Hats off to any that wrap
HELP! Just had my first practice session on how to wrap in case I ever need to. Hoping on practicing every few days until I master this time consuming, frustrating hobby, if thats what you call it. I pray no one has to learn this in an emergency situtation.
Every person that wraps deserves brownies, chocolate and a huge hug of praise every time you get those blasted bandages on!
Besides going on anti-anxiety drugs, what are your tips to make it easier?
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Practice, practice, practice. But I would love the brownies!
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I just posted in the Exercise/Self Care thread how frustrating I am finding this process. I actually did a better job the first couple of times I did it. How can that be? Last night I had myself wrapped pitifully, and tonight I gave up out of total frustration. I have been using the same finger wraps, and I think I figured out that they are shot and that is part of the problem. Visited therapist today and she gave me four rolls while I am waiting for my supplies to arrive in mail. I'll let you know how it goes.
Oh, and Hugz, I ate an entire large bar of dark chocolate in three days and was wishing I had more tonight! This is not like me. I am getting another bar for the practice round I am doing tomorrow afternoon vs waiting until nighttime, which is when I am supposed to wear it. -
I get my chin involved in the wrap. It takes almost an hour for me to wrap. That is the fastest way to get the swelling down for me though. I don't have any tricks to tell you, it's just not a fun thing to do.
I have iliac nodal involvement, so I get lymphedma in my right leg also. I do have to say that the leg is easier to wrap, but more difficult to find something to wear.
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Ugh ma111--the leg too?
Keep at it all of you newbie wrappers. It does get easier and faster. Wish it were a hobby hugz. Would be one I would quit! I use my chin too! I sit in the middle of my bed in case the bandage gets out of control. I take a deep breath each time I have to start over. I play some slow music. What I hate the most is when I got it on and could tell it was not on correctly and compressed correctly. Than I had to start all over. I do not have to wrap all of the time now but I do wrap over my jovipak each night. So I only have to deal with bandages.
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Tina, Funny, that you said in your other thread that you feel retarded when wrapping. I do too. I think we are just beating up ourselves though. I can see it is a real learning process.
After I got home from wrapping I thought I would try to practice which was about 3 hours later. I thought Ok I can remember this, it was prettty easy when I did it step by step with the MLD girl. Well, I started wraping at the wrist and then completely forgot if my girl started me on the thumb or forefinger. (we started with 1 inch finger cotton wraps) As it was late, and i was already frustrated, I then nicely rolled my bandages up and put them away thinking how dumb I was. Today I will just assign my dumbness to CHEMO brain.
Tina. Are you sure those wraps are shot? My girl says they last a long time. Chocolate is the order of the day! I told my therapist that I think a glass of wine would help to wrap. I normally try not to drink but I can see how It might relax me so I don't choke someone with my bandages as they walk by!
Ma111. That sounds like a trick to me. What do you do with your chin? Hats off to you for taking the time out to wrap nearly your whole body.
Becky and girls, Thanks for the encouragement. It is helping to ease the "Im retarded feelings." I will just about give my eye teeth to own a personal wrapper never mind a personal trainer. I thought about the slow music too.
Nordy, Let's skip practice and go directly to the brownie table.
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Hugz, I am using Transelast, which catches on everything, pills, pulls, gets dirty real fast. A trip for groceries does a real number on the stuff. I know there is a cotton alternative that can be washed and holds up better, and I plan to ask my therapist about using. Since I now have a new sleeve and glove, I will only be wrapping for bed, and this should prevent it from getting gross as quickly. Having just slept in my new Solaris night vest for the first time last night, I totally understand why a night sleeve for the arm would be such a welcome thing compared to bandaging!!
Ma111, dealing with the leg as well as arm must be so time consuming! Thanks for the time estimate for doing the arm, as it helps to have some reference from someone who has been doing.
Becky, I think music is a good idea. I definitely have to take a deep breath to stay calm when I realize once I am done that it's too tight or wrong in some way. Either that, or I end up in tears!
My therapist showed me a technique on how to use the wall to stabilize the bandage roll when half way around. It allows you to take up the slack when you pick up the roll again from the top. I am rolling toward myself, if that makes any difference. Does that make sense?
