I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Athena - I don't care about the perp either, except in the sense that in some of these cases, "the mental health system" has failed them. There is no way to predict which young man with a mental health issue is going to act out in this way - a mass murder, so the weapon takes on much more importance.
I heard bits and pieces on the news yesterday that some lawmakers, who formerly railed against any kind of ban on assault weapons, may be changing their tune. Obviously, the NRA, on a national level, didn't win this election either. It's causes may be going out of style, with the rest of them.
Suzie - they're turning in guns in Australia based on this incident? Do they still have the program that pays people for their weapons?
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Kam -- I believe Suzie was referring to several locations in the U.S. where people are turning in their guns (some sort of "bring us your firearm and we'll re-imburse you for its value"). I read about it yesterday but can't remember where! Mostly New England and San Francisco.
A commenter summed up the (still) major problem with mental illness, by saying that - by too many people - it continues to be considered a personal failure, rather than a legitimate group of diseases. And this attitude is not confined to the U.S.
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Here is a first person account that really brings home the mental health issue ...
http://anarchistsoccermom.blogspot.com/2012/12/thinking-unthinkable.html
I agree with Enjoyful. It is not any one thing by itself ... it's the combination. A child like the one this mother is dealing with who has an explosive episode and the ability to obtain a powerful weapon is a death machine. I'm not generally in favor of censorship but those violent (and too realistic) video games have to be blurring the lines between fantasy and reality for those who are already ill. It's a 3 legged stool and we can ... and should ... knock down the assault weapon leg first. While also working on the other 2 legs.
I really don't want to hear about the 'freedom' to own assault weapons. How about the freedom of children to live ... to go to school in buildings that aren't locked down like prisons. The freedom of people to go to a mall ... or anywhere else ... without risking being killed in a blizzard of gunfire. How much real freedom are we willing to give up for the right to own a weapon that we don't even need?
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And I like Kathy's idea in this blog ...
http://kathompson.blogspot.com/2012/12/ok-so-for-far-too-many-people-crappy.html
Much condensed version below ...
"We can’t take the pain away from the parents, families, friends, spouses, and significant others of those ripped away in the last two weeks.
But we can do something.
Even little things.
Make this the week you do random acts of kindness. From tomorrow, December 17th until December 23rd, deliberately do things, large or small, for someone else.
Kindness needs to win." -
Well, I am at work now, at an elementary school. Everyone seems very subdued, and my breakfast kids seemed very happy to see me. I feel pretty safe at my school, but I also know that if someone is determined to get in and do harm here, they probably will succeed. I find myself looking for "safe" places as I go throughout my day, in all the different parts of the building. At breakfast, I was thinking,"Well, I could probably herd everyone into the freezer and refrigerator..." I was also looking at all my kids and wondering what kind of monster could look at those faces and shoot them.
Hard day.
Mary
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Blame, guilt, whatever - what does it matter retrospectively. Yeah, this young man bears responsibility. But he's dead, and the victims are still dead. Whatver gives the grieving families comfort is important. Blame is pointless. The only thing that matters is going forward - what can we do to lessen the probability of more and more needless deaths. Compare what happened in two different schools on the same day, a world apart, in China and in the US. We're finally talking about this, and action finally seems imminent.
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Mary - I was wondering how it would be for teachers and students returning to school today. I was also thinking about my local elementary school. I had to deliver something to a 3rd grade teacher there, week before last...I was just able to walk in and walk down the hall to her classroom. Nobody watching and zero security. Even without this event, this seems odd to me. These children are so exposed.
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Love the picture of President Obama surrounded by the kids.
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Kam - I was talking about over there. There was footage of lots of people taking their weapons to hand in, I just missedthe location.
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I have heard some accounts on web sites about people turning in their guns, but only sparse and anecdotal. As for politicians, here is what the NYT reports (http://thecaucus.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/12/17/renewed-and-some-new-support-for-gun-control/?hp):
Congressional Democrats showed signs on Monday of a more aggressive push on gun control in the wake of the Newtown killings, while Republicans and gun rights advocates remained largely silent on policy matters.
Joe Manchin III, the pro-gun-rights West Virginia senator who drew attention in 2010 after running a commercial that showed him firing a rifle at an environmental bill, said that “everything should be on the table” as gun control is debated in the coming weeks and months.
Representative John Yarmuth, a moderate Democrat from Kentucky, said he finally felt compelled to speak out on an issue that has been untouchable for many elected officials.
“I have been largely silent on the issue of gun violence over the past six years, and I am now as sorry for that as I am for what happened to the families who lost so much in this most recent, but sadly not isolated, tragedy,” Mr. Yarmuth said in a statement. “The National Rifle Association has spent untold millions of dollars instilling fear in our citizens and our politicians.”
He added, “I believe it is more rational to fear guns far more than the illusory political power of the N.R.A.”
And in a Twitter message sent out before a television appearance, Senator Mark Warner of Virginia called the episode a “game changer.”
The National Rifle Association has been largely silent since the shootings on Friday morning. On Monday, the home page of its Web site contained a blog post from Nov. 27, titled “More Guns, Less Crime in Virginia,” and the association’s Twitter account, which is normally active, has not sent a message since Friday.
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I saw the following quote a number of months ago and cannot for the life of me remember who said it or when but it is being widely used in interviews the past three days and it is:
"When America learns to love her children more than she loves guns, action will be taken" - how sad is that?
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Crazy people still saying they want their guns! Why not arm the children too?
I've been banging my head on my desk.
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It's peace through superior firepower, Blue. Except that now, our neighbors are our enemies.
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Erin Burnett just had the AnarchistSoccerMom on in an interview. It just really breaks your heart listening to her.
Blessings to the families of Newtown.
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Takes one's breath away...
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For anyone on Facebook: Check out Newtown United. This is an FB page set up by Newtown townsfolk who are determined that the recent killings of their children and teachers are not in vain.
I learned about the FB page via a segment on CBC News tonight. Newtown citizens are trying to enlist public support. "Liking" their page, and sending a message of both condolence and support, will help their cause.
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Thanks for the info Linda ... done.
My New Year's resolution is going to have to be to stay away from the comment sections of online news stories, talking heads and Reality TV. We can't be as awful as those places make us look ... can we?
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Lots of this likely going on around the country.



