I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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When my daughters were infants, I put prints of paintings by Norval Morriseau in their bassinets ( I actually removed them from a book that I bought-desecration-but at the time it seemed more important than keeping the book intact.-I still have the book, with a few loose prints to remind me of my new mom exhausted/fried brain phase of life.) I wanted them to see art, see brilliant colours. I thought maybe they might have the "artist" part of their brains stimulated. We carried on introducing them to diverse art because it gave us pleasure and it worked! Both our our daughters are artists, both very different, but both also still attracted to bright colours
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I must interrupt with breaking Medicare news...
Medicare Ate My Baby - Day 3
DISASTER STRIKES.
After skulking in the medical building stairwell for 15 minutes, I worked up enough courage to present my already dog-eared Medicare card to my rad onc's staff. They took it, made a copy, and returned it to me without saying a word. Ominous, I know.
I then headed to the MO's office and, emboldened my my success at the RO, I took the elevator and did not skulk about it. Again, I handed the card to staff and squeaked out "It's a Medicare card." She smiled and did not throw me out the window so I tried again, bellowing MEDICARE straight from my diaphragm. She merely replied - "I already have your Medicare info in the system." What? How did that happen? Is my Obamachip already in broadcast mode? She offered up a thin explanation - the RO and MO are part of the same health care system so they share records. AS. IF. I. WOULD. BELIEVE. THAT.
Shenanigans are afoot, my friends. Healthcare shennigans. -
I've walked those routes quite often. I grew up in the Annex......Bloor/Bathurst area.
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OMG E, you better watch your back. I hear the US will be going down because of Obamacare!
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Your Italian Canadian heritage would almost guarantee that! Lucky you.
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E - you crack me up!!!!! I remember he first time I presented my Medicare card, I thought I'd have to do lots of 'splainin' ( still miss I Love Lucy, shall we vote for favorite episode?) to do - also use a BCBS supplement - premium on both have gone down. Very smooth transition from "private health insurance" to Medicare, and MORE services....
Will feel sad for friends if enrollment age is raised.
Everyone cheering for the Duchess of Cambridge...preggers as the Brits would say - seems to be having a hard time of it - hope she's fine soon!
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Enjoyful, I'm so happy that you are lucky enough to have the practically only doctors that take Medicare.
Lewing, I Googled the light display you mentioned and it was fantastic! A really nice bit of holiday fluff.
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kayfh - did you see my son on your walk!? You started it right near where he lives. He and his new wife enjoy the vibrancy of the area, particularly in comparison to this smallish city here where he started.
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Sun -- Lucy and Ethel in the chocolate factory!
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Ah, the chocolate factory is my favourite too!
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Don't forget the grape stomping episode and the lovely "We're having a baby"
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I've watched this a hundred times and every time I'm ROFLMAO!
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Kay, I love your idea of thinking up fun, obsessive quests (especially the pho one, since I love pho . . . didn't grow up with it, but it's become one of my cold weather comfort foods). My late ex-husband once set out on a quest to have a beer at every bar on Joseph Campau (a looooong street) in Detroit that crosses into the Polish enclave of Hamtramck. He and his buddies were crawling by the end, and they STILL didn't make their goal. But the fulfillment is in the trying. Or something like that.
Enjoyful, please do keep us posted on your harrowing Medicare saga. (And in all seriousness, you know we're all wishing you the best in your treatment.)
Linda
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Great scene Blue. Carol Burnett clips are good for a laugh too!
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Love your posts, Enjoyful! Good luck with the radiation! Sending good vibes your way.
And please continue to post about your "Medicare shenanigans"

