I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Now I want to see the movie again. It's been so long I've totally forgotten how they portrayed now.
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Mini-lesson on orthodox Judaism.
It's complicated. I'm recalling the rules followed by the modern orthodox - which I do know pretty well. the Hasidic - the guys with the black hats, long side curls, etc. have most of this, but they have more.
Anyway, the Torah, which is the sacred scroll that is written in hand on sheepskin, and is present in every synagogue, consists of the 1st five books of the Bible. The rules set down in the Torah were then interpreted by rabbis and scholars and written up in what is generally known as the Talmud.
There are more than 600 laws that the orthodox Jew observes. These include kosher laws, laws for every holiday, things like not answering the phone, turning on electricity, driving on Sabbath or equivalent Jewish holidays. The multiple wife thing is no longer allowed. However, when a Jewish couple divorces, the woman cannot remarry within Judasim unless she receives a religious divorce, known as a get. The husband has to give it to her. So, there's a lot of bribing or pressure put on the husband. It can get ugly. Women and men cannot sit together in the synagogue - there's separate seating, often in a balcony, for women. they cannot dance - think of Fiddler on the Roof. Women are consider unclean for the menstral cycle and have to take a ritual bath one week after it ends before their husband can even touch their hand.
Kosher rules cover much more than just what you can or can't eat. Any animal eaten has to be killed in a prescribed way. Have to drain all blood. You cannot eat milk and meat at the same time. You can not eat any milk products for 6 hours after you eat meat. Have to have 2 sets of dishes, 2 sets of silverwear, whoops, no 4, because you can't eat meat on the same plates as milk, and you have to have another set altogether for Passover. the word Paerve, means that it is a food that can be eaten with milk or meat.
The orthodox Jews in my family pretty much treat all of these like commandments.
The one rule - law - that has precedence over everything else is the preservation of life. You can break any other rule for that. For example, someone becomes critically ill on the Sabbath. Generally, driving is not allowed, but you can do it to get the person to a hospital. Or, you are starving - you can eat non-kosher food to preserve your life. Or steal a car to get to the hospital.
Non-orthodox - i.e. conservative or reform Jews have different levels of observance. Exactly what is done depends on the person, the denomination etc. My aunt who is conservative drives faithfully to synagogue every Saturday, does not eat pork or shell fish, but is not strictly kosher.
As I said, complicated.
In my mind, the reason for the kosher thing is not just sanitation - it's to preserve the Jewish identity. Wine, for example, has to handled exclusively by Jews, from the growing to the processing to the serving in order to be kosher. You can't really socialize with the non-Jews if you can't eat at their homes or drink their food.
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Alexandria, thanks for the Judaism crash course
. Another question, if I may. What happens if you do not observe the rules, theologically speaking, and is there some reward for keeping the rules? -
Notself - I LOVED that woman on the Jay Leno show. Inspiring - and seems so happy. Really inspiring - and funny. She sure is sharp - wonder what she was like as a young woman? Must have been a pistol.
Blue - since Mad Cow Disease became "known" especially in the UK, all offal ( organ meats) and esp. bone marrow, where the disease is most likely found - it's a prion, a form of protein, NOT killed by heat - which is why eating bone marrow has been a "no, no" for about 20 years. Also why activists got the "rendering industry" to stop feeding dead animals to beef cows which had been a regular practice for the USA.
I'm a flexatarian, but can't face beef. Chicken is the base of most of my curry, or stir fry cooking.
LOVE reading Alexandria, YorkieMom, Glenna, Momine so nice to have new friends.
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Its not, in my recollection, organ meats that are the problem, it is Certain Organ Meats. Organ meats includeds chicken livers, beef liver, kidneys, tongue, etc. No problem in any of those when you can find them. And I suspect high end places are still serving their marrow bones---I like buying those for soupl
But Brains are a different issue. when there is a problem, thats where it comes from and the reason there is a problem in the first place is the not-so-clever idea of feeding meat products to herbivores. . . I won't even get started. . . .
The real reason you don't find organ meats in the States is the fragility of the meat--they don't store well, they perish quickly and they need gentle handling.
Which is why the one time we bought a whole sheep, I used the opportunity to try my hand at haggis.
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thanks 3M - it's only beef, mainly brain, and bone marrow, but the other beef organs are suspect. But it IS mostly brain, and bone marrow.
Sadly, the estrogenic chemicals in BGH fed beef, also means the other organs are found to have high residual chemicals.
The best book I've found on the subject, is now avail online:
MadCow: Can the Nightmare Happen Here? by John Stauber , Sheldon Rampton
but don't read it, if you're about to have a beef dinner - unless it's grass fed, organic, hopefully raised locally.
I LOVE HAGGIS. ;-))) McSweens in Edinborourgh Scotland, made the haggis sold in Harrods Food Halls.
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Here's where it's a little vague and very different from Christianity and even Islam.
