I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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thank you c4c
GOD BLESS THE ONION

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Older material here, but still quite interesting to me.
Jackie
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Glenna_E - Congratulations on your boring news. I hope you treat yourself to something to celebrate!
crazy4carrots - I loved that grammar article! Did you have to diagram sentences in school? I hated it, but it sure did help. They don't teach that anymore. I was a K-12 substitute teacher. We are dumbing down completely here in the US. It's embarrassing to interact with foreign nationals who have a better command of the English language than many born here. They may have accents, but they know the difference between "your" and "you're."
Syria. That is one huge mess. I am almost 100% non-interventionist. If we "punish" Assad for gassing ~1500 people, how many will die as a result of the strike? "Collateral Damage" is a guilt-free way of saying, "We killed innocent people."
I wrote my Congressman and Obama. I just had to get it out of my system. Ugh.
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I'm so conflicted on Syria. Could Assad aspire to a Hitler type action. When Hitler began expanding his base the US resisted getting involved. Is that part of the world moving in that kind of direction where one or more tyrants thinks they can take over the world.
It would be wonderful if the worlds nations would collectively decide to stand up against the evil be fomented by the few megalomaniacs of the world.
I just don't know what should be done but nothing seems wrong. -
Chicky, I think you nailed it. The world's nations need to unite in stopping Assad, and all vicious tyrants. The U.S. alone cannot police everybody.
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I do NOT want the US to do anything alone - and for sure and certain, not before the UN inspectors issue their report. I don't give a rip about how great their (the US) intelligence is. It can be wrong. It was before. It's easy to say, that it was wrong because that administration pushed it to be wrong (and I personally believe that is true), but wrong is wrong. If we didn't learn ANYTHING else from the Iraq war, I would have hoped that we learned not be so @#$%^ pushy.
I've heard some people say that they don't want to see Russia or China take over the role of policing either. I agree. It should not be ANY one nation. That's what the United Nations was supposed to be about. If it doesn't do that job, the job it was designed to do, then it shouldn't exist.
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This is our new Prime Minister after the counting of votes tonight. He is right - both sides are bad.
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He's cute and SWEET!

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what a great picture. It makes me smile. (I mean the ducks... or are they chicks? and kitty

OK - I'm going to rant a bit - if you're not in the mood, just turn away...

I listened to a VERY interesting talk today concerning security in our society. I'd like to note that this talk was led by some people quite high in DHS, and much of it I cannot talk about. However, what was discussed the most were the fact that critical thinking has basically disappeared and that there is no discourse or reasoned debate any longer in our country. This is of real concern. People "tune into" the things they agree with. They don't ever (or at most, rarely) hear opposing viewpoints, and so in the course of their discussions with others, when there is disagreement - each "side" (having never heard a differing opinion for the most part) will simply consider the other person to be stupid. There is no conversation. Rather than speaking with an acquaintance or colleague people today have the tendency to speak to the other person.
That, unfortunately, brings me to my frustration with BCO. First, I'll say I'm not going to leave (unless this posting gets me kicked off), but I do not like the fact that we have all agreed to not ever disagree. Don't like, don't read will keep the peace, but it will not, in the long run, do anything to help resolve or even address the lives we all live that are not just Breast Cancer. Don't get me wrong - I like peace and quiet. I like conversing with like minded people. But just sticking in my comfort zone doesn't really feel like a good thing.
I think of Rodney King and his famous "Can't we all just get along?" line. Well, the answer is and always will be - uh, no. We can't. We aren't built that way. But we can disagree without being disagreeable. Each "side" has said the other side is rude - and, though I may not want to see it when I am the one being rude - I should be able to hear someone tell me that - stop and think - and see what I have said (or typed) from another point of view. AND I would expect those on the other "side" to do the same.
I don't like what I see happening to my country. I don't like the pettiness, the bitterness, the anger. I don't see any good coming from the attitude that only "my" side is right, that only I (and others who agree with me) have the right answers. Cuz, ya know something? We don't. Our country has worked, and worked well, for a couple hundred years based not on agreement, but on disagreement. The founding fathers, for the most part, didn't give a flying fig about religion - but they put a lot of thought into governing. Good government - government by the people and for the people is by and for ALL people, not just the ones we agree with. That means there MUST be discussion. There must be REASONED discourse. There must be critical thinking.
What is the matter with us that we cannot - even on a discussion board such as this - have discussion without name calling. I think we have become a sorry excuse for a country - especially a country that claims the high horse so often. OK. I'm done. Like I say, I'll be back, but I'm feeling pretty blue about things right now.
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I agree GG, but there cannot be discourse because there are hurt feelings in the mix. My skin is thick but some others not so much. There is pettiness but there is also danger. I have been following the Chief Mark Kessler saga and to be quite frank, that guy scares the crap out of me. He's a nut with a gun and a following!
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Blue, that was actually part of the discussion today. Part of the problem is that technology, while bringing us together has also driven us apart. Instead of seeing people as real, and someone not so different from us, computers have made us just words on a page.
We dont watch the same things, and even if we do, we don't watch at the same time. We are losing our commonality and therefore our community.
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Something to ponder about.....I have almost always tried to keep an open mind.....but I guess I see it as a deep rift some time back, and in many cases it has little to do with any ONE group here. I also have to say that most divides are of a strong political nature so in order to get truly meaningful.....there would have to be a whole lot less extremism. I can't really see that happening, at least any time soon.
Yes, we should each be able to have a view point, but as well......there again, we are divided by many, many things. At my age, truth is, even with what I feel is huge flexibility on a whole lot of things, I won't change much. It may be tiresome for us now.....to know there is much dis-agreement, but just be able to say so and not get beat to pieces over it, I really don't see much changing.
it seems if you dis-agree enough -- unless you are already a really good friend, you may not really get so very far....albeit, polite where ever it is that you do get to.
Well, I think I likely stopped making any sense some time back.
Jackie

