Received DCIS Diagnosis - IT JUST GOT WORSE - Comments Invited
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Dear DCIS friends - I am going to take the advice of Beesie, sweatyspice and others and move to the Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, HER2 positive and when I know all the details the chemotherapy and herceptin sections of the bulletin board. I will to continue to post here until Monday evening October 31st to let you know the outcome of our visit Monday 10/31 to the medical oncologist and then direct you to my new bulletin board threads. You have all been very helpful and supportive and I truly appreciate it. I wish you all good health and complete and total recovery from breast cancer. May God watch over you and your families and heal you completely. Thank you again.
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Blair,
I have a lot of the same diagnosis as your wife. Try the Triple Positive thread. It's a great bunch of women.
My onc recommends Herceptin with virtually anyone that is HER-2 positive, and the general feling at the moment is that it works best with "a little chemo" as he says it. Mine was 12 weeks of Taxol, weekly, with Herceptin, and now am on just Herceptin every 3 weeks.
I take tamoxifen because I was not menopausal before my BMX. Probably will switch over in the next year to Arimidex or something. If your wife is past menopause, then that is why they are saying no to Tamoxifen and yes to Arimidex.
Also, my BS said no to radiologist, but I still met with a radiation oncologist, who spent an hour with me answering questions and agreeing that no radiation would be necessary since I was having the BMX, unless it was in my lymph nodes, which it turned out not to be.
Hope that helps. Feel free to PM me and I can give you a list of threads I belong to and some good people with information.
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Dear fluffqueen01 - This is a great post and makes me feel better. There is a lot of information on herceptin but they do not do a good job of differentiating between treatment for early stage breast cancer and later stage breast cancer. There seems to be 5 protocols AC->TaxolH, AC->TaxotereH,TCH, Taxol + Herceptin, Taxotere + Herceptin. See what a quick learner I am. The scariest side effect of Herceptin is that it can damage your heart. How and how often did they monitor your heart while you were taking Herceptin? My wife is NOT triple positive - she is PR negative. My wife has not had a period for a year so they are talking about Arimidex because she is ER positive. It sounds like you had no side effects. I have new threads under Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, HER2+ and Radiation. Later I will do one under Chemotherapy. Thanks again. Hope you are doing well.
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The women on my other threads have advised me to continue to post here. So I plan to. So please expect ongoing updates about my wife and maybe more questions. BlairK
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Blair, you are a quick learner. We kind of have to be. I feel like I researched three thesis papers when diagnosed, one on surgery, one on followup treatment anf then one on reconstruction. And then you have to take your questions and interview the doctors to find the one who works best with you.
Yes, herceptin can cause heart failure, but it is more significant when combined with adryomycin. With other chemos, the risk is much less. I am monitored by an echocardiogram every three months. That or a mugo scan are the standard protocol. They monitor your left ventrical ejection fraction, or LVEF, to make sure it is pumping ok. In my case, I started out with a good lvef. It has dropped a litle but still in normal range. I need to receive treatment until next March, so I have my fingers crossed.
The good news is after treatment is done, the lvef will improve. Because I was stage 1, and less than a cm, I did not require chemo except to mix with herceptin. Two once I interviewed, one nationally known at a university med center, had the same protocol, and said Taxol had milder side efects. So i put my trust in them.
My side efects were very manageable. Hair loss, although, I did not shave my head and maintained enough hair to wear by itself for most of chemo and a baseball cap to the end. Then 4 weeks after chemo, eyelashes and eyebrows and more fell out, so I did even it up then. I did have some tiredness, a little joint pain, and the only neuropathy i had was extremely cold feet at night. My husband would make up two hot water bottles that i kept my feet on. Soooo nice. The worst effects were diareah or constipation immediately after treatment, which I still have when I get herceptin, awful hot flashes, since it threw me into chemopause, which continue, and insomnia because I am a stomache sleeper and had to relearn to get to sleep in another position. Now that i can sleep on my side, it is much better. I still can't do the back thing without a quarter of an ambien.
Hope ths helps! I must say that I did not handle the diagnosis well and immediately had my heart pounding, couldnt eat, cried at the drop of a hat, lost weig without trying and blood pressure went up. My best friend, a nurse practitioner, recognized the symptoms and said I had panic disorder and put me on a low dose anti-anxiety drug and a low bp medicine. Made it all better.
I think it was all fear of the unknown, which I dont handle well. Probably why I dont like surprise parties, lol. In looking back, I realize it was so much easier and better than I anticipated and if I should have a recurrence, I will be much more prepared.
Good luck with all your decisions, it will be a long year. I kept a calendar with all my chemo dates noted and then put a sticker on each one as completed. On the last day i held a chemo part at a restaurant with five couples and my kids who had really helped me get through eveything. It was wonderful.
Please excuse the typos! Im using my ipad and it is a pain to do all the punctuation! -
I am always curious when I see a post deleted by the Moderators....why does this happen?? Blairk, there is a ton of information about the various cancers out there. I am sure if you cross post you will get alot of answers.
