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  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited October 2012

    Hi Guys, sorry I was out of town and just getting back into the seing of things.  Big sigh of relief.  All is CLEAR!!!! yeah!! sending hugs to you all

    anyone out there on tamoxifen dealing with skin rash side effects?

  • rabbit
    rabbit Member Posts: 613
    edited October 2012

    hi all, half asleep reading the posts since I was on last...I've been CRAZY busy, stressed, the works. I wanted to reply to some of the questions though, otherwise I'll forget for weeks!!

    Julee, I am sorry I didn't see your post sooner, what did you decide? I had my ovaries removed in Jan. I was told it would increase my survival rate, I was not taken off Tamoxifen after that, I was getting severe bone pain and hot flashes that would leave me dripping like a faucet so I was switched from Tamoxifen to Letrozole, hot flashes continued, bone pain got a tad better, and now not sure what I'm going to do now, it seems I will have either severe  bone pain or severe hot flashes, and to be honest I don't know which is worse.

    I do have good news, I had my first mammo since surgery and tx and it was all clear!!! I am still waiting on the CT scans of the rest of my body. 

    Robyn, I think I will look into acupuncture soon, I am on pain pills all day, every day, the radio frequency ablation only lasted a month or so and the epidural didn't last much longer :(  

    dexxy, so glad you got the all clear :), my blood chemistry hasn't been right since chemo.  I was dx with hashimotos (hypothyroidism) in 2003, the levels got real bad during chemo and we've had to adjust the meds since. Now my cortisol levels are really low and the endocrinologist is wanting me to go on oral steroids for the rest of my life basically...I'm trying to avoid that, but it looks like that may be my only option. Low cortisol levels are intertwined with my low blood pressure, low blood sugar, extreme fatigue, and I think the chemo screwed up a lot of things including this. 

    Jbug, hope you are recovering!! I think of you all regularly!! I had to miss the Susan Komen walk this year, I volunteered for Hosparus (our hospice) being the photographer for Camp Evergreen, a camp for kids that lost someone, teaching them how to get through the grieving process. I am looking forward to the Making Strides walk on the 28th, and I'm speaking again this year at the high school I spoke at last year for breast cancer awareness month, last year I was in chemo and this year they wanted me to update on my progress.

    All my love to everyone!! xoxoxoxo to my pink sisters ;)

  • shinypop
    shinypop Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2012

    oh rats, i thought this might happen. i had hot flashes for a while and then they abated. oh goody. guess what that means. I got my period back. Oh joy. I was soooo not missing that part of life. Cramps still suck.

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited October 2012

    Oh shiny. Serious bummer. Seems like we should get a forever pass on periods after chemo.

  • shinypop
    shinypop Member Posts: 107
    edited November 2012

    Hope all is well on the East Coast. I'm in Maryland but didn't get hit very badly. 

  • misswim
    misswim Member Posts: 931
    edited November 2012

    Thinking of all of you and hoping all is well!! xo

  • ANA_424
    ANA_424 Member Posts: 109
    edited November 2012

    I just went through and read the last few months of posts. Sorry I've been MIA. At some point, I just realized that coming back here was dredging up feelings I needed to leave behind, rather than helping. I've been doing really well. Have kept my cute short haircut and have enjoyed getting out this year and doing all the things I could not do last year. Now if I could just lose some of this chemo-weight. . . .

    Anyway, I just wanted to thank you all for being there when I needed you. You are a terrific, strong, funny, and inspiring group of women. I wish all of you the very best that life has to offer. I hope you will stop in every now and then to keep us posted on how your lives progress and I'll try to do the same.

    Ann

  • julee_stayin_strong
    julee_stayin_strong Member Posts: 52
    edited November 2012

    so nice to see some familiar faces, i've been hangin' out on the Latissimus Dorsi Flap page. Gettin' my tubes out tomarrow and my first fill, should be exciting!!! I hope everyone has an awesome Thanksgiving!!! Laughing

  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited December 2012

    :)) thinking of all of you.  I hope that everyone is well and enjoying life

  • rabbit
    rabbit Member Posts: 613
    edited January 2013

    I just wanted to pop in and say hi to the ladies that helped me get through the hardest time of my life. I miss chatting with you all but I don't miss our chemo chats!

    My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer in November, they are pretty sure it's contained so he's having surgery Feb 27th. My cousin (with appendix cancer) is doing well. She had to go through another several months of chemo after her surgery, but there is no sign of cancer left in her. 

    Love to you all, my beautiful pink sisters!

