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  • naan1004
    naan1004 Member Posts: 520
    edited April 2012

    A must read, ever here of chemo brain, been suffering from it for a while now, it really exists.



    http://www.cancer.org/Treatment/TreatmentsandSideEffects/PhysicalSideEffects/ChemotherapyEffects/chemo-brain

  • naan1004
    naan1004 Member Posts: 520
    edited April 2012

    Ok, that was chemo brain at work I spelled hear wrong, hee hee!

  • 3girls
    3girls Member Posts: 94
    edited April 2012

    2 more taxol couple of weekd off before rads and continued herceptin-  off to sunny Florida 4/21 to celebrate!!

  • cathyjoan
    cathyjoan Member Posts: 16
    edited April 2012

    I have a Nioxin kit #1 of three products (shampoo, scalp therapy and scalp treatment) that I never used.  I would love to sell it someone for cheap.  Please let me know if you are interested and I can ship it to you!  Just send me a PM.

    Cathy 

  • snobordkykmom
    snobordkykmom Member Posts: 33
    edited April 2012

    Hey girls, I'm back!  This has been a crazy ride for sure.  Apologies for dropping off the face of the earth, but something had to go for a bit.  Backread to see what I've missed and looks like we have all crawled our way closer to a milestone.

     Special Note to Anyone thinking of SNOWBOARDING when your hands and feet are numb as posts.  DON'T!!!  My ribs will attest to the fact that when you can't feel your toes and know which edge you might be riding on, you tend to fall, just a bit!!  We went in March on that beautiful day when it was in the 70's. The snow was soft.  The sun was awesome.  The slopes were mostly empty.  And I face planted the worst I have ever done in all my years.  Good thing I didn't have an implant.  It would have blown a crater in the snow when it went.  So, now I'm just waiting for my trashed ribs to heal.  It's only been two weeks, so doing OK there.  That's why you have more than one rib, right???  Spares!

    Update here.  Finished my four sets of Tax just last week!! Whoo-Hoo.  The whole posse ended up coming for the sendoff dose.  Hubby, son and his best girl. Though the rules say one vistor per, no one batted an eye. Then we celebrated at Five Guys and went to a movie.

    Side effects for the whole she-bang boiled down to 24 hrs. of nasty bone, leg random, roving pain after #1 Tax. and then the slowly increasing numbness of hands and feet. Typing feels really strange.

    We were able to go away end of Feb. for four days and had a fabulous break from the crazy. Treatment #2 was Tues. then snowboarded half day Wed. at Cannon Mt. my fav and Bretton Woods Thurs. then Fri off with a massage.  Saturday and Sunday I was dead tired and couldn't move out of my own way.  

    Didn't miss any more days of work at school except for treatment days.  After third Tax. treatment, Dr. called to say, "UMM we noticed your blood sugar has been rising steadily, so go get checked out by family DR,"  So much for eat what tastes good (yogurt smoothies) and stay hydrated (juices, teas, choc. milk), keep up your strength (pizza).  By the way, I lost about 20 pounds, but my "fat" clothes were still tight for the first 15.

    Congratulations!! I am now a diabetic.  At least that's what they tell me.  My sis the all-knowing RN says the pancreas might wake up and come back, maybe with my hair.  Maybe by the time the numbness in my hands and feet fades away. Or maybe not and I'm like this forever.

    So test 2 hours after every meal and do a shot before bedtime is now part of my routine along with all the other stuff.

    Next Tues and Thurs. are the meetings to set up my surgery which will be coming sometime soon.  Trying to plan for the rest of the school year for a sub is keeping the brain busy.  Have the recliner already set up in the Living Room. Looking forward to camping season and landscaping the site where we're putting our new camper.  Don't think whitewater kayaking is in the cards for me this summer, oh well!  

    Can't complain really, all things considered.

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited April 2012

    Sno - Your comment about not having an implant gave me the best belly laugh in a long time! Good to see you back, though I'm sorry to hear you've had a rough go in some ways. I hope the diabetes is temporary - as if you need another longterm health issue to deal with. And I hope your neuropathy eases. I've had growing numbness in my heels and on and off issues with the hands, but since I'm past my last one, I'm hoping it all starts clearing up.

