Calling all Stage III Survivor's

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tmetz1616
tmetz1616 Member Posts: 21

Hi ladies,

I'm looking for some inspiration from Stage III survivor's that are close to or past the 5 year mark.  I am finishing up chemo in about 3 weeks (I did 4 DD A/C followed by 12 weekly Taxol infusions).  I am so fearful of a recurrence after treatment ends I can hardly see past 2011.  Please tell me any and all lifestyle changes you have made to remain cancer-free.  Also, any other advice you may have regarding anything to do with cancer, please share!!

Thank you!!

Tricia

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  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited November 2011

    Hi Tricia - I'm not stage 3, but my surgeon's nurse was...15 years ago.  She's doing great.  No recurrence. 

  • jennyboog
    jennyboog Member Posts: 1,322
    edited November 2011

    I'm sorry your feeling this way Tricia, I understand and have been there many times.  I'm not at 5 years yet so I'm no help with that but there is a +5 years topic at the top of the III forum.  I go there often when I need a pick me up, it's full of ladies who have passed the mark.  Also, 2 ladies have just posted their 7 year mark in the same forum.  Hang in there, it does get better.

  • diana50
    diana50 Member Posts: 2,134
    edited November 2011
    i will be 10 years out feb 2012.  lifestyle changes; i exercise daily; cycle at least 1 hour and half aday.  i think the exercise changes the environment in your body.  i try to eat good; veggies and fruits ....meat...calcium.  i see my onc every 6 months for blood work; no scans.  (except mammo and breast mri)  i don't get ahead of myself as far as the cancer returning; i really just take one day at a time.  so far; it has worked for me.  i also take a multivitamin; calcium, vit b complex and fish oil.  that is about it.  i really think the bottom line is significant exercise.  it is like doing chemo every day.  Cool
  • Bugs
    Bugs Member Posts: 1,719
    edited November 2011

    Read the "stage 3, 5 years out or more".  An inspirational thread!

  • jpsgirl96
    jpsgirl96 Member Posts: 240
    edited November 2011

    Hi Tricia,

    I am coming up on six years since diagnosis - IIIa thanks to 6/16 positive nodes.  I am doing very well after bilateral lumpectomies (I had DCIS with a micro invasion in the other breast), TACx6 chemo, 33 radiation treatments, and Tamoxifen followed by Femara.  To be honest, I haven't changed much - others will have other stories and approaches - and I'm one of those who truly believes that the chances of recurrence are either 100% or 0%, so best to just get on with life.  Congratulations on making it through the chemo regimen - I hear that's a tough one too.  Sending good thoughts.  Leigh

  • caaclark
    caaclark Member Posts: 936
    edited November 2011

    I was healthiest I have ever been when I was diagnosed.  Was running daily, eating well, etc.  I have not changed much since treatment ended.  I think it is a crap shoot.  I try to as healthy as I can and exercise several times a week but was doing that before.

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited November 2011

    Tricia.....I feel the same way that JPSGirl does....its 100%...either it won't come back or it will....JPSGirl and Bugs and I went through Tx at the same time.......I was Dx 2/3/2006...bilat mastectomy, TAC chemo, rads, ooph and AI's (only took them for 3 1/2 years).....I am currently NED....5 years and 9 months since Dx.....

  • tmetz1616
    tmetz1616 Member Posts: 21
    edited November 2011

    Thank you ladies.  I appreciate the feedback :)))  I'm only 30 years old faced with a stage 3 diagnosis.  I know it's normal to feel like this and most women say that over time the fear lessens somewhat, but now I feel like without chemo my security blanket will be gone.  As much as I HATE chemo and all the SE's, it makes me feel safe from cancer. 

  • Celtic_Spirit
    Celtic_Spirit Member Posts: 748
    edited November 2011

    Hi, Tricia,

    Like caaclark, I exercised and ate right, too, prior to my diagnosis (which was almost 4 years ago now). I took vitamins and melatonin and never smoked. BC came a'knockin' anyway. Everyone gets something at some point in their life. I can't say I've made big changes since cancer...I still exercise daily and eat right. I still have a few drinks a week and love cookies and ice cream. I do eat less and less meat, though, but for many reasons.

    I've mentioned several times my boyfriend's Aunt Evelyn, who was diagnosed with stage III bc in the late 1960s when she was in her mid-40s. Evelyn had a mastectomy, and that's it. No chemo, no radiation, no antihormonals. Most of those things didn't exist then. Evelyn lived into her mid-80s, eating a Denny's-style diet and not exercising. She died last spring from basic old age ailments following a broken hip. Her breast cancer never returned. Evelyn's story is one of the things that kept me sane and gave me hope during treatment. I hope it helps you, too.

    Here's my advice for completing your treatment: have a goal. Dangle a carrot in front of your nose. It can be taking a vacation, going back to school, learning a new skill, whatever motivates you. Mine was to once again hike in Hickory Nut Gorge. This will help keep your head in a good place. It helps you to think FUTURE, which is something I lost sight of for a while during treatment. It helps you to remember that there's life beyond cancer.

  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 1,203
    edited November 2011

    Hi TMetz, I am out 6 and one half yrs form a stage IIIC and NED. being a stage III is initially sacry but the reality is it kicks us into more aggressive tx  which gives us a extra kick in BC's butt!

  • florencedonna
    florencedonna Member Posts: 131
    edited November 2011

    Hi TMetz,  I am 6 years out from diagnosis of Stage IIIa and finally stopped Arimidex this summer.  I lost 25 pounds and did "pet therapy" (let my kids get a dog), otherwise little lifestyle changes.  I rarely think about cancer now.  Basically, I follow my onc's recommendations.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2012

    Florencedonna:  Does your onc want to keep you on AI's for longer?  I hear mine saying she wants me as a Stage 3A to be on Tamox for 5 then another 5 for something else.  What are your onc's recommendations ?

  • DCMom
    DCMom Member Posts: 624
    edited May 2012

    Not quite at 5 years yet, but I am fast approaching.  I haven't changed my eating habits dramatically because, like others have said, I ate pretty well before diagnosis.  Was training for my first marathon a year before this storm and had added swimming to my exercise regimen as well.  Actually flagged the lymph nodes under my arm because it felt like a sore muscle after a hard swim.  I have tried to keep up my exercise since diagnosis.  One of the biggest changes we made (and that means the entire familly) was to switch to ALL organic products.  It really doesn't change what we eat, but we are getting rid of all of the chemicals, genetically modified, and preservatives.  We also purchase from a farm nearby so we gain the local protection element as well.  Pricey, but we eat at home more often so we tell ourselves it balances out.

     Right now you are in the scariest part and I wish there was something to say to make the worry go away, but....  So that being said I want to assure you that after 5 years of following this site I have seen a lot of success stories and I am planning on hearing you say the same to someone else online in another 5 years!

  • anneflorida
    anneflorida Member Posts: 59
    edited May 2012

    I added walking 5-6 times a week to what I do as exercise reduces the risk of recurrence.  I did not drink much to start with but have cut back on the wine that I did occasionally drink with my husband.  I have lost about 10 pounds and would like to lose another 20 pounds.  The weight loss has been slow but I am watching what I eat and not eating many high sugar foods.  I have my yearly PET scan this next week and will continue to have those for the next several years.  My thoughts are not always on cancer now.

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