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All4God
All4God Member Posts: 19
edited June 2014 in Stage III Breast Cancer

Hey everyone,

  Some of you may know me, some may not. I am waiting on my results from my lumpectomy from Friday, should have them Thur...yay cant wait....Anyway I am a full time student, part time employee, full time wife and mother.

I have been givin the opportunity in ENG 114 to write a paper on what ever I wanted. I have to present this to my class next week. Seeing how I am going through this I thought this is the best topic for me.

If anyone could help me out. If you could stand in front of a room filled with men and women of all ages who NEED to know about BC...

What would you all tell them?

What is the most importiant thing you believe they should know?

What do you go through that you believe if someone else knew they may beable to prevent this or catch it earlier?

Thank you all for your help. I feel if more people heard from someone going through it that they may see the reasons to go and get things that are different check out.

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  • Texas357
    Texas357 Member Posts: 1,552
    edited April 2012

    I'm wondering if you'll get many responses because in reality, the answer is so personal. In a perfect world, all of the information we find on this website would be common knowledge. But it's not.

    When we are diagnosed with breast cancer, our emotional ability to absorb all of this without feeling overwhelmed differs from one person to the next. If you try to give a woman all of the information she needs up front, it might send her over the edge. I know it would have for me. I had to read and absorb it in small increments. 

    What do people absolutely need to know? I guess my answer would be that everyone should start educating themselves now about more than mammographies.Because chances are good that someday soon, they or someone they know will be diagnosed with breast cancer and knowledge is power. Start gaining that knowledge now. When the diagnosis comes, you might be too distraught. 

  • AgentMo
    AgentMo Member Posts: 72
    edited April 2012

    I think the most important fact you shoud try to convey is that the general opition (bc is curable and a "good" cancer) is very wrong. BC can and does kill, and it does so quite frequently because it is so frequent. Also, you should try to make people aware that for bc sufferers chemo and radiation might not be the hardest time to go through, but that it is rather the uncertainty about future propects. And this uncertainty only really begins after active treatment. Finally, I don't think you need to educate people in the sense that you convey all the facts about the disease. Far better would be a good summary where they ccould find quickly find all the information in case they should need it. That way those who need to can become informed patients and really discuss the required steps with their doctors.

  • beth1965
    beth1965 Member Posts: 455
    edited April 2012

    Anyone is at risk for BC. I thought because no one in my family had Breast Cancer and no cancer in general that that made me a bit safer. I was sooo very wrong to feel this. I am the beginner of BC in my family unfortunately.

    Also my mother had over 10 lumps never once was one cancer or anything but i got one lump and ended up with BC and lots of it.

    No one is safe from BC

  • Downey30
    Downey30 Member Posts: 337
    edited April 2012

    Hi,  for me I think one of the most important things to know is that you must be your own advocate as far as knowing what is available.  I have learned that physicians for the most part tell you only what is their scope of things.  Early detection, a positive attitude, and a lot of good support.  Hope this helps.

  • NeedtobeSTRONG
    NeedtobeSTRONG Member Posts: 101
    edited April 2012

    Number one for me is to start doing self breast exams each and every month. This way you know your body! I was dx at 33 stage 3c ......to young for recommended mammo.

  • profbee
    profbee Member Posts: 858
    edited April 2012

    Think about your audience.  So, who are they?  What do you think would be an interesting topic to them?  I'd give some of the overwhelming statistics, but not too many.  Ooooh....you could start out asking them to write down the names of the first 8 women in their life they think of.  Then get into the stats. 

    I'd also take this opportunity to tell them to feel their boobs!!!  I once talked to a class about HPV and got an email years later thanking me because one student indeed had cervical cancer, so I would use my time.   When I started out this semester I first addressed why I was bald and how you need to know your breasts and know your body (men and women) and encourage the women in your lives to go to the doctor, etc.  

    Another thing I find stuns people is about the "caught it early" so it's curable myth.  To open students' eyes about this misconception would be really informative too.

    Good luck!

  • mary625
    mary625 Member Posts: 1,056
    edited April 2012

    That mammograms don't pick up all cancers.

