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purple32
purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
edited June 2014 in Alternative Medicine

Okay Ladies,

I need to ask you to understand that this post is not about whining.  I am extremely discouraged and really seeking answers. I am starting to feel perhaps there really are none.

As a background- I have lung disease so skipped rads.  Serious bone thinnnig  (3 breaks) so I dont want arimidex. Issues with circulation and high risk for clots ( no thanks tammi)

Additionally, I  run ' toward ' hyperthyroidiusm and have a multinodular goiter and my BP highest avg is 90/60.,  Dont want it lowered at all ( dizzy etc )

I thought alternative medicine would be my best hope, but now I am feeling rather hopeless.  I've bene researching day and night for weeks and weeks.

With my own research , posts here and  PMs from lots of lovely ladies here , I have learned:

GSE contain omega 6 which is bad for BC ( true ?)

DIM / cabbage etc ... may not be good for goiters (??)

 Maitake...do not use with metformin ( I am on metformin)


 IODINE- way too complicated for me to figure out with my thyroid issues.  I'm far too concerned about ingesting something thats actually going to make me worse !

CA...my DR said not to take so much in the form of supplnmemt due to potential heart effects,

Dairy- my DR said to take more... not good for BC though!

I am essentially not treating this BC at all, which is ludicrous, scary and anxiety producing.

I've cleaned up my diet , but that's not nearly enough.

I know no drug is perfect, but I am not going to take something that incr. chance of stroke or osteoporosis. Seems stupid.

OTOH, even the suppplements seem to be a catch 22 with me.

I dont know what to think anymore.

Can someone help me sort all this out ?  I am feeling very dismal right now.


THX!

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  • carpe_diem
    carpe_diem Member Posts: 1,256
    edited July 2012

    Purple32,

    Does your onc think tamoxiphen might work with your ER+ cancer? If you can get your insurance company to go along, Zometa helps with bone strength and recent studies show that it seems to reduce the chance of metastasis not only to the bones, but to other locations as well.  On the AI issue and adding bisphosphonates, such as Zometa I found this:

    Aromatase Inhibitors and Bone Health
    Susan R. Harris, PhD, PT, School of Rehabilitation Sciences - UBC
    Now that aromatase inhibitors (AIs) are commonly prescribed in the adjuvant setting, as well as for those with metastatic breast cancer, women should be aware of the possible detrimental effects of these drugs on their bone density. 

    Whereas tamoxifen has positive benefits on bone strength, AIs are the opposite and can contribute to bone thinning. The end result is an increase in bone fractures1 typically of the wrist, vertebrae or hip. According to Canadian clinical practice guidelines regarding follow-up after breast cancer treatments,2 women who have chemotherapy-induced early menopause or are taking AIs, should have a baseline bone density test which your family doctor can and should refer you for.

    Bone mineral density (BMD) can fall into one of three categories: 
    within normal limits
    osteopenia (1-2 ½ standard deviations below the norm for healthy young women)
    osteoporosis (more than 2 ½ standard deviations below the mean)
    If you are osteopenic or even if your BMD is within normal limits, your family doctor may recommend conservative, non-drug treatments. These might include increasing your calcium intake to 1,500 mg/day. Taking 400-800 IUs of vitamin D (to enhance calcium absorption) reducing alcohol intake, quitting smoking and increasing bone-building exercises like jogging, skipping, weight training or stair-climbing.

    If you have marked osteopenia (greater than 2 standard deviations below the mean) or osteoporosis, youd be wise to also start taking a bisphosphonate. This is a drug that helps to reduce bone loss.2 Bone density testing should then be repeated every 12 24 months to determine if the interventions are enhancing your bone density.References:
    1. Eastell R, Hannon R. Long-term effects of aromatase inhibitors on bone. J Steroid Biochem Mol Biol. 2005;95:151-154.

    2. Grunfeld E, et al. Clinical practice guidelines for the care and treatment of breast cancer: follow-up after treatment for breast cancer (summary of the 2005 update). Can Med Assoc J. 2005;172:1319-1320.

     

    It does seem that everything has side effects, but going untreated sounds really scary.

    Janet 

  • JMW
    JMW Member Posts: 99
    edited July 2012

    Purple32. Sounds like you have an awful lot of bad going on. Sorry. Don't have much wisdom to give you. I have started buying organic milk for myself as I changed from Tamoxifen to Aromasin 3 weeks ago. Very exspensive so I still buy the regular milk for my kids. Can't afford for us all to be drinking it. I know its not much but at least I feel like I'm doing something for my bones! Best of luck and hope someone can be of more help.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    Thanks very much JMW.

