Victims of the Canadian Healthcare system
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For what it is worth, if you are not receiving the care you believe you should you have to fire your doctor. You've done that Nanny so you have sent a strong message and taken charge of your health care. Your case is not isolated I'm sure but as you can see many of us do not share your experience so this isn't a widespread Canadian healthcare experience but isolated to particular doctors' practices. If a doctor has treated you unfairly, broached protocol or ethics, you can contact the CMA - a friend of mine had a botched back operation and the CMA investigated and took that surgeon's license away.
When I was 20 my mother had advanced breast cancer and was in the hospital for yet another surgery that seemed very unrelated to her condition and cancer. She was very stressed over this surgery but could not bring herself to question the doctor so I tried to speak to him about this. He refused to discuss anything with me as I was "just the daughter and it was none of my business". I wasn't being pushy or rude but he was dismissive and nasty to me, turning his back and walking away. This was in the States, not Canada, but it taught me to never let a doctor treat you in such a way. I fired a GP that misdiagnosed my youngest when he had asthma. And I let him know he was wasn't qualified in my view to treat my family. I was calm and to the point and he was left to transfer our records to our new doctors. On the whole though, I have respect and admiration for a number of doctors that I have dealt with.
Not all doctors are created equal. And we get to decide who treats us.
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Nana, think of car maintenance. Do you wait for a mechanic to show up in your driveway and ask to see your car for preventive maintenance? I don't think so. When you go in to get new tires does the tire guy check the engine electrical system? No? No surprise here. Does the oil change place do more than a sticker or a follow-up phone call when they GUESS you should need your oil changed or do you monitor it and sometimes keep driving WAY after the sticker time says?
Do your license plates appear in the mail automatically or do you have to go out and get them? Does someone gas up your car during the night or do you have to monitor it yourself? Do you clean your car inside and out the exact minute it gets dirty or do you let it ride for a bit?
I'm not trivializing breast cancer. I've lost 2 breasts to prove how serious I am. What I am doing, is saying that as an adult, you have a certain responsibility to get what you want AND, more especially, need! If you need a mammogram ASK for it! Need an exam by your doctor? ASK for it!!! Your doctor is a scientist, not a mind reader. Use him for what he is, not what you want him/her to be.
I'm glad you found a doctor you trust. Now USE her! It's been written many, many times that if you feel you "have something" to tell your doctor, don't make them guess and waste valuable testing time when you already know what your symptoms are saying. If you have a lump in your breast...get it checked!
Simple. Oh, so simple. Really.
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I'm not Canadian, but the title of this thread seems a bit odd to me. Here in the US, we don't really have consistent BC screening programs, especially for young women, either. I was diagnosed at 39, before I ever had a "baseline" mammo, but I don't consider myself a victim of the US Healthcare system because of that. My doctors recommended starting routine BC screening at age 40, but when I discovered a large lump, there was never any question or hesitation in sending me for a diagnostic mammo (and other subsequent imaging). Is that the case in Canada too?
It really does suck that there just really isn't a great way to provide early detection, especially in younger women. In an ideal world, it would be a perfect and simple process with no downside but as of now, it just doesn't exist - for reasons including technology limitations, cost/benefit ratios, human nature, etc.
If anything, I guess I'd say I'm a victim of crappy BC luck. With our US healthcare system so riddled with holes and problems, my family could have very conceivably lost our home and completely drained all our financial resources by now. It really does happen far too frequently here. I've been fortunate so far, but I can tell you that the potential for financial obliteration is no small concern on top of everything else BC dumps on us.
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thenewme, I had my first mammogram and ultrasound at 21 (they didn't have MRI's available 32 years ago). I had a lump, it got taken care of until I finally got it out when it grew. I've always been successful in my health care as I don't expect the government to take care of me unless I speak up. So there's a story of early treatment for you.
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Yeah, Barbe, I'm envious! In general, from what I hear, it seems that you have excellent care in Canada - and similar to the excellent care we have available here. I'm envious about your country's approach to providing that level of care.
I'm disgusted, embarrassed, and personally concerned about our healthcare situation here in the US and just can't, for the life of me, understand why there is so much resistance to change. It seems so simple and so basic. LOL, I guess that's why I'm not a politician!
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Please don't assume that I'm incompetent in taking care of myself. I did ask for a mammogram and I did get an order for it. But when I went to go get it done, they refused to give me the mammogram! Now tell how that is ok?
Unfortunately some people aren't able to ask for what they need because not everyone is educated and aware of how the body works etc. And those kinds of people shouldn't have to suffer.
