I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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I have no desire to watch horror movies, but I don't consider In Cold Blood to be one. I don't even remember any scenes of the murders themselves, but I do remember the scenes of Capote visiting the two murderers in prison. I also cannot watch movies or TV shows in which animals may die (you always know in a horror/mystery movie that if a family pet is involved, something BAD is going to happen to that pet) and even have difficulty with NatGeo or other nature-based shows that involve predators chasing and taking down their prey. Much prefer the still shots that Athena sometimes provides for us!!!
But dreaming of a fish under your arm really takes the cake!!!!
P.S. Otter, hope the MIL birthday celebration went well!
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Mary, we've got your back!
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Ang7 ... It's too bad that the teacher wouldn't consider an alternative. Maybe after you read it you will know whether you need to push back harder or not. It sure won't help her enjoyment of reading to be forced to read something that emotionally upsets her.
My daughter fell in love with Stephen King books in middle school. I caught her reading mine and was hesitant about it at first but that spooky stuff never bothered her at all. We would watch Twilight Zone and Outer Limits marathons until our eyes glazed over. I got creeped out more often than she did.
But I don't like what I call the slasher movies at all. Nope ... no way can I watch those.
Susie ... your hair looks gorgeous!
Mary ... I guess that's one way to encourage hubby to behave himself

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Thanks, Cherryl!
I can't stand movies that are solely made for the purpose of shocking the viewer with violence. Movies such as "Saw" and "Final Destination", where the filmakers try to think of more and more grotesque ways to kill and maim people are vile. It makes me sad to think that people, and children(yes children-I've had students as young as 1st grade tell me they've seen these movies) watch them.
I do like me some Stephen King.
Mary
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WR, I adore my vet. If you're still looking, he's in Ft. Ben (Fort Harrison Veterinarians). Not sure if that's close for you or not, but thought I'd toss that out there.
And I read the encyclopedia for fun when I was a kid, too. The internet has replaced that now, but the method is the same: look something up, come across a link to something else that sounds interesting, which leads to another link and then lather, rinse, repeat until several hours have passed.

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I know. I'm a wimp. I have no idea where in "Finding Nemo" the "fish in the armpit" came from, but I was flailing around in my dream trying to get it out and I clocked my husband! He woke up, asked what was wrong, I said, "There is a fish in my armpit!" He said, "There are no fish here. No more Disney for you! Go back to sleep!"
I like romantic comedies like "Love, Actually." And "Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day." And "Truly, Madly, Deeply."
I read part of "Pet Semetary" once. Slept with my light on for 6 months (when I was single!).
I'm not sure about "In Cold Blood," though. Never read it, never saw the movie. I sympathize with your concern, Ang!
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Last Zometa tx done!! The onc agrees my pain is sciatic nerve pinch and has said to keep up the physio for another month, then have an MRI if it hasn't resolved - mainly to check for slipped disc or something arthritis related.
Still in love with my hair - hope it looks good in the morning

I like reading serial killer books for some reason - I like the thought that goes into catching them.
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SusieQ - hair looks fantastic - and even BETTER news about last Zometa! What a great few days you're having - hope it keeps up.
Books - I'm with HL - terrified at horror movies, haven't been in years - still have nightmares about old ones. Lately reading much, much, MUCH "slower" fiction - especially historical fiction. Has anyone ever read any of the Dorothy Dunnet books? I loved them all, loved them.
Now rereading "Lark Rise to Candleford" - nothing like what I hear was a TV series - this is all narrative, may be the basis for the series, but I think it's still lovely reading - 1939 publication, about the very poor rural country life in Britain, circa 1890.
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Good Morning Gal Pals!
It's going to be lovely today ... should get up to 80 degrees! I know that's too hot for Athena though. But it's perfect for southern Virginia.
I haven't been reading any books lately ... just can't seem to focus. I'm still trying to get through Karen Armstrong's book on the history of fundamentalism.
