was it invasive and did it have a chance to get in my bloodstream, even though the margins were clear at surgery. The MO said yes, it could have gotten into the blood stream.So, after all is said and done, my medical oncologist agreed that no matter what the size of the tumor, if it is TNBC, YOU NEED AT LEAST SOME CHEMO. My chemo is said to be intermediate grade, which is not the weakest and not the strongest. I had a few side effects, but nothing uncontrolable. I hope this helps a little. God bless you honey. I will pray that you will be able to make the right decision for you. Maybe change doctors. If you are a believing person, pray for God to lead you to the right person.
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The final decision that made me certin that I wanted chemo was the thought that kept recurring in my head: Chemo could cause side effects worse than the benefit it would give. My brain, as old an rusty as it is, after much prayer said, "I would rather have a permanent side effect than for my family to have a funeral in a year or two." My MO agreed. They treat so many patients, I think you have to stop them and make them think by going back until someone listens to you. I feel at peace with my decision and I believe God led me to do the right thing. God bless you again.
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Every MO I consulted said that a TN tumor of 6mm or more needs chemo. No exceptions. However, 3mm is a different story. Such a tumor is only 1/2 the size where chemo is mandatory. Additionally, no MO offered or even considered giving me the more dangerous taxanes that can cause serious long term side effects. The most they would consider was CMF. My breast surgeon was against chemo reminding me it can cause leukemia. A second breast surgeon also told me no chemo. Both my primary MO and a second MO said they are finding more and more that chemo brain is a real and troubling long term side effect and that as a professional woman needing sharp and logical thinking, I should not do chemo. My point is that 3mm really is a grey area for chemo, whereas 6mm is not.
I sought out the best experts I could find on both sides of the Atlantic. I am at peace with my decision. I did, however, change my lifestyle. I reduced my fat, sugar and dairy intake and started exercising regularly. I have lost 60 pounds and now have a normal BMI. Research indicates these lifestyle changes will help reduce the risk of recurrence. And with no negative side effects. -
Jane, congrats on what must have been a very tough decision. You did your homework, are an informed patient, and at peace with your decision. A healthy way to be!
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