And comparing health to care maintenance is really lame. Cuz in fact every car comes with a maintenance schedule. I am talking about a maintenance schedule for health care if you want to think of it that way. -
I find that hard to believe. If your doctor ordered a mammo, they can't refuse.
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They did refuse. I cried I was so upset! Now do you understand y I feel the way I feel? How can they get away with doing shit like that!?
Don't think I'm a liar. Cuz it's the truth! -
Nanna, would it be accurate to say you were a victim of incompetence of the person who refused to do the mammo? If that's the case, I would think there would be some sort of complaint/appeal process in place, no? Did you have the option to go to another provider for the ordered test?
Incompetence unfortunately happens everywhere. I'm confused about why you blame the "Canadian Healthcare System."
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My understanding was that you were upset with your doctor - didn't know about the mamo tech. Still don't understand how this happened - I've been warning everyone's "children" (they are mostly in late 20s early 30s to go get mamos or US and surprisingly most of them have already done that - my PCP said that anyone who is in their 20s or 30s in her practice requesting mamo or US is getting them and she's even ordering MRIs - when I asked her how she does this she said "leave OHIP to me - my patients have enough to worry about". Barb was right - we are our own best advocates.
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Dear nana, the car may come with a maintenance schedule but who reads directions anyway? As for a maintenance schedule for your body, now who is comparing car maintenance to health care?
I think you are a victim of your own inability to advocate for yourself, return to your doctor and tell him/her what happened!
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Nannababy -- The breast screening centre cannot refuse to provide a mammogram if a doctor has ordered it, and if you have an Ontario healthcard.
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I am surprised I am arguing this instead of getting support. But, either way I'm am learning a lot! Thanks
I read "instructions" and the general population is paying more and more attention to thealth guidelines and "instructions" these days. Look at Canada's physical and healthy food guides, Redommended daily intakes, the nutrition labal, chemicals in food, Body mass indexes.
I am not unable to advocate for myself either. I have spoken with the doctor I had troubles with, the techs at the mammo clinic, the director of care at the Winchester hospital, a lawyer, the Ontario Ministry of Health and Long term care, the local radio station and now I am talking with the Ontario college of phys. and surgeons.
There are so many other protocols and instructions that doctors follow regarding tons of stuff. Why are young peoples needs limited and ignored? Why are we discriminated against?
I had issue with my ex. fam dr. who was a walkin doctor. He wouldn't do a clinical breast exam on me. In his notes, he wrote no palpable mass! Cuz he never touched the mass! So how would he know! The breast surgeon estimated the solid mass to be approx. 8cm.
Ex Dr. wouldn't provide me my health records until I treatened to sue! Then he kept calling me at home late in the evening to ask y I'm doing this to him and he is suffering and in shock I'd do such a thing... blah blah.
The mammo tech refused my mammo.
The Winchester hospital screwed up big time. I went to the hospital complaining of arm swelling and pain and chest pain and shortness of breath. I was in nadir stage and requested an isolated area or room to prevent infection. They told me to wait outside in the parking lot. They didn't check on me for 4 hours! By the time they started to look at me, they said they can't figure out what's wrong. So I left and went to the cancer center in the big city and they disgnosed me with pulmonary embolism! I complained and met the director of the winchester hospital about this!
I find, because I am so young, I didn't have people take me seriously. Like I was lying I was onchemo. Especially cuz the second chemo, I didn't lose my hair and didn't look ill.
I spoke with a lawyer and she says I can prove negligence, but can't prove that it caused my cancer to be so advanced. So wha'ts the point in sueing? I'd only get 15K in damages or so. Which isn't worth all the fees and stress.
Now I have all my paperwork and reports together, I am complaining to the college.
My point of all this, is why is this happening to me and other young people so much?! Who is checking up on these clinics and hospitals? To make sure problems like mine don't happen?
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It ISN'T happening to other young people as much as you think!! I don't know why you keep saying that!! I had a mammogram at 21 years of age THIRTY TWO YEARS AGO!!! That was totally unheard of BUT I NEEDED IT. Don't you get it?? I hope you get action from the college as the walk-in doctor is an asshole and I hope you told him that!
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NannaBaby, I sympathize with you and feel that you have every right to be very angry. You have run up against a number of bad medical practitioners who have failed you. I have had breast issues since I was in my twenties as well (numerous cysts) and was lucky to be well-served by the system and got tests and examinations when needed. I think the medical system is good, but that you have had bad luck in the individuals you have been dealing with.
There are other young people on these boards whose symptoms were not taken seriously because they were "too young to have breast cancer". You are not alone in that.
