I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Home heating oil $3.60 a gallon in western ma, hope you're sitting down for this one, a friend in Maine just paid $4.50 a gallon. At least he has a wood stove...that's still a whopping price. We expect it to go down - it was up to $3.90 here a few months ago. First time I haven't bought it in advance on a contract, just as needed cuz the price has been coming down. I only use about 450 gal a year, so not such a big hit when divided by 12, for heat & hot water.
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Sun - my goal is to see if I can get by with 120 gallons this year (heat only). (My house is only 1200 sq ft) I do not have central anything, just a "monitor" heater (very popular in my parts). We've had a warmish oct/nov thus far, so only have turned on this main heat source for about 20 hours total, thus far. Normally, our winter lows are in the 10-20's in Dec/Jan...then 20's/30's later in the winter (it's snowing now), so this will be a challenge for me - but BC wiped me out..having to travel so far for treatment. I've gotten my electric bill down to $58 a month, $68 with A/C, so my guess is that electricity will be the cheaper way to go.
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E - report for duty please.....how did you day go?
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Alexandria, DH and I are also well-off and stand to pay quite a bit more under the President's tax plan ....we have already been in the AMT for about 5 years now. I don't mind, either. We make more and we should pay more so that people can get health care and housing and food and job training and a hand up when they need it. The really amusing thing about the funhouse mirror is that they believe (much like their delusional party) that we are all poor and don't work. That makes me laugh.
I remember when Dumbya passed his tax cut -- we sat right here in our family room wherre I am sitting now, raving to each other about what a surpassingly STOOOOOPID idea it was, because we KNEW hard times would come and the country would need that money. Bridges were crumbling even then ... Railways need to be modernized ... Air traffic control NexGen was in development... And the well-to-do people like us were just going to put it in our mutual funds and not spend it. And we were right.
I love being a New Deal Democrat!
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Oh my God. Just read the stupidest post. So here is my answer. Won't place it there (not where you think) because some people might think I am serious:
Yeah, really - they (doctors) are going to come at us with pitch forks now that democrats have won! All these handouts....murder's one of them.
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Rad onc says radiation twice a day for 4-5 weeks. They do a lower dose twice a day to try to preserve the nerves.
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Alexandria & HL, we're in the same boat. We'll be paying more but it is for the greater good.
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If you are or grew up rich or privileged and voted for Obama, raise your hand....
Loads of us!
There are no handouts under Obama. None beyond the imagination of lying republicans. There are opportunities to hand back. And a TON of people feel privileged to do that.
Obama epitomized success - he epitomizes the self-made man and the American dream. He IS rich and successful himself.
The blatant lie that he or his supporters do not like success/like handouts is BULLSHIT.
And I hope this reverberates across fences.
Stop believing the lies your jealous masters feed you. Obama is a capitalist and a fairly conservative one. He is supported by other fairly conservative capitalists. And there are a lot of nasty bigots who are really, really envious of that.
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We're not what I'd call rich or privileged, but we're certainly not hurting. Fairly solidly middle class. I've worked my entire life (started at 17) and raised two children as a single parent for a number of years -working all the while.
I was angry that Obama didn't let the tax cut expire the last time, though I'm not anxious for higher taxes, I know that it's necessary to get the country back on its feet. We need to fix our infrastructure. People need jobs. Sounds like a marriage made in heaven to me....
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GG - the angriest I got at Obama is when he agreed to the extension of the Bush tax cuts for those making over 250,000.
He has been more conservative than I would have liked - which is what makes the talk of socialist-communists-freehandouts so absurd. But its like chickadee said - the carny mirrors - everything distorted.
Enjoyful - hugs. Hoping for painless and successful treatment.
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Raising hand as not exactly rich but definitely well-off and privileged. I haven't worked a paid job in years and when I did it was always for extras. DH retired last fall at the age of 58 and still works part time for the same outfit just to stay busy and because they told him they seriously would have to go out of business without him. So he works the hours he wants to and is trying to get them set up so that when he's ready to walk away they can stay in business. I think DH's actions in saving the boss's business contributed along with Romney's lies and offshore bank accounts to the boss voting Democratic for the first time. I don't think he had considered voting Democratic before and DH was a good influence on him.
