Calling all TNs

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  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    kathy - point taken.   I do not text as it takes me so bloody long even without fat thumbs.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    FernMF -Welcome.- I don't have any stats for you, (Paging LUVRV, she has really great info for these type of questions), but I highly recommend you read this short article on breast ca from Dana-Farber's Turning Point magazine.





    http://www.dana-farber.org/Newsroom/Publications/Holding-promise--Targeted-approaches-for-breast-cancer-treatment.aspx



    The key paragraph I would like you to consider is as follows: "Back then we were taught that cancer begins in the breast and spreads through the lymph nodes to the rest of the body. Now we know that this is not true. Tumors that arise in the breast my spread through the lymph nodes, but they may also spread through the blood stream, both routes, or not at all."



    Based on the above info, my personal vote would be for chemo to attack any rogue cancer cells that could have traveled.



    Hope this helps you with a difficult decision.

  • melissa119
    melissa119 Member Posts: 172
    edited June 2012

    FernMF...your dx sounds close to mine but I see in your post you had 1 node positive? Wouldn't that alone have drs recommend chemo? I could be wrong but worth looking into. I also am stage I but no nodes positive. They took three in surgery. I did the DMX and since am TN my BS, PS, and MO all agreed chemo should be done for any rogue cells that got free from the tumor since we don't have any other meds available to us like er+\pr+ have. I started chemo yesterday. It was tough but I feel like i am doing everything I can to kill this thing once and for all. It's a tough decision and a hard one to swallow but it is your decision. Good luck with it!

  • mags20487
    mags20487 Member Posts: 1,591
    edited June 2012

    all my research and advice from doctors said hit it with all you have cuz that IS all we have, meaning no tamoxifin or other 5 year things to keep recurrence down.  If you have not already check www.tnbcfoundation.org.  It is a forum dedicated to us TN gals.  The facilitators are so knowledgeable about TN and you can get some stats from them.

    Maggie

  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Member Posts: 812
    edited June 2012

    Inmate happy, happy dance for you!!!!  WTG!!!!

  • JazzyJ
    JazzyJ Member Posts: 126
    edited June 2012

    TGIF my dear...... No, I had the right person. I was just teasing you! Yes, I agree we disagreed, but that's what makes people, well.... people. You are so awesome :-)

  • JazzyJ
    JazzyJ Member Posts: 126
    edited June 2012

    TGIF my dear...... No, I had the right person. I was just teasing you! Yes, I agree we disagreed, but that's what makes people, well.... people. You are so awesome :-)

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited June 2012

    Jazzy- I am blaming my inability to realize you were teasing on chemo brain! I blame everything on chemo brain-so ladies, if I say something stupid or don't get something, that is and will always be my excuse!! We can use that excuse forever, can't we?!!

  • JazzyJ
    JazzyJ Member Posts: 126
    edited June 2012

    FernMF - Along with the on line stuff, perhaps most importantly is that your Oncologist should go though the stats with you. He/she has all the statistical data based on your age, race, etc... that will help you decide what is right for you. Basically, how much risk are you willing to take and does the improved prognosis with treatment outweigh the risk with treatment? You can then have the same discussion with another Onc. For example, in my case, chemo improved my chances for survival beyond 5 years by 11%', so there wasn't much for me to think about. Good luck with whatever you determine!

  • FernMF
    FernMF Member Posts: 349
    edited June 2012

    Thanks . . . I had Breast MRI before surgery to SEE everything there was - the sentinel node was negative at surgery, but later pathology showed up a 0.83 mm IDC . . . the surgeon and his team said (yesterday) to see the oncologist, but that he didn't think we should "take more nodes" to make sure.  First oncologist appt was a nightmare - the doctor misread the results as 8.3 mm and scared me greatly.  Once I figured out she had not read the pathology correctly, and jumped in without thinking, I will NOT go back there.  2nd oncology appt is pending.  Looking on line is a "CHOOSE" what you want to read thing . . .

  • JAN69
    JAN69 Member Posts: 947
    edited June 2012

    Cocker---I've been away for almost a week and haven't gone back very far in the posts, but Cocker if you leave, you'll be letting down a lot of people.  Now that would be a shame for all of us!  And if by chance I have offended anyone, please tell me and I'll ask for forgiveness.  This CANCER seems to be forever, so we must stick together. Besides, we are all planning on having lunch at the old feller's cafe once he gets it going, and we need directions to it.  Jan

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Fern - the site that Mags suggested is reliable and specific to this disease.



    There is also www.cbcf.org which is the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation (compliments of Tazzy)



    Another is Dr. Susan Loves Research Foundation. This link should get you there.



    http://www.dslrf.org/endingbc/content.asp?L2=1&L3=1&SID=381

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited June 2012

    Tifj... couldn`t agree more on the chemo brain excuse.   Tongue out

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited June 2012

    Ok, I'm back in after floating on the lake reading on my Kindle and ignoring the rest of the world for a couple hours!  We had a little outdoor dinner party for friends last night and between cooking and cleaning, this girl was pooped out.  Recovery well underway!