I am totally stunned that the mammo tech would refuse to do a mammogram when it was ordered by the doctor. That sounds like malpractice. I am so glad that you are lodging complaints. Keep it up!!
I have never heard of Winchester Hospital - is it a big one? Doesn't sound good.
All the best to you!
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32 years ago is a LONG TIME! Things have changed my dear Barbe. There are a lot less funds and staff, so the care suffers. Most young people I've met personally, which is over 100 who all have different cancers, had a hard time to get diagnosed. That's why I keep saying it.
How many young cancer survivors do you speak to Barbe?
Do you think young people have an easy time getting diagnosed?
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nanababy by the malicious language you used in a PM to me, I can see why you weren't taken seriously. You have to grow up to be treated like an adult. I'm outta here!
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Barbe, that's just awful. I'm a little skeptical with regards to some of the info I've read on this thread. I have never been denied any tests, US, mammos, blood tests, CT scans, etc., etc.
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Not to beat a dead horse here, but NannaBaby, it seems you may be missing the point. I don't think there's any argument that young women can be diagnosed with BC, and that they(we) sometimes get delayed diagnosis/treatment, and that the present screening and diagnostic tools are imperfect.
It's not an issue limited to the "Canadian Healthcare System," as lots of us from the USA and elsewhere can testify to. Incompetence and gross neglect can and does happen everywhere sometimes, but it's quite a stretch to go from an isolated incident to condemning an entire country's healthcare system.
"Victim" implies that you had no choice and no power in the situation, and from what you've said here, it's hard to see that. Blaming others can sometimes be a disingenuous way of trying to relieve oneself of personal responsibility.
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I told Barbe she can be a bitch. Cuz I'm sick of her telling me I'm incapable and ignorant.
I am not missing the point. You guys don't undertand the issues young people face. It's not just me. Check out the links I posted, and maybe you'll understand more. Young people are often dismissed as being hyperchondriacs or mentally imbalanced. I was told that my inverted bleeding nipple and a huge lump was normal by 3 doctors (my ex. fam dr., a radiologist, and an endocronologist)! And none of them thought a biopsy was needed! They all told me it's rare that young people get breast cancer, so the chances that I had it were slim. I don't care that it's rare, my symptoms warranted a biopsy!
I am a skeptical person too.
I feel like a victim because I didn't really have control of things, I asked to see a breast surgeon to get the so called cyst drained, and was told it wasn't necessary. I friggin tried! Why did I have to try so hard?! Maybe it was my own personal "mistake" but I was always told "you're too young for breast cancer" over and over again.
It's like they think, if they were to get imaginng and a biopsy for every single lump and bump that it would be a waste of funds.
Another thing about our system that I noticed, is that HER2+ tumours under 1cm do not qualify for Herceptin. Because it's too expensive. What do you think about that?
I was refused a mammogram! I know it's hard to believe, but why would I lie?
Please stop telling me I'm incompetent, immature and ignorant. I have always been told that I am mature for my age and am a strong person. I'm going to fight to prove the discrimination of young people's medical concerns.
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Oh yeah, and Barbe said she hoped that I told my doctor he's an asshole?! Who would really do that?! Come on.
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Nannababy -- Google herceptin treatment in Ontario and you will find that tumours under 1 cm are now funded (as of May 2011) through OHIP. Previously, Cancer Care Ontario was basing its funding for herceptin tx on well-established studies, which is how "they do things there", by the way.
I'm sorry that there are still some docs who refuse to upgrade their medical education by saying "You're too young to have cancer". It's highly unlikely that they refuse further testing because of $$. You were most unfortunate to encounter docs who obviously graduated in the bottom of their class at med school and were too lazy, or too busy, to read up on the latest literature. But your description of your breast presentation (especially the inverted nipple) is a classic BC symptom and for 3 docs to ignore it is difficult to comprehend.
I had my first lump at age 20 and was able to see 3 docs (the university in-house physician, my gp, and a breast specialist) all on the same day. I was scared silly and none of them said "You're too young to have breast cancer". It turned out the breast specialist was able to manipulate the lump over to the nipple and with some hard squeezing, was able to aspirate it. It later developed into a fibroadenoma. That's my experience at a young age, and I know others who have responded here have had similar experiences at a young age -- which is why, as I've said, it's so difficult to comprehend your own experience.
By the way, I know Barbe, and I'm VERY sure she didn't mean it literally!
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I dunno, Lindasa - knowing Barbe, I have a feeling she actually MAY have called her doctor an asshole if she saw him for a bleeding, inverted nipple with an 8-cm tumor and he told her to wait in the parking lot for hours! I suspect she'd have called him an asshole and then marched straight to the lawyers office to sue for malpractice, or whatever the process is there. Or maybe she'd have waited until after she marched straight over to another facility with her very real and very legitimate concerns, since I'm willing to bet not every doctor in Canada is an idiot.
