Starting Chemo June 2013!?!?!

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  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    So I may need to schedule on Weds?..hard to say I know. I am not sure that I am going to get to start this week. Friday, I started dripping (fast drip) fluid from incision site..huge drama at 5 am!!..I went to surgeon and is also infection..had temp by that afternoon.chills, whole 9 yards..he has me on 2000 mgs antibioitcs..I search online and think I have seroma..Its still dripping ..not as bad as first morning..but have to change gauze/washrag 7-8 times a day-the site said can delay chemo..but can take from 1 mth to 1 year to resolve.sigghh..not sure if chemo holding due to infection or fluid leaking or both..am calling my oncologist tomorrow.  I tell you has been one thing after another..just want to get on with chemo and back to work..every time I start back to work..Im right back in surgery /pain something...sorry frustration~

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited June 2013

    Rain, use plastic utensils and will help with the metallic taste.  Also, I sprinkle my coffee with cinnamon, tastes much better.  You can mix the grounds with cinnamon before brewing, but hubby makes coffee before I get up and I found it works to sprinkle.  Yogurt is another suggestion for constipation.

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Netter/Rain-Plastic utensils I think great idea. Not only for the metallic taste..I went and bought plastic forks, etc..paper plates, and plastic cups..I was scared that I read you have to be very careful the first 48 hours that people living with you do not get the chemo in them and to make sure you washed seperately, etc..I just went out and bought that and told him when the time came not to touch them..I'll use and throw away.  I read one post someone said that the metallic taste was so bad she couldn't bear to put fork in her mouth.

  • TeeDills2013
    TeeDills2013 Member Posts: 11
    edited June 2013

    CKMoss - I started T/C chemo on May 15 and have been off work since then. I start back to work Monday. My chemo day is Wednesday, and although things are different for everyone, for me I have felt ok on Thursday and Friday, so I am hoping to work as many hours on those days after treatment as I can. I am lucky my boss is flexible. 

    Maureen - I get red-faced on Chemo day, I've been told it is from the steroids in my IV.

    Tina

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited June 2013

    ckmoss- You may need to call your BS and update him on the situation and have him check it this week.  As for the chemo, you may not be released from the BS to start the chemo.  The fact that you have an infection, your white blood cells along with the antibotics are doing their best to get fight the infection.  i don't think that your onco would risk sending your white blood count down further with the chemo right now.  Do your best to eat healthy and rest while you continue to recover from your surgery and infection.  Also it is a good idea to talk to your onco and let him/her know the current situation with your healing from surgery.  Wishing you the best and get well soon!!!!

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Thanks to both for advice!  This infection has me feeling like Im recovering from the flu..on top of pain from port! I will def do that. I honestly don't think I can take chemo at this point.  The fatigue I am feeling is incredible.

  • semate
    semate Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2013

    Hello I just had a double mastectomy June 4 and I should be seeing the oncologist for the first time this coming week. I am very scared and not sure what to expect. I am scared, sad, lonely. This is a very tough time and I have read so many encouraging stories, but  my feelings have not changed. I am 37 single mother and the fear of not being around for my son is killing me.

  • rachel22
    rachel22 Member Posts: 54
    edited June 2013

    Hi Ladies. I start chemo tomorrow. Getting very anxious but I'm ready to get started. So much great info on this site, which is really helpful. I hope you're all enjoying your weekend :)

  • flaviarose
    flaviarose Member Posts: 442
    edited June 2013

    Thanks for asking, Oceanwarrior.   I'm doing better.  48 hours of vomiting wasn't fun, but today I'm keeping a little food down and the headache is manageable.  They said the aloxi probably did it and won't use it next time, they also switched from Zofran to Compazine.... so, holding my own.  This sure sucks.  I hope the worse is over.

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited June 2013

    Ckmoss, make sure to eat a high protein diet. It will help with healing.



    To the new warriors, sorry You joined this battle, you are in the right place to start your strategy, make your battle plan and fight the good fight. The people here are so supportive and will have your back.

    Wishing you all the best.

    Pat

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Pattysmiles-Thats great advice, I didn't think of!..I have some protein powder and Im thinking now Ill go make some sort of smoothie with it.

    Semate-I know its overwhelming at first..just take one day at a time..seriously..it'll make you crazy if you don't. One thing that helped me tremendously was when I first started I was in the May 2013 surgeries under "Surgeries, before during and after". I just looked for you, there is one for June. The ladies in there were with me every step of the way right after my surgery..and some had theres after, so I was able to help some as well. I, honestly, got a lot more help from them on some things then I did my nurses, doctors, etc. I use to peek in the chemo sites but would quickly go out as would scare me..like I said one day at a time and baby steps..kinda lets you accept one thing..then go on to the next thing..My oncologist says you eat an elephant one bite at a time.   Either way, my prayers are with you and you will find support all over this website..(When I first came on site, I messed up and got in stage 4 site..posted on..and received such support from some really nice ladies..)so no matter where you are this is a great place for support.


