DCIS questions and confusions, personal stories and issues
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Thank you proudspin about the generic Lipitor!
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That is true, women who share my diagnosis and are older, usually over 60.
Tomoxifen is so routinely prescribed for women similar to me even though the risks outweigh the benefit. Mainly I am thinking of cardio-vascular.
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Just wanted to stop by and report on my DCIS surgery that happened on July 30. Doing pretty well with the recovery . Saw the surgeon Friday Aug 3 and he was pleased with the surgical results and said he got more than he expected with good margins. He took tissue the size of a tangerine slice. He turned me over to the RO and MO teams and I am to see him in 6 months for followup. I am not sure I am going to keep the RO and MO appts next week or have radiation or drug therapy. I will be 66 next month and seems the radiation is for protection/prevention long term against recurrence and at my age I am not in the long term business. The effects of the radiation especially scare me and the cost could destroy our finances. Medicare is not going to pick up all of it and we are still struggling from the out of pocket cost of my husband's heart surgery in 2009. I am trying to figure out how to pay for my biopsy costs as it is.
Seeing what infobabe posted about the risks outweighing the benefits of tamoxifen made me think twice about that treatment too. You guys share great information.
I don't mean to be a downer to you ladies but I am not in a good place right now and want to thank you for your kindness and support over the past few weeks. You are a brave and strong bunch and I wish you all health and happiness.
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Beesie,
Thanks so much for that wonderful informatioin about the radiation and hormone benefits (or not). You helped me so much in deciding not have either due to my age. -
terrikoala- I am so happy to hear you got clean margines, that is good news, You are just as brave and strong as the rest of us. ( I know I am usually scarred sh@tless hahaha) we r all floating this boat together. I am sorry to here you are having a tough time and not in a good place but coming here to the boards does help, at least you r with women who can relate to what your going through and we can support each other through our down times as well as our good times , you are a part of that contribution also.
( can you tell I just learned about the emotioncon?)
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Terri, please, quit talking like longevity is not important to you. I am 10 years older than you I got a lot of living to do. So do you.
You may be a little depressed because if the enormity of it all and finances. Do you know the size if the DCIS? Do you know the margins? I couldn't figure it out for myself but found out from the 2nd opinion. Sounds like you have good ones. Could your doctor tell you how big they are in millimeters.
I think it is time for you to call on Dr. Michael Lagious for a 2nd opinion. You may well be right that you need nothing more but you should have some medical opinion so you know what you are dealing with. The cost is a little over $600 but I just got the bill and it looks like Medicare covered half it and I am sending the rest to my insurance.
I don't know if I sent you the below web sites for financial assistance. Both could be useful. So get that old fighting spirit back and stay with the battle until it is won. Your family can't afford to lose you.
CDC early dection program. If not you may try the Susan G. Komen Foundation
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Terri, I appreciate that you are planning to pass on having both radiation and Tamoxifen but I'd suggest that you keep the appointments with the RO and MO.
With your pathology (a small, grade 2 tumor), good surgical margins and your age, it's probably relatively low risk to skip rads and Tamox. However I would not recommend that you make this decision based on what you've read here; you really need to talk to your doctors about this. We are all laypersons here, providing information based on our own understanding and interpretation. I've done a lot of reading up on DCIS, and over 6 1/2 years I've seen hundreds if not thousands of women come through this board and talk about their situations. But I have no idea if your recurrence risk, without any further treatment, is 4% or 8% or 12%. To really understand your situation and your risk and to know for sure that you are making a low risk decision, you need to have the facts about your specific situation. And that's where the RO and MO come in.
Please talk to the RO and MO and ask what they think your risk of recurrence is without any further treatment, and how much benefit you will get from radiation and Tamoxifen in terms of risk reduction. Ask about rads alone (without Tamox), Tamox alone (without rads) and what your risk reduction will be if you were to have both rads and Tamox. That's the information you should have to make this decision. Hopefully the numbers you get from them will confirm to you that your recurrence risk without any further treatment is low enough that you live comfortably without reducing your risk by having rads and/or Tamox. But what if one of them tells you something that none of us here thought about or mentioned? Or what if there is something about your pathology that presents more risk than what you assume? Hopefully that won't be the case but honestly I would be concerned if you made these decisions without having the input from the RO and MO. I know that they might recommend something different than what you decide to do, but if they provide you with the facts about your recurrence risk and how much benefit you will get from rads and Tamoxifen, then you will have the information you need to make an informed decision.