    I have switched to almond milk, but in fine print it does say it is fortified so I have to wonder if it isn't simlar to taking a CA supplement!  But honestly, I never considered the CA or D much to do with my cancer.  I was hoping for some alternative endocrine therapy.

    In any case, thanks for your response - I know my post is a difficult one to reply to!

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited July 2012

    Have you looked at turmeric or curcurim?  I get it through the Indian food I eat, which also has ginger, garlic and sometimes cinamon, but curcurim is also available as a supplement. 

  • jenn333
    jenn333 Member Posts: 178
    edited July 2012

    Purple, I think your best bet might be to consult with a good integrative oncologist.  You have too much going on to possibly be able to figure your way through this maze without help.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    Thx again for your replies.

    I have in fact looked into integrative oncology and there is nobody very close to me.  I saved  a few links.

    Even when I look at someone several hrs away I see things like :
    "In 2008, Dr. Alschuler <herself> was diagnosed with breast cancer. She underwent surgery, chemotherapy and radiation and remains on hormonal treatment. She integrated natural supplements, diet, exercise and other lifestyle changes throughout her treatment and, as a result, she felt like a healthy person with cancer and a healthy person receiving chemotherapy/radiation. She has fully recovered from her treatments and remains dedicated to an integrative prevention of recurrence plan."

    That's not very encouraging for  a person with my health issues. Its INTEGRATIVE, CAM- not alternative. I *already* know I have issues with the conventional things.

    Here's another integrative place that even questions the benefit of fruits and vegateables for BC!  ( discouraging)  :

    http://www.alternative-therapies.com/at/web_pdfs/boyd.pdf


    Alex

    I have looked at turmeric and am considering that, thank you. I believe I should be able to take it ...was hoping for an alternative for endocrine therapy though and this doesnt seem to fit the bill, but it's something.

    Again...I do appreciate the replies!  Just not having a good day here, I guess. I am usually googling,  looking, searching, hoping. Today I kind of feel like I am at a dead end.

    Sinking feeling.



     

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    Thanks, Janet.

    It IS getting scary!

    I was on drugs to help with the bone thinning and they only made it worse.

    Took calcitonin and later took Actonel for several yrs. ALL THE WHILE my density went down and down. Broke the shoulder, broke the knee, broke the elbow.  I am very close to osteoporosis.

    The DR <my GYN >  finally told me there were ' bad reports' on lots of these bone building drugs, and I should get off and stick with as much exercise as I can tolerate, some Ca. and D.

    Then I saw TV comercials linking these things with femur breaks and jaw necrosis.

    Very afraid of breaking a  hip.

  • NattyOnFrostyLake
    NattyOnFrostyLake Member Posts: 377
    edited July 2012

    Purple,

    Your diagnosis is so good that many people would envy you.  Smile 

    Most people with your diagnosis do well with surgery alone.

    I'm more concerned about your bones than your breast. The good news is that it's easy to monitor your bone health. Have you looked into strontium or K2 for your bones?

    Chin up, kiddo. You will make progress and look back on this time and realize you got thru it.

    Blessings.

  • beeb
    beeb Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2012
    <>Purple, stop worrying and get back to living. You have stage 1 all the way. Best of luck.
  • NattyOnFrostyLake
    NattyOnFrostyLake Member Posts: 377
    edited July 2012

    Forgot to thank you for the info on Lise Altschuler. I had no idea. My alt med doc said something dismissive about her and I thought it was professional rivalry. Altschuler has some kind of internet radio show and I've heard her name around but didn't know the full story.

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited July 2012

    Also look at vitamin D3 for bones.  There was just a study out on lower fractures in elderly with higher amounts of D supplements.

  • Mini1
    Mini1 Member Posts: 1,836
    edited July 2012

    Purple32 - I understand your discouragement. It can all be so overwheming. I have osteoporosis but learned today that I am not a candidate for any treatments other than Vitamin D and calcium due my gastrointestinal and pancreatic issues so I will have to change from an AI to Tamox. Like most of us here I have multiple doctors and a stack of medical bills to show for it. But NattyGroves is right, we have a best case scenario as far as CA goes, even though I know it doesn't feel like it now.

    I've found that in researching my options I have found a lot of condradictory info. It can make you crazy if you let it. Fatigue and just plain being sick can also contribute to your discouragement. I encourage you to allow yourself to acknowledge the discouragement, let's face it, cancer sucks, but then find something positive to concentrate on. I've started a gratitude journal. Some days it's something as simple as not waking up in the middle of the night, or finding a good movie to watch when I want it. I also try to do things for other people as I am able. I find that if I'm thinking of others I spend less time thinking of what is going on inside my body. Exercise as you are able, even if it is simple movements. I'm looking at starting meditation as well.