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Lindasa -
I couldn't find the Facebook page for Newtown (Connecticut) United.
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I heard on NPR that the NRA had erased its Facebook page.
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Some gun apologists are starting to crawl out of the crevices. There was one on Chris Matthews last night. Still, I'm hopeful when even Joe Scarborough is calling for restrictions on semi-automatic guns and high capacity magazines.
My view of the second amendment is that we should allow unlimited access - to the guns that were available as of the time the Second Amendment was drafted, i.e. single shot muskets. You know, you have to put the powder into the barrel and then the ball and then pack them both down with a rod.
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Even DH, as a Federal LEO, believes that they should ban assault-style semi-automatic rifles and extended clips in private ownership. He was in favor of stricter controls previously -- now he wants a ban. Not only a ban, but he wants them to be turned in. And a surprising number of his gun-nut colleagues agree.
The people who are saying that everyone should be armed are insane. Really. That is the mental health problem right there. And the paranoid people (mentally ill) who say that they need guns to protect themselves against the government ... REALLY? Your government? And how will you do that, even with your Bushmaster? If the government was really going to take over, who do you think would do that? THE MILITARY! And with your AR-15, are you really going to be able to stand up against the 101st Airborne? C'mon! And if you really think that the blue helmets and black helicopters are going to take over, then you also have a mental illness problem. If you think there will be a government takeover or the UN is going to take over, you are mentally ill and you cannot own guns. Problem solved.
I just wish it were that simple, but it would solve a lot of the problem now, wouldn't it?


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On the other hand, maybe I was overly cynical when I said, a few days ago, that it would take a million child deaths to effect change. It may take fewer than that. Crickets on the NRAs web site, too.
I think this election cycle proved that money does NOT run politics. THe NRA all of a sudden may strike members of congress as less intomidating than in the past.
That Columbine father is NUTS - I mean, incurably and totally psychotic.
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Makes sense to me HL. But common sense is not so common when some like to grasp at straws.
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Athena, link please.
ETA - Never mind, found it.
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HL - agree with you.
Here's my take - that the truly evil people are the gun manufacturers - who pay the lobbyists and push the paranoid idea that people need to protect themselves against the govenment. They are not crazy - they know exactly what they are doing: making money, lots and lots of money, from the sale of weapons that should not be in civilian hands. And they don't care how many children die as long as they sell their product. But I agree that the people who swallow this = believing that assault weapons will protect them against tyranny - are in fact insane.
Blue - AWWW
Haven't been writing for a week - between DH's medical stuff and getting wrapped up in the horrors of last Friday, but will try to get back into it today. Meant to say thank you last week to everyone who said kind things about my writing. It means a lot. It's hard to keep pushing yourself to write when you don't know if you'll ever sell anything, if you're even any good. The encouraging words do keep me going.
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Hope your DH is well on the mend, Sandy - and please send us another excerpt.
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Get your suntan lotion ready!

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OT, but kisses to the lioness for correctly using "effect" as a verb.

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