I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Mary - congrats on all clear
Does anyone else want to WELCOME the newest DEMOCRATIC SENATOR from North Dakota:
Attorney General Heidi Heitkamp
YEAH!!!! Women in the Senate....DEMOCRATIC women in the Senate...happy dancing...with a very VERY special Welcome for Tammy Baldwin - more happy dancing...
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Loving Tammy Baldwin's win! In an example of "change is possible and reason CAN prevail," my 87-year-old rock-ribbed Republican father-in-law who lives in Wisconsin told my husband on Monday that he was voting for Tammy Baldwin because "Thompson is nothing but a liar. He lies and lies and then lies some more. You couldn't trust him to tell you the time of day correctly!" He voted for President Obama in 2008 - the first Democrat he voted for for President ever. Not sure who he voted for this year, but DH told him that he would never vote for another Republican again, for any office, for as long as he lived -- and FIL listened!
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Great news in ND -- and also Montana.
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RR sorry about your FIL - glad we could be here together for you.
Lewing - was it you who posted the article about the Canadian economy? One of the reasons we didn't "go down the tubes" was our banking system - it is closely watched over by the government - and that's a good thing - no "funny mortgages" here - our economy has been strong although it dipped in '08 like everywhere else and government is afraid that another dip in the U.S. economy will send ours down again but we're doing o.k. and we HAVE HEALTHCARE FOR EVERYONE! Canada isn't perfect but it's pretty close
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Love Canada!!! If only it wasn't so cold.... brrrrrr

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Goodmorning all, a bit slow this morning but good to see everyone in good heart. My liberal/conservative DH shocked neighbouirs by saying he was really pleased Obama had won.
Back to our petty politics today. We have a PM (Prime Minister) who makes such awful gaffs, always putting his foot in it.
Have a good day, no matter what side you were on because the world will not fall apart and if you voted you have the right to say what you think.
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My thanks to everyone. My father-in-law is in a very nice hospice now. My husband says it is beautiful and they are treating Pops like a king. More importantly they are controlling his pain now. The doctors don't believe he will linger long and believe they can continue to keep him comfortable. We are all very reassured by that.
As to other matters I will never figure out people who think the way that has been discussed, and boy the good news continues to roll in for Democrats, doesn't it?!
One other thing, I don't want them to do away with the filibuster. It has its uses. But it is in desperate need of reform. It was never intended to put a stop to all business. If they want to filibuster make them freaking filibuster - and don't stop things from coming up for discussion, that's just stupid.
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RR ... I hope they are able to keep your FIL comfortable. ((hugs)) to you all.
Mary ... clear is even better than boring!
"If they want to filibuster make them freaking filibuster" ... A big YES to that. The Democrats need to quit folding at the threat and make them go through with it. And put the whole side show on TV and all over the internet for everybody to see. Call their bluff!!!
ETA ... Congress has a putrid approval rate of about 15%. A steady stream of newcasts showing filibusters would not help any of the participants. And after 2 or 3 they might even be smart enough to figure that out.
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Here is a link to Obama's victory speech. I was asleep when it happened, but just reading it brings tears to my eyes:
I hope rules are tightened to make the filibuster a rare parliamentary maneuver - not a form of government, which was what the GOP was doing.
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RR - sorry to hear about your FIL, but it does sound like he's in the best possible place.
Mary - congrats! Great to have it over.
On the filibuster: here's my take. Go back to when you actually had to talk - be on the floor - do something. That way the filibuster can be used when a Senator feels strongly enough, but not as casually as has been done in the lst 4 years. Make them work for it. You have to stand and read the phone book for 48 hours, you'll reserve the tactic.
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Remember Jimmy Stewart in "Mr. Smith Goes to Washington"? Now THAT was proper filibustering!
Yes, I'm so grateful that our banking system is set up in such a way that regulations absolutely forbid the nonsense and tragic consequences we saw in the U.S. 4 years ago. We're also fortunate that our resource-rich nation has the ability to sell to emerging nations. Oh yes, and Ontario and the federal government also helped keep our auto industry alive. No way were we going to let it go bankrupt!
Just heard Howard Dean on NPR state that he expects Florida to be declared for Obama within the next few hours. Again, hats off to those wonderful folks with the stamina and the WILL to vote while standing in line for hour after hour.
