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  • Lovelyface
    Lovelyface Member Posts: 674
    edited March 2012

    Heidi - ha! ha! ha! ha!   You made me laugh - your last line read "Gotta run.... time to get the old boobs crushed".  That was truly funny!  However, not too funny the mammo?  Good Luck!

  • Summer38
    Summer38 Member Posts: 253
    edited March 2012

    Good luck today Inmate, sending positive thoughts & vibes your way...

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited March 2012

    Tifj: Our Dh's sound similar.  When Dh saw me in tears yesterday, he asked what was wrong and I explained it to him.  I ranted, actually stomped my feet, through my tears as to how much I HATE this disease and how unfair it is that mothers are taken from their children, daughters from their mothers, wives from their husbands.........He gave a nice supportive hug and I could see in his eyes his worry for me.  But an hour or two later, he once again asked  What's wrong??....Our dear friends and families can't possibly "get it" entirely.  But ya gotta love em fro trying. 

    So glad we have this place to share with each other.  Whether its bad or good or something that has nothing to do with FBC.

    Best thing for me today: I went to yoga. It felt good to challenge my body and appreciate just Being.

  • Hope60
    Hope60 Member Posts: 223
    edited March 2012

    Inmate - Thinking of you today and wishing you good luck.

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 791
    edited March 2012

    Inmate - sending good vibes your way! When my FC came back, day 1 - discomfort, day 2 - redness, day 3 - lump. Just that quickly. (((Hugs)))

  • sylviaexmouthuk
    sylviaexmouthuk Member Posts: 7,847
    edited March 2012
    I was just catching up on my reading of some of the threads and was so saddened to find out that Laurajane and suze35 had died. I really do not have the words to describe how I feel. They were two wonderful women and an inspiration to everyone. What a tragedy to have their lives taken away at such a young age and how awful for their families. They will be sadly missed.


    Thinking of you all
    Sylvia

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012

    Best thing to happen to me today was a clean mammo.

    I have contacted Children's Wonderlab and am in the process of seeing if a bench is possible. One of LJ's friends had also contacted them, I believe in reference to naming the garden in her honor.

    If, for some reason, this is not possible Plan B is for me to contact Longwood Gardens. LJ listed that as one of her favorite places and it is in my neck of the woods.

    Having now gotten another clean mammo, with lunch to celebrate, I am out to throw a side-saddle on my former stallion (horse, not husband). I'd like to get back into side-saddle riding.

  • Suze35
    Suze35 Member Posts: 1,045
    edited March 2012

    In the past day, I've received a lot of messages from people interested in somehow memorializing Susan's life.  Today I created a fundraising memory page on the American Cancer Society website in Susan's honor.

    The link to the page is http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/Events/MosaicofHope?pg=fund&fr_id=9910&pxfid=1146572

    On the page you can see a photo of Susan and leave a message for her family or a donation or both.

    I have been deeply touched by what you all have written here about Susan.  I knew the Susan who was a fellow mom and great friend - you knew a Susan who was a fighter against a deadly disease.  Whether you choose to use the memory page or not, I do feel there is no memorial more suited to Susan's life than the fact that she touched so many of yours.

    Thanks again,

    Kim Shapiro 

    Edited by Mods to make the link hot.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012

    I've posted this before....

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012

    Kim,

    I'm headed to the page now.

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited March 2012

    Heidi -

    congrats on the clear mammo - I suffer through mine on the 3rd of April.  Love the "Angus and Phil" - truer words never spoken!

  • mccrimmon324
    mccrimmon324 Member Posts: 1,076
    edited March 2012

    Heidi - Yay for the clean mammo!  I have mine scheduled on the 29th, bright and early so I don't have to wait any longer than neccesary. 

    Thank you for posting the link Kim. 

  • Babs37
    Babs37 Member Posts: 455
    edited March 2012

    Heidi-  Good news!!!! Happy for you.Laughing

     Inmate- Thinking of you. We will always be there in good and in bad times. Hugs.

    Thanks Kim for the fundraising memory page in Susan's honor. It was good to finally see her picture. She was a beautiful person inside and out.

    Hugs everyone. xx

    Isabelle 

  • Paintingmywaythru
    Paintingmywaythru Member Posts: 317
    edited March 2012

    Heidi..YEah!!!! Whoo Hoo!

    http://crazebase.com/art-and-design/golden-threads-by-visionary-artist-susan-medyn/

    A  painting I have dedicated as a remembrance to Laura and Susan.

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 791
    edited March 2012

    Heidi - Woo Hoo! Giddy Up!

    Kim, thank you for the update and the kind words. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.

    Painting - Simply beautiful !