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I think I gave you a wrong web site a while ago. It is cancermath.net (not.org) They might be doing something with it just now as I think they ae changing the address. But you should be sent to the web site you want. I will check it out.
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Infobabe....when I saw the surgeon Friday the surgery path reports were not there even though they thought they would be but they expected them that afternoon. The wonderful woman who takes care of all that in his office will mail to me immediately when she sends copies to the RO and the MO. I have no idea if the paths will show the size and the margins????? If I do keep my appts with the RO and the MO can they tell me?
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ro-berta
I am so conflicted and you made me smile..thanks. The consenses among my friends and family seems to be that if they got it all with clean margins then I need do nothing else.
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Size and and margins will all be in the report. Make sure it is all DCIS and nothing else in there.
Do your friends and family really want to take the responsibility to make that decision for you? I would need a medical confirmation.
I am not going to nag you anymore but please take that next step.
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infobabe....giggle....you aren't nagging me but maybe I need to be nagged.
No indeed I won't leave my health up to them. When my husband heard the surgeon say he got it all I think he was so relieved he figured that was all that was needed for the future even though the doc talked about a 1% reduction in risk per year within 10 years with radiation. In my heart and mind I know that there are zero guarantees even with the best post surgery treatment but that doesn't mean I don't need to do whats best for me..right?
Will the RO and MO be the ones who can best detail the risks/benefits and % with/without treatment with me?
As for the cost. I have no clue what Medicare will pay/cover. My supplemental insurance is my retiree insurance and now that I have satisfied my $1200 deductible (the biopsy alone took care of that) they will pay 10% of what Medicare will not cover but thats a pittance.
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Terri - for me the MO had all the info about risk and recurrence. She's the one who knows all that stuff. He/she should be able to give you all the numbers and if the MO hesitates, push for them, even he/she has to look them up and get back to you.
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Yes, it's the RO and MO (particularly the MO) who can best tell you the risks and benefits of treatment and the % recurrence risk you face with and without treatment. That's the MO's job. The RO should be able to provide the same info for rads but he has a stake in the game, since he gives rads. The MO is the most objective and he should be able to provide the info for both rads and Tamox.
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Terri...I am with Beesie and Infobabe on this. You have a lot of living left to do at the young age of 66. And the MO will be the best person to read your pathology and discuss the pros and cons of various treatments with you. Even though I opted not to do tamoxifen, and I didn't need rads because I had a mastectomy, I see my MO every 6 months now. He does an exam and assesses any symptoms I am having. My risk of a recurrence is next to nothing and my risk of a new primary breast cancer is very low, but I am so glad I have his eyes and my breast surgeon's on me. Between the two, and my annual mammograms, I am checked 6 times a year. That is a great comfort to me. If I do develop bc again, I want to know that I am catching it early.
In addition, I am glad that I had the discussion with my MO about the tamoxifen... I know that he is at peace with my decision, which is reassuring to me. I know that he knows me a lot better and understands my values, so that I have an excellent relationship with him if I do develop cancer again.
My mother and father both died in their mid-60's of lung cancer. As far as I was concerned, they were young. They had been active and strong, enjoying life when the lung cancer diagnoses hit. On the other hand, my grandmother lived to 82, and was full of life right up until then...
This has been my little share of nagging. Please don't rely on us for such an important decision. Please see your MO.
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Thanks to all those who have replied about which doc/team is the one to really help me with risk/benefits/prognosis. Seems the MO is the main one! The RO and MO here are booked pretty solid (not a good sign of the times) but the Surgeon's office was able to get me in next week with both. My appt with the RO is scheduled first and the MO two days later. So based on that what can I expect and what do I ask at the RO since I see her before the MO.
They are both affiliated with and located at my hospital location. I guess this is normal?
Thanks so much...you ladies are great as usual
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Terri~
Lots of living .... It's worth it. -
Terri...I am another who believes in research plus this terrific website but mostly in the advice from your MO in concert with RO's recommendation. Talk it out with them and tell them how you are feeling. We are all in this together - decisions are tough! And as you can see a lot of us are 60+ ...lots of time to live on as 60 is the new 40
Dianne
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Terri, I haven't seen an RO, so I am not sure what you will need to do there. As far as the MO goes, you will want to know what your current risk is of recurrent breast cancer and your risk of a new primary breast cancer. You will also want to know what treatments are recommended and how much they will reduce your risk. You want the MO to be clear about your actual risk reduction, rather than the general percent the treatment reduces risk. The MO should give you a number about how much your lifetime risk is reduced by the treatment as well as a number of how much your risk of recurrence is per year.