I am abandoning the negative self talk about my wrapping skills. I will exercise Nordy's suggestion to practice, practice, practice!!
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Tina, can you view it as an art project? I'm only half kidding here. If only the bandage came in 100 colors like the markers you use for your fabulous drawings!
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Actually, if they were tie-dyed, it might look pretty cool! Kind of like the multicolored yarns that weave an interesting pattern in a sweater.
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Oh, dear! Not a hobby--it's an Olympic sport!
I do in-service sessions for nurses sometimes, talking about "the patient's experience of LE," and I always go with one arm wrapped. I've thought about wrapping it in front of them so they can see what we're actually dealing with, but it's hard enough for me to get the whole thing right when I'm alone at home with nothing else to concentrate on -- can't imagine what would happen if I went public with my performance art!
Being frugal, I have trouble tossing the gauze finger wraps when I should, but with time I've gotten better at recognizing the point at which they're more trouble than they're worth. The short stretch will last a long time, but the gauze gets all weird pretty fast.
I have a bandage roller my DH made me out of a cheap electric drill (my Therapist Jane showed him how to do it), and it saves my nerves when I have to wrap three times before I get it right.
Ask your therapist for written instructions for wrapping, or take a friend along to take notes or (better yet!) film the process. If you film it, have your friend stand behind you so the vantage point is the same as when you'll be doing it yourself.
Don't be fooled by how easy your therapist makes this look. Remember she's been professionally trained and has vast experience. Not to mention that she's using two hands and you are not.
You'll get to be a pro at it too, but not just yet!
Early on I was always careful to vacuum before I started wrapping, so when I ended up heaving the bandages across the room I didn't have to spend hours picking dog hair and lint off them. (Now THERE is a hint your therapists are not likely to tell you!
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When you sit down to wrap, tell yourself you are practicing and will do it three or four times in a row. That way if you have to take it all apart again you can comfort yourself with the idea that you intended to do that anyway. If by some chance you get it right on the first or second try, you can suddenly remember that you had something else pressing to do and quit the practice session while you're ahead. Win/win!
If you are under time constraints (like if you're wrapping before heading to the airport for a flight) give yourself LOTS of extra time to get it right.
As you will no doubt surmise, I have vast experience at failing at wrapping. And I can say without hesitation that the only cure is brownies. Well, and more practice, of course! Keep at it; it gets easier, better, and faster -- honest!
Fat-armed hugs!
Binney -
I took me several, several months to get the hang of it and it still doesn't come easily for me, but I am much better at it than I was when I first started.
Just don't give up - keep practicing! And after over a year and a half of doing it, I still can't match the neat job of my therapist, but it gets the job done.
Hang in there, wrappers.
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Oh, and once you don't need to wrap anymore (if that should happen for you), but sure to wrap once a month (I do it on the 1st of every month--same day I give the dogs their heartworm meds
) so you don't forget how. Should you have a flare and need to wrap, you don't want the added frustration of trying to re-learn this skill.
Binney
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Thanks for hints. Today I only could get as far as the five fingers and then couldn't remember how to wrap the web area. So I did that about 5 times. I will look at my DVD instruction and see if I can decern how to. (the dvd is not very good filming though) I thought about asking to film but thought I would get a no answer on that so I didn't ask but I should have.
I think I am going to practice in chunks. Going to first learn how to wrap the hand for a few days or weeks then practice the foaming then bandages then the whole shabang at once. Tina I will ask about the wall technique soon.
Tina, the cotton gauze I use is called Molle..... something I think, but don't have the package and I am not sure of exact name. My therapist said it is more expensive but lasts longer than other brands. It doesn't feel cheap.
I want tye dye bandages soooo bad. I can picture it.
Binney. I am as cheap as they come so I won't be tossing my bandages away. Maybe I will donate them to the animal shelter. I wonder if they can use them on pets? I probably will come up with something interesting to use with the streams of gauze. Like tying tomatoe plants on the stake or using them for a May pole to dance around! (not)
I love the electric power drill bandage winder. Can you explain how it is done? So clever.
Love the vaccum joke. Totally can see that pet hair sticking out of your wrap like a procupine.
