How does your healing go?
I am less than 6 months out from double mastectomy without reconstruction. My scars have mostly settled down, though I think they will continue flatten and settle. I can still feel the length of each scar, they feel like they pull on me as I move. When I had the surgery, my doctor and her fellow said it would take 6 months to heal. I held this as a beacon for a long time, I don't think this is a strict rule anymore, not as I approach the 6 month mark and still feel... not quite right.
My right arm (my cancer was stage 2 with lymph node involvement, 5 out of the 24 removed from my right) continues to swell some-on active days, it goes down again too. I use an OT and she specializes in Lymphedema care, so I am OK on this account.
I also have a 'warning pain' in my right shoulder, this happens when I reach behind myself. It seems to be getting better as I started stretching and massaging it more. Last week my pectoral muscles were just plain sore, I have been massaging it and it is much less sore now.
I would love to hear how you feel and what you feel.
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Hi MellyT,
This is a great question. I'm guessing that the responses you receive will show that we all heal differently and many of us have big or little issues that linger for quite a while. My surgeon didn't give me any time line, which was just as well. In most ways, I felt fully healed after a couple of months, though definitely my range of motion on one side (I had cancer in each breast but the side that was previously radiated was tighter) wasn't fully back to normal. Over time and with physical therapy, I've regained virtually all of that.
But the thing that continued to keep me from feeling fully healed was a small pocket of fluid on one side. After my drains were removed, I had some fluid accumulate on each side--small seromas. They weren't painful and my surgeon felt it was better to let them reabsorb on their own. Each aspiration carries a risk of infection, so she preferred to only aspirate if a seroma was very large or painful, which mine weren't. After about three weeks, the fluid on one side spontaneously absorbed. The other, radiated, side was a different story. It did reabsorb, but very slowly. After six months, all that remained was a tiny pocket of fluid. It wasn't painful. I could wear a bra and breast forms and it didn't bother me, but I felt as if I wasn't fully healed. I think the continuing tightness I felt on that side was in part due to that fluid. I did my best to ignore it, but it was just there.
Then, almost three years later, the fluid increased, probably due to my lifting weights (though not heavy ones). I freaked out, feeling that after all this time I was getting worse, not better. I tried compression, which made things worse. Then I ordered an exercise video, the Lebed Method, normally used for lymphedema. I didn't really expect it to help, but I needed good stretching exercises and reasoned that it couldn't hurt. To my amazement, about a week after I started doing the exercises, the fluid spontaneously reabsorbed!
I realize (and realized at the time) that this was an extremely minor irritation, especially compared to what some women go through, yet it had the psychological effect of making me feel unhealed.
It sounds as though you might benefit from some gentle myofascial release physical therapy in the area of your incisions. Does your OT do this? My physical therapist did this only a few weeks after my surgery. It felt as if she wasn't doing anything, her touch was so light, but it released scar tissue under my incisions and alleviated any tightness.
Also, after my earlier lumpectomy and radiation (three years before my second diagnosis and bilateral mastectomy), I developed frozen shoulder. It's very common after breast surgery. It's painful while it lasts but usually resolves on its own in about a year. It seems as if your "warning pain" could be a sign of this.
I'm glad you've got your lymphedema under control. If you haven't already, you should check out the Lymphedema Forum here. There are some real experts there who have wonderful advice to share.
Barbara
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Hi MellyT,
I had my BMX with node dissection 1/11/11. I had severe post mastectomy pain syndrome from the moment I woke up. I won't go intot those details here.
I was put into occupational therapy in June 2011 to help with the pain. What was discovered, was that in addtion to the severe PMPS, I also had severe scar tissue adhesions across the chest and into the armpit (which I suspect I had some cording but they didn't use that terminology with me). I was/am on the fence of lymphedema on the right side, which is irritating.
Anyway, I had two therapists that did myofascial release on me from June through October, twice a week for one hour. I had no idea how bad it was. I had done the exercises and stretches like I'd been told to and did massage on my chest when I applied the Vitamin E creme to the chest.
My scar tissue was pulling my shoulders and head foward and down. After it started to release, I could tell when it would tighten again between longer days between appts. I would also get skin blushing, where the tissues would turn red where scar tissue was tight when worked on.
Make sure you see someone who knows what they are doing. I had gone to an OT earlier like in April, but she only saw patients like me about four times a year. So it was really useless, she didn't know squat compared to the other two I had during the summer.