In addition, you will want to know the risks and side effects of any treatment he/she recommends. Be prepared to ask how long the MO feels you have to make a decision about treatments. Is there a rush? Can you take a few months to decide on treatment?
The MO should be able to discuss treatments like tamoxifen as well as radiation. And, the MO should be willing to listen to your concerns, even if they aren't what most women are concerned about, or what the MO perceives to be what most women are concerned about.
I am sure I haven't touched on everything, but those are my thoughts on the matter...
I hope you are hanging in there and feeling a little less gloomy.
Thinking of you,
Claire
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Claire...THUMBS UP and I am now prepared to see the MO.
IF I deciide to do the rads I need to get started as soon as I can due to travel out of the country early Nov. We have a timeshare and due to lack of money have not been able to use it for awhile but got such a great deal this year we could not turn the trip down. Everything is non refundable....sigh.
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and wanted to add......I personally was not satisfied with just clean margins. They have no idea what microscopic cancer cells are left behind, that may not even show up on MRI or Mammo. Rads brought peace of mind that I radiated those little bastards. I wanted to do everything I can......as I plan on living a hell of a lot longer than 66, 76, or 86
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Shayne,
You go girl and tell me like it is! I totally agree. Cancer is not like freezing off a wart where you can see if it comes back. I don't trust ANYTHING after being diagnosed with BC. The surgeon had told me that he hoped to get 75% with clean margins so he was elated to get what he considered to be ALL of it but cancer does what cancer does.
We do all the right things: self exam, yearly GYN, yearly Mammo and follow ups if we have dense or fibroid breasts and WHACK...we get c anyway.
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I don't mean to be disagreeable, but I'm a bit concerned by the statement about not trusting clean margins and having rads as a way to get peace of mind. Shayne, I realize that you were talking about your own situation only and I appreciate that this may have been exactly the right thing to do in your situation. But every situation is different and those reading your comment may interpret what you said to apply to themselves as well. However, looking at it that way could lead to a very wrong (i.e. a riskier) decision for someone else.
It is absolutely true that even with clean margins, you don't know if a few cancer cells might have skipped beyond the margin and therefore might be left in the breast. That's exactly how a recurrence develops. And that's why clean margins don't provide a 100% guarantee against recurrence. This is why an overall assessment of all the clinical and pathological factors is so important. How large was the area of cancer? Was there just a single focus of cancer cells or was there more than one? What is the grade of the DCIS? Was any comedonecrosis present? What is the age of the patient? And possibly most important of all, what was the size of the margin? A 2mm margin is considered clean but with such narrow margins, the risk is pretty high that a few cancer cells might have moved beyond the margin, particularly if the cancer is on the more aggressive side. A clean margin that is 10mm in size is completely different. The risk that some cancer cells might be left in the breast of someone who has 10mm margins is very slim, especially if the cancer was in a single focus and was not aggressive.
This is the assessment that the MO goes through when determining recurrence risk. It's so much more than just saying that someone has clean margins. If someone has good margins (let's say 6mm or more all around) and a small (let's say 0.8 cm), not very aggressive cancer (let's say grade 1 or 2 without comedonecrosis) and if this person is not young for a BC diagnosis (let's say she's 60 years old), then the recurrence risk for this woman, with no further treatment, might be only 5% (I pulled that out of the air but it's probably in the ballpark). In this situation, to have radiation just for peace of mind might actually put this women at a greater health risk than not having radiation. Rads would be able to reduce recurrence risk to 2.5% (a 50% reduction in risk) but at the same time, rads might expose this women to more than a 2.5% risk of other potentially serious health issues related to the rads themselves.
On the other hand, if someone has clean but close margins (let's say 2mm) and a larger (let's say 3cm), more aggressive cancer (let's say grade 2 with comedonecrosis or grade 3) and she's younger (let's say she's 42 year old), then the recurrence risk for this woman, with no further treatment, might be as high as 30%... or it could be even higher. In this case, rads would be able to reduce the recurrence risk to 15% (a 50% reduction in risk). Rads would also expose this woman to the possibility of other health issues related to the rads themselves, but in this example it's clear that the benefit from rads will far outweigh the risks.