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One last thing, on the death penalty. Athena, I have to disagree with you. I worked to abolish the dp here in NJ, and while I understand the emotion that some people deserve to die, I don't believe that it is good for our society to have a death penalty. The strongest argument against it: I met at least half a dozen people who had been sentenced to death and were later exonerated. This isn't just let go for a technicality - it is exonerated. Someone else did the murder. There are a number of instances of people who did not commit the murder who were executed and then the truth uncovered afterwards. Further, the cost of the death penalty is not only in money - and it is very, very expensive. It is especially expensive if you do care about not executing the wrong person, even though all the money doesn't guarantee it. The price is also exacted on the guards and on the people involved in the execution. Someone has to actually kill the condemned. Someone has to take a living human being, strap him down, and stick needles in his veins. I've met with people who worked on death row in Texas and it can destroy psychologically. Finally, the US and Japan are the only industrialized countries that have a death penalty, and Japan executes far fewer people than we do. We are in the company of such illustrious countries as Iran, China, Saudi Arabia. I agree that drug dealers are despicable - so are serial killers - but there has to be a wayto keep them in prison for life without lowering ourselves to kill them.
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RR, so sorry about your FIL. We've lost my MIL and both my parents since we were married. DH's father died before we met. Anyway, even though they were all very old, it is still so hard. As my DH said, it's like losing a part of your history. Pieces cut out of your life, leaving only memories of what was. Hugs to you and your DH.
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Alexandria - I agree 1000%. I used to agree with the death penalty, as I knew that if someone killed one of my loved ones I would no longer want them to be alive either, but with time and study (and a lot of discussion with my anti-death penalty hubby) I have changed my mind. We all know that there are people who are imprisoned unjustly. They can never get the lost time back, but they can be released, once the truth is known. If someone is put to death unjustly, there is no way to bring them back to life. Life imprisonment for serial killers - yes. Death penalty - no.
JMO

As for the filibuster - amen. Make them USE it, don't just take things out of discussion due to the possibility that they will use it. If they really need to talk for 48 hours straight, then they probably won't threaten it quite as often. Also, people NEED to see what is going on so they can begin to understand somewhat just how government works. They just listen to FOX and Rush (and others of his ilk) and keep repeating the same crazy stuff.
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Been running around and just seeing that there is some ignorance being spread on other thread pertaining to FEMA. I don't want to read over there for good reason. However, I stated my opinion for the record and they can use the information, or not, as they see fit.
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I agree that the death penalty has been awfully misused - if it were reserved for cases of multiple crimes, and if the evidenciary requirements were stronger, things would be much, much better.
But I do believe there are people who are neither safe to be on the streets NOR in prison. They are dangerous and harmful to others as long as they are alive.
I am an atheist, so the act of human judgement does not faze me.
Yes, I admit that the US is one of the few civilized countries allowing it. To be honest, we are also one of the few that seem to spawm such despicable crimes. The United States and other countries fall into this category. The Canadians and Europeans oppose the death penalty, but they don't get some of the crimes we do - they just don't.
I am a privacy freak so I don't want to relate where my point of view comes from, but when you have looked over into the hole of evil --time and again-- you will see what I mean. (No - neither I nor a close person was a victim of crime - it isn't about me - I would NEVER support such a strong policy based on experience.)
People deserving the death penalty: John Gotti, Ted Bundy, Pablo Escobar, Osama Bin Laden
People NOT deserving the death penalty: A "cop killer."
I think I will agree to disagree with many folks here. My views on this issue are not hunches - there are too many layers to them.
Anyway.....I wanted to cut and paste this showing the tide of change - Boehner willing to consider "revenue" to solve the fiscal cliff crisis....Is the Reagan revolution Over (God, I hope so!)
Republicans are “willing to accept new revenue” to tame the soaring national debt and avert an ugly battle over the approaching “fiscal cliff,” House Speaker John A. Boehner said Wednesday in a speech that offered a potential path to compromise in year-end budget negotiations.
With President Obama reelected and Republicans returned to a slightly smaller majority in the House, Boehner (R-Ohio) said Tuesday’s election amounted to a plea from voters for the parties to lay down their weapons of the past two years and “do what’s best for our country.”
“That is the will of the people. And we answer to them,” Boehner said, according to advance excerpts of a speech he planned to deliver at an afternoon news conference at the Capitol. “For purposes of forging a bipartisan agreement that begins to solve the problem, we’re willing to accept new revenue, under the right conditions.”
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Athena, I respect your point of view. Having been intimately involved with this issue, I will say that you're not incorrect that those people deserve to die. Yet the other problems I mentioned with it still exist, and it is so hard to limit the death penalty to particularly henious crimes. Justice Blackmun, I recall, tried to do so and finally gave up in frustration, saying he would no longer tinker with the mechanism of death.
Europe has experienced mass murders. The guy in Norway who shot and murdered some 90 odd people. Bombing. And serial killers do not know national boundaries. It's easier to kill here in the US because of the culture of guns, but we're not alone in terrible crimes.