  • puppymama09
    puppymama09 Member Posts: 77
    edited June 2013

    I have a question, I will be starting chemo in July, I have been keeping up with all of you to see how it is going.  The last few days I have been in bed with a bad cold, which is very irritating since my feeling good time this summer is limited already.  But I have been reading about all the encouragement to walk and get some exercise while going through chemo.  I have had every intention of doing that, but here I am in bed with a cold and the thought of walking and exercising or doing anything at all is overwhelming, I feel like crap.  I'm not sure what to ask, but is chemo a different feeling than normal sick.  If I can't make my self exercise now how will I be able to do it during chemo?  

     Hang in there everyone, my thoughts and prayers are with you all, you have all been a big help to me already!

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited June 2013

    puppymama09- Sorry to hear that you have a cold.  Yes, you do need to rest and eat well so you can get better.  Surgery takes a toll on one's body so it maybe a little easier to catch a cold.  As soon as your cold gets better, you need to get up and move.  What that meant to me was get off the couch or out of the bed and walk around the house.  As you gain your strength, you start walking outside to the end of the block and then increase the walking time to around the block.  As for the not so good post chemo feeling, you may feel like you just got hit by a virus.  You may want to lay low and stay in bed and rest for a few days but then once you start feeling a little better, it's time to get up and get moving.  As for walking, shopping counts as exercise.  I used to go walking at a nearby mall or Super Target so I could stay cool in the air conditioning, get some shopping done and get exercise.  I was careful when I was out and about and avoided sick people and little kids. The exercise will help with the fatigue and tiredness from the chemo since the exercise helps stimulate the body to produce new blood cells.  Right now, focus on getting over your cold.  Get well soon!!!!  Yes, you can get through the chemo and you will!!!!

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited June 2013

    Flavia,  I am very sorry to hear how sick you have been.  I was in the hospital  for 3 days because of the vomiting, dry heaves and body ache.  When I got home then terrible gas pains and diarrhea.  So take care of yourself.  Seems like the tummy gets upset and it takes a bit for it to settle.  Compazine worked better for me also.  10 days til my next visit and I am hoping for some changes.  Be sure to tell onco everything as that is how they know something different needs to be done.  Praying for you!!!!!!!

  • SherryMarshall
    SherryMarshall Member Posts: 39
    edited June 2013

    Hi all,

    I start chemo (T/C) on Thursday. I have not really stressed because of this website. There are so many strong women on here, that it is uplifting. My sisters are reading these posts, so now they feel better about what I am going through.

    I have started my journal and packed my bag, just like I read to do on here. All of you are my inspiration! Thank you!

    Sherry😷

  • Sweetie1972
    Sweetie1972 Member Posts: 84
    edited June 2013

    Day 1 and 2 after chemo was not too bad slight nausea tiny headache. Went to work both days. Pretty tired today. Going tomorrow for neulesta (spelling) shot and chest xray. I'm taking the next three days off of work to rest.

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited June 2013

    Trm,

    Good, most people feel mininal effects on day of and next day or two. Glad you joined that crowd.

    Personally I had minor effectss of some throat pain, a little bit of dry mouth (used biotene after each meal,snack) and fatigue...napped for two days, one of those days A LOT! Next rou d I made sure to get up and walk more and do more to try and ward off the fatigue, was still tired, still napped for two days, but not as long a nap.



    Did you look up on taking Claritan 24 the day of Neulasta and next 7 days? It can help to ward off the bone pain associated with Neulasta shot. I asked my MO and she had never heard of it, but said I could try it. She also said very few people get the bone pain and "it's not that bad". I'm all for prevention of pain if possible, so have used it. Thankfully no pain to speak of. Something to consider asking MO about, call ahead before the shot if you can and take prior to it, usually the morning of the shot. Just a thought.



    Pat





  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited June 2013

    Sherry,

    I am so happy that you have supportive sisters. It is not an "easy" journey, but with the knowledge gained here it sure makes it easier! I can't imagine the pre-Internet days how those folks did it. There is such great info here and knowledge to be gained all over the web.

    Supportive sisters are a BONUS!

    God Bless!

    Pat

  • Tasharka
    Tasharka Member Posts: 16
    edited June 2013

    Started having pain in my neck and shoulders tonight. Wonder if it is from the Neulasta shot?

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Good Morning All!