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Doctors with pitch forks? My gf's Tuesday night election party was with a roomful of pro-Obama general surgeons and family practicioneers, including her husband. For some reason, the orthopods like Romney.

Whose calling the smartest woman, the smartest anyone, on television "an idiot?" I guess they can't recognize intelligence when confronted with it. Splains a lot.
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Alexandria - he's been more conservative than I would have liked as well - and you ought to hear my hubby on the subject!!!
E - same goes for me. Hoping for an easy and successful treatment
I want chocolate.
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Didn't grow up rich, and I'm not very well off, but I didn't vote for Obama for the free stuff I would get. What a ridiculous idea.
Mary
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I want some free stuff too. I think I just saw Merle and Daryl!
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Yeah for chocolate! We have a cake in the frig. Now, before or after dinner......
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I'll take Daryl though!
ETA - A Canadian Wop!
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I think some people should just quit their jobs (if they have one), give away their money and go live on all that 'free stuff' they say they know about. Sure ... give it a try. Please do get back to us with how it all works out for you.
Somebody really should have told us "Lazy Libs" sooner that we were supposed to be living on handouts and free stuff. When I think of all the years this night owl had to get up at 5:00 am to go to work it's almost enough to make me

Obama is a classic American success story. So was Bill Clinton and they hated him too. Go figure.
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Speaking of "free stuff,"...well, this is sort of a curious thing to have happenned in California. In the fog of chemo, I absolutely forgot to pay my DMV registration for my second (old) car. When I finally felt well enough to go through my stacks of mail, I'm OMG, Oh ****, I forgot all about this registration! By this time, the penalties amounted to $83. I went to the DMV, in person (and easy thing to do in a small town) and just casually mentioned I was 5 months late due to having chemo (ok, my friends are constantly training me to use the cancer card, but in this case, I'm going, "the government, no way," but I was embarassed for being so late, so thought I'd mention the reason). Next thing I know, the woman at the desk is sending me to the head honcho...I said "Why?" "We'll get you a waiver for that $83 for being being ill." I was shocked given how we are taught to think of our government as a heartless bureaucracy....ofcourse, it is a double-edge sword in that CA could use the money, but it truely was one of those one shot (hopefully) deals in my life.
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I'm just hearing Romney was "shell shocked" that he didn't win election nite. No sucession speech planned, a web page ready to introduce the transition and the new "President-elect", etc. etc. How could this be? Their team had the same access to polls as Obama's team. Did they expect voter suppression to work? Did they expect some other sort of miracle of votes to switch?? This expectation seems unreasonable GIVEN THE FACTS. It reminds me of the story of Florida first being declared for Gore in 2000 and Papa Bush (or maybe it was Jeb Bush) saying "That can't be." Oh why not was my question? What did you know that those counting the votes did not?
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Romney was ill served by his advisors - this would call into question his ability as commander in chief. They miscalculated in the face of publicly available information that was accurate.
That's what happens when you run an anti-fact campaign - the facts end up eating you - lol!
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Wow !!!! Free is good, hope we don't have to wait too long to get it. I think Faux Fox takes people's brains and partially dissolves them in something.
My gas...I don't know exactly......but we are on a budget plan. For ten months out of the year we pay $90.00 per month with two months off. We also got an I heater which cut our propane usuage in at least half so now pay about $110.00 per month for that. Essentially.....we add $30.00 per month to our electric bill so we can have more heat ( using the two different sources ) on a daily basis. It is usually warm at my house in the open LR, kitchen/dining and lg foyer area -- going into the individual bed rooms and bath can feel chilly but truly isn't that bad.
We pay $3.19 cents for gasoline. We are not well off, our major problem is having to save so long for home repairs or updates, or replacement appliances etc. We don't have savings......that all went pretty much during my medical upsets after getting BC.