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Found this in my quote box the monring. I looked at the date on it andd thought it interesting for a number of reasons. Have to admit Barney Frank is one of the people I feel has good strong commom sense.
The issue is not that morals be applied to public policy, it's that conservatives bring public policy to spheres of our lives where it should not enter.
Barney Frank, 2005Jackie
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If one wants to look at both sides of an issue in a convenient format try Real Clear Politics. The site itself is right leaning but it presents opinions from all. The science section is wonderful. The polls were fascinating during the election. http://www.realclearpolitics.com/
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notself, that is something that I have read in the past and it can offer clarifications. Just this morning I read what I am putting in here and it is how muddy and difficult things can be. No wonder it is hard to agree on things.
Daily Meme: The Stupidest Things Said on Syria This Week
It's been quite a week for talking about Syria, which means that politicians and pundits have taken advantage, as they always do, of the ample opportunity to say the wrong thing.
Senator John McCain gets a special award for saying so many conflicting and confusing things about his position on the airstrikes and the resolution that would authorize them that Congress will consider next week.
However, McCain did get to earn back some brownie points after slamming the remarks of someone prone to far stupider statements than him, Brian Kilmeade. The Fox News host expressed reticence to support rebels yelling "Allahu Akbar." To which the senator was like (and we paraphrase), Yeah, shut up.
New York Representative Michael Grim supported the airstrike earlier this week. And then he didn't. And then he decided it would be a good idea to try and fundraise off of his opposition to Obama.
Several legislators have seized the opportunity to try and bring back their favorite topic, impeachment! Too bad their knowledge of the Constitution is a bit fuzzy.
McCain also joined in the impeachment fun.
Another representative got to bring up another crowd favorite, the Ronald Reagan reference. Unfortunately, their deployment of the WWRRD card, like most deployments of the WWRRD card, was a bit ... wrong.
It's not just politicians who've garbled their words on Syria. Fashion designer Kenneth Cole sent the unfortunate tweet, "Boots on the ground' or not, let's not forget about sandals, pumps and loafers. #Footwear"
Nick Taranto, Goldman Sachs bro, wrote a column in the Huffington Post about his meeting with Syrian President Bashar al-Assad in 2008. Gawker sums up his argument thusly, "Holy fucking shit! Assad was awesome. DUDE."
Not all of the things said about Syria this week were stupid. There were a fair share of odd statements though. At McCain's town hall in Arizona today, one constituent held up a bag of marshmallows and told the senator, "This is what I think of Congress. They are a bunch of marshmallows. That's what they are. That's what they've become."
Plenty of other constituents have done gloriously in making stupid and sweeping statements about foreign policy department.
In the end, The Onion headline, "Poll: Majority Of Americans Approve Of Sending Congress To Syria" doesn't sound too far from the truth.
Jackie
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An eye-opening new documentary about Pat Robertson now showing at the Toronto International Film Festival:
Death, diamonds and greed. A charismatic US businessman pursues an irresistible opportunity during one of the worst humanitarian crises of modern times.Televangelist, multi-millionaire, and leader of the religious right, Pat Robertson is a man on a mission. During an escalating refugee crisis in the Democratic Republic of Congo, Robertson took to the airwaves of the Christian Broadcasting Network to raise money for his charity Operation Blessing International. He attracted millions of dollars in donations for relief projects in the Congo. Later, he deemed the mission a success, broadcasting footage of himself being warmly embraced by children in refugee camps.
With Mission Congo, filmmakers David Turner and Lara Zizic conduct a deep investigation based on years of research into what Operation Blessing actually accomplished. They interview aid workers, eyewitnesses and even the pilots of Robertson's airplanes who describe a different mission: diamonds. With the help of a brutal dictator and ex- Navy SEALS, Robertson was diverting his planes away from refugee camps to a different part of the Congo to extract precious gems. If the devil is in the details, here the details are jaw-dropping as we confront the disconnect between what Robertson promised and what others experienced.