Susie .. your hair looks really pretty. Great news on the last Zometa. I liked reading murder mysteries too.
I saw a couple of movies about In Cold Blood. Can't say that they had any effect on me. I also remember reading the book. It takes a lot to scare me.
Hope everyone has a great day,
Bren
PS .. I take that back about not being scared ... right now I'm pretty scared of Alabama and Mississippi.
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I think the Flat Earthers are coming out of the woodwork. Take it from the title of this thread: People ARE strange.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA, Chickadee. Yes, they are. Funny you should say that ... one of my pet phrases is about people who fall off the edge of the flat earth.
Just had to pop in to laugh and give a thumbs up.
L
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Ang7
my oldest monster is like your daughter---very sensitive. Now maybe its because we have never watched regular tv (i confess that criminal minds makes me queesy) or anything violent (including the local news) nor do we allow playing of violent video games but then again he's always been this way. At 4 he noticed homeless people and was sad for them.
For myself, growing up I read everything I could get my hands on (including Everything you wanted to know about Sex at 11 having found it in a box in the house and hidden it in my room just in case this wasn't what my mother meant by read what you want
). I think being well educated and informed on everything kept me from making some of the mistakes that I saw fellow classmates in similarly unhappy homes make through their ignorence of possible outcomes of their choices. I have always thought that reading something was not nearly as bad as watching it in a movie. With a book you have so much more control. My Middle Monster takes the same approach to things--she read all the Harry Potter books and then declined to attend the last movie on the grounds that she felt it would be too scary. if it were me, I would say read the book with her and talk about it together.
hey mary! got much in the way of snow and ice?
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HL - is ok if we push a few???
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Saw 1-6....AWESOME. I'm one of those weird ones....the more violent and shocking, the better. I watched the remake of "Last House On The Left" last night. While my husband and kids were disgusted, I was glued. "Texas Chain Saw Massacre", "The Hills Have Eyes", Zombie movies, love them all. Happy Libby, I remember reading "Pet Sematary" when it first came out. I was just a youngster then, but for some reason THAT scared me. I read the last line and tossed it across the room.
That reminds me of Saw III, when the cop said if Jigsaw didn't tell him where his son was, he was going to cause him unimaginable pain. Jigsaw's response "I' have cancer...how could you possibly cause me more pain". I always loved that line.
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Only if I can help, Sunflowers!
I remember seeing "Time Bandits" in the theater with my first husband. When the wall of the bedroom moved when they pushed on it, I said, "Uh oh, I have nightmares like that." When the big, giant head pursued them down the hallway made by the moving wall, I said, "Um ... I think this is too scary for me." I ended up watching the rest of it, but ... It was scary and I was 25! I have seen all but the last of the Harry Potter movies and I have said to DH that I think they would be too scary for little kids. He just laughs and reminds me that most of them are much more hardened than I. I used to be afraid of the Wizard of Oz when I was little.
3M, I agree with you about the reading being easier than the watching, although I don't read scary books either. I can have independent nightmares all on my own like I did last night, when I dreamed that I was surrounded by tatters of ghosts and only my friend could get them off me and she was in the basement. I woke calling her name. *sigh* I lead a whole other life when I'm asleep.
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3monstmama-just rain here at the moment. It's going to be a long day on the playground.
Mary
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Oh HappyLibby~
I used to be afraid of the Wizard of Oz also.
I thought I saw that witch riding around on her bike all over my town...
Yes, I think my older teen is more sensitive than others. Hard to strike a balance sometimes.
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Those monkeys on the Wizard of Oz really scared me. I wasn't too fond of the midgets either.
It's been a beautiful day! I wore a tanktop to walk the dogs and get some sun on my arms. I'd wear shorts in the fields, but I found a tic on my upper thigh last week .. right by my hoohoo. Now I'm freaked out about tics. We put some Frontline on the dogs .. sure hope that helps. Wish they had Frontline for people.