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited April 2012

    That everyone is different...and its a journey.....its doable.....but first and foremost you need to know your body...if you know what is normal, then you will know what is not normal for you.....as some one else said, who is the audience and what do you think they want to know....may be include how to help someone who is going through this journey...what to say, what not to say....ways to help (meals, errands, play dates for kids, just be a listening ear)....and also just because you are done with Tx, doesn't mean you are all better!!!!  there are both physical and emotional effects even after Tx is done and hair is growing back!!!!  all the best to you

  • linnyhopp
    linnyhopp Member Posts: 567
    edited April 2012

    That there are many different types of breast cancer and one treatment plan does not fit all.  Many people think that BC is BC.  As we all know that isn't so...each person's journey is different and the family, friends, etc. should not try to convince the BC patient that their choices are what their loved one must do to treat their illness.  It is a personal choice for the patient to do what their gut and heart feel is right for them.  This is definitely not a one treatment fits all situation.

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited April 2012

    ~ That men get breast cancer

    ~ That a breast cancer diagnosis isn't an automatic death sentence

    ~ That ignoring symptoms and burying your head in the sand is NOT a good thing

    ~ That early detection CAN save lives, but breast cancer CAN come back.

    ~ That not everyone who has breast cancer has chemotherapy and loses their hair

    ~ That for every group of eight women in the class, stats show that one of them will be dx'd with BC in her lifetime. In a large class, this could potentially be a LOT of women. Tell them to look around.

    ~ Pink ribbons and pink socks and pink fried chicken buckets are not really good reminders of breast cancer awareness. Breast cancer is not pink and cute. Breast cancer patients have names, families, friends, jobs, hobbies, in other words, LIVES. 

    ~ It is difficult to find someone whose life has NEVER been touched by breast cancer in some way.

  • lifelover
    lifelover Member Posts: 553
    edited April 2012

    I found my lump several weeks before I went to my GP.  I was sent to a BS for exam, mammo, ultrasound and fine needle biopsy.  Nothing was found.

    A year later, I still had the lump, had lost a lot of weight and my breasts ached terribly.

    During that year, I kept feeling that something was wrong but I was afraid to be labeled a "hypochondriac".  I had Hodgkin's Lymphoma in 1994 and was told then that as a result of the radiation treatment I had a small risk of BC later in life.  Later research revealed that the risk was not a small risk.  In addition, the guidelines were changed for Hodgkin's survivors.  I never knew of this until after I was diagnosed with BC.

    If I could change anything, I would have made sure I knew what the latest research was on late effects of mantle radiation.  I also would have gone back to the BS sooner with my complaints and insisted on a core needle biopsy.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited April 2012

    Mammos and self-exams are not perfect. If you don't feel right, make sure to get a doc to check it out. get frequent ultrasounds, even if you have to pay for them yourself.

  • pupfoster1
    pupfoster1 Member Posts: 1,484
    edited April 2012

    I LOVE what profbee is suggesting.  Make it interactive and personal.  That makes your audience more interested and engaged.  Once you have their attention you can add in some stats, etc as the other ladies have mentioned.  One thing I learned (the hard way) is that mammograms do not pick up BC well at all in people with DENSE breasts like I had.  The thought process for people with that scenario is that MRI is better, and there is even newer technology that's called Breast Gamma Imaging which picks up BC MUCH better than mammography.  Too bad I didn't know that "before" as I was the classic large, dense breast patient.  Oh, you can also have SMALL breasts and they can still be dense.  

    Good luck!

    Sharon 

  • Karina121293
    Karina121293 Member Posts: 370
    edited April 2012

    And please, don't forget to mention not to ignore any itch. In most cases it can be nothing, but in my case the first symptom of an invasive cancer...

  • All4God
    All4God Member Posts: 19
    edited April 2012

    Thank you all soooo very much. I have however been asked to edit or delete lthis post. I will be deleteing it. I did not mean to break any rules or upset anyone. But again thank you all very much!

    God Bless

  • pupfoster1
    pupfoster1 Member Posts: 1,484
    edited April 2012

    ???? What rule did you break????????????

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