did any of you drive yourself to your treatments?
My dr told me I'd be able to drive myself, but all my friends are telling me I'm crazy. I haven't had surgery yet, so I'm not sure how many treatments I'll have.
Anyone here drive themselves through the whole series?
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I drove myself back to work after chemo treatments...
I don't know if I would do it again though...
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Perhaps some treatments are kinder than others, but if you receive dose dense ACT treatments... My opinion post whopping doses of benadryl is that you would be putting your own life and others at risk... I did not
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Hi, I did not drive myself to chemo. But I drove myself to rads. SharonH
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I drove myself 30 miles each way to chemo and radiation treatments. Although I often had my sister with me during chemo, she doesn't drive so I drove. It usually took a few hours for me to feel the effects of chemo (fatigue and mild nausea) so I just made sure that I drove straight home after chemo... no staying in the city for shopping
All the best to you, please remember that everyone reacts differently and go easy on yourself...
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Are you asking about radiation or chemo? I drove myself to both. The only exception was my first chemo, because my DH came along for moral support. Other than that, there was absolutely no reason I couldn't drive to & from chemo and rads. Deanna
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This is on the radiation forum so I'm assuming you're talking about driving to and from your daily radiation treatments. To answer your question-yes, I drove myself to and from all 33 daily appointments. It was about 15 minutes each way.
Mary
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My mom rode her bike to and from chemo. I am not sure I would have been up to it though.
However, when you go to the chemo, you usually feel pretty OK. The bad effects do not usually hit immediately, so you probably could drive yourself home.
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I drove myself to chemo and radiation. I had a few hours aterwards until I crashed.
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I had dose dense AC/Taxol. I drove to and from chemo. I only live 10 mins. from the hospital, but still should not have driven during AC as I was often dizzy and lethargic. I was ok with Taxol. I live an hour from my rad center. Driving was never a problem. I also drove 2 hours home the day after my lumpectomy, as I did not take pain meds.
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I drove myself to work and then to radiation treatments and then home throughout the radiation treatment. My total driving mileage was at least 80 miles a day and it was no problem (at least not any more than driving those distances in heavy traffic always is!).
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I'm sorry, yes, I meant rads treatments. I'll have about a 20 min drive each way and figured I'd drive myself, but all my friends are telling me to quit being so independant and let them help. I don't have a problem with them helping,...for this though, I prefer to drive myself if I can.
YramAL, you're in Shoreline
I"m in Kirkland and will be driving downtown to the Virgina Mason there.
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This is a radiation thread so I'm assuming you mean radiation. I drove myself and my rads center specifically said that you could easily drive. The only people I noticed being driven by someone else were very frail or elderly. Chemo may be another story.
Caryn -
You can drive yourself if you want to. Also, having a friend with you can be nice, just so you're not bored. As far as treatments go, radiation is rather uneventful
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I didn't have chemo, but walked back and forth to radiation and then would go kayaking.
Julie E
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Moonlight, the SEs are cumulative, so you might be OK at the beginning of rads but as time goes by you might need help.
Best of luck.
Leah
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If a friend goes with you, they will probably have to wait in the main waiting room, rather than be able to go with you in the actual RT waiting room (where you wait after you change into a hospital gown) or actual RT area. So, unless you're going to go out to lunch afterwards, or something like that, your friend(s) might feel a bit left out and more like just a chaffeur, since they can't be with you in the patient waiting area for privacy reasons. Deanna
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the first chemo my husband took me and stayed after that i went by myself, emotionally sometimes I was good others not so much, radiation i went myself , that was no big deal, i felt no different after rad . treatment. good luck
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Yes, worked all day then went straight to radiation treatments then home to take my son to work. I got tired toward the end and did take a mental health day off work to rest. Good luck to you!
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I drove myself to every rad appointment. No problems at all and the last thing I wanted was to have a loved one or friend wait in that depressing waiting room.
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LOL, my daughter insisted on going with me to my first rads tx. That made me feel frail and elderly, which I am not!
Caryn -
That's sweet of her, exbrnxgrl!
I had to take my seven year old with me couple of times because I couldn't arrange a babysitter, and the nurses took her into the RT room after the treatment was completed (and I was covered up), and let her manipulate the equipment to move it out of the way and lower the bed down so I could get up. She enjoyed that
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Hi, Moonlight. I did not drive myself to any of my 2 surgeries (lumpectomy and partial mastectomy in June/July), or any of my 8 chemo treatments which was every other week for 16 weeks, Sept - Dec. 2011. You can drive yourself to chemo but i would suggest having someone come with you for support and to also drive you if possible. You may be too tired or just feeling "blah" after treatments so please dont turn down help when it is offered. Now that I am in the radiation part, I drive myself everyday. The only hard part is getting dressed every morning, M - F. I have radiation for 6 weeks which started last Thursday. I hope this email helps, let us know how it goes. Good luck!!
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The newer antinausea meds work better from what I understand. The only antinausea meds I received in 2002 were steroids and Compazine (prochlorperazine) and Zofran (ondansetron). I had family or friends that helped me out. When I did drive the half-hour drive home on my own or when they drove me, I usually peuked along the road. Lovely experience.
A.A.
P.S. I drove to and from rads (8 miles) without any problems.
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I drove myself to radition twice a day for 10 weeks with out a problem. But that is nice that you have friend that care so much for you ! And company might be nice, but it's whatever you are comfortable with. Hugs, Kiley
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Hi - I drove myself to rads all but one of the 34 times. The only bad about it was the hospital where I got them had a nurses's strike and I had to cross the picket line every time! I'll never forget that!
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Just want to add -- don't be afraid to let your friends help you if they want to but this may not be the best way.
Bringing over some home-cooked meals? That sounds better to me!
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Hi Moonlight,
My sister went with me to my first rads treatment ... after that I drove myself for the next 34 treatments. It was about a 15 minute drive to my facility. Towards the end I was getting tired, but I was lucky I had my appointments in the morning. By afternoon the last two weeks I really needed a nap.
Hope everything goes well for you,
Bren
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I didn't drive myself to surgery, my first AC treatment, or any of the Taxol treatments because I don't think benadryl and driving are a good combination. That stuff kicked my butt.
All other five AC, and all rads though. None of this was major.
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I drove myself to rads, was a thirty minute drive each way. I didn't find rads to hinder driving in any way. The times my DH was able to accompany me were nice though, but that was rare. And all my friends and sisters work, so there were no other options. If you have friends who would like to drive you and would be a good companion, I would let them, but on days that no one is available or you feel like being alone, you'll be fine. My cancer center had computers available to go on while you were waiting so that kept me occupied. If yours doesn't, bring your own or a book or something for while you wait. The actual treatment is only a few minutes. Good luck!
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I drove myself to and from all my chemo/rad treatments except the first chemo. The drive was about 10 minutes tops each way. So that was 5 of 6 chemos (TAC) and 35 external radiation treatments.
We're all different and a lot will depend on how far away you are from the treatment location, traffic on your route and what type of side effects you experience.
I also drove myslf to and from getting my port removed -- it was local anesthesia.
Do what works for you.
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