    Exhausted after another day (not quite full) of work. On to clean the kitchen so I can host my parents for the Passover Seder tomorrow night. We're keeping it low maintenance, but I need to at least clean the kitchen and clear off the table. 

  • Tskaiser75
    Tskaiser75 Member Posts: 32
    edited April 2012

    Hello Ladies, Wow I wish I had found this group when I started my chemo in Dec. You all sound so close. I have 3 more treatments of taxotere with my next treatment on Tues 4/10. My last treatment is May 22 and I am counting the days! It is comforting to know there are others that have had the same SE even though I would not wish this on anyone. Sometimes I feel like I am the only one and no one understands then I leave my pity party and know there are alot of people worse than I am so I am thankful that it is what it is.  I wish everyone the best. Thanks for having somewhere for me to vent. 

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited April 2012

    Teresa - Glad you did find us. At least we'll be with you for the last couple. How have you been faring? What was your overall regimen? I did TAC, all three at the same time. I have some neuropathy in my hands and heels, a little darkening of a few nail beds, and the fatigue, but not nearly as bad as some with Taxotere report. Please vent away! We all have our moments.

    Wishing everyone a happy Easter and Passover, and in general a wonderful weekend. Enjoyed a good seder with my parents last night. I hosted, but my Mom and I cooked everything together, and it worked out well. Looking forward to the weekend - my first weekend when I can look ahead and not see another treatment, and only improvement from here on in! Oh - I can't remember if I mentioned - my exchange is May 31. So there are more steps to look forward to.... 

  • dougieswife
    dougieswife Member Posts: 171
    edited April 2012

    Rachel....LOL...my exchange is set tentatively for May 31st, too!!! I will be finding out this week!!!!

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited April 2012

    Wow - last chemo, exchange. We're in this together for the long haul! Glad to have you as company.

  • markat
    markat Member Posts: 909
    edited April 2012

    Sno glad you updated!



    Teresa welcome to our group. I hope the rest of your txs go easy.



    I've been meeting with surgeons getting ready for BMX. It's all so confusing. I go for my first single herceptin tx on Tuesday. Ugh I really don't want to walk into that infusion center again!



    Hope everyone is well and having a nice holiday weekend!

  • victorious2012
    victorious2012 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2012

    Hello All.  Just dropping by to say hello.  I survived the SEs from Taxotere #3.  It was better than Taxotere #1 (which was a nightmare) and worse than Taxotere #2 (which was a breeze).  It really did a number on my mouth this time.  I had mouth sores, thrush (yes, again), the burned tongue feeling, burned spot on roof of mouth, and this time I got these weird raised bumps on the back of my tongue.  They didn't hurt, but they were there.  I have to ask my onc how to prevent this for next time.  It really made it uncomfortable.  Other than that, I had stomach pains for about 4 or 5 days that felt like gas pains.  That was also my first time having that.  Chemo is just the gift that keeps on giving!

    Well, I am one week away from my very last infusion.  I can't wait!  I know some have said the last was the worst.  I really hope that this not the case over here.  Regardless, I'll just be happy to know that it is the last time.

    The fun is not over for me yet.  My BMX has been scheduled for 6/1.  So I'll be spending a lot of time preparing for surgery.  I'm glad I'll have a bit of a break between chemo and surgery.  May may even be a normal month for me.  Hearing about all of your adventures is inspiring me to maybe take a vacation prior to surgery.  A beach getaway sounds wonderful after everything we've been through with chemo.

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited April 2012

    Victorious - may I suggest olive oil? It was suggested to me by a friend who's been through chemo twice. My mouth had issues, including possibly one case of thrush, but overall I kept my taste for a good part of treatment and had very few mouth sores. I just took a tablespoon twice a day, swished it in my mouth, and swallowed. No one has any explanation (my friend got the recommendation from her doctor, who was testing a theory). If nothing else, it helps keep things lubricated. Good luck!

