Starting Chemo June 2013!?!?!

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Alibeths
Alibeths Member Posts: 656

ANYONE????  Let's start a forum, for support!!  Im only 35 and SCARED!

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  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited May 2013

    Thanks for starting the June thread Alibeths!

    Just stopping in to provide some more helpful links, starting with the main Breastcancer.org site's section on Chemotherapy, including what to expect, types of chemo meds, and side effect management.

    There are some really helpful key threads here in the Chemo forum too!

    Great tips and practical advice on the following discussion board threads:

    Also, Last Month's Chemo thread might be informative!

    Hope you find this helpful!

    --Your Mods

  • lstewart51
    lstewart51 Member Posts: 43
    edited May 2013

    I'm starting chemo June 4 every two weeks 16 treatments. Having port put in next Friday so scared as well.

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    Do you know what your treatments are?

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited May 2013

    Glad to see you started this forum.  My 1st treatment is June 5.  Getting nervous.  Guess it is the unknown and you don't know what your se's are going to be and how you will handle them.  I have made an appointment to get my finger and toe nails shellaced on June 4.  Have heard that it keeps them from coming off.  Also made an appointment to get my head buzzed June 12.  Going to start Brian Josephs on my eyebrows and eyelashes next week.  This is supposed to help keep them.  As you can see, I need to be prepared, lol.  Guess that is why I am nervous, just don't know what to expect, exactly!!!!

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    What is Brian Joseph's for eyebrows???? Great idea with the nails. I didn't know that was allowed!!! You re.do them every few weeks??

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited May 2013

    Brian Joseph is for women going through chemo.  This is the web site.  http://brianjosephs.com/cgi-bin/Agora/agora.cgi?cart_id=&product=PersonalCare

    Also a web site for shellac and chemo.  http://www.salongeek.com/nail-geek/201254-shellac-while-having-chemo.html

    Hope this helps.

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    Thank you!!!!! I'm going to check it out!

  • lstewart51
    lstewart51 Member Posts: 43
    edited May 2013

    I will be having 4 treatments of AC and 4 treatments of T then surgery then 6 weeks radiation

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited May 2013

    Hello I'm going second opinion on Wed need to start chemo I refused ACT 8 treatment 4 months and choosing CMF for 8 treatments for 6 months. I am petrified I don't know how I'm not going to have a complete anxiety attached I have them just thinking of putting this poisons in by body.

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited May 2013

    dlm425, We are all frightened. I am putting my trust in MO, ( I really like her) and in the Lord.  It is nice to be able to voice your feelings on here because we all understand.  The closer it gets to my 1st day, (June 5), the more worried I get.  Hubby is tired of hearing about it and I am glad to be able to talk to all of you.

  • Bren58
    Bren58 Member Posts: 1,048
    edited May 2013

    I started chemo 6 months ago and finished 10 weeks ago. I did TCH every 3 weeks for 6 tx's. I have to tell you that it was not as bad as I had it made out to be in my mind. Before I started I was convinced that I would have every side effect and reaction known to mankind, but the reality was the actual infusion day was boring and uneventful, just really long. The anticipation of the unknown is what is really hard.

    Yes there will be difficult days.You will probably lose your hair, have constipation and/or diarrhea issues and taste changes, but you can get through this. Remember to drink lots of water, especially for several days following treatment. It helps to flush the toxins out of your body. If you have nausea, contact your MO! There are so many anti-nausea meds out there that no one should have to suffer that SE. 

    I found it helpful to keep a notebook that I wrote down my symptoms and the times I took meds each day. I also iced my hands and feet during the taxotere portion of TX and had no nail issues and very little neuropathy. It also helps to suck on ice chips to help prevent mouth sores. If you do get mouth sores ask your MO for Majic Mouthmouth, it works wonders! I also did the Brian Joseph lash and brow gel. My lashes and brows did thin, but I never completely lost them.

    Remember that the ladies on these boards are here to help and encourage you. There are no stupid questions. If you are wondering about something, you can be sure that others are too.

