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  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited November 2012

    Go Cindy--full steam ahead ! No shushy here, there or anywhere.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    You guys made me laugh. I'm too queasy to even think about sex right now. DH and I watched tv and he snuggled in my lap. He went to bed and I fell asleep on the couch in front of the tv. Last time I had chemo it left me in chemopause and its been that way for over 3 1/2 years.

    Anyway yesteray afternoon my hair fell out in handfuls. I knew it was time to shave the rest off. DH cried as he clipped me. I sang, Let Me Entertain You (Gypsy Rose Lee) as my youngest took pictures. When DH was done I went to the bathroom and hung on to the door, took a deep breath amd slowly looked it the mirror. I liked what I saw. I'm okay. I remember what color my hair really is... dark brown.

    Its too early in the morning for me to be awake. All I want to do is eat.

    Hugs1

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited November 2012

    You girls have me laughing, then crying, then laughing, then crying. Unreal! My heart goes out to you in such a big way. Kiss

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2012

    Veggy!!!! Now u got the sistas thinkin all kinds of nastys...

    Go for it..all of you.live,love and laugh.

    No one is promised tomorrow.

    Huggggs to all my sistas.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    This is my 1st time looking at this thread. Omg! MONKEY LOVIN???

    That one really cracked me up.



    Fuzzy~please define MONKEY LOVIN.



    Blessings

    Paula

  • ridergirl
    ridergirl Member Posts: 443
    edited November 2012

    Nobody here to do the "other thing" with, but just had to share that I am very happy to finally have internet on my computer so that now I can visit all my friends here and read and type with a screen that is more than 2 inches big! So that is very exciting for me lol

    Hope everyone had a great Turkey Day we as a group probably realize more than a lot of other people in the world the things that are worth being thankful for.

    I am thankful for each and every one of you.

  • ptdreamers
    ptdreamers Member Posts: 1,080
    edited November 2012

    Glad everyone survived T-Day. Had to travel to sister unexpectedly. She went into hospital with suspected hear attack leaving other sister who has multiple health problems in a lurch. Packed up our defrosting turkey and the trimmings and made T-Day diner at her house. Thankful to just be here another year. Hope no one got trampled in Black Friday sales. Why do they call it "Black Friday"?

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2012

    Yeah why do they call it Black Friday?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Maybe because of the sales, their account numbers run in the black as opposed to red.

    I'm not sure. Anyone else care to guess?



    Blessings

    Paula

  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited November 2012

    Hi Ladies,

    I love going out on the internet to find answers.  According to Wikipedia:

    "The days name originated in Philadelphia, where it originally was used to describe the heavy and disruptive pedestrian and vehicle traffice which would occur on the day after Thanksgiving.  Use of the term started before 1961 and began to see broader use outside Philadelphia around 1975.  Later an alternative explanation began to be offered: that 'Black Friday' indicated the point at which retailers begin to turn a profit, or are 'in the black'."

    My daughter used to work retail and they always had to dress in black for the day.

    Glad everyone had a good Thanksgiving.  My twin girls took over cooking for the holidays last year and I was very glad they wanted to do it again this year.  All they wanted me to do was hint fix the two dishes with casserole in their name.  You got it, string bean and sweet potato.  We are a bit unorthodox.  About fifteen years ago, the kids informed their dad and I that they really don't like turkey so we do a ham and tenderloin.  I will fix DH his turkey this weekend.  I do miss the stuffing.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2012

    Last year I was fired from the kitchen.50 odd yrs.cookin was enuf...

    Now. I just help clean up.

    Yay.

    We don't do Black Friday anymore.

    I'm think I would have to kill someone.lol

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited November 2012

    This is the first year my mother and I missed Black Friday. We had been spending less and less time shopping, but I hated to stop our tradition. However, she kept saying things that I construed as her not wanting to go this year. We usually pack turkey sandwiches and buy a cup of tea at a mall, but she started saying that she didn't know what I would eat and was referring to my diet as "special needs." I kept telling her I could make a different sandwich or even eat a turkey sandwich. One wouldn't kill me. So, when I finally told her I figured we wouldn't go, she looked shocked and even upset. God! Life can be complicated!