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Dear iLUV2knit - I hope you are doing well. Our appointment with the medical oncologist is this afternoon. I called the office of the radiation oncologist. The medical oncologist and radiation oncologist are part of the same hospital and often work together. Chemotherapy and other therapies such as herceptin and aridimex come first. At a later point we can have a consultation with the radiation oncologist to see if radiation is necessary and if they agree with the Breast Surgeon that radiation is not necessary. My wife seems more concerned about radiation than chemotherapy. I am concerned about the surgical margins in the final pathology report of 1.5 mm for invasive ductal carcinoma and 2 mm for DCIS. Hope all is well with your recovery.
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My wife and I met with the medical oncologist today. The recommendation is Taxotere plus Cytoxan plus Herceptin once every 3 weeks for 4 treatments followed by Herceptin alone every three weeks for a year in total (counting from the beginning of treatment). Also will be Arimidex after the TC is finished one pill a day for 5 years. The treatments will start on November 30th. The consensus is that radiation will not be necessary so we will focus on the chemo and related treatments.
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So glad to hear radiation will not be required - I recall your wife was worried about radiation. The chemo plan sounds good. I have several friends on arimidex, most are ok, just some joint pains mostly.
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Dear beacon800 - Greetings from China. I am here on a business trip for two plus weeks. Then I go home to take my wife and kids on a vacation before she starts treatments. The medical oncologist mentioned joint pains from Arimidex. Will keep everybody posted after my wife starts chemo. I also started several other threads.
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BlairK,
My BS did not recommend Arimidex for me, but my mother was on it for 4 years and then was switched to Aromasin. She did experience some joint pain with it but it was not that bad. In fact, when her 5 years were up, she elected to continue on it (Aromasin has the same joint pain side effect).
Most of us post on multiple threads and I hope you will continue to post here. If not, I will find you. I would like to stay informed on how your wife is doing. So sorry her pathology was not as good as you had hoped.
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I received two very strongly worded private message rebukes from mycinnamon for my post back to DebiMetz so I am sorry for that although I can't respond back because mycinnamon does not accept private messages. Everyone is welcome to post anywhere including here so again I apologize. I was trying to suggest that if someone wants to reach a specific person, the private message facility may be more efficient but it came out the wrong way. I would like to try and help DebiMetz belatedly. My wife was in the same situation prior to her double mastectomy. After DCIS was discovered in the second breast, there was no doubt that a BMX was the way to go. My wife had an immediate reconstruction with gummy implants. Gummy implants are used a lot in Canada and Europe but are not yet officially FDA approved in the US. It is difficult to find a reconstruction surgeon who is trained to do the gummy implant. The reasons my wife chose the gummy implant are that (1) our internist's wife had breast cancer, chose the gummy implant: (2) there is a reconstruction surgeon in our area who has performed over 1000 breat reconstructions with the gummy implant and has 25 years of experience; and (3) my wife did not like any of the flap options at all and felt the gummy implant option was superior to a silicon or saline implant option. My wife also liked and felt very comfortable with the reconstruction surgeon. The BMX and reconstruction for my wife on October 14th have gone well. My wife got back quickly to her normal routine and has even started driving a car again. The surgical drains came out in 10 days. Her pain has faded away to being minimal although she has pain with certain arm movements. For example she tried to close the trunk of our car and she had pain and could not do it so she asked me to close the trunk of the car. I shook her hand in the care and she had some pain. Overall she is back to normal from the point of view of recovering from the BMX and surgery. She still can't lift anything for 6 weeks. She has some unsightly holes in her back from the drains which will heal up soon. I have not seen my wife's chest yet as she prefers for me to wait until she is all healed up. She was told that her reconstructed breast size is slightly bigger than the original. She will need additional work to restore her nipples and aerolas which were removed during the BMX and which turned out to have DCIS in them per the final pathology report. Unfortunately the pathology report for my wife had some unpleasant surprises - IDC and HER2 positive. So now my wife is facing chemotherapy (Taxotere and Cytoxan) and Herceptin. Also arimidex. I guess my biggest piece of advice to you is to be prepared that a BMX may not be enough although I certainly hope for your sake that it will be. I wish you a successful BMX surgery and a full and complete recovery (and I also hope for your sake that the BMX will enough) and sorry for the way I worded my post and I hope you will be successful in finding and communicating with Wahine. Again I am eternally grateful for this bulletin board, thank everybody for their help and support, and wish everybody a full and complete recovery. I am actively posting now in the IDC, HER2 positive, chemotherapy boards but still wanted to keep any here up to date on my wife's situation. My biggest question that I am searching for on the other boards is the difference between Taxotere + Cytoxan + Herceptin and Taxotere + Carboplatin + Herceptin and finding out about all the side effects and experiences from other posts.
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My wife will get a second opinion on chemotherapy, Herceptin and Arimidex on Monday and then go see the first oncologist again next Tuesday.
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i'm glad your wife is doing so much better.