    Now, Fern, let me tell you a story.  About me.  I was diagnosed with slightly ER+ stage 1 IDC in June 2010.  I had a lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy - everything looked just fine.  Every oncologist I saw tried to convince me to have chemo.  But I am diabetic and everything I read suggested that diabetics did very poorly on chemo.  My Oncotype test (hopefully you will have this test) said I had a 30% chance of distant recurrence (mets) if I skipped chemo.  In my mind, that meant there was a 70% chance that I would NOT have mets.  So I passed on chemo, did Mammosite radiation, and went on Femara in August.  Everything looked pretty good until January when my tumor markers started to rise.  In February I developed a huge seroma that was drained in March.  Cytology showed the BC was back in the same breast and it was triple negative.  An MRI showed some axillary nodes also involved.  And a PET/CT showed intermammary nodes along with three axillary nodes now involved.  Talk about progression - the lesion on my breast was 4.6 cm!!!  So, I went in for the BMX and full axillary dissection, followed by dose dense chemo Adriamycin, Cytoxan and Taxol.  And I had external radiation to my chest wall, supraclavicle nodes and intermammary nodes.  So that makes two rounds of radiation - I thought for sure I was done with this crap.  A PET/CT scan in October showed me to be in remission.  And then April rolled around and the tumor markers started to go up again.  So I had another PET/CT in May and crap, now I have mets to my lungs along with some nodes scattered here and there.  I'm telling you all this because statistics are nothing more than that...statistics.  It really is not predictive of what will happen to YOU.  If you want to check out what the statistics are for your particular situation, you can go to

    http://www.lifemath.net/cancer/breastcancer/outcome/index.php

    You can enter in your own information and learn what the statistics say about your own situation.  You have a positive node.  One thing I had said with my first diagnosis was that if I had a positive node, I would definitely do chemo.  I am not looking back on the decision I made.  I am just suggesting that statistics don't mean a whole lot where breast cancer is concerned.  But doing chemo definitely increases your chances of beating back the beast.   No guarantees, mind you, but then there are no guarantees in this life.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    *whips open closet door, whips out suitcase*



    LuvRv- before I go any further with the packing, I want to ask a question? I looked up Oncotype testing here on this site and it stated it is for ER+ cases. Is that the reason they did it on you?



    If not I'm packing up my suitcase, moving up with you and transferring to DF in NH, because I didn't have any Oncotype testing, nor have they ever looked at my tumor markers and I quote, "not our standard of care". (told you I was ready to scream if I hear it one more time). (To any newbies, this is a running joke between Luv and myself. We are both being treated under the same parent facility, but Luv is at an outside clinic. We are finding widely different standards of care between the two facilities. Since the only follow-up I will be

    getting is a yearly mammo, I'm seriously thinking of transferring to Luv's team and facility)



  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Forgot my other news ladies. After almost 2 mo of fighting I have gotten my insurance company up to paying 80% of my BRACA testing (were only going to pay 50%). I spoke with Myriad today, and asked that since they accept 80% from Medicare, would they please accept this as full payment. They wouldn't give me a definite answer, but said to call back when I get my bill ( $808.00 ) and they will see what they can do. I just made it in under the wire because my sample expires on 7/7. Actually, I hope they make me pay something, because I want to appeal my insurance companie's decision (Catch 22, you're not allowed to appeal, until you pay the claim). I believe, that by their own rules, they are required to pay this testing at 100%, and I'd like to be able to make a difference for my sisters that will be facing this in the future.

  • ldbarne
    ldbarne Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2012

    I'm 28 and recently diagnosed with triple negative BC. The problem I am having is with the chemo treatments I'm a horribly sick and unable to function for days afterward. I had a partial masectomy and my lymphnodes were clear. I'm considering stopping chemo and just becoming more healthy. Also what's the 5 yr thing are they saying we only live 5 yrs after treatment?

  • riley702
    riley702 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited June 2012

    Congrats, kathyrnn! Score one for perseverance!

    ldbarne, welcome; 'though sorry you have to be here. Before you stop chemo, scroll up a few posts and read LuvRVing's post. TN can be scary, because drugs like Tamoxifen, etc. aren't available to ward off recurrences. On the flip side, chemo is very effective against TN.

    I'm not sure what you mean by the 5 year thing. No, many TNs survive and thrive. I've heard it explained, though, that because TN is so aggressive, IF you're going to have a recurrence or develop metastasis, it will usually happen in the first 3 or so years after tx. In fact, by 5 years out, our rates of recurrence actually drop below that of hormone-positive BCs. But we, like all BC patients, have no guarantees and can relapse 5, 10, 15 years later. Most people think that if you've survived 5 yrs after having cancer, you're considered cured. That does not hold true for BC, I'm sorry to say.