So to suggest that someone shouldn't be satisfied with clean margins is just too general a statement. It's an over-simplifiication of what really needs to be considered. And that's what the MO is for.
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PLEASE do not make your decision based only on this site! Do see a MO, let them review your case and tell you the facts as your situation is.
You really do not have to stay with the same hospital! Me started at one place with my surgery but elected based on research and recommendations to have my radiation at a dif hospital. Then chose a MO who was at the same hospital as the RO.
It is also true that I live near NYC and have loads of dif choices but betcha if you start talking to folks near you that you have options also.
best of luck, I was 58 when I was diagnosed but I wanted to everything to get the dumb stuff out of me so I could have a life!
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Terri, I hate to tell you this but 66 is not old! I just turned 66 in May.
Please check in with the RO and the MO and get the info from them. If you don't check with them you will not be making a decision with all the facts. To me that would be a tragedy. Its a whole different ball game to know all the facts and then decide what feels right just for you.
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Terri...it is a silver lining that your trip is non-refundable. You will have to go. And you deserve to go. And it is good that you will go. Remember through all of this to do your best to treat yourself well. If there is ever a time you deserve a little indulgence, it is now.
And, I am glad the thumbs are up. Keep on, keepin' on...as they say...
I will be looking for how the appointments with the ro and mo go. Good luck.
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I am awaiting pathology reports from my Lumpectomy lastthursday..my dx was DCIS with high nuclear grade. How often is invasive cancer found in DCIS? And if it is invasive is chemo the next step after second surgery?? Is mx a better option? Thanks
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Joycekeisman - they found IDC in my DCIS. I did not need chemo. They did end up taking out some sentinel nodes to make sure it hadn't spread and I eventually ended up with a mastectomy, but even if they do find IDC, it's not a guarantee that you'll need one, you may want one anyway though.
I don't know what the odds of finding IDC inside the DCIS are. I think I was just unlucky. My MO also said that the DCIS had probably been there upwards of 5 years and was discovered on my 1st mammo ever so it was slow growing and non agressive, but there was comedonecrosis in it too.
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Joyce, my understanding is that IDC is found mixed in with the DCIS in about 20% of cases where the biopsy showed only DCIS. In most of those cases the amount of IDC is very small, usually just a microinvasion or two (I had that) but in about 5% of cases the diagnosis is more serious.
If invasive cancer is found, whether or not chemo is required depends on many factors. It certainly shouldn't be assumed that chemo would be necessary. If the amount of invasive cancer is very tiny, then chemo most likely wouldn't be recommended. And even if the amount of IDC is larger, if the cancer is ER+/PR+ and HER2-, and if the nodes are clear, then there is still a good chance that chemo wouldn't be recommended. In that situation, usually the Oncotype test would be given and the chemo decision would in large part be made based on the score from this test. The situations where chemo is more likely to be recommended are when there are positive lymph nodes, or if the cancer is particularly aggressive, either HER2+ or triple negative, or if the Oncotype score is high.
As to whether it makes sense to have a mastectomy if invasive cancer is found, the answer is "no". If it's determined that someone needs chemo, she will need chemo whether she has a lumpectomy or a mastectomy. The type of surgery doesn't change the treatment plan for invasive cancer (with the possible exception of radiation). The concern with invasive cancer is that some cancer cells might have slipped out of the breast and moved into the body, either through the lymphatic system or the vascular system, before the patient ever knew she had cancer. Having surgery to remove the entire breast doesn't affect what happens to cancer cells that might have already moved into the body, so having a mastectomy does nothing to reduce the risk that comes from having invasive cancer. That's what chemo and hormone therapy is for - those treatments are systemic, i.e. they treat the whole body, going after breast cancer cells wherever they might be in the body.
I hope that helps. And good luck! Fingers crossed that your final pathology shows just DCIS.
Edited to add: Joyce I just noticed your comment about a "second surgery" if invasive cancer is found. If invasive cancer is found but your lumpectomy margins are all clean, then you won't need an additional surgery, except an SNB to check the lymph nodes, if you did not have that done at the time of your lumpectomy.
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Bessie-
Nicely put!!
Joyce-
Welcome and sorry at the same time. Waiting stinks. The decision about lump vs mastectomy stinks also. I have been told its a personal choice, unless clear margins become an issue.
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