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  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2013

    thanks Phyllis

  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2013

    How do I add an avatar? 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2013

    Stupidboob, it's in My Profile and Settings.

  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2013

    thanks Phyllis.............now I just have to find a way to resize......:)

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2013

    I'm on my tablet so I can't see all of the features to upload. Sorry I'm too lazy to fire up the desktop. I suck.

  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2013

    I totally understand............when it comes to the computer I am not that smart with all the sizing things and our computer has a mind of its own

  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2013
  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited April 2013

    Belated birthday wishes to jenjen, Phylis and Wasingtonwoman.



    Mags - wonderful to hear everything is going well this time.



    Karie, Jenn230 and Sunny-Welcome. Sad you've had to join us but the support and advice on here are wonderful.



    Cocker - I'm right in that litter box with you.



    Minxie - I'm so happy to hear everything went so well this time.



    Bak - congrats on the 2 year anniversary.



    Stupidboob - could you schooch over on the seat a little bit, it appears we will be sharing this ride again.



    I went to my new MO last Wed with the CAT my Primary had ordered (taken 5 days after RO told me to relax, everything looked fine). MO wasn't overly concerned, but they hadn't had radiology look at the disc. (Thanks for wasting my time). Got a call the next day, radiologist very concerned and tumor markers up. Do not pass go, do not collect $200, immediate trip to PET scan land. Have a lymph node deep in the axillary pectoral wall that lit up like a Chinese firecracker. (Also two smaller nodes that didn't uptake, but they feel are CA. ). I still have to have a CT guided biopsy (apparently it is so deep it's gonna be a real bitch to get to) then after confirmation they'll discuss Tx with me. Already told me to start planning for chemo etc.



    It's been a very hard month. I've managed to keep this a secret so far from Mom. (She doesn't need to worry any sooner than needed) Also from my friends except for one. When it's confirmed and I know the plans, then I'll tell everyone. I think having to tell everyone is almost worse than getting the news.



    I'm really discouraged and sad tonight, but coming here has reminded me I'm not alone. I'm a little overwhelmed right now. I have to figure out how to make sure I can continue to provide Mom's care and I still have my home with a patch in the roof and and insurance company that's been dicking around for 6 mo now. Too many battles to fight and not enough energy. My girlfriend has found a wonderful therapist for me to talk with, but I'm not sure if I have time to fit a nervous breakdown into my schedule right now. ;-)

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2013

    Kathy and SB, is there room on the bench for me? I saw the surgeon today to schedule the new port placement. Got home and had a sobby, blubbering phone call with my best friend. I so do not want to do this again.



    Kathy, I'm sorry you're feeling overwhelmed. How could you not?



    Right now my eyelids are irritated from crying and that always makes me crabby. I'm a mess.



    I hope tomorrow looks better for all of us.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited April 2013

    *slides over a bit*. Of course there's room Phyllis. Don't forget to fasten your seatbelt. *leans over, whispers to Superboob, we did tell her it's a roller coaster didn't we???*

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited April 2013

    Kathy - I'm thinking of you and hoping for a gentle but effective treatment.  Hugs to you, Phyllis and Superboob!

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited April 2013

    Oh dear ladies, I am so sad to hear all of this news.  I pray for strength for all of you having to do "it" all over again.  Wishing all of you minimal SE and results that kick BC to the curb for good.

  • natL12
    natL12 Member Posts: 135
    edited April 2013

    Once through the chemo routine should be enough!  My thoughts are with you, Kathynm and Phyllis...and any others of this group who are facing another round of therapy. 

    My sister found out last month that she had lung cancer...but her MO is not hurrying to get her into radiation or chemo.  I don't know why not...and (this doesn't come naturally to me) I'm keeping my mouth shut.  They'll make the best decisions together for her, and I'll try to be there for support.

  • natL12
    natL12 Member Posts: 135
    edited April 2013

    Just changed my picture ... have hair again, no longer medium length brown, but 1" greay and white.  Trivial, but important to me.  Nat 

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited April 2013

    Congratulations, Nat!  My hair is growing in, but it's a strange pattern so I am wearing hats for now.  I'll be glad when I can shed it.

  • DorMac
    DorMac Member Posts: 155
    edited April 2013

    Sending hugs and prayers to all those ladies on the bench and those going through treatments or SE's now. Once is more than enough! Hoping that you will all be able to get through it with minimal SE's and will be done with it!

    Doreen

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited April 2013

    Oh dear god ladies so many with recurrence.  I'm praying for you all. I am so sick of this train and what it does to all my friends on here. I had to take a break before I went crazy with the what ifs.  Just when you think things will be okay something else turns up. 

    Kathy you will work things out for your mum you are always so organised.  What was your tumour markers, how much did they go up. My last one was higher than the previous one too so I'm keeping my fingers crossed.  Will this never end for us.

    Warm hugs and prayers to everyone.

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited April 2013

    Kath I see you never fail to have a sense of humour.  Have missed it greatly lately.

  • SherylB
    SherylB Member Posts: 450
    edited April 2013

    stupidboob,

    so sorry that you have to go through this again. Prayers for you.

    Hugs, Sheryl

  • SherylB
    SherylB Member Posts: 450
    edited April 2013

    Phyllis, Kathy, Stupidboob,

    My heart goes out to you all. Once should be enough and I am praying for good treatment and minimal SEs. Hang tough. Sheryl

  • Karietkq
    Karietkq Member Posts: 15
    edited April 2013

    Yikes! So sorry to hear about all the reoccurrences! I have a question though..... I still have one of my drains from my mastectomy 2 1/2 weeks ago and I have to get my port put in on Tuesday so the dr said drain has to come out Monday..... It is still draining a lot! (120 ml a day) any suggestions to reduce the fluid? I am drinking so much water I must know where every bathroom is in town.... Lol

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited April 2013

    Karie.....Stop drinking so much water!.  After my BMX I was so frustrated with the final drain.  It just didn't want to slow down.  When my PS asked about my fluid intake, it made me realize that I had water with me ALL the time.  She told me to cut back on the fluids and just take it easy.  Just sit and relax.    The drainage slowed way down and the drain came out in a few days.  Good Luck with your port. 

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited April 2013

    An article just posted about Omega-3 being very beneficial for TNBC.

    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/259069.php

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited April 2013

    An article just posted about Omega-3 being very beneficial for TNBC.

    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/259069.php

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2013

    GREAT...just started taking it this week  LOL

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited April 2013

    I'm increasing my dose!  LOL I add 2 tablespoons into smoothie every AM, but will also try to eat more fish. I'm googling the Mediterranean Diet now.  I think the only issue with it is, the amount of fat grams in a Mediterranean Diet, but I'll limit the nuts involved.  :)

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2013

    I wish I had been taking the pills for years now...I HATE salmon or any oily fish.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2013

    But they are good fats!

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 1,344
    edited April 2013

    I've been catching up on all the posts - HUGS to all going through this crap again.  Cancer SUCKS.

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited April 2013

    You may want to run this by your MO as I was under the impression that omega's have antioxidant properties and may contravene chemo. I plan on incorporating this as soon as chemo is done! Thanks for article, anything to keep us healthy!

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