    ETA: Have you told your oncologist how much trouble you're having? There are lots of drugs now to manage the side effects, so you don't have to feel so sick and discouraged. This is your best shot at stopping this thing in its tracks right now. And I don't want to frighten you, but clear lymph nodes are no guarantee that some stray cancer cells haven't escaped the breast. They can go into the bloodstream and bypass the lymph nodes. Chemo is your best insurance of zapping any stray cells that may have gotten out.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited June 2012

    ldbarne, which chemotherapy regimen are you on, and what side effects are you experiencing? Side effects do vary, depending on the individual and the chemo, and your medical team can very often provide help or alternatives to help you.

    Here's a link from the main Breastcancer.org site that discusses the common side effects, and you can also look there to find your specific chemo. We're glad you found this wonderful community - we're here to support you though treatment!

  • onvacation
    onvacation Member Posts: 1,344
    edited June 2012

    Inmate - woohoo what fabulous news - dance with NED!

     CS, please stay, I look forward to your posts daily! 

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited June 2012

    Good Morning Ladies

    Thank you for having me on this thread.  I put my big foot in it big time and hurt someone with a thoughtless comment but I have apologised and we are now friends again thankfully because I could not bear to have her in my life. The only thing I could think of was to get off the thread I was so mortified.  So now (as Titan would say,  dang it) you have me back.   Notice I did not say "bloody".  I am turning over a new leaf but not sure how long it will last lol.  

    Its Saturday morning and I crawled out of bed at 10.30am. Disgusting I know and I haven't even got the excuse of tiredness through having taxol this week cause I didn't get it,  but we have had someone off sick at work so I have been typing morning, noon and night so I am just about knackered with my gammy hand.      The old fellar is so serious about opening a cafe at the airport I didn't even get my usual breakfast cause he is knee deep in equipment prices.  Never mind about my stomach.  This could be the start of hunger pains for me.

    It must be a nightmare for you ladies with insurance issues.  I don't think I could afford to pay all the excess that you seem to be landed with.  Do you have public hospitals that you can go to for treatment that is just as good? 

    Today I might do some cleaning ugh before I go back to typing some more. Today it is sunny albeit cold,  so better not complain. 

    Kathrynn - you are so funny "whip out suitcase"  I haven't got the energy to whip out anything at the moment, must be lack of food!. And I just love  your "Gigglesnort".

    Jan69 - wouldn't that be just wonderful, lunch at the old fellars.     My boss came to lunch yesterday and anybody else would give something like sanwiches or rolls with a cake or something but no not the old fellar he cooked her garlic prawns. She ate every bit and raved over it so his head was swelling for the rest of the day. I'm all for keeping things simple.

    Idbrne - I am so sorry you are sick with the chemo, nothing worse in my book. Has your oncologist given you adequate sickness medication. I was given Emend and didn't get sick at all. Before you consider stopping chemo talk to your oncologist. Nobody has to suffer through this now when there is so much they can help you with.   Remember to hydrate as much as you can. I know its a chore but it really does help. You are so very young but you have a good prognosis with no lymph node involvement so who knows how long we have. First things first, talk to your oncologist.  Thinking of you and sending wrm hugs.      

    Thank you once again ladies for having me on this thread I don't know what I would do without any of you.  Have a good day.  Annie                        

       

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited June 2012

    Kathy - before you pack up and move to NH (not that I would want to discourage such a wise, wise decision!!!) here are a couple points...

    I was living in the Kansas City area when I had my first occurrence.  My first oncologist (actually TifJ and I had the same guy) ordered the Oncotype test because I was ER+ at 8% and my sentinel nodes were clear.  He really didn't want to, said it wouldn't make a difference in his recommendation, but I was insistent.  I am a Taurus, there is not much point in arguing with me Tongue out  The Oncotype test came back as TN (I was just a couple decimal points short of being ER+) and thus the high recurrence score.

    When I turned down chemo and finished the Mammosite radiation, he asked me if I would agree to Femara and I said yes.  At that time, he started doing the labwork including the CA 27.29.  I think it was that practice's standard of care...TifJ could probably answer better because she's been with them for a while now.  His plan was to do one every 3 or 4 months.  But the second one came back elevated.  We waited a month and retested and it was higher.  Then all hell broke loose! 

    When I started going to Dana Farber in Londonderry, my local oncologist gave me the "not our standard of care" response.  She said it's not much value because you don't have a point of reference.  I said I had 3 results in my history, so I definitely had a point of reference.  She also recognized that I had special circumstances and so that took care of that problem.  The CA 27.29 became standard of care for me.