I feel that I am fortunate....I can still work at 67 and do. I don't ask for freebies and don't expect them....from anyone. I have a loving family though I do consider the Republican part of it, just as delusional as the next door people. I avoid them when possible because doom, and gloom and "odd" theories take up too much of my time for nothing. I seldom refuse to help anyone if I am able and for several years now.....7 or 8, I lost track some time back, I go out to several feral cat colonies ( a few of them will let me pet them though they are wary ) and feed them every day, 365 days a year unless it is pouring and they they won't come out. I'm thrilled to see my Pres. get a second term as he is soooo deserving, but I kept my mouth shut about all the ones I did not like and thought were doing a terrible job.
I don't have much but I have a real life and when I listen to some of the things said over there....I almost feel sorry for those people....brainwashed by a rather idiotic news source that as my Dad used to say is so worthless they couldn't pour piss out of a good boot. My family taught me to think for myself.....it was a lot easier before BC, but I'm not so bad off I can't tell good from bad.
Alexandria....did I hear you offer chocolate cake....double yum !!!
Jackie
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Athena - they hire pollsters too. I don't get it. Did they hire only those that would tell them things they wanted to hear? I realize on many levels, Romney lived in an insular world, but you'd think even he had heard of Nate Silver and questioned where Silver was getting his stats from? I just don't buy that it was incompetence. Honestly, if I were to give him a bye, it would be he acted dumb so he wouldn't have to tell his rich donors he was taking money from them while knowing he didn't have much of a chance in hell.
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Rove looked like an idiot having a tantrum about how Ohio could not be going for Obama too. Does make you wonder if they thought some kind of fix was in. On the other hand they seem to be capable of believing all sorts of stuff that makes no sense. Most everything before and during the election pointed to an Obama win ... obviously these guys are not as smart as they think they are.
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Something is just not adding up. I saw that Rove on Faux clip on Ohio. He's sitting there penciling votes outstanding as someone is shouting counties not in...maybe he was confused, on the fly. what votes were still out there in which counties....listen, I could do better than that with tools available on the web. People in Rove's position are not unaware of the science/math of this, no matter the propoganda they might spew. His dismay was an act, imo...whether the act was because he knew something else or was hiding something from his sure-to-be-mad donors, is my question. Romney's act is another story...seriously, something is fishy here.
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Jackie - I love your posts! (If you don't mind my repetition)
Kam and Wabbit - I can only explain it to myself by going on what has happened to the large Wall Street houses that have crashed, or to Enron. There is sort of a folie a deux that becomes a folie a many....a mass delusion fed by a group of people which at one point has amassed a lot of power and believes it has hit on an infallible formula for succes that will yield huge returns every time. Rove was right in 2000 and 2004, so why would 2012 be any different....
Campaigns do microtargeting in the way that most pollsters don't and they also often operate under great pressure. I can imagine scenarios of selective insider polling constructed to keep GOP donors happy and the boss at peace. The GOP has long fovored consensus over open-ness, so a pleasing poll in that culture may have more value than an accurate one. I think that with all the money coming into the RNC and the PACS, people there ASSUMED that it would pay off - how could it not, if money buys everything, right?? They over estimated their power. There was a lot of hubris, just as there was in Hillary's 2008 capaign.
There was also the mass feeding of lies that keep getting repeated until the brain cannot process information any other way. the same delusion/naivete that has gripped Wall Street and led to the more spectacular scandals and bankruptcies. The word on the street is that x investment is good - it's got to be great, and with so-and-so and also so-also-so backing it, how can it fail??
Every risk assessment has data that favors it and data that does not. The good analysts know which data is important when. I think the Romney people were so insular that they only paid attention to the promising data and were able to dismiss the rest.
The other explanation I come up with is that when you are dishonest you often think other peole are too. So if you lie to your base, ignore science and try to convince people that Fox is fair and accurate, then the other side must be doing the same....right??? To these people, Nate Silver was "the other side." It didn't really occur to them that he would not fudge the numbers, because they assumed he was an apparatchik just like them. As it turned out, they were wrong.
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Jackie: chocolate cake with ice cream on the house. C'mon over. It's part of that free stuff that liberals voted for.
Someone today said that Fox needs a new slogan "Math that Republicans can believe in."
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Ok, I have just found one of those infamous "freebies."


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Yorkie...do you think we could get some KoolAid to go with that.
Jackie
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Grape!
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