    I still have bad days, but the good ones far out number the bad ones and I am finding my "new normal." I find a lot of encouragement seeing the length of time some of these ladies have been here on this site with far worse diagnosis'. Years. And they are still here encouraging others. We have hope. Just cling to it. I actually worry about my bones and my qualaity of life more than the cancer.

    My Rhuemetologist is contacting the Osteoporosis Center to see if there is anything else I can do for my bones. If I learn anything new or helpful, I will pass it along. Hang in there Purple. You are not alone. 

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    Thx to all for the encouragement.

    I actually do worry more about the bones than the cancer, which is why I refused the arimnidex.,


    I am most worried about an oxygen tank with my lungs, which is why I skipped rads.


    Trust me...I truly am grateful I am at Stage 1, but I dont want to sit here doing nothing until I reach stage 4 either.


    My husband had stage 4 colon cancer in 2009 , and it was not pretty ( he is doing great now and NED , btw)

    I guess there are no easy answers for me ( for many of us ) but again, thanks to all for your encouragement ..I really needed it, and appreciate it as well.

  • RobinJoy
    RobinJoy Member Posts: 191
    edited July 2012

    I've read that raw beets help break up cancer cells and celery slows tumour growth. I'd look into the K2 for your bones.

    It's the betacyanin and the betaxanthin in the beets that does the trick. And it's the apigenin in the celery. It's also found in parsely. it works best for progestin driven cancers.  Here's a link from the Huffington Post.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/17/apigenin-celery-parsley-breast-cancer_n_1525717.html 

    You have to be careful not to take too much vitamin K. It can cause your blood to clot too easily if you take too much. But it helps build up the collagen in your osteoplasts which in turn pull calcium from your blood stream to help build your bones.  

    Good luckSmile  I hope this helps some. 

  • toomuch
    toomuch Member Posts: 901
    edited July 2012

    Purple - If you're willing to travel for an evaluation, you may want to consider a consult at the Block Center in Evanston, IL. It's an integrative cancer center. The evaluation is done by an MD. He/she may be able to look at all of your medical conditions and recommend CAM that won't adversely effect your other issues.

    I don't think that we're supposed to post links to specific physicians but you can google the center. I hope that you find alternative treatments that put your mind at ease.

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited July 2012

    Purple, I second the idea that you contact The Block Center, which happens to be ranked as the #2 integrative cancer center in the world:  http://blockmd.com/    And if IL is too far to travel, maybe they can recommend someone closer to you.

    As far as your other questions... Yes, Omega 6s are not good for us.  I've been told that by more than one integrative doc.  

    As far as calcium supplements go... IMO, that recent study linking them to heart disease is totally ridiculous.  I would be very surprised if a top notch integrative doc didn't want you on a natural calcium-magnesium-D3 product.  Until then, there are plenty of calcium rich foods, so if you haven't already, maybe get a list of them and eat several each day.

    IMO, the two most important things you or any of us can do going forward are (1) get some serious exercise every day; and (2) stop eating meat.  There are many studies supporting both as greatly reducing the risk of developing cancer or having a recurrence, as well as improving a host of other health issues.

    Thankfully, you had a very early stage Grade 1 lesion, and I've honestly heard many doctors say that the majority of early stage breast cancers are probably cured with surgery.  So please try to stop worrying because you weren't a candidate for the one-size fits all approach.  I'm sure there are beneficial things you can do, but I think the key is finding a really good integrative doctor to help you find the best options for you.   (((Hugs)))   Deanna 

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    dlb

    Thanks for your reply. I know that you have lots of knowledge about these things.  I'm grateful to hera about the omegoa 6. I was one step away from the Activin GSE.  Then someone posted and claimjed the GSE has omega 6. I can only find for certain that grapeseed OIL does. I've gotten myself into a tizzy and a ball of confusion.

    I feel like I'm looking for the cure for cancer !
    ( well, arent we all in a way, but I mean, I got obsessed)

    I don't eat red meat at all and haven't for at least 6 years or so. I really am living on berries , oatmeal, almonds and veggies, some Greek yogurt, salads, organic drk. chocolate, hormone free chicken now and then , plus almond milk etc ...  I take half the CA plus I do take D 3 and am currently on metformin.

    I just was discouraged when I saw this link that mentions they even questions if fruits  and vegeatbales make any difference in BC!
    http://www.alternative-therapies.com/at/web_pdfs/boyd.pdf

    Felt like ordering a  big pepperoni pizza!

    I wish the Center was nearby, even a few hrs away, but Illinois is not a trek I can make.