    Tasharka-I am so sorry that you are in pain.  I haven't started chemo yet (Thurs) so can't answer your question..but I send well wishes your way that pain goes soon.

    Patty-You are so right about the knowledge on this website.  Since having my surgery in May this whole website has been the most help ever. After reading post in chemo, I have asked my oncologist (who is out of Sloan-Kettering no less) and the RN that will be giving chemo about cold caps and icing fingers and toes..Neither had heard about cold caps and icing fingers, etc..RN had not heard of nor had seen anyone do (has been there 12 years) and oncologist looked amused and said he thought that would poss cause nerve damage.  Spartanburg is not a small town..is classified as a city..pretty normal size I guess...but so behind in things is unreal.  The infusion nurse said that since I was only (only!) having 4 rounds, I shouldn't have to worry about finger and toe nails.  What do you think?  I'm not concerned with cold caps..looks like a lot of trouble and expense. I've got a really great wig...dead on match for my natural hair color and looks like Ive had a $500.00 haircut and high lights..since I've been in my 40's my hair has thinned a good bit, so looking forward to this better hair Im suppose to get at end of chemo

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Rachel-Good Luck with your chemo today. 

    Flaviarose-I hope you are feeling better! The part I am dreading is getting nausea...nothing can lay me down like my stomach!

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited June 2013

    Ok so day 4 of first chemo and I feeling more nauseated than prior days. Trying to get out of my house for work but not sure if I can. Senakot works well for the non poopers. The more water the better you feel. Hang tough beautiful ladies we will all get through this...

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    DIM425-I'm sending well wishes and prayers your way that nausea lessens and you are able to get through work.  It looks like there is not standard for days it hits..

  • puppymama09
    puppymama09 Member Posts: 77
    edited June 2013

    Melrose,  Thanks so much for the ecncouragement.  I did feel better after reading your message, I had been imagining trying to walk a couple miles or doing some of my Zumba dvds and I just didn't see how that was possible.   Finally feeling a little relief from my cold.  

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited June 2013

    puppymama09-  Glad to hear you are feeling a little better.  Maybe a cup of hot lemonade with honey will help you feel better.  You take good care of yourself, hydrate, rest, eat healthy and just be easy on yourself.  Listen to your body.  You will find out that you don't have to be "Super Duper Woman"  24/7 here; just Superwoman will do!!!!!!  Keep us posted on how you are feeling.....

  • VAL1966
    VAL1966 Member Posts: 37
    edited June 2013

    Good luck to everyone starting chemo this week or getting getting chemo this week! Sending every one good vibes and hugs and wishing you all SE free treatment !! I'm 12 days post 1st chemo and feeling great!! Have a great week everyone and keep smiling !! We can get through this together 😃

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Puppymama-(love your user name!)..I hope you feel better! That cup of hot lemonade with honey sounds interesting!..and very comforting.

    *Oncologist RN called this morning, pushing backing chemo ..yet again..I just changed on my profile and thought they keep on  I won't make this June board!  I hope so, because I like it in here with ya'll. (Its amazing some boards you fit well in and some you really don't). Anyway, RN said as you did Melrose and another lady on my surgery board, that they would have to be totally sure that infection in MX site was clear and needed to check in ref to this fluid still happening. I changed my surgeon date from next Monday to fup for this Weds..I have blisters at the end of every single steri strip..again..and BURNING/ITCHING at times..I've actually put lidocaine on it when neosporin didnt work. Anyway, was suppose to start clinical trial, so that to is being pushed out..(chemo fog thing)..because they have to have blood

  • puppymama09
    puppymama09 Member Posts: 77
    edited June 2013

    Melrose, I am currently having a cup of green tea with lemon and honey, it is very helpful Smile thanks

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited June 2013

    Lovely Ladies Who Are Having Their Chemo Start Dates Pushed Back-  You just need to stay here and don't move to another chemo thread.  It doesn't matter when you start your chemo---- why?----- it just doesn't matter at all.  You have made friends here and there are no rules or requirements that you must move to another thread because of the change in your start date. 

    ckmoss-  Glad you posted an update of your situation.  It is possible to be allergic to those steri-strips and any other kind of adnesive which may be causing the blistering.  I'm allergic to bandaid adhesives and iodine surgical scrub.  Of course, I found out the hard way--- post surgery.   BTW- What clinical trial are you starting?

    Wishing everyone an easy time in the Big Girl Chair (aka BGC) this week and minimal side effects.  Just remember you are all beautiful not matter what.....

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited June 2013

    Ckmoss,

    just based on the descriptions of neuropathy on these boards I am icing to avoid getting neuropathy. I figured it can't hurt to try. I honestly think the doctors should get ideas from these boards and share! :)

    Pat

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