They should also give you things to do at home. Mine even prepared me for things to do with sketches, bands, a styrofoam thing to lay and stretch on for when I was discharged.
Good Luck to you.
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I had my mastectomy on July 27. I did develop a small seroma and it was aspirated several times. It never hurt as I was entirely numb. I did not suffer much pain at all which amazed me.
Now, five months out, I notice a lump in my scar tissue. I first noticed it about a week ago and pretty much went off the deep end thinking it must be a recurrence. It is hard and thick and about 4 cm.
I asked my onco about it and he said it was left over scar tissue and should come out as soon as I'm done with chemo, which should be in about 3 more months! Then I saw another onco who said it was normal scar tissue. Through this entire procedure I don't think I have gotten the same answer from two drs! I see the surgeon next week.
Has anyone else had such a scar? Most of the scar is not at all like this. Barely perceptible.
This thing is hard and thick and scary. The onco said it's very rare for a recurrence to happen during active chemo but it's not impossible. I wish they would have done some tests!
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I too am glad to see this topic. I am 6 weeks after a Right mastectomy, and I really feel it is healing well, scar still red, but good range of motion. Tiredness when I over use it, like in stirring Rice Krispie treats did me in today.
I am 20 months out of a Left mastectomy, 6 lymph nodes removed, and this side continues to give me trouble. I have done exercises with a physical therapist to halt a frozen shoulder, very successful but I have to continue the exercises a few times a week to stay pain free. I also just learned the myofascial scar release and I feel I am making great strides with doing this daily on this older scar.
Oh, for those of you wondering if I had a return of cancer, no. But I did have 3 places show up on a MRI that needed biopsies, the biopsy was very hard on me, and inconclusive!!! So I opted for the mastectomy, and no cancer.
Right now another thing that has helped my 20 month scar is not wearing a prosthesis on that side, my doctor felt Iwas just too sensitive and a break from irritation would be good. When I wore the one prosthesis, it was large, 7, and I could only wear it without pain for about 6 hours every day (the silicon one) I could wear the mircobeads from TLC for longer.
But I am surprised how different my 2 recoveries are!!! The lymph node involvment really makes it all the more intense.
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Saw my surgeon today. She said that the lump was fat necrosis, scar tissue, not breast tissue. Good news!
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Timbuktu I am so happy for you, that had to be very scary waiting for that appointment.
I had my BMX on Nov 4th 8 weeks ago and I had 0/2 nodes in the Left Arm removed. I started Physical Therapy 2 weeks after Surg. And 5 days after drains removed, 2x's a week. I almost have full range of motion back now, but I have tightening of the scars and swelling of the surrounding tissue. If I slouch or lean forward I feel like the area shrinks and it takes forever to stretch that out, I feel it starting now as I type. I have not had any Lypho problems yet and have been very active all through the recovery. I had to stop a lot of my activity as the tissue would swell around the scars and I felt like I was going to explode! This still happens today but it is much better since I started wearing a compression shirt I found at Kohl's. I was unable to fully stretch when I was swollen and I was terrified I would be unable to get full motion back...My Surgeon wants me to call her in 2 weeks after additional soft tissue management by my PT and maybe see a Dr.of Physical Therapy?...They said my muscles have memory and that I am doing too much...that the swelling and bulges above the scar lines are the muscles and swollen tissue from activity not fluid like you all have been mentioning. They keep saying I look great, great compared to what?? My no reconstructing was my choice as I am to thin (5'7" 123lbs) so I could to heal as fast as possible, and go back to my job (Autobody Mechanic/Painter) I know this is an usual job, but it is what I love to do and have for 23 years and I'm only 45 now...gotta work a lot longer yet. Chemo (ACT) is coming next Thurs Jan 5th and I am worried that my healing will stop...
I also have pain above the scars, like someone punched me in the chest, it hurts and aches when I start to shrink... my JP Drains were long and the left one went up over the scar, running parallel to the scar and about 4" in toward the center of my chest. It was an 8 on the scale when they pulled them out!! How long were your drains??? I wish they had a handbook for this kinda thing...I'm concerned waiting another two weeks is a mistake...do you guys think I am crazy??
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All of this will soon pass Barbie, believe it or not. It seems to go on forever. My drains were in for weeks, ugh. But then, one day they are gone and I honestly can't even remember how long it all took.