  • Whatashocker3
    Whatashocker3 Member Posts: 209
    edited April 2012

    Victorious for the burned roof top I learned to gargle with club soda and greek yogurt pops did the trick.

  • markat
    markat Member Posts: 909
    edited April 2012

    Victorious do you.chew on ice during taxotere? I did and didn't have any mouth problem. The nurses told me that the neulasta helps with mouth problems also.

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited April 2012

    Because I was so tired and stressed out for my last tx, I really didn't feel much like chewing on ice (which I did only for the Adriamycin, not Taxotere). I wonder if that's why I'm having more problems. I also didn't spend a lot of time icing my hands during the Taxotere.

  • victorious2012
    victorious2012 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2012

    Thanks for all the tips for preventing/managing mouth issues. They are great. I will try them all.  I am determined not to have mouth issues next time.

    Markat: I have not tried chewing on the ice during infusion but I will be sure to have a cup of ice handy on Monday. 

    Whata:  I would have never thought of the club soda gargle and greek yogurt pops.  I assume they are like popsicles.  I'll check the freezer aisle at the grocery store. 

    Rachel, I tried the olive oil last time but it was on day 4 or 5 so it may have been too late.  And I only did it once or twice.  I'll try the twice a day starting day 1 to see if that makes a difference.

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited April 2012

    Victorious - One other thing if you haven't tried it already - I've used Biotene toothpaste and mouthwash. They don't prevent sores (I don't think) but the mouthwash especially is supposed to be good at soothing and keeping your mouth from getting too dry.

    I'm finding the mouth sores the weirdest things. I'm not even sure they're actual sores or something different - It's like these bumps appear out of nowhere on the roof of my mouth. Then I went and bit the inside of my lip during dinner... I hate that.

    I have to admit, I am starting to feel like it's really over. Despite the lingering mouth/tingling hand/runny nose/fatigue, I am feeling like some things are slowly improving - and there's no other tx ahead to knock me down again. It's a good feeling. 

  • naan1004
    naan1004 Member Posts: 520
    edited April 2012

    Just had my 7/12 taxol today, surgery scheduled for 5/25 am having partial mastectomy on right breast, then on to radiation I go

  • markat
    markat Member Posts: 909
    edited April 2012

    Just wanted to send good thoughts and prayers for Mardibra with her mastectomy today (4/13).

  • Kelloggs
    Kelloggs Member Posts: 965
    edited April 2012

    Good luck Mardibra...you're in my thoughts today.

  • Whatashocker3
    Whatashocker3 Member Posts: 209
    edited April 2012

    Mardibra, my thoughts are with you today. My mastectomy was an easy one to heal from and it felt good to get it off my body because it was my enemy. I went to my sons hockey game the next day. I wish the same for you. Another part of your journey completed.

  • seacretgardn
    seacretgardn Member Posts: 269
    edited April 2012

    Mardi, good thoughts and prayers for you today,

    Laura

  • snobordkykmom
    snobordkykmom Member Posts: 33
    edited April 2012

    Mardi,  Good thoughts and speedy healing to you.

    Had my port removed today. Thursday, the breast surgeon didn't like that it was showing pink around it, and didn't think that it was from me raking and cleaning up the front yard Tuesday after our meeting with the reconstruction surgeon.  So, out it came today, Friday afternoon.

    Whatashoc. . . I'm hoping for a quick heal, too.  Don't tend to lay around and will go nuts if I'm down for more than a day or two.. Chopped ice off the roof a few days after first son was born, cause water was running in over the circuit box.  Why should this be any different, right? 

    Got my surgery date today, May 23. Modified Radical it is with an expander icing the cake.  At least I have less weeks of plans to do for the end of the year substitute. I get some time to get the campsite and yardwork done in prep for the summer, and drop a few more pounds.  So, I am OK with the wait.

    Hubby thinks it is too long of a time between finishing chemo and the surgery and when radiation will start.  He is much more of a clock watcher, and worries that the time is allowing nasties that the chemo didn't get to start some more havoc. He takes the diagnosis of "aggressive form of cancer" to heart.