    Heather - I hope your mammo on the 29th, is an unremarkable event!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~

    I feel too tired to move. Maybe I'm depressed.

  • mitymuffin
    mitymuffin Member Posts: 337
    edited March 2012

    Heidi, I'm sure you let out a big "whew"! Good news and nice to have it behind you for a year.

    This is a rocky time for all of us. I'm having trouble sleeping too. 

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited March 2012

    heidi......cingrats on your clean mammo!

    Ladies...thanks for all the encouraging words.  I will get the news on the scan later today and am now just trying to stay focused on something, anything really.  I suddenly feel the need to get all my paperwork in order so my husband and family don't have to look for anything.  What I really want to be doing is make jewelry or sew those curtains i've been dragging my feet on.  Digging in the dirt has always been my place of solace but I got that done last week.  Damn you adhd! 

    I will wait to post my "best thing" later.  Have a great day!  Love to you all!

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited March 2012

    Good news, Heidi.  I like the cartoon. too.

    Love the colors of your artwork, Painting.  Thanks for sharing your talents.

    Thinking of you Inmate.....

    Kim, thank you for posting.  Nice for us to be able to put a face to a name.  I am sure that you will find how generous the BC ladies can be.  Thinking of you and Susan's family.

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2012

    Yay Heidi!!

    Thank you for the link Kim. A very worthy cause fitting Susan.

    Very beautiful Painting!!

    Inmate- keeping everything crossed for you!!

  • mccrimmon324
    mccrimmon324 Member Posts: 1,076
    edited March 2012

    Heidi, my PC wouldn't show the cartoon until now.  Very cute. 

    Sending lots of good vibes inmate. 

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited March 2012

    I have had this on my mind and while I don't know how it applies to us right now I am going to post it.

    There was a blind man sitting with a sign that read: "I am blind, please help." 

    A man was walking by and stopped.  He saw that the blind man had only a few coins in his hat.  He dropped in more coins and, without asking for permission, took the sign and rewrote it.  He returned the sign to the blind man and left. 

    That afternoon the man returned and noticed that the blind man's hat was full of bills and coins.  The blind man recognized his footsteps and asked if it was he who had rewritten his sign and wanted to know what he had written on it.  The man responded: "Nothing that was not true.  I simply rewrote the message a little differently."  He smiled and then went on his way.  The new sign read: "Today is Spring and I cannot see it."

    Though I am not blind, this disease makes it hard sometimes to see.  Thanks for helping me see the Spring! 

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited March 2012

    Inmate:  Beautiful story - and lots of hugs and kisses being sent to you.  I know this is such a very, very trying time for you.  I wish I could make it all better.

    Susan:  Your picture is lovely and to dedicate it to LJ and Susan was a very beautiful, thoughtful thing to do.  Just one comment though, I noticed you mentioned LJ's son in the dedication, wasn't quite sure if you knew she had a daughter and grandson too.  Maybe you could possibly add them?

  • Summer38
    Summer38 Member Posts: 253
    edited March 2012

    Inmate - you said "while I don't know how it applies to us right now" yet by the end of the story you figured out exactly how it applies to us! Just beautiful........xoxo

    Good news Heidi!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012

    Susan- I've looked at your artwork before. Love its impishness and colors!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2012
    Stupid horses---- my former stallion (aka Studly) loves to move out in harness. In fact, it's hard to make him stand still (too much "go"). Today, when I put the sidesaddle on him there was too much "whoa". It was all I could do to get him to walk. He kept turning his head around to my foot, sniffing at it and just refused (in a sweet way) to move off. I managed to get a little work out of him but next time, I'll have to have crop in hand to convince him that, yes, it is possible to move in a sidesaddle.Smile
  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Member Posts: 812
    edited March 2012

    inmate  dont be afraid to post whatever you want on here.

    Fingers crossed for good news for you! 

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 791
    edited March 2012

    Inmate- that was beautiful. I wish I could sew! I have a great book on different window treatments, but lack talent. I hope you can get a project going, that you enjoy and get lost in. Then send us pics and we'll all give you a big applause!

    I am trying to rewrite my 3 address books into one. I will get this done! But doubt I'll throw out the other three :)

    Hope the wait is over soon.

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2012

    Inmate the Blind Man story was beautiful. Brought tears to my eyes.  Forget your paper work plenty of time for that. Go and lose yourself in creating  something beautiful with jewellery.   You could name the pieces Laurajane or Susan. Keeping my fingers crossed for you today and hoping for something good.  Hugs and love Annie.   

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited March 2012

    Love that story, inmate.

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited March 2012

    Love the painting, Susan, and a very nice tribute.

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