One thing i didn't expect was little electric shocks around the scar. those are the nerves growing together again. I had a seroma too, but that went away. The body is amazing, it's meant to heal.
I'm in the middle of Chemo now and it stinks but it's still easier than my pregnancies! lol
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Barbie, I had my surgery a day after you and everything you describe is what I feel too, with the added "electric shock" zaps that still get me along the incision. I am having significant problems when I side sleep...I wake up and it is brutal to get my shoulders back again.
You are getting soft tissue management, and hopefully myofascial release along the scar line, so this will start to help.
Yes, the drains were about 8 inches under my skin, and that place where the drains were still hurts.
I do think you should ask about wearing a compression sleeve and gauntlet when you begin your job, and it sounds like you may be just a bit too active to be having the pain and swelling you are getting. Patience is a hard thing right now, but you need to be patient and slowly add exercises according to your therapist.
Stay in touch with your surgeon and your therapist...
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Cystalphm, Thanx for posting a reply...I feel some releif in knowing that I'm doing OK! I did suffer with "Shingles Like symptoms" all the nerves waking up together, the day after the drains came out. That was the worst time for me and the Surgean and therapist said this was a bit odd but not unusual and to be thankful I will have most of my feeling back when this is over...If anything touched my skin I wanted to scream...used most of the pain killers those 2 weeks..glued my shirt to myself with tons of lotion (still do that today)...the therapist showed me the "Disensitizing Art" to make the nerves receed from the surface...once we got passed the initial contact wincing, the pain would begin to lessen, each time the pain would stay away longer as well. Then I became distracted with the new swelling issue....who would have thought that wearing tighter cloths would be the answer..it was instant relief..better than the pills...my therapist has been on the mark so often..and we joke that I hate that she is always right!! She (my therapist) is checking into the compression sleeve I was measured for "around Thanksgiving time" as it still has not arrived yet...nor has the Insurance Co recieved a bill or an authorization request yet...I remembered to ask her last week..I kept forgetting with the 2 oncologists, testing, results panic, studing and Chemo information...my brain was fried...my husband is practically drolling from overload.
He's been keeping his mind busy by chopping wood..I love the fire place and he has been keeping it going 24 hours for me.
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Those nerves connecting back up can be startling, and continue to occur throughout months of healing. I still get them and I am entering my 6th month post surgery. This week, I feel the most 'normal' I have been able to feel since surgery. My scars pull at me but I feel as though they are softening and stretching.
I forgot to mention in my original post that I had my port removed in the beginning of November, which pushed my body into healing overdrive and compensation. The right side of my chest pulled in tight, the area where my port was (left chest) became super sensitive. This has eased up, thankfully.
My OT says the pain in my shoulder sounds more like tendinitus, which sounds right because I have been playing alot of Wii, and sewing and doing fine motor skill stuff. I will go see her again on Wednesday.
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I have a bad habit of chucking the tennis ball to my yellow lab. He will chase that thing all day and then I suffer all night thinking I've totally ruined my chest muscle and have eternally ruined all the nerves down my arm. Then, amazingly, I heal and feel great! Almost like a weight lifting session used to be before my RMX. I steer away from the weights now that I fear lymphedema, but I run almost 5 miles every other day.
The body is amazing and since March 29 2011, my surgery date, I've been so happy I did not get recon and wear light fills in the bra when I have to look even. I somehow think some pain will always be there, if lifting something too heavy or doing the chuck it. I do message everyday and stretch everyday to avoid scar tissue and keep the area "alive." My friend is a wound/burn RN and has told me some horrible stories about wounds not healing. If anything scares me it's that, so I try to take care of the whole scar/arm/shoulder area like crazy.
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This is my first posting on this breast cancer site. I'm reading and reading, and wished I'd have known about the site before going through my recent surgery.
There are wonderful people on this site, and uplifting responses to many of the questions. Makes one feel like this a "family of supporters", and that's what it should be. I'm a nurse with 40 years of experience, and understand all the emotional and physical components that go with surgery. But, it's nothing like being on the other side.
I had a bilateral mastectomy 8 days ago, without plans for reconstruction. Still very much in the healing phase, and seeing my surgeon in 3 days for my first post-op check. I have 3 drains in, 2 on the side of the 10cm tumor, and 1 on the other side (without cancer). Lymph nodes were removed from the affected side only.