Hope everyone is enjoying the weather,
Bren
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Just got up and my hair is still straight!!! I must admit I was worried. It will be SO good not to have to wash it this morning. I've had to wash it EVERY day since it grew back. They said not to wash it for a couple of days. I've realised my shampoo is going to last a lot longer now so I'll save money

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I took great comfort singing.......... Ding Dong the witch is dead, which old witch, the wicked witch. Ding Dong the wicked witch is dead!
Applies in many circumstances. Always feels good. -
Susie
Your hair looks wonderful.
I hate scary movies but love The Wizard of Oz.
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Not much of a movie watcher myself. I like dramas, English comedy and intellectual (not blood and gore) thrillers and generally have eclectic tastes. Having said that, I though "No Country for Old Men" was superb bit of cinematography. So was "Europa, Europa." And I LOVED "Pulp Fiction." Loved it! What a five-year old!. But in my defense it was a good movie. :-) Also liked "The Muppets" "Schindler's List" "Julia" (old one) "Requiem for a Dream" and the romantic comedy "What Women Think." Woody Allen is a favorite although I haven't see his last. I am NOT interested in sci-fi fantasy. "Glengarry Glenn Ross" (sp.) is one of the best films I have seen, mostly because of the superb acting. "Chicago" I thought was very good, although I newver understand why someone of Renee Z's average talents gets the best roles. Not fair, really....she always makes me wonder how many ultra-talented extras lost their chance at a break because of her.
Scoot - my settings made some conversations hard for me to follow, too.
(((Susie))) - Congrats on your last Zometa treatment. It's good to reach that "end" date on the calendar isn't it - and you've got lovely hair to show for it.
Bren, right on. Complained like a two-year old all day, I'm ashamed to say.
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Rosemary - I LOVED The Wizard of Oz too. Chickadee - welcome - and thanks for the laugh!
((((Bartender)))) Nice to see you. It's been crowded here. We've hd a full house lately.
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hi! Can I pop in with scary books,scary movies WONDERFUL!!! I never have nightmares from them. OZ is ICKY. In elementary school went on class trip to see college play and those DAMN flying monkeys were FLYING RIGHT OVER US. Never watched it again,although it became an annual movie for the kids on Easter Sunday. Read a book instead. Ive been trying to think of all the books I ever read----Horror and romance. My record was 18 books in 15 days. I was sick so I had time. 2yrs ago read all of ? help me here. The mom writes books & the daughter writes character--regan reilly. Checked them out of library 25 at a time.put them in order and shazam read them all.
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Hi Kad -- Great to see you again!I've always thought that The Wizard of Oz wasn't really a movie for children, although Frank Baum did write the story for kids. I don't love it, but I usually end up watching it when it's on TV because I get something more out of it every time I see it. Sort of like Alice in Wonderland -- there's a lot of "food for thought" in that story that I really never picked up on when I first read it umpteen years ago.Or maybe I was just slow.....
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Just got a call from my sister-in-law. She had DCIS around the same time I was diagnosed-about 2 years ago. She had it in one breast, but chose to have a double MX. Her oncologist just found a lump near her scar so she has to go for an MRI next week. I told her my fingers are crossed for scar tissue.
Mary
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Fingers crossed for Mary's sister.
Susie. Hurray for the last Zometa.
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Mary fingers crossed help for you sister.
This whole move thing is a hoot. I hate horror movies since
I saw The Exorcist. It scared me for days after seeing it.
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Scariest film I have ever seen (had me sleeping with the lights on for weeks): "Cassandra Crossing." Set in the modern day (well, seventies, I think) about a man with the bubonic plague. Shudder!
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Aw, cr*p, Mary. Surely that lump will be scar tissue, nothing more. Give her a hug for us.
Well. I just finished watching one of the strangest "films" I've ever seen: "Melancholia." That's what I get for leaving dh in charge of the Netflix queue.
otter
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