The Hermit Club
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blondie--sad to hear you're having a rough time. Hugs your way... Hope you can feel better. Frustrating w/dr. Sometimes it feels like we're all a bit held hostage by dr whims and moods.
Jazzy, Teka--I envy your swimming. I love the water, but sink like a rock. Never learned to swim... Dd2 lifeguarded, dh did water rescues, and dd1 has been snorkeling. I am the only wader in the family. But--I admire those who swim. Seems like a great exercise for all over...
Camille--Joey sounds like a great guy! Love his attitude and willingness to be himself. (Hmm... Just like his grandmother?)
markat--proud of you for making a difference. Those kids need you. It's so important for each of them to have someone care and notice. So many go ignored.
dog update--decided to call him Cooper (after Sheldon)... He's super smart but socially awkward. Completely headstrong and convinced he's right about everything. DH has decided to build a fence for him so my spring break has turned into a construction zone and giant dog training. (feels like he's training me.) And, of course, there's a neglected pile of papers waiting to be graded. (my being lazy and having no concentration for any given time span...)
Have a good Thursday.
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I went to school & college for 20 1/2 years. Burnt out!!
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I had a lot of nausea during chemo - not really strong, just persistant. By number 3 or 4, I was getting emend during the chemo and zofram and compazine for a little over a week afterwards. I would suddenly feel tons better on day 9 and stop taking the meds. I swear the anti-nausea meds were making me feel drugged and lethargic though so I was always really happy to be rid of them. The steroids didn't really affect me much at all other than raise my blood sugar up into the 200s.
I'm doing well right now except for my left foot. The peeling and blistering has moved from my toes and side of my foot down to the bottom which is making it really painful to walk. The toe area is looking a lot better at least. I may have the chemo nurses look at it (MO already saw it and said it didn't look infected) next week when I go in for my herceptin treatment. I've also got an appt for a MUGA scan next week as well but I won't bother them about my foot. Bleh, I hate going in for scans. I'm going to have to step up the water drinking this weekend so I will be well hydrated. That seems to make my uncooperative veins a little easier to deal with.
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Teka--lots of school--wow.
Jinkala make sure u drink some water right before they tak blood even that heps.
We all get the same amount but at different intervals and I ot mine every week so it wasn't as strong--and I was still sick for like 3 days ten start over--so i don't know what is best.Whtever it still all stinks.
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Teka, wow you have to be much smarter than me, good for you could never do all that...Jink...what cam said...
thanks guys just checking in....went to sleep at 430am and slept til 930, ate breakfast...am fading now, have to eat lunch or something and then will lay down...can't drink water makes me nauseous, and can't smell or taste, so water is nothing to me...still trying something that will fullfil me, drink me and choc. milk....have tried lots of things....ativan will try that have it....
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Blondie I don't like water and that's all I drink now.--But I drink propel, mostly lemon but some berry and peach--those are the only ones I like--but there are other vitamin waters with some flavor no calories and now I findly found what I can drink and even if u drink reg. water have loads of ice and maybe a slice of lemon or lime to give it a boost. That might help u. Now I'm hooked on propel and everyone knows it so when someone comes over they bring propel or cigs for me. Yes I still smoke--I'm stupid but another addiction that I can't conquer. Anyway try flavored water and see how that goes.
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thanks Cam...trying to figure it out, and it isn't that I don't like it it makes me nauseous...no explaination about smoking, I get it...
will try it....anything to get something to drink...
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blondie, I couldn't drink much water either. What worked for me was gatorade. I shuttered to think of all the sugar, but I could handle it and it kept me hydrated. All during chemo I could not drink filtered water like I usually do. I had to buy distilled water, it was the only water that I could drink for 5 months. Broth based soups are a good idea. Watermelon and canaloupe have high water content. I ate tons of them during tx. Hope you feel better soon.
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One thing I learned going throug Chemo was NOT to drink from plastic cups - something about them changed water for me - once I figured that out and just drank from a glass it was all good with water or whatever - lemon in the water was also good.
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Hi hermits: It has been a tough work week and I had one of those days yesterday, where I felt I should just walk away from this contract I signed up for. But alas, I calmed myself down and made it through the week. TGIF!
Going to start my Arimidex tonight. I am a bit bummed out as my recent bone density test indicates some osteopinia in my femurs. Must be since last year when I had my last one pre-menopause. I had hoped to go into this being more in the normal state, although it sounds like my spine is in the normal range. I am ensuring I am doing calcium and Vitamin D, and going to be working on more weight bearing exercise now that I am back to the gym. I know the meds can make the bone stuff worse, so I have my concerns.
Swimming was great and I am going back for more tonight!
I hope everybody is surviving the week too! Spring is busting out all over and my weeping cherry is starting to bloom!
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Although chilly & spitting snow, we went for michigan hamburgs & hot dogs at a local michigan stand.
I would love an Easter vacation in New Mexico.
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Hi Teka- you would like it here today, except for the high winds we have today. Very typical of spring in NM!
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We had snow last night!--and with everything in bloom. sigh.
Jazzy... one thing I had to learn from arimidex se's was (via my surgeon) that the calcium and d3 are vital, but so is taking a magnesium supplement. It has really helped a lot, but then everyone's different. Here's hoping you have an easy ride on that roller coaster. Proud of you for persisting through the week.
Blondie... hope you're able to find a solution for hydration. Grapes can be refreshing.
Happy weekend! Teka, glad you enjoyed your michigan stand. There are none here.