The filmmakers draw strongly upon the reporting of Bill Sizemore, a journalist for The Virginian-Pilot. His dogged perseverance reminds us of the valuable role played by local newspapers at a time when they're rapidly disappearing. The film raises larger questions over the billions of dollars raised by American religious institutions that go untaxed and unregulated. Robertson's organization alone earns annual revenues in the hundreds of millions. If this story can bring about greater accountability, that would truly be a blessing.
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Saw Obama on the news talking about the 2000 people killed by gas in Syria - sorry - what about the 100,000 killed before them?
Great news - we have a new Prime Minister as expected. Now he has a huge job ahead to get rid of the debt left by the other mob.
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This is getting very tiresome. I just wish the GOP could understand that they seemed to have really done themselves in and are huddling in a little corner....all due to the T Partiers. I read another article that said how good it looked to "invite" them to join in with the GOP, and just look at things now. That is why this ignorance continues on.....and the American people continue to have to pay for the GOP to do nothing. Truly, truly sad.
http://www.addictinginfo.org/2013/08/22/game-of-thrones-politics-republicans-attempt-to-oust-obama/
Jackie
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Suzieq....hope the new PM will be able to forge ahead and get things cleaned up. So hard when people can't have confidence in their elected officials....hope A's is back soon.
Jackie
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Maybe we should consider.........
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This "touching" story of a new GOP Congresswoman and the very early birth of her daughter was featured on This Week today. The daughter was born without kidneys and under-developed lungs caused by a shortage of amniotic fluid. The baby suffered from Potters Syndrome, considered fatal, until now....
In a September press release, Rep Herrera Beutler announced that Abigail was getting healthier. "I'm pleased to report that her doctors are happy with her progress and optimistic about her future," Herrera Beutler said in a press release. "Dan and I continue learning how to manage her day-to-day care while she gets healthier and overcomes her health challenges." She added that she would have to spend a lot of personal time taking care of her daughter, who is expected to be the first person in medical history to survive Potter's syndrome, but is hoping to return to the House Floor for key votes.
The multi-million dollar medical costs for these admittedly "experimental procedures" for Abigail, who will later require a kidney transplant along with lifelong immuno-suppressant drugs, is being covered by Medicare and the mother's congressional medical coverage. Despite this, Herrera Beutler has not changed her views on healthcare reform affecting others.
So, let's see. My tax dollars, millions of them, went to save this one baby's life. Isn't this one of the complaints of those who rail against Obamacare or food stamps or welfare or any thing that "gives" money for health and welfare reasons, to those who can't afford it themselves? Wouldn't this Congresswoman technically be a "freeloader" in their eyes? Can someone explain away this apparent hypocrisy to me?
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All I can say is I'm glad the baby was saved.
This guy is NUTS!
"Chief" Mark Kessler
ONLY III% WILL DEFEND , FIGHT, AND DIE FOR OUR COUNTRY, as the rest of you communist call us, lunatics, nuts, scary, ect ect!! well I have a message for the rest, when the III % STAND, and say today is the day, today we say enough, today we stand united and we are willing to fight, sacrifice and die for our country, the rest of you cowards better remember , when the smoke clears, and it will, you scum communists are no longer welcome in our country!


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He's scary NUTS!
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He's extremely scary and as well one of the biggest reasons why we don't need assault weapons in the hands of ordinary people. So many of them are not ordinary at all. They are lunatics in the 'guise' of ordinary people and the damage they do can easily become irreparable.
Kam, I too am very glad the baby lived, but still tired to the nth. degree about the number of Congressional freeloaders who cannot seem to draw the comparisons needed to offer the same hope of health and food on the table to the very people who maker her and her job possible.........so that she can suck up the great resources.
Jackie
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A bit of a long piece but an interesting read on the NRA and name and info collecting that they do:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/stevefriess/how-the-nra-built-a-massive-secret-database-of-gun-owners
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