  • ridergirl
    ridergirl Member Posts: 443
    edited November 2012

    I hear you dunes i have recently moved back in with my mom, and she is great and an awesome support, BUT I have to remind her every now and again that the ideea for me is to keep things as normal as I can ie. go shopping, go outside, regular activities as much as I can and she is always saying "are you sure you can/should do that?" Its sweet, but its frustrating.  She is at work now and I am about to sneak out and do some CHristmas shopping Smile

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Today will be the first day to be around my friends/family since DH shaved my head. My heart is racing. I tried the wig on. I can't do it. It looks hideous. Think positive... they love me. They will love rubbing my head. They love me. They will accept and embrace me or I will slap them and yell "Mosquito!"

  • dogeyed
    dogeyed Member Posts: 884
    edited November 2012

    Hi everyone!  Sorry I was gone for so long.  I had started a post a couple days ago, and have no idea why I deleted it.  To make a long story short, I had some indigestion and computer difficulties.  Digestion is moving right along like it should now.  And I've decided to get one of those smaller computers to keep out by the couch with my other stuff.  I've looked at a few things online, talked to husband and brother about it, and am narrowing things down.  The thing is, maybe you all can help me, I want one that is small, but that I can cover the screen when I'm not using it.  Stuff out there by my couch gets REALLY goofed up.  In the end, I'll HAVE to go to a store and check things out, but I'm so anti-going anywhere that if something is halfway close to what I want, I'll probably just get it.

    FUZZY, I very much enjoyed the pics of your "tough guy," he/she looks like he could put a hurting on someobody.  But I love that smooth fur he has.  And as long as your Mental Health person is helping you, keep going because he/she might set you free.  If not, find thee another one, preferably a group practice.  We gotta get our girl relaxed.  But I ain't got no room to talk, that's for sure.  For the rest of my life I'll have to take tranquilizers and antidepressants.  I hate the antidepressants, but when I think about that month or so recently when all my meds were upped or changed, no way can I get off them, but I DO think the Valium would have been good enough.  Don't know if I mentioned it, but a few weeks ago husband got all bent out of shape becuz I was sleeping more, I was driving like crap, and all sorts of whining that I basically ignored.  So, I cut back on some meds, and then I was REALLY hurting and that sadness came back over me becuz I do NOT like people to tell me what to do in my own house or anywhere else.  So, I finally told him I tried but it wasn't going to work to cut back on meds.  But that I woudn't drive except in the mornings, which is when I usually do stuff, becuz I'm only on one dose then.  He agreed.  Silly boy, it's after 1 p.m. and he's sound asleep.  I asked him if something was bothering him, and he said no.  But since I returned to my normal upgraded drugs, I'm a happy camper.

    Veggy and Ryder, I feel very scary about you all's chemo difficulties.  But I really laughed about needing fresh PJs and then spilling someting down the front.  I do that ALL the time.  I can also remember the miserable sweating and freaking out in general at night.  I have come to the conclusion that chemo really does take something away from some of us, we're not as strong as we were, on all levels.  Most of my weakness and insanity has gone, but enough still there to remind me I'm no better than a toad.

    Dune, still lovin on you, you've had a lot of difficulties all at once lately.  It's like building a cute little flower shed and then some maniac runs his car into the corner of it.

    All you others and our visitors too, I care and understand how you feel and wish for you all and myself too that I was AT LEAST 20 years younger. That way it don't matter how old you are now; you'd take the 20 and feel like you could fly.  Well, until next time, do whatever the hell you want (within a few limits), and I hope we all feel better soon.  Love, Gail

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Veggy~you really cracked me up with that SLAPPING THE MOSQUITO remark!



    Act like you love the new look! Put on your make up, some cool earrings, and ROCK THAT LOOK Baby!



    Who knows? You may start a new fad.



    Blessings

    Paula

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited November 2012

    Soteria....hmmm...I wonder what wiki would define Monkey Lovin as....hee hee!!  WAHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!  So, I've never actually seen monkey's bumpin' uglies (oh SASSY...that's a good one....but I'll let you explain it...WAHAHAAA) but I can imagine it's pretty crazy stuff!!  I'm totally with you...laughin' with Veggy slapping mosquitos all over the place!!

    Sassy...you can tell the secret!  We are all connected here and I wouldn't want to keep a secret that you would like shared so...PM away!  Rock n Roll BABY!!  Turn up those Blues and let it out!

    Dunes...you know I'm thinkin about ya girl! 

    GG...thank you love!  I was so worried about you.  Whew.  And, I'm so glad you liked the pics of the baby...he's a gem...my personal little angel...he just looooves me and I just looooves him...lol  I'm not sure if I shared this with everyone but I MADE IT into group consuling!  I'm pretty geeked up about it.  I really think this will do the trick.  Doc decided to put me on a new medicine...I got it filled but I'm fighting with the idea of taking it.  He's going to be pissed if I don't...but, I don't think that's enough to make me take it...I'm a stubborn little shit and I had such an aweful time with that last go-round...

