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  • musiclovermom
    musiclovermom Member Posts: 452
    edited April 2010

    sweatyspice - Thank you! I am sure to see her tonight at support group again and would love to bitch slap her!  Quite a few members called my friend this week to make sure she was ok and not to let that woman get to her... I may use the " you are the shallow one who chose to keep your defective breast!" LOL I bet that wont go over very well...

    Franie - I e mailed you a few times today...

    on the sex thing... no sex for me this week... bummer - too busy and I am off to the beach this weekend, plus I am due for my period any moment and my breasts do not remind me when I am going to start anymore. I now go by the calendar and it is usually right on schedule so 9 pm tonight I should be visited... UGH - I am so glad I still have it, but it will put a dent in my sex life when time is limited...

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  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited April 2010

    All I know is standard of care for my presentation was mastectomy, but I did have a small bit of wiggle room (after I spoke to a ton of BSs).  I.  Just.  Couldn't.  Do.  It.  

    I've said from the beginning that any woman who chooses mastectomy is much braver than I am.  Maybe even all the women who don't really have a choice, too.

    Bitch slap her with my blessing. 

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  • petitcocquin
    petitcocquin Member Posts: 7
    edited April 2010

    This thread is great.  I'm still undergoing  treatment and have given up on anyone coming my way for a while, but its really good to see people getting on with their lives.  Gives me hope and one less thing to worry about.  I've actually learned a few things too reading through the posts.  Thank goodness for the posts about using it or losing it and menopause.  Who knew?  The whole menopause thing is new to me and I'm clueless.  I'm only 40 and had a great libido before all this.  I don't wanna lose it.  I'm glad the talk is so frank.

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  • musiclovermom
    musiclovermom Member Posts: 452
    edited April 2010

    So to update about the bitch slapping...

    Last week at group the woman had the nerve to try to sit right next to me! We (me & another) put our blond friend in between us and as the group got bigger we kept adding chairs to the side that we wanted a little distance on. She MUST have realized what she had done the week before because she was overly nice... Then the next day she shows up at my friend's wig fitting! THE NERVE! anyway, I think someone must have confronted her about the issue. 

    I KNOW I must have at some time said something that was taken the wrong way by somebody... I have left group and stressed about how something I said came out and worried that I bothered someone. I cut her some slack as I am sure people have done for me in the past.

    Group is emotional enough and I try not to take every comment so personally, but she hit a nerve with the shallow comments.

    It's all good. We have another meeting tomorrow night!

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  • SandyinPa
    SandyinPa Member Posts: 34
    edited February 2013

    I just assumed that I will have a celibate life forever and that no man is going to want to date or marry a breastless woman fighting cancer when there are so many other women out there. At this point, not interested in reconstructive surgery.

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