Judaism is not based on doing good in this life so that you will be rewarded in the afterlife. Jews do believe in an afterlife, that the righteous, defined not only as those who follow the rules but as good people, will be with God, but it is not stressed, not specified, and not certainly not promised as a reward for following all the rules.
The reward in following the rules is, as I understand it, is a good and full life here, in this world. (Since they've never had shrimp, they don't know what they're missing.)
The rules are not considered a burden, but rather a privilege, an honor. The bar mitzvah, which boys observe at age 13, is a joyous occasion because at that point, they are taking on the prayer obligations (morning, night and after each meal) of an adult man. (In the conservative and reform movements, women have bat mitzvahs - same idea. Conservatives and reform allow women to be rabbis. Orthodox - nope.)
Many orthodox do find a spiritual fulfillment and a closeness to God, from being observant. It also brings a sense of community with other observant Jews and a sense of history. Some do explore the more mystical areas of Judaism, often called the Kabballah, to search for more of a spiritual meaningthan the observant life alone offers, but I don't really know anyone who's studied Kabballah - except Madonna.
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uhmmm - I think you can see the same thing in sheep, but it's called something different (no NOT mad sheep
) - I'm not able to dredge it up from the depths right now. Never had haggis.We buy organic/grass fed beef - which is also what I grew up eating (that and moose). I will eat beef in restaurants on occasion, but never ever hamburger, as it is my understand that prions can be found not only the brain but also the large nerves - which can end up in hamburger. I've wondered if some of the cases of alzheimers aren't really mad cow disease.
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alexandria58,
Keep up our education on Judaism. It is very interesting.
There is no concept of sin in Buddhism, just skillful and unskillful actions. Skillful behavior leads to a full and happy life. Unskillful behavior leads to a life of suffering.
Although monks and nuns have hundreds of rules, lay people usually only follow 5.
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Just cook all meat the way I do.......Burn it,that kills all bacteria.
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Kad2kar, I like my meat "cooked" also. When I go out to dinner with one friend and she order beef (rare), I tell the waiter to just bring it up to room temp for her!
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Very much enjoying the discussions and the Judaism info. Thanks, everyone!
I wish I had something to add other than my "what's up with that?" directed to Christians who selectively live in the old testament while ignoring Jesus's works and exhortations. Ah well, far be it from this semi-Christian-with-atheist-leanings to debate the Bible.
Having a difficult day and evening so I am completely out of sorts. Anybody have any extra sorts lying around? -
Meat must be cooked until it resembles a hockey Puck. That is the extent of my culinary skills.
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Cooked meat? Please! Not on the savannah.
((((Scoot))))
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I see at least 2 of you are smart about meat.
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"Well done" is my mantra for meat as well. No pink at all.
Mary
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Darling Scoot, sorry but I wouldn't call your cooking (meat until it resembles a hockey puck) any kind of skill!!!
So sorry you're having a "down" day. Wish I had some sorts to give you but maybe a cybersmooch might do?
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All I have learned about the Jewish religion (other than comparing Holidays 8-1) I have learned from the author Faye Kellerman. I dont know much about ANYTHING,however my DH says Im an expert on EVERYTHING!!! Back to my corner so I can learn. kad2kar
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Alexandria, my husband told me Judaism has no concept of hell. I always liked that. I am a follower of A Course In Miracles (ACIM), which basically says the same thing.
Also ACIM states that this world is all an illusion. We are and always have been one with God. We are simply dreaming of being separate beings living separate lives. In fact we all One with each other and everything. Some day, which has already happened because time itself is unreal, we will all wake up and return to That Which We Never Left.
Should I duck now?
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Looking for sorts for Scootaloo and will send all sorts of sorts directly to you as soon as I find them. Good wishes in the meantime.
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Yorkie - that which you describe is a recurring nightmare of mine! I say, believe how you will and take comfort in it. I am glad you found TCIM and that its right for you. Hugs!
I will be okay, Athena and lindasa...I just need to find some sorts! -
Thank you, Lassie! I will be swimming in sorts! Sort of....
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(((SCOOTALOO))) Sorry my rant is something in your nightmares.
Meant no harm. -
Thinking of you, scoot, PM me if you like.
I have plenty of "sorts" though most are "out of it" themselves so I wouldn't recommend them.
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No worries at all, yorkie! I am an odd person with all kinds (but not sorts) of irrational fears. The last four nights have been different alien scenario nightmares. Exhausting!
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yorkiemom,
You are a miracle. Tell us more.
There is room for all approaches to the unknown and unknowable.
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You're the best Scoot! I have had my share of weird and vivid dreams. Can be interesting and worse. Will focus the Light in your direction!
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Notself, there is so much I feel and "know." But it is only what we all "know." We all have it inside ourselves. I have semi-accessed it through 35 years of spiritual search.
I feel so far from where I would like to be in this search. My days are full of mundane things and problems. I can write about what I "know," while I cannot truly live and most often feel it. We are all miracles. We just need to totally understand That Which Is. We are all spiritual works in progress.
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No amount of cooking or burning meat will kill a prion.
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Then i will nuke the suckers!
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