    Man, I was laughing and crying and laughing again too when I caught up on the posts!  Veggy...you just know how to get that little soft spot in my heart all goofied up!  I couldn't be more giddy that you looked in the mirror and you were content...I just have goose bumps all over.

    Love you and you and you and you and you and you and you and you and you and you and you....

    XOXOXOXOXO

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Sas-schatzi~we used to have a associate pastor at my church. When she talked about sex or being with ones mate, she called it GOOD WILL.



    The Bible says the marriage bed is undefiled. In my opinion that means, what ever a husband & wife do to pleasure each other is a good thing. God made sex for Husbands & Wives. When yo please your husband, you also please The Lord.



    Ladies if you aren't married, but are in an intimate relationship, I want to be clear that I'm not in any way condemning you. I've been there too.



    I'm just a horny old gal who's plumbing doesn't work anymore.



    Carry on Girls!



    Blessing

    Paula

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited November 2012

    Hmmm...plumbing issues you say....you need yourself a good ol plumbing expert!!  Hee hee

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    I HATE CANCER!!!!!

    I HATE CANCER!!!!!

    My best friend is dying from this sick diease. She is in the process of giving everything away in her house. She no longer has an appetite. She always hated any kind of medication and now she is on morphine. MORPHINE! She is no longer fighting. She has suffered too much already. DH and I was over there this afternoon. I have to take an ativan and calm down. I kept my cool in front of her but I am so angry at cancer! Sorry to vent. I had to get that off my chest.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Veggy~I'm so sorry about your dear friend. Don't give up on her! If you don't mind, I'll have my church family be praying for her. It doesn't matter if we know her name or not, cause GOD knows her name. He has it written on the palm of his hand. Isaiah 49:16



    Fuzzy~Actually, my husband is a very good plumber. :) but I'm one of those unlucky ones who after menopause everything kind of locked up. It's like trying to drive a Buick thru a straw! I see that chemo causes the same problem for some women, and there's a thread on here that deals with that. We had an excellent sex life before menopause. I guess I'll have to get me some of that SCREAM CREAM!!!



    Blessings

    Paula

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited November 2012

    Veggy....its a sucky ass disease that hurts more than a lifetime should have to hold. I'm so terribly sorry about your best friend. Morphine is just nasty but it is a blessing during times like these. And with everything you're going through...your head must be spinning. HATE CANCER!! Hate it and punch it in the face. Scream at it. It sucks so bad. And, as I travel my path, I realize how much I don't know and don't understand. But, I do know a few things...one of which is how much I care about you. I'm very very sorry.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2012

    Awwww veggy.im sorry.2 of my dearest friends are suffering the same way...

    I hate hate hate hate this freekin disease

    Find a fuckin cure/vacine...excuse my language...I'm pissed off that you have to sit by and watch...

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited November 2012

    Granny....you're language is spot on....(in my head its the NJ/NY/NEW ORLEANS ass kickin accent thingie that I hear LOL ) F bombs and all four letter expressions accepted here; )

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited November 2012

    Hello all.

    Gail, are you thinking about a notebook type device or smaller?

    It does seem like I have had a lot of difficulties in a short period of time, but I guess I need to learn to roll with the punches. Maybe it is the lesson, at least a major lesson, that I need to learn in this life. I don't know. I do know I haven't done well at it. I'did some serious bridge-burning this time around, but I don't regret it. I think I needed to burn those bridges to really make it clear to myself that I am on my own. I love your flower shed comparison. Thanks for the lovin. I'm lovin you back.

    I'm lovin all of you.

    Veggy, I'm so sorry. I lost my best friend to cancer a couple years ago. I was honored to be with her when she passed. Her smiling face is right here on my desk. Sometimes I miss her and grab the picture and hold it tight and cry and yell at her. Most times I just smile back and say "Hi Michele!" If your friend is ready to go, the best you can do is be loving her and supporting her and trusting that she will be so free of all this pain. I offer you my strongest hug though.


    Paula, love the SCREAM CREAM. I don't exactly know what it is, but it sounds fun.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited November 2012

    Dunes Baby....I'm thinking you're so right! Roll with the punches. I thought about this for a while and...although we will occasionally get punched right in the kisser, we still gotta Bob and Weave...still gotta roll...and sometimes rock n roll!!!