    Went to go see my son's new chicken coop he built for the 5 free chickens his lady and he got from a friend.  I try to do at least one normal thing a day, to remind me why I am going through this crazy treatment plan. Camping season is coming, but I don't think I'll get much whitewater kayaking in this summer. My imagination says the hair is starting to make a return.

  • Baileybump
    Baileybump Member Posts: 172
    edited April 2012

    Wishing you healing thoughts, Mardi!

    Sno - how often do you go camping?  My husband and I (and our dogs) are permanent campers, too.  We camp along the Susquehanna River near Harrisburg.  We love our summers along the river. . . good friends, good fun!  Something awesome to look forward to.  Smile  Your comment on the crater in the snow was awesome.  Thanks for the laugh.

    Enjoy your weekends, ladies!

  • Peacock
    Peacock Member Posts: 86
    edited April 2012

    Hi Sno, I'm sorry your husband is worrying. I know for me, though, chemo has been hard on my body. If I were facing surgery, I would want the time to get some regular stamina back. I had bmx in November, before chemo, and I was able to bounce back fairly quickly since I was still in regular health (and 25 pounds lighter than now!!).

     I have one more chemo this coming Thursday. I usually have them on Friday, so this will be 6 days in btw rather than 7. They warn me that SEs can be harder, but it's the LAST ONE!

  • snobordkykmom
    snobordkykmom Member Posts: 33
    edited April 2012

    Bailey  We try to get to camp every weekend May thru October.  If the hubby's schedule permits we do one long stint of one to two weeks mid-summer.  We are on the edge of the Berkshires in western Mass. near the Deerfield River.  So hiking with the dogs, and kayaking are the two stress busters along with just chilling at our site doing a little gardening or snoozing.  People think we're nuts leaving NH to camp in Mass but we have no weekend crazy traffic (going opposite of everyone else) and there is guaranteed water for paddling because of the dam release on a schedule.  Going down today to bring home the old camper for a brother-in-law.  Then wait for the new one to be delivered next week WHOO-HOO!  I grew up in Southeast PA, Chester County near MD border.  Love the open, rolling hills and our Amish neighbors that keep them that way.

    OWW!! So much for the "relatively painless" after effects of the port being removed.  Shirt touching the area is no fun.  Can't exactly go without one, too much to do today. Guess it's just a preview of coming fun.  Talked to my sister last night and she is all set to come up from PA for post-op.  She is the BOMB!!, retired RN's come in handy.  She will also bring mom who is 92, actually 93 by the time they arrive.  Mom is a hoot and a half, says she's "doing as well as can be expected"  which means she is still kicking ass most days.  Just stopped driving and living alone last October.  It will be tough to even match her.  We're just hoping to get some retirement years to enjoy right now.

    Enjoy the sunshine!! 

  • Mardibra
    Mardibra Member Posts: 1,111
    edited April 2012

    Surgery was yesterday and I just got home. The anticipation was far worse than the actual event. Feel great, no pain at all. Thanks for the well wishes!

  • dougieswife
    dougieswife Member Posts: 171
    edited April 2012

    Well, Ladies.....the time has come.......

    For me to start shaving my arm pits again!!!!!!  

    I'm so sorry...I just had to share....oh the little things in life...although...I feel like I haven't shaved in FOREVER!!!   I have to admit...it was a nice break!!!

    And, Rachel...I'm on for the 31st!!!!  12:30 pm, to be exact!!!! 

  • Whatashocker3
    Whatashocker3 Member Posts: 209
    edited April 2012

    Lori, how is the top of you head? I am waiting and waiting. My armpits are still bare but I prefer all the hair just concentrate itself on the top. My eyebrows and eyelashes still haven't reappeared either.



    Done my first 4 rads with nothing significant to report either than I must drive 1 hour each way to get it done. Sixteen more to go.



    How is every feeling emotionally now that chemo is done for most of us. My first thought in the morning is damn did thus really happen! I am thinking I may need to talk it out with someone.

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