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I don't know.... Enjoyful, I think you ought to make a full-body suit out of aluminum foil to block those Obamacare chips they must have inserted when you weren't looking....
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Feeling patriotic and proud about the Affordable Care Act and am so touched by this story. You may remember watching it a few months ago:
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GG...I'd look like a giant, vaguely woman shaped pan of Jiffy Pop. I must do it!
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Eeee - your posts just bust me up. You make Medicare sound so exciting (huh, really, just boring - as in boring is good). Hope Rads go as good as they can.
Pho - so, I found the easiest way to make that stuff after going the route of ooking for every exotic ingredient in a big city market. Kombu? Buy those organic Pacific Foods cartons of Pho - vegetable or chicken base (another big city item or can be purchased on on Amazon). Add your favorite ingredients (vegetables, chicken, rice noodles) and one has instant Pho! Ofcourse, if one actually lives in a place that sells Pho, maybe going out is easier.
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For your listening/visual pleasure
Romancing the Wind-Ray Bethell
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Chickadee, that was so beautiful! And amazing!
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HOW do you put so many different things on here to share?
I would like to post things now and again, but don't know how and when you are telling someone how to do it I just get confused!!!
You are all so artsie and literate and I enjoy all you do
. I wanted to share 2 prints with you that I fell in love with 50yrs ago but I dont know how to capture them and a very Beautiful serene visual/audio (it's not me singing anything)
1 CharlesAllenGilbert-----All is Vanity
2 GeorgeA.Wotherspoon----Gossip
3 Silent Evolution----JasondeCairesTaylor (youtube)
You go to fast and you are all now talking about your shoes or favorite lipstick now. Oh well I LOVE YOU ALL------kad2kar
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E, may I respectfully suggest you create an account on MYMEDICARE.GOV. You can track all your claims there.
I just spent the last 1/2 hour figuring out why the medical folks are billing us for certain amounts. DH and DS have secondary insurance with Medicare. So I see what medicare paid for the visits by my DH and DS..........and then I check what Aetna kicked in as the secondary. How interesting. It seems the medical folks are posting one payment but not both and in fact my calculations indicate an overpayment because of it. The facility agrees to Medicares schedule of payments and the secondary then picks up the leftover and applies its formulas. So far that has resulted in zero owed from us. So when they send me a bill I check.
Been doing it all year and getting tired of the sloppy input work. Oh well, another email to customer service. So far I'm winning.
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Thanks for the suggestion, Chickadee. Will do!
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This was me today. Hopefully tomorrow I'll have more energy!

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I had a few errands to run tonight before dinner, so I set a little plastic-wrapped piece of goat cheese on the counter, figuring that by the time I got back it'd be the perfect temperature and I could crumble/mush it into a salad.
In fact, by the time I got back, my two cats were curled up together as sweet as could be, very appreciative of the delightful snack I'd left for them.
Linda
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I have a Medicare question (me me me, right here!). I'm not a retiree yet, but soon to be. I will be eligible for Medicare in about 7 years. I also will continue to carry my employer provided health insurance as secondary (until I'm 65, I have my employer health insurance as primary). I was talking to a retiree with same insurance, and he says he purchases a 3rd policy (for one of the Parts, so I assume from Medicare?), so he ends up paying nothing, ever. What would that be? My catastrophic (i.e. out-of-pocket) before my current Primary pays all is $5000. Not sure how that works with Medicare.
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Quick drop by while I have the desktop (DH has gone to bed!) One of my favorite pictures -- Winter Harmony, by John W. Twachtman, in the National Gallery of Art. Especially for all you winter-lovers (like me!) suffering through the very UN-December-like temperatures!

Allies Day, by American Impressionist Childe Hassam

Houses of Parliament, Early Evening - Childe Hassam
And ... my favorite piece of sculpture ever:

Cathedral, by Rodin.
There. I've been dying to do this for days, but can't on my iPad!
L
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Kam, take a look in your FEHB brochure for your plan -- they all have explanations about how FEHB works with Medicare. You will not need Part D -- drugs are included in our plans. I have BC/BS. Part B is questionable -- lots of people take it and then it is my understanding that you end up not paying anything. Maybe WR can fill us in on how it works?
L
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Beautiful, HL!
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