So seeing that I'm just practicing for the BIG FLARE DAY. I won't get too stoked when things get wrong. I will just nicely put wraps away for a rainy day. I never got too frustrated today but then it wasn't 100 degrees out and I wasn't swollen and sweating over those ....... bandages!
I love all your help. For the non wrapers. I hope you can join the bandwagon and practice, practice, practice. I swear once I learn this I will keep it up so I don't forget.
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Hugz, I posted over in the Exercise/Self Care thread that I wrapped my arm in two hours tonight. Using the new Transelast was quite helpful, and I think I was right about the old rolls being shot. I forget how many uses you're supposed to get with Transelast, but it's not too many. Okay, too difficult to type wrapped, and I really need to get back in bed!l
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Yes the leg too. I have inflammatory bc and it travels vie the nodes. So when it clogs the nodes I wrap them. I find the leg much easier to wrap then the arm. I use my chin to hold the wrapping to re grasp to go again for the upper arm. Lower arm I use my leg.
My bandages are washable, so tie dying is an option for me. The web of my fingers I find the hardest part. Sometimes I don't do them if my fingers are too swollen. It will still get some fluid out. If you do it that way though, make sure you elevate. I have also found that using the first one to just keep the foam and stuff in place then use more for pressure helps.
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interesting. haven't ever wrapped my chest on my own. have a girlfriend come over and wrap me up. then i don the sleeves and gauntlets and we go do the power-walking stride. just can't imagine controlling 10m of wrap!
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My therapist gave me written instructions. I also videotaped her wrapping me. It helped a lot! I did also have the Rovig DVD that showed how to wrap but my therapist wrapped a little differently. I talked it out loud to myself at first.
Binney--I would love to have something to roll the bandages.
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Oh--I forgot. My therapist said that when she had LANA training they had to wrap themselves for a short while. So maybe she is empathetic.
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Anyone looking for a bandage roller can find them at www.dressageextensions.com. Just enter "bandage roller" where it says 'Enter keyword' and you'll go straight to it. It's $10.95. Actually if you have a good/decent tack store in your area, they should have them. I can be mouunted on a wall or a board and then you crank it. Leg bandaging is common among some disciplines so there is lots of bandage rolling done for some.
I'm surprised at how many are saying they are having to figure out wrapping at home. The first 3 times I saw my LE guy he wrapped me, the next time he had me wrap myself while he instructed and the rest of the times I saw him before my garments came in I wrapped myself with him watching. He did give me a print out of how to do it but don't know how good it would have worked without actual help in learning.
I'm also not understanding why wrapping every night? Why not a night garment? Honestly - I don't know the price of the wrapping supplies vs a night garment, but seems like it would be a lot more expensive (plus inconvient) in the long run (6 mths or more) to be continually buying supplies vs a night garment (mine is 2 yrs and is faded but still functional).
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I don't currently wrap, but who knows what the future holds. I did ask my LMT that I would like to learn how so that I wouldn't have to learn the first time in a crisis.
My hats off to you all!!! Did we discuss wrapping as one of the LE olympic sports?
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Galsal, I have had my chest wrapped only a few times, but it never stays in place, and most of the time it falls down. Until recently (for night or during flare), I wore a compression tank and round channeled inserts placed to the side of my chest just below the underarm area. That works pretty well and can be concealed somewhat for daytime use/workout. The night vest is now the better tool for sleeping, but I can resort to the tank and inserts in the day when needed. I now have a new favorite tank I wear daily, and the way it fits seems to negate the need for the inserts, so far.
Did I not mention that my sluggish lymph fluid has made my brain slow and stupid when it comes to wrapping!? LOL! (I know, I promised no more negative self talk.) My therapist wrapped me and explained how to do. I was to return with arm wrapped by myself and she checked. I did it very well the first time, only minor corrections. She only had me wrapped for a two day period to take down swelling, as it was not extreme. Anyway, since I did so well the first time wrapping, she told me to practice. Well, I seem to have gone downhill in my ability and will forget parts, the hand wrapping in particular. I also get confused when I start to run out of finger wrap halfway through, where to end, etc. Once I have the fingers and hand done, most of the time I am home free. Twice at recent appts I have had my therapist watch me wrap my fingers and hand again, and last time I wrote notes to remind myself where I usually go wrong. But I think I was right about my finger wrap being shot and that was part of problem. It was much easier last night with the new stuff. I am wondering if I can get someone to use my iPad to video my therapist wrapping me, or her coaching me while I wrap myself.