I've some concerns about the amount of swelling under the armpits. Some rash from the tape, but alot of tenderness and puffiness. Am wondering, am I sitting up too much in the daytime, am I sitting with my arms on the desk while I type and should they be kept closer to my sides?
Any input to ease my mind? Right now, I'm wondering if this is just the normal course.
Thank you!
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I had my PBMx on 12/19, 4 drains, no recon, and I still have a lot of swelling under my armpits, especially on my right side. I still have the feeling of a tight band around my chest so it almost feels like I'm wearing a too tight life jacket (you know how they make you walk like you're a penguin with your arms sticking out??) The scars where the drains were are very tender and my PT advised my to gently massage them. When I sit for long periods of time, I try to elevate my arms to reduce the fluid buildup.
I too wish there was a What to Expect After you're released from the hospital book.
Cats
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Cats and Ivy--after reading your postings, I am wondering what position are we supposed to be in during recovery. I am having a BMX next week. Maybe I'll get some instructions. Just wondering if it's better to not sit up too much? If not, then should one be laying down or just reclining somewhat?
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Thank you both for your comments.
Yes, Cats, I hear you when you describe the "tight band" feeling around the front of the chest. I'm thinking it may be from all the staples that will soon be removed. As far as the arms being elevated, my doctor told me to not be doing any "climbing exercises" until he sees me 10days post-op. Besides the tenderness at the drainage tube sites, and the front tightness, the pain has been minimal and less than I expected.
Mary, good luck to you next week. A dear friend told me she was out driving her husband in the golf cart one week after surgery! Pain wise, I came out of surgery at 1:30pm that Monday, and didn't have anything for pain until 8am the next am. I took 2 plain tylenol with my breakfast. I was nauseated, and that was my main problem through the night, so was given nausea medication and that's probably what made me sleep right through the night. But, I walked to the bathroom once I was in my room from recovery, and I was surprised at how smooth my hospitalization went. I would have the anesthetist apply a scopolomine patch (for motion sickness) prior to surgery if I were to do anything differently.
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I am now 9 weeks out from a BMX no recon. The right side is great full ROM, the left ( which seems to be the problem child with a lot of people) still has swelling and when I try to stretch it out it feels like I am ripping the skin off my ribcage!
It amazes me that the BS all have different views on healing. My BS said no lifting, pushing or pulling or reaching or above shoulder height or driving until the drains were out, 4 of those little buggers! That was the worst part. The drains were irritating and they were in for 22 days. Then she bascially said go forth, lift no more than 20lbs and I'll see you in 6 months. I managed to get a script for PT and LE evaluate and treat...that has really made a difference.
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I am 6 months out from surgery bilateral without recon, 5/24 lymph nodes were removed from my right side (5 were positive). I started this thread when I was feeling a 'warning pain' in my right shoulder.
I am quite an active person and I work with my hands alot. My OT has suggested I might have frozen shoulder unrelated to the surgery. I saw her today and today she said she thinks I might also have cording, though this usually shows itself soon after surgery. She showed me the cord and it think she may be right.
I have been doing the stretches she recomends religiously, I record them daily, each time I do them. But my range of motion doesn't seem to be improving. I feel anxiety about it right now. My shoulder hurts from being manipulated and all these words floating in my head don't help. Maybe I will take a bath with the good book I am reading.
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Hello Ivy
I am 3 weeks post BMX with no reconstruction I am an OR nurse with 30 years Exp and I too have never been on this side. I. Went back to work after 2 weeks but my coworkers are like family. And they keep a close eye on me. I hav efound that vitamin e oil is very soothing and that massaging my arms is comforting .Walking the walls with your arms is very important. The numbness concerns me above my scars and under my arms. Driving is very uncomfortable and forget the seatbelt for a while. I do think there should be a website here with exercise hints or suggestions..i find the discomfort gets worse at nite but that sleeping gets comfortable quickly even as a side sleeper wishing you well -
Jo5, that numbness is one thing my BS told me I would have, and "would get used to it." I have not. I think I will have to move to Germany as I cannot even contemplate shaving there - I have growth from October surgery date. I put on deodorant and feel like I am putting it on someone else. But I AM getting a LITTLE used to it - it's just one of those "casualties" of this cancer war I am waging.