  • julee_stayin_strong
    julee_stayin_strong Member Posts: 52
    edited January 2013

    Hey Rabbit~

    sorry about your Dad. Frown It seems like every conversation lately someone has cancer. it's a sad epidemic. Glad you are doing well. I agree with what you said about having this web site to talk with others is amazing. we are strong because of one another. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! I'M PLANNING ON THIS YEAR TO BE THE BEST EVER!!!

  • rabbit
    rabbit Member Posts: 613
    edited January 2013

    hi julee! Happy New Year to all, lets make this one a healthier one!! I was just told I have a pancreatic cyst, "more than likely not cancer" I was told not to worry about it, but of course I can't help but worry. I am waiting for my RO to speak to my gastro dr. (she's the one that saw it a year ago apparently and never said anything because it was only 6mm) I had CTs and other scans done in October when I had my followup mammo, so they were going to speak to each other and see if it grew any, if so, I will need a biopsy, it's too small at 6mm to do anything with. 

    Otherwise I am good! Love to all my pink sisters :)

  • J-Bug
    J-Bug Member Posts: 626
    edited February 2013

    rabbit, did you have a hysterectomy or oopherectomy? If you had been working fulltime at the time, how long would you have had to take off work?

  • shinypop
    shinypop Member Posts: 107
    edited February 2013

    I am working on my third sickness of the year. I had pneumonia twice and now I have a terrible cold. I've always been hale and hearty. I usually just work through the flu. Now a darned cough puts me in the hospital. Cancer sucks!

  • kk11
    kk11 Member Posts: 210
    edited March 2013

    Hi ladies. It's been about 8 months since I last posted. After I went back to work full time, things got very busy quickly, but I've recently been reminded to step back and to get more rest. Next month it will be 2 years since my diagnosis. In August, 3 years since my molar pregnancy miscarriage. Both of which required chemo. I felt like my energy was coming back last summer as I had started running and training for a 10k. I still have my moments (17 months post last chemo) where I feel exhausted for days on end and I get achy joints (comes and goes). I'm still on Tamoxifen (been on it for 17 months).

    I belong to a local young women's group where I live and we recently lost someone who had been diagnosed early 2012 (she was a wonderful person and did everything right, but just had extremely bad luck to have it come back in her liver just a few months after she finished chemo and double mastectomy). It has really shaken me up. I was depressed for weeks and I keep being paranoid about every ache and pain and the fatigue I've experienced. It goes to show that you can be doing just fine and still have your moments. I came on here because I felt like I needed to check in and it broke my heart to learn that we lost some of the lovely ladies in our group. None of us wanted to join this group, but once you're in, you want to stay in because it means you're still here.

    It's been difficult emotionally since my friend passed away. There is a lot we can't control, but there are things we can do right as well. My personal opinion is that I don't want to have any regrets that I didn't do more to take care of myself and prevent recurrence. If we want to take a break at 2 years, this means that I need to exercise (which can be tough when things ache), eat well (no or little added sugars, high vegetable/fruit diet, low dairy/animal products), reduce environmental toxins where possible, get plenty of rest, reduce stress, and take the Tamoxifen until we're ready to take the break. We've been eliminating products from our home over time as well to reduce the toxins around us. There is a website: www.ewg.org that grades common household products and we started tossing the ones with a D or F grade (regardless of how much was left). We are trying to stay with grades A & B. The same website also has a section for skindeep and it ranks products such as soaps, lotions, hair products, etc from 0-10 with 10 being the most toxic. This gives me the feeling that I have some control over reducing my chances of recurrence. Not sure what the rest of you ladies are doing, but please share if you have any lifestyle changes that you think may benefit us all.

    I turned 30 in November which was a victory and each birthday will be a victory as well. As much as the side effects (aches and pains and fatigue) scare me, I will deal with them as long as they are "normal" for post treatment. I pray we don't lose any more people from our group. Do we know if anyone is keeping a list of the original members and how everyone is doing today? Hoping we all are blessed with many more years of checking in.

  • kk11
    kk11 Member Posts: 210
    edited April 2013

    Hi ladies, it's been quiet on here! 2 years ago today I was diagnosed and I wanted to come on here and tell you all how grateful I am that I found you and that we were able to support each other through our journies. Hope you're all just busy living life again and that you are happy and healthy!

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited April 2013

    Hi KK and all - today is my two year "cancerversary" too.  Thinking of all of you and glad I got to go through it with you.

  • rabbit
    rabbit Member Posts: 613
    edited May 2013

    hi all!!!!! it is quiet here, I am to blame too, I am so busy, health issues and personal stuff and think about you all constantly!