My truncal LE became chronic in April 2009, but my arm only changed in volume enough to require wrapping about a month ago. It was stable for a couple of weeks, but it became impatient while waiting for custom sleeve and glove to arrive and misbehaved again. So, it's really only been a week that I have been supposed to wrap nightly. Wrapping is actually considered the "gold standard" when it comes to treatment. It is like having a completely new custom hand and arm garment each time/night that helps bring down swelling. Right now my arm and hand are a little unstable, and wrappping allows for small fluctuations in volume. Ultimately, my therapist thinks my arm will calm down and that I will only need a sleeve and glove for exercise, flying, or if I feel any symptoms of swelling. I would love to have a night sleeve instead of this wrapping, but hopefully I will not need it. In the meantime, custom sleeve and glove during the day + wrapping at night is the most aggressive treatment to get my arm back to its original state. It seems to be working.
Edited multiple times because typing with the glove is making it difficult to express myself clearly!
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ma111, Sorry to hear you have inflamatory BC cancer. I had no idea that It travels to your nodes waiting for an oportunity to be bothersome. I see now what you girls are talking about using your chin as a 3rd hand to help wrap.
Becky, I am so glad you videod your wrapping. I should have.
Kicks, My therapist was so good. She sat beside me and we each wrapped identical bandages as she talked me through it. She was so encouraging but when I got home my CHEMO brain and bad learning curve dismissed the fact that I had a lesson and because I never was in a wrapping intensive before to watch and learn, it was all Greek to me. I don't have to wrap but I would like this tool for when I fly a long trip or have a sudden flare and can't get any help. That is why a lot of girls learn it.
I think night garments are good (don't have one) but therapist's still say you can't beat wrapping when you really need it. Indeed it is the "gold standard.
Yes, wrapping needs to be classified as a oLYMPHic activity! So far Binney is winning the bandage winding event with that fancy electric drill winder and Tina is the fastest downward Stairclimber, chasing her loose bandages as fast down the stairs as she can. I will just hold the string of bandage across the finish line!
Tina, I was told that it is best to run out of finger wrap on the hand area or wrist as it is easier to join another piece rather than on the finger. Now we just have to plan that right and practice every month at least so we don't forget for those special flare days due to do arrive when you least expect them.
Typing errors will always happen when you are wearing such thick glove. I envision many LE'rs in the same boat. We don't care if your typing comes of with mistakes we just want to hear from you!
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Hugz, I am laughing out loud about 'Olymphics!'
So, events so far: wrapping, bandage-chasing, bandage winding, hulking, kegel-breathing, ball-bouncing, and on another thread, today someone explained 'jiggling.' Then there's sleeve donning, swell-spot inserting, not to mention more conventional sporting events such as walking, running, stair-climbing. And in the spirit of pie-eating contests, we simply must include chocolate eating.
I'm sure I have missed a few.
I'm taking it easy today; trying to give my fipples some quality healing time, so walked at a moderate pace, less than I expected, and my biggest LE care objective for today is to get a decent night's sleep. For whatever reason, I'm pooped!
Carol
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I wonder whatever happened to DuckyB? She told the funniest stories about wrapping--and had all of the colorful language to go with it!
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Tina, I think you should dye some of your finger-wrap discards, cut into pieces, many, many vibrant colors. And then make some collages--sort of like your avatar drawing, only three dimensional.
This afternoon I thought of something else wrap-related. The artist Christo makes millions of dollars wrapping objects in the name of art. Somehow it should be possible for all you LE wrappers to get together for an installation art project. Wrap a chair, or a car, or a building like he does. And make millions.
Seriously, what could you wrap that would evoke an emotion appropriate to how everyone here feels about LE? That would in my opinion, make a very compelling work of art.
Carol
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Carol that is quite an entertaining list of activities for the oLYPHMics. You are funny! Chocolate eating is for all the ones that didn't win anything. We gotta keep everyone happy with this event!