    I will, however, take your advice and call them and ask if there is anywhere that they recommend in Massachusetts.

    I am encouraged just to see the posts of people who cared enough to write.

    This is a wonderful place to be able to go when you are feeling deflated.

    Thanks to all of you! Kiss

  • wenweb
    wenweb Member Posts: 1,107
    edited July 2012

    Purple32  Everyone has to make their own choices, and it sounds like you have already made some inspite of feeling like you don't know which way to turn.

    For your consideration you might want to watch the documentary "Forks Over Knives".  It's interesting in terms of how what you eat, or in this case don't eat can make a difference to overall health of people with  many different diseases. 

    That said, I have become a vegan and increased my vitamin D intake.  I am not a judge for anyone but myself as we are all on this journey alone in so many ways.

    I wish you the best in making your choices. 

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    Thanks wenweb.

    I will look at it. I see you come from MA.

    Any good integrative places around here that  you know of ? My INS only covers in this state.

  • jenn333
    jenn333 Member Posts: 178
    edited July 2012

    Purple, you may find a good integrative doc is already part of a major cancer center close to you (or relatively so). I was treated at UCLA and was pleased to learn that UCLA had an integrative oncology department. It certainly wasn't highly publicized though and I only learned about it from a BCO post! I have met with the int onc a couple of times now and she has been very helpful to me in designing and evaluating my supplement regime, dietary recommendstions, making sure nothing interacts with Tamoxifen, etc. She truly integrates conventional and complementary to maximize the benefits of both.



    Do you have a major cancer center within striking distance?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2012

    Read up on PRUNES - good for bones.

    Also, there are Naturpathic doctors in MA - maybe that would help you sort out the supplements, the onyl one I can think of is Grape Seed Extract.  I don't take it, but know there's new research on it's effectiveness now too.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    Thx sunflowers

    I did read up on prunes, but I dont dare touch them right now with the BIG D my metformon is  causing.

    I was a touch away from going with Activin Grapeseed Extract when someone on this forum said it had omega 6 which is cautionary for BC. I still am unsure if that is true (???)  I mean, know the omega 6 not being good is true, but not sure about the GSE having it.  Its confusing.

    Sure, I google, but I see grapessed OIL having omega 6...not sure about the GSE. Sure I dont want to do anything stupid and make things 'act up'.

    I AM still looking into a naturopathic dr. nearby.

    There was only ONE natur. ONC. in Ma., and I contacted her.

    After speaking with her on the phone, I was convinced she could no give me any more info than this forum!!  She also said her license is in CT. only and she said she cannot order any lab work at all.

    I was totally underwhelmed.

    Thx for your post, sun.

    If the metformin thing calms down, you can bet I will be adding prunes to my diet.


    If there is anyone who is on GSE or who really knows it does not contain the 'forbidden' omega 6, I would appreciate links or add'l info.

    Other than that , this is where I currently am, and thank you for all the info.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2012

    prunes and immodium????  didn't know that about metaformin -

    naturpaths aren't licensed in MA yet, they're trying to gt it thru the state legislature - so insurance will cover it.

  • AlaskaAngel
    AlaskaAngel Member Posts: 1,836
    edited July 2012

    purple32

    The way I understand the issue about omega 6 is not to totally eliminate it, but to balance it better by emphasizing omega 3, such as with olive oil, over sources like meats, which provide high levels of omega 6.

    So in considering whether something is worth taking, if it provides a low level of omega 6 it could still be worth taking as long as you are getting enough omega 3.

    Figuring out how to achieve the best balance is not simple, and I can't say that I am doing it accurately because it is hard to measure when there are so many combinations of foods that are possible. But I eat 3 walnut halves a day, and use olive oil for salads and for light saute-ing, and I eat very limited other fats, sticking to a generally vegetarian organic diet, plus daily exercise. I use only organic eggs, vegetables, fruits, and especially, dairy products. It is spendy, even more so here in the part of Alaska where most things are shipped in and gardening is more difficult.

    My older sister, who also has had stage 1 breast cancer and 12 years later, IBC (but no mets), raises a garden in sunny California for her fruits and veggies, chooses not to buy organic for dairy and meat. I tell her I prefer to put my money where my mouth is. We differ in our approach to our disease but share our lives.

    A.A.

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    naturpaths aren't licensed in MA yet, they're trying to gt it thru the state legislature


    Aha ...well that would explain why she told me her LIC was in CT! ( which she should have been able to explain herself)  Again, I admit I was not at all impressed with her.

    Yes, the metformin causes 'gastric disturbances' -  ahem.