    J-Bug how the heck are you??!!! I had an oopherectomy, I finished chemo Dec 7th, had my lumpectomy Jan 5th then the oopherectomy Jan 31st then started rads end of March.....so I wasn't working much at all through that time frame, I had so many health issues from the chemo, surgeries, rads that to this day, I'm lucky to get in a few hours a day (I work from home doing internet ads) But for me, the oopherectomy was pretty easy. It was hard to get in and out of bed, and I was certainly sore, but I expected it to be much worse than it was. 

    shinypop, I am so sorry you are having so many problems with sicknesses, cancer does suck!!!! Thinking of you!

    Kristien, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. Hang in there!!

    Right now my cousin is back in chemo, she had appendix cancer, and a few week ago they found a mass in her sigmoid...not good :( A very good friend of mine is in chemo for life, with ovarian cancer and I went to her sister's funeral less than a year ago when she passed fromm colon cancer. 2 girls (I say girls, they are younger than me) in my Gilda's bc group have had a few recurrences, one in the brain 2x and one in the neck then sternum. 

    My dad has had horrible luck, he had sepsis from the prostate biopsy in Nov, stayed with me and mom for weeks til he recovered, was in the hospital for 5 days... Had his prostate surgery in Feb. and the surgeon nicked his bowel (again in hospital for 5 days, needed blood transfusion, stayed with me for 3 weeks) he put a few stitches in where he nicked the bowel but they didn't hold. he had to get a colostomy in March, so he's 71 has had the catheter in since Feb and the colostomy since March. The theory was to keep the bladder empty and by diverting the bowel keeping the fistula dry so it can heal....it has closed a tiny bit but he will probably need surgery to repair it and then hopefully the colostomy reversal. 

    Now to me, I have been getting epidurals regularly, in pain management since end of chemo, arthritis and stenosis flared up something fierce since chemo. Then a few months ago I could hardly get out of bed, I was in tears, as it turns out after an MRI I have a synovial cyst in between L4-L5....and I'm so arthritic there, if they remove the cyst, I will need a spinal fusion, the cyst is pressing up against a main nerve, it was insanely horrible pain every morning for 4-5 weeks...an epidural made it better but now after a few physical therapies, it' getting worse again....trying to avoid surgery but not sure at this point what I'm going to do.

    Happy cancerversary to everyone, mine is June 6

    Love to all, I will pop in every now and then, miss you guys but don't miss the chemo days!!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2013

    Hi everyone,

    Hope all of you are enjoying life and doing fun and interesting things.

    Happy 2-yr C-versary to KK, Rabbit, bcisnofun!  Mine is May 31.  Happy 2-years to everyone!!

    I had another follow-up mammo on May 17, which was all clear. :)

    I am now on anastrozole; minor aches; deal with by ignoring and working out and lifting weights.  I dress in layers and ignore the hot flashes as best I can.  Otherwise, all is good.  My Dexascan prior to starting the anastrozole showed no sign of osteopenia or osteoporosis.  Yeah!

    Enjoy the summer.  Planning to go scuba diving soon.

  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited July 2013

    all is well, just checking in.  Hate tamoxifen but who likes it right?

    miss you all

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited July 2013

    Hi Dexxy - why do you hate it?  Hope all is well with you ladies. 

  • kk11
    kk11 Member Posts: 210
    edited August 2013

    Hi ladies - sorry I keep missing you. Hope everyone is doing well and just busy having normal lives! I am thankful to be healthy and to be surrounded by those I love. My father was nearly killed after being hit by a car while riding his bicycle in June, but he's recovering very well and the accident served as a reminder to appreciate what we have when we have it. 2 years ago, I was still getting AC and getting ready to move to Taxol. I couldn't walk down the hallway of my building without being tired. Now I'm running 5ks with regularity (I've gone up to 10k). A little knee pain here and there, but I don't let it slow me down! :)

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited August 2013

    wow kk - 10k!  You've come a long way in the last two years.  Congratulations! 

    I met a woman yesterday at sephora who was diagnosed when she was 24 at stage 3.  She was ER/PR positive and single with no children.  She's now 44, married and has two children and no signs of cancer.  Don't you love meeting those people? :)

  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited August 2013

    just tired of the side effects, one week will be fine then the next I'll have hot flashes, and my memory just plain out stinks.  I also have this horrible numbing of the tongue that comes and goes.  I'm not complaining really it just wears on me.

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited August 2013

    wow, those are bummer side effects.  I had weird eye symptoms at first, and some hot flashes and then nothing except some toe cramps.  I'm lucky I guess. 

    wishing everyone well!