So as an artist project to make millions so I can support my LE expenses, I would like to wrap any doctor that doesn't think you can get LE. Especially my MD that laughed when I said to him "I'm worried about getting Lymphedema." and he said, "Oh you'll never get that!" When I wrap him, I want to wrap him sooooo tight he goes blue and his eyes bulge.
What is jiggling and I take it fipples are nipples or what about Cookiegals boobywiggles she talks about. Maybe we need a event for LE language skills.
I still have to practice wrapping tonight. I brought the finger gauze to work and they are still in my purse. I gotta get off this crazy thread and go wrap.
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Hmmmm. How many doctors do you think we'd need to put this installation together? If we each donated one or two (or three or half a dozen) from our own local healthcare system, we'd have enough, don't you think? The beauty of it is how a display of mummy-wrapped, bulgy-eyed, blue-fingered doctors could fit any artistic space available, whether a gallery or a traveling show for arboretums and zoos. You KNOW this is going to be in high demand everywhere, no doubt even internationally.
The first million we earn goes to our foundation for buying wraps and garments for those whose insurance doesn't cover it. After that, it's all gravy. We might even be able to buy ourselves a few good researchers--heaven knows everybody else does, and for much less worthy causes.
Who's collecting doctors? I've got a couple I can send right away...
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Oh my goodness I am laughing my head off Binney! I tell you though, I just gotta get off this thread and go to RAP practice. I mean WRAP practice. But... I can't. cause... your sooo funny that I don't want to even think about bandaging yet. I just want to sit here and laugh. Unless of course we can bind all the doctors together in one heap and watch all their eyeballs pop. I'm on to that like "white on rice"!
Ok I'll check in later.
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We have to think of a catchy name for the wrapped-doctors art piece. Something that contains or evokes 'rooters.' Maybe 'Rapped Rooters' --as in make them take the rap for being so ill informed. There must be a better name! And of course the wrapped doctors have to eat, type, and put on clothing as part of the installation.
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I like rapped Rooters. Seeing that K's doc is narcistic, let's use the Evil Rad Doc as the centerpiece and have him wrapped in black and then the other docs in white gauze. K has volunteered and gets the honour of using as much tension on his bandages as she likes. Once he is all tensed up then he enters the glazing phase which is a hot sauna filled with protein rich lymph fluid. Inside the sauna he gets all of K's workplace duties to perform as per your suggestion. After his wraps shrink tighter he then joins the white gauzed docs who now have tye dye wraps on their heads. They look pretty good compared to him. We sell the art piece as per Binney's suggestion above.
Back to serious stuff. Family left and all was quite. I tiptoed to my wrapping station and played with my wraps for 1 1/2 hours. Family came home and was so noisey I couldn't concentrate so I put the wraps away. I think I am finally learning how to wrap the hand, well until my MLD girl sees it and says its all wrong.
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Okay, middle of the night check in because I woke up and couldn't get back to sleep. Just a simple report of compliance in wearing new garments and wrapping. I shaved off 15 min tonight in wrapping. I felt like Goldilocks again, it's too tight, it's too loose, not just right. I was completely done three times and had to undo. The last time I went all the way back and started over with the hand. The fingers went on one, two, three, no hesitation. I fumbled with the hand the most, but I am hoping tomorrow it will be easier.
This Olymphics event is making me giggle and the art suggestions are even funnier! We need MLD, water drinking, and insect swatting included as events.
I have an idea for the art project that can travel. I will create a jail out of wrap, and doctors will be forced to stand inside like sardines. Meanwhile, a loudspeaker will repeatedly blare, "That's not LE, it's just post-surgical swelling. You're too thin to have LE. You can't get LE since you only had one sentinel node removed. You can't get truncal LE if you don't have it in your arm. There's no such thing as truncal LE. We've never had a patient at our hospital get LE from a sentinel node biopsy. I've never seen anything like that before. The pain will go away, give it more time." The jail can be disassembled and reconstructed in each city that the torch bearer passes through (Nordy is elected to carry). This will allow for maximum imprisonment of rooters throughout the country. Cities with the most rooters nominated win special prizes. We need to determine the location of the games, ideally it's the city with the most rooters or surgeons in denial.
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