    Best of luck to all you. You will get through this and find that you are stronger than you think you are!

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    DLM---why change chemo??

  • kaydeesmiles
    kaydeesmiles Member Posts: 209
    edited May 2013

    Hello all...

    starting four rounds of t-c on June 3. Terrified. But hoping I can hold it together and get through with as few se's as possible.

    Thanks so much for starting this thread and for all of you being here.

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited May 2013

    Alibeth I'm not changing chemo I was giving a choice ACT; CMF or tamoxefin for 5 years all three have different % ACT reduces reoccurance to 11% CMF 13% and tamoxefin to 23% I choose CMF because I'm not comfortable with aridenmyicin is very toxic all chemos are my body is so sensitive.to.medications I.wasnnot going to do chemo but my husband died 11 years ago from leukemia and my daughter told me not to be selfish Bc I was refusing treatment so I chose the less aggressive one







  • EricaB
    EricaB Member Posts: 4
    edited May 2013

    Hi!! I'm starting chemo June 24. I'm 34 years old. So scared!!!!!!! I am doing ACT for 5 months, followed by herceptin and tamoxifen. I have a 5 year old and worried abt keeping things normal. My fiancé and mom will be helping me thru the whole journey. But I still want to be able to take care of my daughter. I want to Take and pick her up from camp this summer. I'm hoping for the best but expecting the worse. From what I hear, chemo is not what it use to be.

  • Sweetie1972
    Sweetie1972 Member Posts: 84
    edited May 2013

    Hi everyone

    Did anyone get the oncotype dx score done? I scored a 10 and mo said I didn't need chemo but if I wanted it he would give it to me. I'm only 40 and I don't want any regrets if I don't get chemo so I've decided to have it! I think I need to do everything possible for my four children even if it is only giving me an extra 2%. I will be calling my mo on Tuesday so should be starting chemo soon.

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    I didn't. I don't know why I wouldn't?

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    Also... How about ports?? Everyone getting them and where??

  • Lgfoster
    Lgfoster Member Posts: 9
    edited May 2013

    I thought I had posted but can't seem to find it. I have IDC 2.6 cm tumor, ER / PR +, HER-, grade 3, 1/25 lymph node but lymph node over 2 cm. forgot to ask stage but I believe it is 2. Starting chemo May 29, 2013. Had PICC line put in Friday. Getting FEC for first three treatments then D for next three. This will be followed by radiation and hormone treatment. Nervous about treatments and how I will react to it. Hopefully I will be one of the lucky ones and not experience too many side effects. I at least am retired.

    Feel for young ones that have to deal with this. It is good to hear from others who are going or have gone through chemo.

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited May 2013

    My onco score is 20. Will decide by friday

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited May 2013

    I have a port on my right side of my chest.  Cancer was in the left breast.  Have had it since April 1.  Because of insurance problems couldn't start until June.  Had it flushed 1st of May.  No problem.  The port will be used any time blood is drawn and that will be nice as my veins collapse and I need several sticks.  I have an Onco report but don't know the score.  It was high enough that I need chemo.

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited May 2013

    lgfoster,  go to the top of the page, click on your profile and you can fill in all that you want to about your cancer.

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited May 2013

    Hey netted why do you have to dx one on 2/14 and one on 3/17 and why do u need chemo?

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited May 2013

    I meant netter

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited May 2013

    My first dx was IDC and when dr did the lumpectomy, another cancer showed in the path report.  2nd dx was when DCIS was removed.  I need chemo because the onco # was high and showed that recurrence is likely.

  • fab1
    fab1 Member Posts: 70
    edited May 2013

    Hi

    I'm starting chemotherapy in June and am terrified of is to come. I am desperately seeking others I can connect with to share my fears and experiences with along with conquests. How are you coping? I'm 43 years old.

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2013

    IM COPING, BUT FEEL LIKE THIS IS CONSUMING ME!!!!!  WHAT TREATMENT WILL YOU BE DOING? IM 35 WITH A 3 YEAR OLD.....