    Veggy....please post...something...anything....

    sassy SAS....where you at?

    Rider, Crog, Mama, PT, Granny, Special, Nancy, GG....everybody....what's going on this week? I've got a sudden urge to jump in pockets and I'm not sure where I'm going!! Pretty typical for me though....

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 801
    edited November 2012

    Hi Fuzzy. I have no appointments this coming week but will be available for anyone who needs me in their pocket...



    The visiting nurse came today and the incision is looking good... Just keeping my fingers crossed that this time it will heal up properly and I can move on to getting the swelling down and the a prosthesis...



    Veggy. I am so sorry to hear of your best friend and like grannydukes said find a damn cure/vaccine....



    Have a good night all!!!

    Cindy

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2012

    Sorry, I don't have much to say.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited November 2012

    Hello everyone Sunday night after the long Turkey weekend. It was wonderful. There was allot of Good Will(thank you Paula). I think that is a perfect discription. For me I've decided that it is the perfect medicine. I guess if Paula was willing to talk about Good Will and Plumbing. I can say that fuzz and I refer to it as construction. Plus Veggy's medical professional referring to it as the "other thing". We have multiple descriptive terms for use thereof, so, I'll leave it to others to add more terms that once the page turns they become words, we will remember only b/c others won't take time to go back and decipher.

    GG Glad you feel you are where you should be with meds. Your writing is cogent which when you were on something that was  too high , not right __???__, your writing showed it. So if you are happy and your writing shows it --Clap your hands......etc

    Fuzzy, what med did he prescribe? I know Effexor was the drug you had such hell with getting off it. Personally, I hate Effexor. Way too much difficulty with it. From a nursing prespective, a good drug is one that accomplishes the purpose for use,  with minimal s.e.'s and minimal to no drug interactions, A drug should allow for interuption of dose without  significant rebound (signs and symptoms skyrocketing) or dropping you off a cliff. Effexor drops you off a cliff even with the most careful planning and doesn't do well on most of the other points.    When you get your books let me know. I've received only one of three, you should be expecting four. NOT impressed with Amazon.

    Dunes I think we should pray that your next year has no problems with buildings. First the house, now the shed. Just picked up on page 153---and see it was an analogy. Ah well, still fits for the praying.

    Veggy sweetie by now you know how many mosquito's you need to swat--may be on pg 153 :)-- Sorry babe just read about your friend, I second what Granny said.

    Posting this to see what's on page 153 -----okay caught up.

    Crog sounds good, good, good. i know it was a setback, but your description sounds so good now, I'm smiling. AND worry beads aren't in hand or mind :)

    Nancy  thinking of you and SKK:) Wishing you were here!

    We haven't heard from ESSA lately?????????

    Granny, no mention of your pneumonia Yay that tells me your feeling better.  HOPE THAT'S A TRUE ASSESSMENT ! Based on what I'm hearing, I think this is going to be a very bad year for winter illnesses.

  • Delilahbear
    Delilahbear Member Posts: 466
    edited November 2012

    Dogeyed - I have an 11" MacBookAir. Very light weight and small. I use it all the time. Screen closes and I have a hard clear shell over the top and bottom. I keep mine out by my chair in the living room and it is always getting stuff on it and keeps on going. Have to say, even though Apple products are a bit more expensive, I have had much fewer problems with it than my windows based ones. - Just a thought. Also an iPad works well and with the magnetic cover or other case is pretty sturdy. I also have one of those and use it lots as well.

    Veggy - So sorry about your friend, just be there for her. Also sorry for what you are having to go through as well. I know this makes it doubly hard to see what your friend is going through. Hang in there and we are here for you. - Hugs.

    Everyone else good thoughts for the coming week.

    I generally lurk here but felt like needed to post tonight. My shoulder from the Rotator Cuff surgery is getting better - Thank goodness for the skill of the physical therapists. My PT is also going to try and get to some of the discomfort that I have had since the implant recon lessened as it tightened up even more while I was in the sling for 6 weeks. Slowly getting my Mother settled into a retirement center 2 miles from me. Good thing is that she is a social person and seems to be enjoying meeting the other residents - doesn't help with getting the boxes unpacked, but at least she seems content with the move. She is a hoarder (yes like the TV shows) so this has been really difficult and she took way too much stuff but my SIL is trying to be here more often to help her. Guess I am ranting but need to get it out and this is a friendly place to do that even if my problems pale in comparison to most of the rest of you. You are all in my heart and I will be in your pockets when needed.

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