  • J-Bug
    J-Bug Member Posts: 626
    edited October 2013


    Tamoxifen - I have been been trying to sort out foot pain and leg cramps. I was told that I had planter fasciitis and a herniated disc is my lower back. But I feel like I have a lot of swelling in my joints, especially hands and feet. I was out of the med for a couple of weeks and now getting back on it in the last couple of days, I am waking up with all my joints hurting again. It reminds me of Taxol. I would wake up with a lot of joint pain and once I started moving around, it would get somewhat better. I have been seeing a chiropractor for adjustments to my back, hip and feet. It is helping some, but I keep wondering if there is something else going on with joint inflammation.

  • misswim
    misswim Member Posts: 931
    edited October 2013


    I have had terrible cramps in my feet and legs, J-Bug. I am taking a double dose of magnesium and it is helping a lot. I also tried the bar of soap placed in a sock at the bottom of the bed at night, and have not had a cramp since. Hope you are well. Miss you girls@!!

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited October 2013


    haven't heard the old bar of soap in a sock routine missswim - do share! :)

  • kk11
    kk11 Member Posts: 210
    edited November 2013


    bcisnofun - I love that story! It does give me hope that I will have the same!


    dexxy - I struggle with memory and concentration issues myself. It sucks. I used to take pride in my memory, but now I have to write things down and then I lose the damn paper I wrote on! But it's not as bad as it was immediately after chemo. I do credit exercise with helping improve everything. By the way, I'm in Foster City which is right next to San Mateo!


    J-Bug - I too have joint issues. I felt more of it earlier on with Tamoxifen, but I also feel like it's worse in the mornings, like I'm stiff and I need to loosen up. My big toe on my right foot has been hurting for months now and I have hip and knee issues as well. All of them are related to running, but before chemo, I never had these kinds of issues and I bounced back from injuries. Now, it just lingers. I know someone else who gets horrible leg cramps as well. I have gotten them in my feet and those feel painful!


    Misswim - Thanks for the magnesium tip! I'll pass it along to my friend who has those cramps really bad. I may try it myself as well since I have issues with foot cramps.


    For my update - I kept up my running and decided to run in support of a friend of mine who had her cancer return in her lung. She was trying to raise money for treatments not covered by insurance (more natural route), which she was going to do in addition to traditional treatment, so I promised to run a mile for everyone who contributed to her cause. She had over 100 contributors, so I laced up my shoes and started upping my mileage. Before I knew it, I was up to 8 miles for my long run of the week. So I decided to sign up for my first half marathon (which is 13.1 miles though this course was actually 13.3). I ran it and finished it on October 27th. My knee and hip started hurting at about mile 3, so the last 10 miles were painful, but I pushed through. I think BC has taught me I can get through anything. I finished in a respectable time considering the pain. The 2nd part of my update is that I'll have been on Tamoxifen for 2 years and 1 months on November 18th. That is the day (as long as my visit with my oncologist this week goes well) that I will stop Tamoxifen to try to have a baby (the one we started trying for at the start of 2010 before everything came crashing down). We'll be able to start trying by the end of the year (after a 6 week waiting period) and I'm hoping in 2014 we'll either have a baby or have one on the way! I'll get back on the Tamoxifen after I have a baby, so this is just until I have a baby and can get through a few months of breastfeeding (if it works out since I only have one breast now). My annual physical went well and the anemia issues I was experiencing earlier this year appear to be under control based on some of the tests that have come back already (still waiting on Vitamin D and CBC but already got back the iron, B12, metabolic panel, and cholesterol tests - All look GREAT). I hope you are all doing well and feeling healthier with each passing day!

  • J-Bug
    J-Bug Member Posts: 626
    edited December 2013

    kk11 - That's great that you are keeping up with the running! I am trying to get into some fitness again. With grad school and full time work, it is a very full schedule. I got a fitbit for Christmas and have been busy getting that set up and looking for ways to incorporate that into life. I am trying to go up and down our stairs at work every time I go down the hall to use our restroom which is something I always did at previous jobs. I have to get myself on our treadmill more though. My metabolism needs a swift kick!

    Is anyone in the group using a fitbit? I miss talking to you guys! 

    My joint complaints are getting a bit better. I know that part of the problem is too much time in front of the computer with school and work. But at home and work I have a desk that moves from sitting to standing at the push of a button. That helps the hip pain but makes my back and feet worse. So the more I walk and alternate sitting and standing, it feels like I am getting some strength back. I sleep with splints on every night for plantar fasciitis and that is helping my feet a ton. 

    dexxy - I had a difficult time with memory and my doctor recommended fish oil, CoQ10 and vitamin B complex. They seem to help a lot. However, when my weight and eating are not good, it feels like my blood sugar is off which seems to make my memory and overall mental skills worse. Do you know how your glucose has been testing in your blood panels? My MO said that chemo and anesthesia can really affect the body's ability to maintain blood sugar properly. (More incentive for me to get moving!)

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