    I had a similar discussion about the PET/CT scan and came to an agreement that we would do one only if my CA 27.29 was above normal.  In April it came back at 55 and now I'll be having those scans on a regular basis...unfortunately.

    Keep in mind that your stage 2 diagnosis is different than the stage 3b that I presented to Dana Farber.  I suspect that standard of care may be slightly different for different stages, and 3b has the highest percentage of likely recurrence/mets. 

    All that said, it's just a blood test.  They're probably checking CBC and CMP, so what's another tube for the tumor markers.  Be insistent.  It's your life, your worries.  I doubt your insurance company will balk at paying for it.  I guess if DF wouldn't do tumor marker testing, I'd go find an oncologist or PCP who would.   Dr. Harris, who is the chair of Radiation Oncology at DF, and directed my treatment, said he was glad he wasn't my MO because he knew we'd butt heads over type and frequency of follow-ups.  Nicely, of course!

    Maybe the fact that my mets were discovered when they were tiny won't make a difference in long-term survival, as the statistics would indicate.  Only time will tell.  But I've defied every statistic so far, and now it's time to defy them in my favor, for a change!  You can't convince me that finding little mets early isn't better than finding big ones that have festered for years. 

    Ldbarne - it's horrible that you are dealing with breast cancer at your age.  And TN is scary at any age.  But rest assured that there are many, many long term survivors.  There are discussion threads on this specific forum, I think, where women have checked in after reaching survival milestones.   As for your chemo side effects, talk to your oncologist or chemo nurse.  I assure you, there is a pill or treatment for almost every single side effect you can experience.  Last summer I felt like a chemical waste dump, treating symptoms of chemo so I could live my life as normally as possible while undergoing treatment.  There are all kinds of anti-nausea meds, treatments for mouth sores, anti-diarrhea, anti-constipation, antacids...you name it, there's probably something that will treat your side effects.  There is no pill for fatigue, unfortunately, so you have to let yourself rest when you need it.  And there's no antidote to the hair loss.  But for everything else, there is help.  The one thing you must remember is to hydrate.  I'm convinced that hydration is the single most important thing you can do during the entire time you are on chemo.  Whether it's water, tea, coffee, soft drinks, watermelon, grapes, soups, whatever...get at least 96 ounces a day.  When you're sitting in that chair getting treatment, keep an icy cold beverage right there and drink up!  If an hour of hydration and anti-nausea meds prior to getting your first chemo infusion are not part of your protocol, insist upon it.  And hang in there because, believe it or not, it will be over sooner than you think.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    I'm late getting to bed, I have to be up early, so just a quick note.



    First, *throws Annie to floor and soundly smooches her*



    Second, LMAO! "thankfully because I could not bear to have her in my life. ". You really ARE having problems with your typing skills Annie, so let me make that wee correction for you. Thankfully because I could not bear to NOT have her in my life. *runs to bathroom before giggling causes a flood*

  • riley702
    riley702 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited June 2012

    Just don't gigglesnort, Kathy!

    And bumping for Kimmie.

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Luv - you snuck in while I was posting. What a small world that you and Tifj had the same onc's. Amen to "  You can't convince me that finding little mets early isn't better than finding big ones that have festered for years. ". They haven't gotten me to drink the koolaid on that one either. *raises glass*. You keep defying away girlfriend!!!!

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    To late Riley!



    Ldbarne- welcome, the ladies have (and moderators) have given good advice. Please don't hesitate to come back and join us.

  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Member Posts: 812
    edited June 2012

    luv i went to the link you posted, i really don't understand how it works though :(

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited June 2012

    Kathrynn - oh shit could only happen to me.  Actually my hands and fingers are so bad I cant even turn the pages of qa magazine.  I hope to goodness they come right or I am up the creek without a paddle.   

  • minxie
    minxie Member Posts: 484
    edited June 2012

    Annie - I had some nasty neuropathy from the Taxol as well. A year later most of it was gone, just still have a little on the soles of my feet.

    I have a dilemma. Both my onc and the onc I saw at UNC said I could CONSIDER additional chemo after my rads, but there is no data to support that it helps in the case of a local recurrence like mine. I am totally wanting nothing to do with chemo ever again, but if they told me it could save my life, then yes,I'd do it. But They can't give me anything, not even %s - just not enough data out there :(

    Ladies who have done rads - it it normal for me to start feeling fatigues after only 13 treatments? I've been sleeping 14 hours a day! 

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited June 2012

    Well as you can see, my getting to bed early didn't work.



    Minxie, I remember being tired but I don't know if it was that severe. I didn't pay to much attention to how much I slept, when I was tired, I just slept till I felt like getting up. I do remember complaining to a friend that I "didn't know why I was so tired" and her prompt response was, "duh, dumba**, you're getting radiation!". That's all I needed to hear to get the right perspective, lol. Snooze away and feel better!

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