Thinking Out Loud.....
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Ducky...it's the first time for me reading that story...I have goosebumps and tears...I believe too.
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WOW Ducky, that is amamzing! What a great story. Thanks for sharing!
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Ducky.....i remember that story when you wrote it first time.......hugs♥
Judy...I found the cake recipe.......♥
Good Morning.....A better Day Thanks to all my friends here.....
Not even a flake of snow........
I need my morning coffee now.......
♥♥TOL♥♥
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No snow? We got some ... the road were horrible yesterday! And, this morning it was 15 below zero! Poor little baby puppy was lifting one paw at a time when I let him out to potty!! I need to get him puppy boots...
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OK....Coffee is working.
Now i'm gonna make an egg salad sandwich and if i feel like it go out buy some banana liquor.
MIA's......where are you all?
Deb.....Diane...Chris.............
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I'll stick with the vodka. lol. Banana liquer does sound good. If you get it, tell me how it is!
Still snowing but nothing to show for it. Thank God! It's about 35 so it just melts when it hits the ground. My kind of snow storm!!
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Ladies, if you google the story of the white butterfly, you will be able to see what it all means..................I soooooo believe in it.......it has happened to many times, at too many special occassions for it not to be true.....................communions, graduations , sitting by the pool,
I was thoroughly convinced last year...........On March 15th, I got out of the car at the entrance to Delaware County Memorial Hospital.............I was going in for surgery for the BC.............it was a gorgeous day, and as I got out of the car, a white butterfly was fluttering around the car which I was not aware of...........my daughter said to me "Mom, Daddy is here, to tell you, everything is going to be ok".............I was paying no attention to anything other then the thought of the next several hours, and what was it going to be like................I said to her "what are you talking about"............she said, "the butterfly"........................Not in any type of mood, I said "where do you ever see a butterfly in early March".........................the valet guy smiled, and said to me....................."your right, but look above your head".......................................He was Nigerian, and then smiled again and said "I too believe"................sure enough, there it was.................I knew right then, that I was going to be ok.......................
When I saw the BS, he said to me...........your gonna be fine............I said "I know", and he said........."your not nervous".................I said "I'm great, but it is a long story"...............one day I will share it with him .........................
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ducky, WOW that is so powerful. I also believe your loved one is always near you and watching over you. I can feel the presents of my Mom a lot of times. I live in the house I was brought up and and she died in this very living room of BC 15 years ago. One time when I was house cleaning I was dusting the chair railing and not picking up the little nick-nacks that are on the railing and I found myself saying, "OK Mom I will pick them up and do a thorough job like you do." Then I chuckled to myself.
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Whitney Houston died. So sad. WHat a beautiful person and voice.
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I will always love you....to this day when i hear the song i take a moment to enjoy it.
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I was just listening tot hem on Youtube. She had a spectacular voice!
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Does anyone know why?
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They are not saying yet.
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Would it be terribly rude for me to ... well, you know what I'm thinking I'm sure ....
Puff puff...or snort snort...or inject inject....
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Her publicist, Kristen Foster, confirmed the singer's death Saturday only hours before Houston was due to perform at music mogul Clive Davis's annual pre-Grammy party at the Beverly Hilton Hotel.
"I can confirm that Whitney Houston was pronounced dead at 3:55 p.m. at the Beverly Hilton Hotel. We received a call at 3:43 p.m. from hotel security and Beverly Hills fire and police responded minutes later," Beverly Hills Police Lieutenant Mark Rosen tells PEOPLE. "Someone in her entourage found her unresponsive in her room ... It's unclear who notified hotel staff because she has quite an entourage here at the hotel. We attempted to resuscitate her, to no avail." they are having the party right now....Clive I guess decided to do it...I adored her, saw her a couple of times at the Mann Music Center (ducky) I am heartbroken....they are dying off.....
Not so happy Saturday
Seyla.....I am worried about you, do I need to drive up there and have tea with you?
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I love that Sandy....i'm better today.
How are you doing/ Would you like some desserts with tea?
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Sheila....can I reserve your 20,000th post?
Or, 20,020?
Maybe 20,002 or 20,222? I have a feeling you have a boatload of friends that may want to reserve numbers....I'll take what I can get
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fuzzy....This is not my thread.....i'm just here because i love you all.
You can have the honor for any post you want.
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Good Night
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It says You've had 19,064 posts....19,000!!!! Whew! That's got to be a record!
BTW....I'm here for the same..
XOXOXO
I confirmed Hawaii. I'm going to do it. Oh Lordie Lordie....small places are no good...eye on the prize Fuzz... -
Sheila, I can relate to how the wedding might bring up "the bad stuff". I used to have true nightmares before and after I had to deal with EX. since he died a year ago, the nightmares are less frequent, but it doesn't mean I don't think about what I went through. DS is getting married in Nov. and it will most likely bring up some memories even without Ex's presence.
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Meece and Sheila....I wish so much that I could take those memories and pain from each of you. I can't stand the thought of anyone hurting such beautiful and wonderful people like the two of you. It really breaks my heart and, although not much, please know I am your friend...I would do anything to help...and I am seriously clueless most of the time...but my intentions are pure.
Yep...the handle always sticks out ....I really don't like that phrase!
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Thanks Meece♥
fuzzy....when you're talking about posts....do you mean how many I have or the thread has?
Ok....head is not clear yet......need my coffee.....
♥
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Meece and Shiela, I am sorry that you have such bad memories that you have nightmares. Shiela I hope that you are not stressing about him and the wedding.
When I think about the father's of my kids and the pain that they have caused me, I just think and remember that the reason I have my children are because of them.
One of them is deceased and he didn't have the pleasure of seeing my grandchildren, his loss and karma sucks....
Shiela you will go to the wedding and see the people that you love and that love you AND you will look awesome and show him that you are a much better person without him...and if he starts his schitt that you will slap him and so will we!!
Grammy Awards tonight, Adele performing, excited...
Sandy -
Sandy...he doesn't say and do anything anymore.... just his presence is enough to upset me.
Anyway...i'm waiting for the Grammy's too meanwhile watching the red carpet on E.
lalalalalalalalalalalalalalalala
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I get that....
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I need all of you in my pocket that day
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ducky - love the story, i am a believer too. when i took my oldest daughter (18 then) to the cemetery to her dad's grave for the first time, a huge LOUD bumblebee started chasing her in a circle for the longest time, and i laughed so hard, but she didn't realize it was him then and kept giggling and saying 'It's not funny mama!'
Thinking out loud, if I get a chance to come back i wish i knew what i would choose to be but i don't know.
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I will be in your pocket, and your beach bag, and your suitcase, and your .... you get the picture!
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I'm guna be in your pocket too!! Good thing you didn't say socks....I'm the Fuzz in your pocket!!! Not toe jam...whew.
What to come back as....that's a tough one. Everything tries to survive, finds food, breeds and kicks the bucket..can I just borrow the energy of something to show my presence?
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