The thing the BS did NOT tell me about was the pain in the back of my arm. I had cording (mis-diagnosed initially), did PT, myofascial release, etc. Every miniscule movement of my sleeve touching my arm (which has no sensation of superficial touch or temperature, but I do feel pressure there) with driving or working at the computer just sets that area on fire! It is in 2 places, at the very back of my arm and also on the inner aspect. I thought the LE sleeve might help to keep sleeve from touching, but unfortunately it rubs right where the pain is and makes it even worse. *sigh* I have an appointment to see the BS on Tuesday - hope we can figure out what this is due to and what we can do about it. My sister used to be a burn unit nurse and has been lots of help on wound healing, vitamin E, scars, etc. I had post-op allergic reaction to the hexachloridine prep, then got infected seromas, and I think that has slowed healing down. Scars are red, tender. Chest is very tender where the infection was. I actually wear my prostheses as a "bumper guard" and it give me just enough pressure to feel a little better.
I am 17 weeks out from BMX. BS told me to give myself 6 months to feel close to normal, but I think this is something more than the usual - at least it is more pain thanI would expect at this point. I do the exercises the PT gave me, have excellent range of motion, pathetic muscle strength, and really want to get back to some activities to start building up so I can do my housework and maybe a little gardening.
Oh, yes - my massage therapist said there are a couple of potential trigger points in the pectoralis major and pectoralis minor muscles that MIGHT be related to the location of this pain and she did a little trigger point release - I am not sure it helped, but pain is so significant it may take a while. She is also trained in LE management - same training as the PTs who work with LE.
So if anyone has any practical suggestions for the shaving the pits problem, please let me know. The docs just do the "hmmm, that's interesting. You will find a way. You will get used to it." What a bunch of cr*p.
Sorry to ramble. I have been working a lot and am kind of crashing right now, so not sure I am making sense. Will quit before I say too much more nonsense.
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I rarely shave my armpits. Sometimes I get the grossest feeling when I do it, sometimes its painful to shave, sometimes when the hair grows back it feels like a cactus under my arm.
I have severe post mastectomy pain syndrome, so I have pain all the time and see a pain clinic who helps with me meds.So I understand all the nerve damage symptoms.
I can only use a roll on deordorant with a wide head. Sometimes when my armpit skin sticks together, it hurts, so I add some baby powder.
I am almost 13 months post mastectomy and I still get that feeling. Most of the time I don't shave my underarms any more. I only do it when the hair gets really long. Unfortuneately that is one of the rotten side effects of nerve damage, as well as the back of the arms, chest, etc.
The ladies of the volunteer team gave me two small pillows in a bag that I use in front of my chest for seat belts. Sometimes when I drive, I have to have a pillow in the car for the right arm to rest on, and if I am the passenger in long trips, I have my small pillows and two bed pillows for my arms to rest on.
More than likely what you may have is post mastecomy pain syndrome. The nerve damage from the node dissection is causing it and possibly across the chest too (you could have scar tissue adhesions, I had them really bad even with doing all my exercises. And the sad thing is, they can come back and require more OT.) I too, have the feelings of being on fire on the back of my arms. Last summer the air conditioning blowing on the back of my arms felt like a blow torch. I still can't stand materials on the back of my arms.All my tops have to be extra big so nothing is the slightest tightness on my arms.
I take Gabapentin for the nerve damage pain.It is a very popular drug, along with Lyrica for pmps/nerve damage.
You kind of sound like me, I was in so much pain at first, my OT's couldn't do what they wanted to. After I went to a pain clinic (you can look up some of my detailed treatments on this thread), I began to have less pain, so the OT's could work on my severe scar adhesion release. It was painful at first, but after awhile, I could actually feel my chest tighten back up between long days between appts.
I would definitely ask your surgeon about nerve damage from the node dissection because you sound exactly like me. I had no idea the amount of pain I had was NOT normal. Let your surgeon know ALL your symptoms. Hopefully you can start Gabapentin (which is generic Neurontin , not sure if I spelled it right).If you have trouble sleeping from pain, you could ask for Amitryptiline, and anti depressant that helps with pain for some. I also take Tramadol throughout the day. Tramadol was invented as a non addictive replacement for vicodin. The nurses at the pain clinic I go to say they hear lots of people with nerve damage get more relief from Tramadol than vicodin.
For awhile I was also getting nerve block shots to the neck but they started to not work as well. So the next step was iv lidocaine infusions. They worked wonderful, but this last one didn't seem to work as well. My pain clinic doctor told me that that is par for the course, my body gets used to it and they loose their effectiveness. The next step for me is a spinal stimulater.