  • fab1
    fab1 Member Posts: 70
    edited May 2013

    Hi I too am due to have chemotherapy in June and like you im terrified. Perhaps we could share our fears, experience and conquest of this illness.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2013

    I thought I'd chime in here to help calm your nerves a bit Ladies.



    I finished chemo on May 17th. I had 4 of Adria/cytoxan every three weeks, followed by 12 weekly Taxol.



    The not knowing is actually worse than chemo itself. I'd like to give you some tips on protecting your mouth, skin, etc.



    1.) PROTECTING MOUTH FROM SORES: Mix 1 TBS baking soda/1TBS salt/1 quart water. Rinse your mouth several times a day. I did it everytime I went to the bathroom. Just rinse for about 30 seconds then spit.



    2.) PROTECTING MOUTH FROM THRUSH: Take acidophilus, and or eat a yogurt everyday. Thrush is a yeast infection much like a vaginal yeast infection you get from taking antibiotics.



    I did both of these things and had absolutely NO mouth problems at all.



    3.) PROTECTING SKIN: moisturizer daily using your favorite skin lotion or cream. I love Udderly Smooth, but use what you like.



    4:) HYDRATE...HYDRATE...HYDRATE



    5:) Keep stool softeners and diarrhea meds on hand. Depending on your system it can go either way. I took a stool softener everyday, but took them twice daily on the 2 days following AC. When I was getting Taxol I needed the anti diarrhea meds, but not everyday. Your body will let you know.



    6.) Try to eat lots of protein to keep your Red Blood Counts up. Beans, peanutbutter, nuts, meats, chicken, fish, etc.



    7.) HYDRATE...HYDRATE...HYDRATE



    8.) Keep tissues handy because loss of nasal hairs cause the sinuses to drip.



    9.) Take a book, friend, iPad, cell phone, or some other entertainment to chemo. You may be there for a few hours.



    10.) Ask your oncologist any questions you have. Don't be shy. That's why they're there. Sometimes it helps to take a list with you.



    11.) Don't be shy about asking family or friends for help...rides to chemo, household chores, meal prep. Child care, etc. they probably want to help, but aren't sure what to do. Most will be happy if tell them what you need.



    12.) HAIR!!! It's sad to say, but I don't know of any BC chemo that doesn't cause hair loss. Mine was long & auburn. I hated losing my hair more than my breast, but it was much easier than I thought.

    The night before my first chemo I got a pixie cut. ( hair starts to go about 14 days out of first tx) Three weeks late, the night before second chemo I had my son buzz it. I never did shave it. It isn't necessary. I preferred cutting & buzzing over seeing all those long strands fall out little by little.



    I got a nice wig and wore it 1 time to church the Sunday after I buzzed my hair. I hated it! So I wear hats, scarves, and Tee shirt wraps. ( if anyone wants, I'll post the site for doing a Tee shirt wrap.



    13.) PROTECTING FEET & FINGERS FROM NEUROPATHY: If you're getting one of the taxanes such as Taxol or Taxetere...Take vitamin B6 100mg 2X daily. Also go to a vitamin store and get L-Glutamine to be taken 30 grams per day. You'll never get enough of the L-Glut by taking pills.

    Mix 10 or 15 grams in a tiny bit of juice. I used a shot glass. 10 grams is 2 heaping teaspoonsful. It's very easy to drink and works very well. My onc approved it.



    Do this 2-3 times a day. Just make sure to get the whole 30 grams in. Some doctors suggest twice daily. Some suggest three times. Whatever works for you.



    If I can answer any more questions, please ask on here or PM me.



    Blessings

    Paula

  • sharon1953-
    sharon1953- Member Posts: 36
    edited May 2013

    I will be starting chemo near the end of June.  I appreciate all the wonderful tips.  Why do some people get a port and others do not?  I am dreading the fatigue more than anything.  I am two weeks out of surgery(bilateral mastectomy) and it is taking a while to get my energy back.

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