I'd have to agree with Barbe. If it looks like a rose and smells like a rose...
ETA: As for "....You guys don't undertand the issues young people face...." Ummm... yeah, actually I do. Quite well, as a matter of fact, thanks.
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Nannababy: Since you also asked about screening policy for young women, I wonder if you are aware of the latest in Ontario: http://www.health.gov.on.ca/en/public/programs/breastcancer/about.aspx
Things are improving all the time.
I don't doubt that there are incompetent or insensitive doctors out there (everywhere, not just in Canada) and it sounds like you have run into more than your fair share of them... that is unfortunate, truly... but at the risk of repeating what others have said here many times, the SYSTEM is not the culprit. (Many of us have been extremely well-served in Canada - and thank god we don't have the fights with the insurance companies that our American sisters do.) Can you possibly accept that?
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Suing for malpractice is easier said than done. Right Barbe? I actually followed thru with seeing a lawyer and learned that, to prove that the delayed diagnosis caused such damage and life altering changes, would cost thousands in expert fees. And wouldn't be worth the amount I'd be rewarded. I'd only walk away with a few thousand bucks (4 figures). It's not worth that amount of stress to try and prove my point.
I definitely told the doctors who screwed me over how I felt. But I did it tactfully and didn't call them names. If I want serious results, I gotta act serious and be taken serious.
I may be screwed up in the head and wierd, but that's just fine.
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"I am not missing the point. You guys don't undertand the issues young people face. It's not just me. Check out the links I posted, and maybe you'll understand more. Young people are often dismissed as being hyperchondriacs or mentally imbalanced."
What you say about the issues that young people face is absolutely true.
And I agree with you that often young people are dismissed as being hypocondriacs or worse.
But you are missing the point. The point is that this dismissal of the concerns of young people, and particularly, the dismissal of the concerns of young women as it relates to breast cancer, has nothing to do with the Canadian Healthcare system. It happens in the U.S. too, and it probably happens in many, if not most, other countries. Lots of doctors have blinders on when it comes to the possibility of a young woman having breast cancer. There's nothing uniquely Canadian about that.
The good news is that not all doctors are that way. I mentioned in an earlier post that I had my first lump when I was 16. That was taken seriously, as was every other breast issue that I've had over the years (and I've had lots). The hardest time I had getting in to see a doctor about a breast problem was when I lived in the U.S.. I actually flew back to Canada to see a breast surgeon here because it was easier to get an appointment. From what other women on this thread have written, it appears that quite a few of us had breast problems at a young age and most of us had no problem being taken seriously and getting treated.
So I'm not disagreeing that there is sometimes a problem - there absolutely is - but I am saying, and many others are saying - that you are placing the blame in the wrong place. It's not the Canadian Healthcare System that's the problem. The problem is the fact that too many doctors don't seem to understand that breast cancer can strike at any age - there is no such thing as a woman being "too young to have breast cancer".
In any earlier post you said "The general public have to advocate and regulate their healthcare themselves. Although we all pay for universal insurance. We all deserve standardized, regulated healthcare! Not just some people! " Yes it would be nice if all our doctors always did the right thing and were pro-active on our behalf. Everyone deserves good care and there should be minimum standards that all doctors must abide by. But honestly, I don't think that standardized regulated healthcare is what we want because that could lead to exactly the type of problems that you are talking about. The current debate, all around the world, is the age at which women should start getting mammos. 40? 50? Should they be annual or every two years? Setting guidelines is a good idea - and the Canadian healthcare system does set guidelines (as does the insurance industry in the U.S.). But what's critical is that individual doctors be allowed to deviate from those guidelines based on the needs of their patient and based on their best judgement. I've had mammos since my 30s because I had doctors who were able to assess my situation and make decisions based on my needs, not based on standardized regulations. I get annual MRIs because my radiologist and breast surgeon say that I should - even though I may fall outside of the standarized regulations. Treatment guidelines and consistent minimum standards - good. Standardized regulations - not so good.
By the way I find that your statement "We all deserve standardized, regulated healthcare! Not just some people! " sounds really familiar. Isn't that the big cry in the U.S. among those who support last year's healthcare regulation and who continue to push for a single-payer system? The Canadian system is far from ideal and nowhere near perfect, but from what I've seen, we are closer to your statement than our neighbors to the south.
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Oh Beesie - we can always count on you for a voice of reason...
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