You really need someone to take control of your pain so your occupational therapists can make some progress on you. You may even want a referral to a pain clinic. My pain clinic is wonderful at treating me.
ADDED: I also had cherry red scars. My surgeon had me put on Cimeosil strips at night, and Vitamin E creme during the day. It really worked well. You can get the gel strips from a drug store without a prescription. Check the ingredients that you aren't allergic.
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Thank you, Jo5, for your advice. It's always nice to hear someone else's experiences, and what has worked for them.
It's sad to read of the pain syndrome some of you are going through! How tough that has to be, in addition to the normal healing process. Am sure it's difficult to look beyond the discomfort and focus on the positive. My thoughts are with you, and hoping that you see some signs of relief around the corner. It's got to get better, right?
I was in to see the surgeon yesterday, 10 days post-op. He pulled my 3 drainage tubes, ugh! That was quite the sensation, but didn't last too long. But, since then, I'm starting to feel the drainage fill under the skin...slosh, slosh...you can feel it and hear it. He didn't want the drains left in any longer, due to possible infection. He will plan to do aspirations of the fluid as I need it. My next appt. is in one week, but will call him and get in sooner if the incisions seem to be affected. Can't imagine that would be good for my healing.
Started doing passive range of motion to the right arm (where 29 nodes were removed). Climbing the wall and using a broom stick to push my right arm outward and away from my body. Going well, but feel the crunching sensation. Am assuming that will get easier. It's only been 24 hours.
Will have to get some Vit. E for the incisions. Massaging sounds like a good idea too, and maybe that'll help keep the fluid away from them also.
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Did anyone have MX without node removal? I had lumpectomy and SNB on Jan 4. Margins weren't good, so reexcision on Jan 27. Those margins were still bad and they found a second tumor with different characteristics than the first (PR+ vs PR-). So I'm scheduled for UMX on Feb 22. My lynph nodes are a little sore still, but not bad. How much will the MX affect my range of arm movement? I will have a drain this time.
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Wren44, I had bilateral MX with no nodes out. My healing was entirely painless (for real, no pain). About 5 months after surgery I developed a frozen shoulder on the left and had physical therapy for this. Great therapist fixed it 100%. I am now 24 months out and have all the range of motion I ever had. I posted a photo of my DH and me dancing in the surgery, before during after forum, to show that even after big surgery it is possible to recover fully.
My scars are 4.5" long each and look fairly good, for scars. I didn't have recon. Each woman is different and I hope you have a good healing experience. Take things slow, go at your own pace. -
Beacon800, I am six months out with a frozen shoulder so reading your words helps me. Thank you.
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Nelly, sorry to hear abut your shoulder and hope it improves soon. I have to think surgery caused mine as I never had any issues before. Mine was really bad and I thought it might be hopeless! But the PT was great and especially the way he massaged and manipulated the arm really helped. I am very grateful to that PT company.
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I have had 2 mastectomies one with 8 lymph nodes out, the other zero lymph nodes removed. I never realized how much the lymph node side hurt compared to no- lymph- nodes removed.
My no-lymph-node side healed quickly, I can wear a prosthesis on it with *no* discomfort, basically it feels great ( 3 months ago), I never needed pain meds.
My lymph node affected side is 2 years almost, and is still miserable, I can't tolerate the memory foam prosthesis for more than a few hours, and there is always something hurting there. Sometimes the pain travels down my arm, a stinging burning feeling. So because I have had the 2 surgeries, i do know when lymph nodes are involved, it is much more difficult.
About shaving, now this sounds odd to even me, but I have way less hair than before (no chemo, no radiation). I also have less hair on my head :-( and all the doctor thinks is it is a reaction to the anesthesia....I don't know. But for shaving, I simply don't, all winter...and in the summer I use a disposable razor **once** and throw it away. I hold my breath, I scare myself to pieces....and I have no idea why I even attempt to shave because it makes me so nervous.
Another reason why I do try to shave in the summer is my node affected side has the skin pulled tight so the armpit hair sort of grows lower than it should. Oh my goodness, the things/crap we have to deal with.
I did try an electric shaver and got a red burn sort of rash from it, so never again with that.
Oh...yes on the frozen shoulder, I got that about 6 months after the first mastectomy...did PT, and it is way better than it was, but still hurts probably 3 days every week. That was *very* painful.....I think they tell us it is not related to the mastectomy, but certainly it is, because you hear of it so much on these boards.
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