BTW, I don't consider Osama Bin Laden an example of the death penalty. He was killed in the course of action and in a war. I am against the dp, but I'm not a quaker. I believe in self-defense.
I'll believe Boehner is willing to accept new revenue when I see it.
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To give Boehner his due, I don't really think he's the obstructionist he has appeared to be for the last two years, he's been driven by the tea party. Mitch McConnel, however, is a different kettle of fish altogether, as is Cantor. Or, maybe I'm just looking through rose-colored glasses today. Time will certainly tell.
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I had to "mute" Boehner because he actually started talking about Reagan and George Schultz - puleeeeeze just stay on the damned golf course and off the TV Mr. Boehner - no one cares anymore.
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Alexandria - on your last line, me too!
But I think it is incredible that he even mouthed the words. What a sea change - none of the arrogance on 2008 is there, and Obama won by a much higher margin back then.
There are innumerable problems associated with the death penalty - and the administration of human justice in general. The problem with our federal system is that we have one nation, a set of values and sometimes completely contradictory judgrements being handed down by jurists across the land.
Europe has had its spectacular cases. Who can forget the English doctor who killed scores of his patients in the 80s and 90s, for example. But with us these things are a daily ocurrence. And in some countries I have seen unimaginable things pass for daily fare in peacetime.
I wager that we all have contradictory views on this. For example, I support the death penalty but oppose solitary confinment....and I can't fully explain why. Also, I am very strong on prisoners' rights - I also support full voting rights for convicted felons who have served their time.
One more thing about the death penalty: I am glad --VERY glad-- that when the Nuremberg trials happened, Europeans agreed on death as an acceptable punishment.
I think after the horrors of WWII Europe became more civilized. We haven't gotten there yet, and nor have some other countries.
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Do you know that the state of Israel only allows the death penalty for genocide, and crimes against humanity. Only one person - Adolph Eichmann - was ever civilly executed in Israel. I will say that I could probably support an Israeli style death penalty.
As an attorney whose done some criminal law, I agree that the justice system is very flawed. But the death penalty is unique, in that it is irreversible.
Just an aside, I respect your privacy and your reasons for believing as you do, but I did want to mention that the founder of our New Jersey group here was Lorry Post, a lovely older gentleman whose daughter was murdered by her husband. Everyone reacts differently to such tragedies, though. Lorry found some peace in trying to help a man in Florida on death row whom Lorry believed to be innocent but who was nevertheless executed. Lorry then with four other people started the group New Jerseyans for Alternatives to the Death Penalty.
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I have the dubious distinction of living in the county in Texas that sent Michael Morton to prison for life for supposedly murdering his wife. He served 25 years of his precious life due to apparent misconduct on the part of the Sheriff and the Dist Atty at the time. The innocence project finally was able to secure Morton's freedom last year. It led to a major upheaval in the current District Attorneys office here as he tried for nearly 6 years to stop DNA testing that finally exonerated Mr Morton. Judge Ken Anderson, previously the Dist Atty who prosecuted the case is now up to his ass in proceedings to determine if he deliberately withheld evidence. The current district atty lost the primary race this spring based solely on his handling of the case.
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Alexandria, That is a touching story. If I had a loved one murdered I have no idea how I would react. Perhaps with mercy - who knows. My own views on crime and punishment are entirely shaped by my professional and general observational life, though, so in that sense they are "clean."
But the act of murder itself should never be an automatic death sentence. Some people who kill are good and some are evil.
Israel has had some proud moments as a nation/justice system in its handling of Nazi criminals. The execution of Eichmann is a tough one, but one that I would support for another reason that may strike some here as controversial:
Retribution.
Eichmann, like many Nazi criminals, may have lived a fairly quiet, innocuous existence with no harm to anyone once the war was over. Most of these people "retired" and did not go on to do anything one could consider criminal (although some did). Therefore, even though their crimes were monstrous, they would not meet the second of the two conditions I outlined earlier as deserving of the death penalty - that the person be dangerous even in prison.
But crimes against humanity are public crimes, and they are committed in the name of a nation or a set of ideas. They are therefore acts that could be perpetrated by just about anyone who happens to be of that ideology. In this sense, the Nazis created thousands upon thousands of criminals. People who might not have raised a hand ended up leaving a mark on history that had to be avenged.
I do believe that a civilized society can reasonably and humanely accommodate the idea of retribution as partial justification for punishment. In the case of Eichmann, the retribution belonged not only to Israel but also to humanity. But in the case of Israel, the existence of such a man represents what would have been a threat to the nation's existence and his continued survival would have, IMO, made it appear that his crimes have an iota of acceptability.