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CAM bought propel today, now remember I can't taste, and hate gatoraid, I am so picky!!!
plastic cups, or water bottles, hhhhhmmmmm
skittle, grapes, good idea...
that is what I love about everybody and this site....
Happy Friday!!
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Jazzy good thing u made it--now really relax the next ouple of days.
I'm sorry but my memory is crap--cvmarilyn ave u been here before and I missed it? I'm sorry I don't remember.
Blondie here's hoping u find u'r fountain of hydration.
Teka that sounds like a yummy place to go right now especially.
I hope everyone has a great weekend, weather wise too.
Oh and Jazzy good luck with yet another piece to this puzzle and little r better no SE's--keep us posted
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checkig in, yay in for the rest of the day I think.....
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Blondie u'r so cute
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well thanks!!
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Hi ladies- really windy here today and dust everywhere. I hate the feeling of the grit in my teeth!
I started the Arimidex last night. The pharm said to take it before bed as sometimes it makes you dizzy (oh yay). I felt a little light headed before bed, but nothing bad. But I woke up a couple hours into sleep with some weird bone pains. I know bone pain is one of the SEs. I joined a thread for Arimidex users too and it seems everyone is different with these meds. Some have little SE's, others really suffer. I hope to be ablet to adjust.
Going to take a nap now. Wishing all you hermits a peaceful rest of the day!
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Hey everyone. I went out with a couple of the teachers and specialists after work yesterday and had a couple margaritas. DH picked me up so I thought, hey why not? Teachers know how to party lol. Let's just say I've definitely felt better haha.
Hanging out with them really makes me want to go back to school. Really really want to go back. I was a speech language pathologist major before I had to quit under the pressure of driving back and forth, paying for childcare, and worrying if I would make it in to the masters program. Very competitive field! So much to think about.
I hope all are well. We are supposed to get a huge snowstorm tomorrow. Hugs!! -
Jazzy hope you have a good night...
Mark...I am so glad that you had a good time, you do whatever it is that makes you feel whole.....good luck with your thought provess.
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Markat-why not go back to school, maybe not right away but when you are ready? I think so much of this makes us ask the question "what else do I want to do?" It can push us forward to move towards the thing we really want to be doing. If it feels right, move towards this your own space and time!
Love that you got out for margaritas too. We have to try to enjoy things as we can around all this other stuff.
Blondie- I hope you are feeling better from the chemo.
Cami- hope you are having a good day!
Teka- hope you are not getting any more winter your way. I went to school for a long time too.
Skittle, Jinjala, Bobo, Bgirl, Curves, FL Warrior and everyone else out there, hope you are doing okay.
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Topic: Disappointed About Being Shooed Off the Stage lV Boards
I find it sad when some members send negative private posts.
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Thanks ladies! Jazzy, I'll look in to it for sure. Me finishing now would be better than later. I was joking with my girls that we could all dorm together in college lol. DH and my youngest thought it was a great idea Hahaha. The 9yo rolled her eyes.
Teka I rarely even look at active topics anymore. I love our little cave here. All are welcome. Usuallyif they play nice.
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Hi - I am new to this group - but I love being a Hermit! I think what this has done for me is to make me more upfront - is that one word???? I just feel like if I can't say something now - then when? Oh - this is so off topic - but I bought myself a jewelry cleaner - like I have sooooooooo much jewelry - anyway... I have my wedding ring and another ring from DH and it was cheap off Amazon - it makes such a difference - who knew? I feel like I'm newly engaged!!! It's the little things - right? I live in the San Francisco area and it was beautiful today - and life felt good. Happy Sunday tomorrow~
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Welcome!
Sweet Dreams.
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Hi cvmarilyn welcome--I hope u enjoy it here the ladies here are so nice.
Markat I love that idea, and u should stick to it. There are so many possibilities open for u and if that's what u want go for it. Try and get a job at a college and u can go for free. Just a thought.
Teka those stage IV posts can be tough, I don't go on them I just go on a few now and mostly are fun, of course we talk about cancer, but that's not the main topic. LOL
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Welcome cvmarilyn.
Teka, I looked for the thread you mentioned just after you wrote the post last night and I couldn't find it?? I have only been on a stage IV thread once and it was to try to find out about a girl on my sx thread who had sx the same day as me. A few months later she was dx mets to lungs. I had not seen her post in a while and someone told me she had passed and I wanted to see for myself. (I just read, did not post.) At the time, we weren't even a year out from sx. It was true and I was very sad. However, I believe she died of a broken heart not from bc. She had lost her husband to cancer and was not coping. They were both so young. May they rest in peace side by side.
Markat, what a wonderful career! I was a Rehab Therapy Tech and worked with all 3 disciplines; Speech Therapy, Physical Therapy and Occupational Therapy. I knew 3 SLPs and they all were so passionate about their chosen field. They were the kindest, most caring people! Really a joy to work with. I loved that job and really miss it!!! It is the one where the tech positions were eliminated by the therapy company back in Nov, because of Obamacare-Medicare cuts. There will always be a need for SLPs and many avenues for work. When the time is right, you will know, and I wish you great success!!
Jazzy, I have been to the Santa Fe area several time and really, really liked it! Are you close to there?
Hello and Happy Sunday to all Hermits!
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Fl so sorry to hear about u'r friend--it's always sad.
See Markat FL said it better than I did, but it's all good. and knowing u for a while now I know u r so so kind.
You know I'm on just a few threads--finally found my space and I'v met some wonderful people on these threads and it is so my pleasure--I got in all the good threads and not so mny and I'm sure there are more nice people too.But let's face it some I stay away from--I don't want people to get upse.
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