    As for Alaskaangel,   I think you prove my point...it is complicated with all the omega 6s and 3.s ( I guess I am glad I discovered that about the GSE, but wish it were simpler) 

     I dont feel at all confident and educated enough to dive into that and discover  I did anything to make myself worse...THAT I guess is my biggest fear.

    THX

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited July 2012

    Purple, I think the advice given further up: limit alcohol, cabbage 5X a week and exercise is sound. You want to stick to a low-carb/high fiber carb diet with limited animal fat, some fatty fish and lots and lots of veggies.



    You can drive yourself nuts with the supplements, as you have discovered, and although various things may have some positive effect or another, I have yet to come across some "must have" supplement.

  • AlaskaAngel
    AlaskaAngel Member Posts: 1,836
    edited July 2012

    Purple32

    It is complicated and we don't get nearly as much medical help with it as we need because medical providers continue to be too focused on toxic therapies (for whatever reasons) and not focused enough on understanding and explaining metabolic processes in relation to cancer. And that is very discouraging, given that chemotherapy has such a poor track record over so many decades.

    We can stand still and wring our hands in despair, and I can certainly relate to that myself. At this point the "best" choices for you are more difficult for you than they are for me in that you have lung and thyroid issues along with breast cancer.

    My suggestion for all of us is that we desperately need to change the system so that at time of diagnosis, each one of us receives a thorough analysis and recommendations by an endocrinologist trained in the treatment of cancer, and who has full authority as a member of our tumor board from the get-go, in making recommendations and critiquing the recommendations of other tumor board members such as oncologists, radiologists, and surgeons -- including being involved in follow up care.

    At present, endocrinologists deal with diabetes and thyroid and pancreatic issues, but are not trained specifically to consider endocrinology as it applies to cancer. There are small ways in which this may be changing now that genetics and other information is becoming so much more quickly available, but progress is very very slow. Endocrinologists usually will not even make an appointment for breast cancer patients who have no known thyroid or pancreatic or other such specialized conditions because they do not have the training, and they are already fully booked just dealing with the other patients.

    A.A.

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited July 2012

    purple, I pulled this up about Omega 6's:

    "Excess n−6 fats interfere with the health benefits of n−3 fats, in part because they compete for the same rate-limiting enzymes. A high proportion of n−6 to n−3 fat in the diet shifts the physiological state in the tissues toward the pathogenesis of many diseases: prothrombotic, proinflammatory and proconstrictive.[8]

    Chronic excessive production of n−6 eicosanoids is associated with arthritis, inflammation, and cancer." 

    Maybe you could email any specific manufacturer and ask how much/if any Omega6 their GSE contains.  It seems strange that there's a trial going on for GSE as an aromatese inhibitor if it also increases inflammation.  But I guess it's just one more example of how complex and confusing hormone interactions can be!     Deanna

  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited July 2012

    contains.  It seems strange that there's a trial going on for GSE as an aromatese inhibitor if it also increases inflammation

    I know!

    It DOES seem very strange, Deanna.  Thats about the time I started to get more and more confused and then, just discouraged.   OTOH, it seems strange also that drs would give out drugs that can actually CAUSE other cancers, strokes, blood clots, osteoporosis etc ... but I suppose if they think their benefit will outweigh the risks, then they are doing their jobs.

    Momine

    Someone on this forum told me to be very careful about eating the cabbage and cruciferous veggies because I have a goiter !

    I am happy I have an endo doc who <finally?> gave in  and gave me the metformin.  It may be my best bet.

    Sun I DID buy the prunes today while I was out thinking:  " Well, at least I'm not at work today if I have issues "   :>)

    We'll see.

    Thx again

  • Mini1
    Mini1 Member Posts: 1,836
    edited July 2012

    Purple - I worry about my lungs as well. I am small and thin and debated whether to just stick with the surgery or go with the rads. I pray that I made the right decision. People do not realize how hard it is to breathe until you can't. I wouldn't wish lung surgery on anyone.

    My husband had cancer as well, but it's been nearly 25 years. I wonder sometime if we weren't better off not knowing what we know now. Sometimes ignorance really is bliss. All we can do is educate ourselves and try to make the best decisions we can, although I told my husband that the eenie, meanie, minie, moe system would probably work just as well. :-)

    There are also omega-9's in foods as well. As the earlier poster wrote, it's balancing the three. With fast and packaged foods we get an over abundance of 6. What's scary to me is that I just read that many farmers are now spraying fruit and vegetable seeds with pesticides so they are changing the DNA in food. Another reason to garden in you have the ability to. Or to at least participate in a co-op. One good series to learn about food that I saw was Forks Over Knives. They do advocate a vegetarian diet, but they also provide a lot of info on food in general. Just something to think about.

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