Many peacenicks just don't get these things, IMO. I'm sounding like such a conservative here. Alexandria, I am loving this discussion -conversations about the death penalty so often get trapped up in the immediate politics of who was accused when that it is often hard to debate the topic in a more philosophical way.
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The state house in Texas shifted just enough with New Democrats that the Repubs no longer have the mischief making super majority. A ray of hope.
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I basically agree. With Eichman, it wasn't the man that continued to be dangerous. It was the idea, the idea that one could murder millions of people simply because of their religion or nationality. It was particularly important that it be Jews who did it because of the slander that Jews wouldn't or couldn't fight - and to set a precedent. Throughout history, Jews have been slaughtered, and nobody did anything about it. Jews historically rarely fought or resisted. Israel has changed that, in so many ways. The execution of Eichman sent a message that those who commit genocide against the Jews will be hunted down and killed.
I do believe that reasonable people of good will can differ on this topic. I do understand the desire to rid the world of certain dangerous people. But very dangerous people can be imprisoned in ways that prevent their hurting others, even other prisoners. That has to be done at times with people not on death row. I still maintain that the downsides of having a death penalty generally, (I will exempt genocide), i.e. risk of executing the innocence, expense, psychological damage to those who carry it out, are greater than any benefit of ridding the world of certain very evil individuals.
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Hi Alyson! Is your PM as bad as our Biden? That man makes gaffes an art form.
Hugs for RR in this very difficult time. I am so glad you find distraction here. I do too!
Death penalty - I am firmly against it for two reasons - the risk of error and the cost to successfully execute someone. Its far far less expensive to keep murderers locked up for life. BONUS REASON - I want to personally dispose of anyone who touches my people.
Hugs to biscuit-type people and all others having a bad day. My day has sucked beyond belief and I could use me some hugs. -
Given that death is such special punishment, it's possible to argue that it should be governed by stricter rules of evidence and that some uniformity should be applied across the land. There would be constitutional problems with doing that - but I so wish it could be done. Death should require more crimes, more evidence but it should also happen more quickly. Unfortunately, if it became a federal policy issue, I could see it becoming an election one as well.
I am against scrapping a policy because of how it is mismanaged, though. And there have been some tragic and outrageous cases of injustice and mismanagement of the death penalty in the United States. Blacks have borne a disproportionate amount of such punishment, for one - but that to me does not argue against the death penalty, but against racism.
I'm afraid I am a hopeless idealist - I support or oppose policies based on their intrinsic value. I prefer to concentrate on changing the actual management if that is where the problem lies. Many people support the legalization of hard drugs because they claim we are losing the so-called war on drugs. To me, the reasoning there doesn't follow and is rather morally shallow. If we're "losing" we have to win - not capitulate. Only capitulate if you believe drugs should be legalized. That is like saying "let's legalize murder because it still happens."
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Hugs to shanagirl in that I can remember the absolute mortification I felt in 2000 and 2004. A piece of bad presidential news is a four-year piece of bad news. Not easy to stomach.
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Wishing everyone a glorious evening. I'm just a mite exhausted by having stayed up late to hear the final speeches. I do have high hopes that we will get the business of this country moving in the right direction.......of course that is something every one knows would have happened so much smoother and easier had Mitch McConnell ( smirking idiot that he is ) restrained just a couple of is baser instincts.
I feel like due to many people -- R. Limbaugh Faux News T Partiers, and all those of the ilk have done so much to foster outright refusal to listen to truth and reason, and as well to attempt to work together in any way at all unless like the recent storm, there is no choice.
I also feel at some point all that refusal will become un-sustainable. I mean you can spend hours and days about what is wrong with something, but how much more productive to take what is right and build on it. There will always be out points and things that are not liked --- after all none of us are clones and if something really doesn't fit.....then sane reason will tend to find the proper way to eliminate it and move on.
I know there is much work ahead.....and I think the coming time is going to be so very interesting and I am so glad to be here to share it with so many articulate minds far, far better than mine.
As to death penalty.....I think I am still on the fence. On the one hand, two wrongs usually doesn't make a right. So killing someone because they killed someone is not I think always the answer. I thought about this for a long, long time and felt those who have loved ones murdured ( and I so often have heard the word closure ) never I think really get over it. I mean, so what if the state takes some one's life for it, now it is really over, but I think you won't miss your loved one less. You won't think sometimes of the grand children you might miss having less, or the joy you would see in the accomplishments your loved one might have made, less. You will sill have all the same thoughts and feelings, but hopefully time will remove enough sting from them that you can also have times when happy memories present themselves. So sometimes I think we don't do much when we demand an eye for an eye, and think until we have all found something satisfactory we will probably keep doing things just the way we do them now.
Jackie
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Athena, understand, but again refer you to Justice Blackmun.
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