What the heck???
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Fumi, I hate that you feel so bad! Any chance of stashing away some money (or selling your clothes or something!) and running away - maybe a nice long visit to Australia will help you remember that life is to be lived, not just endured.
You belong and are just as important to the universe as those of us with kids. You certainly deserve to live a long, healthy life.
Sending a ((((HUG)))) and hoping you really consider running away - sometimes a change of scenery can make all the difference!
Kari -
Fumi there is a song called I hate everything! I am so sad that you are having such a rough time of it. And no it is not fair!Hug Hug and kisses from the 7 goats, they would love to cheer you up!
Carrie so sorry your funk has endured.
Blu you have every right to be ticked off!
Sherry this is a great thread and board glad you hoped on! -
Sorry gals I knew you posted but I was at the bottom of 3 doing a quickie post!
Patti praying for you with all that you are dealing with!
Kari thanks for being you! -
AARRGGH!!!!
I had my Ortho appt today. Yet another doc that has told me he isn't going to do anything unless I get worse! What do I have to do to get someone to help me?!?!
Fumi -- I'm sorry you feel like crap. It sounds like you need a break, but can't take one. I kind of know how you feel. Just because you don't have kids doesn't mean you don't have a lot of responsibility, needs, or stress. You need to take care of yourself. ((hug)) -
Fumi,
I am so sorry all that you are going through and your life is as importain as anyones walking on this Earth!
I wish I had words to comfort you, So all I can offer is always a ear and a heart full of caring about you.
Blu said:
"Sorry to hear about your funk. What color was it? Mine tends to be green and purple polka-dots with orange fur on the edge. I keep it in the closet, but the kids drag it out and I trip on it every once in a while."
After you said that I tryed to picture my funk I think mine
is that neon lime green with a burnt orange pasely print in the middle and sandpaper trim .
Hugs,
Carrie -
Carrie -- I never figured you for a pasely funk girl! Impressive!
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I love that you ladies can feel things in colour! I thought I was the only one...I used to describe my bruises and my hurts in colours -- no one else I knew did that. I worked with an art curator who told me that people who feel things this way are extremely creative and intuitive ... and I couldn't agree more!!
I hate when anyone is feeling those funky colours ... but my they do sound beautiful. But that's me -- always looking for the beautiful when things aren't so pretty. -
I am thinking of a sick pukey green color, lots of people like it but I get queesey looking at it.
Fumi I wish I had something that could cheer you up, but sometimes on this journey it is a valley, and hopefully you will be on the mountain again! -
Boy, how could I have known I'd have such too many good thoughts and warm comfort sent my way? Thanks ladies, I really appreciate it and am actually overwhelmed by all your support. I am feeling a lot better now. I am so happy to know I have such many good sisters all over the world!
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I'm glad you're feeling better today. By the way, you've started quite a party on the other thread...and you made Susie's day I'm sure. Just imagine the celebrating we'd do if we could really get together. With oceans between us all, I think we do a very good job indeed.
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Thanks. So have you seen what I gave her in that thread?
I get my usual self back when I feel better, which is just plain naughty and cheeky. -
Yea, I did you cheeky thing you!! I posted right after -- I think our friend SusieQ picked her guy a little too soon...she didn't know what was coming for dessert!!
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I just hope she won't get too exhausted after the first "session" so she could enjoy the dessert.
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Finding a "second wind"? Where there's a will...there's a way...if we've learned anything from bc, it's definitely that!!
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Boy! So should I give her another pair of sexy thongs? But she wouldn't even have to wear them in the first place if she'd just get them ripped off?
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ROFL -- you ARE feeling much better my friend. I'm so glad to see that!! And may it last for many days before the next "turquoise and magenta with a hint of burberry plaid" funk rolls along...
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Cowgirl, if you check out the thread Fumi started to party in honour of SierraSusieQ who was feeling blue, and you see what she's sent her as a "gift", I think you've got your answer as to what you can send our Fumi when she's in a funk!!
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Well... you'll have to FedEx me some energy drinks beforehand. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to "eat up" them all.
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Yourself!!
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OMG Fumi when you come out of a funk! You are a party happening! I am so glad I stopped by! I will provide Red Bull for you before your party, not to worry my friend!
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Hey where's the Party !!
I'm ready party party
This is for you Fumi ~
Okay now where the heck is the party? ,where are all the people,I want to dance!! -
That's probably one thing that is missing..dancing...tho Shel said her husband would do the music. Head over to "cyber party for Susie Q" ~ she was sad because her birthday dinner last night wasn't what she wanted/expected it to be this year, so Fumi, darling girl, arranged a party. Do you twist Carrie or is it more the limbo?
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Carrie, the thread Sherry was referring to is in the Moving Beyond forum. But remember, you can only look at all the goodies, you're not a b'day girl.
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Dang !!
Okay I bought some eye candy too and some music
I've been told at times I am twisted oops
thats not what you meant
If I tryed to see how low I can go we might not be able to get me back up lolololo
(Thanks Fumi we need a party!)
hugs,
Carrie -
Carrie, if you "go too low", we'll help you back up. That's what this place is all about, right?
I'm just so delighted that we're doing it with this kind of spirit tonight. Makes my heart sing. -
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Carrie, if you "go too low", we'll help you back up.
I thought you were talking about the limbo dance.
Naughty me!!! -
Oh my !! FUMI IS BACK
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Glad to know the world is right again! Except poor BLU still has no answers! I wish I could force those doctors to do something Blu!
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I missed the party this weekend... two of my sisters were here visiting ... and I stayed away from the computer all weekend. I missed you guys... but had a wonderful visit with my sisters.
Fumi: I'm so glad to hear and see that you're feeling better!!!
Love and Hugs,
Doreen -
Cowgirl -- Me too, but I am feeling better.
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