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Hi BlairK....yes continue to post here! Everyone that has been following your wife's progress will want to continue! It is like an extended support group that reaches the world. I hope you didn't think I meant for you to go away!!?? I was just saying cross posting is a good way to learn even more (but stay here too). You will meet so many wonderful people on all the forums and the ones that have been through the chemo treatments will be the ones who will help you the most now. Personally, I don't have to have any further treatments because my cancer was in situ and there were no additional surprises. YaY!
I continue to heal but the tissue expanders are no picnic. I have had a couple down and lonely days this week and had a pity party for myself, but am feeling much better today. Thanks for checking in with me :-)
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Ok...enought waiting...I GOT THE TWINS TODAY....WAHOO! He put in 425s because try as he might he couldnt wedge in the 450s. Lol. Gonna tak a pain pill in 30 minutes and take a nap but thought i would catch up first!. Blair tell your wife a light is always at the end of the tunnel.....just gets bigger the closer we get
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Fluffqueen....congratulations!! I can only dream of my swap out day....seems SO far away!! What size cup does 425cc's equal?? I want to be a large B or small C cup when all is said and done. I was always large breasted (DD's) and do NOT want to ever worry about fitting into clothes again.
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I luv-tx. My goal is large b/small c. I was same size as you but didnt grow them until after my second child. I think that is the size i will be but bra sizes run different with implants. They are wider so you might be a d in a bra but look like b/c in shirt. Look up whippetmom. She is an expert at helping you with selecting a good size for your body. She had my ps were exactly on the same page. I ended a smidge smaller than she suggested, but I am ok with that.
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Dear iLUV2knit and fluffqueen1 - I am glad your recovery is going well. Here is the latest on my wife for those who want to know. My wife will get a second opinion on Monday. The second oncologist was trained at the Dana Farber Cancer Institute and is also a medical school professor. She requested that my wife bring all the pathology slides. We still like the first oncologist very much and the fact that he is only 15 minutes from our home. Both oncologists won a "Top Doctor" award for our state. The most troubling aspect now for my us is that my wife is HER2 positive. Without treatment, HER2 positive has a 25 to 30 percent chance of reoccurence. With treatment it is 2 to 3 percent. Herceptin carries the risk that it can damage the heart but the risk has been quoted as low. Herceptin per the FDA must be used with chemotherapy. There appear to be two key protocols for Herceptin. AC -> TH (Adriamycin and Cytoxan followed by Taxotere and Herceptin). Adriamycin can also damage the heart and is used more for late stage cancer. The other protocol is TCH (Taxotere Carboplatin Herceptin). The is the protocol that most of the women on the board that have written to me are on. The first oncologist is recommending Taxotere Cytoxan Herceptin which has been used but is not considered standard. A few women on the board have written to me that they are on that one. As best as I can gather, Cytoxan has less worrisome side effects than Carboplatin - Carboplatin can cause kidney damage and nerve damage. So it is very important that my wife discuss all this for both the second opinion and the second visit to the first oncologist. My wife has also been recommended Arimidex for 5 years which has side effects of joint and bone pain. Next week my wife will also pre-chemo and pre-Herceptin tests - MUGA heart scan, full body scan, bone density test and many different blood tests. Treatment plan also includes Neulasta to deal with low white cell blood count. I will continue to post her but unfortunately my wife has left the DCIS world and is in a new scarier world.
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yes, BlairK, she is in a scarier world that no one wants to be in *but* you will be by her side every step of the way and if she is ever ready to come to the boards, people will open their arms to her and she will realize she is not alone in her scary world.
Good luck...my heart and prayers go out to your family.
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Blair-my chemo was taxol only, once a week for 12 weeks. Thats what two of the oncs recommended. One is nationally known at a major university. He used it off label.
I would not do adriamycin with the early stage. I asked all the oncs I interviewed and all said no because, as my onc said, "you just need a little chemo to make the herceptin work best.
Ask about the taxol. It is actually recommended for metastizef breast cancer, but on the weekly infusion, i had very few side effects. Also when receiving chemo, have her keep her toes and hands in frozen peas or ice bags to ward off nasty nails. I think what they recommended for you is the most popular standard. -
My wife just met with the second oncologist and I just spoke to her on my cellphone. Phone calls from Hong Kong and China on my cellphone are expensive so we are going to talk via Skype in an hour in more detail. The second oncologist thinks my wife should hold off on chemotherapy and just do hormone therapy. Again, my wife had three foci of HER2 positive invasive ductal carcinoma - 3.5 mm, 1.0 mm and less than 1.0 mm. The second oncologist says anything under 5 mm (0.5 cm) should be monitored and treated with Tamoxifen or Arimidex. The second oncologist believes that my wife should be "monitored" - how I am not sure until we speak via Skype. The second oncologist said it is the size of the biggest tumor that counts. She would treat with Herceptin if over 0.5 cm (5 mm). The first oncologist added up all three foci to make his recommendation. The second oncologist was trained at Dana Farber Cancer Institute at Harvard. The second oncologists thinking does not make me hundred percent comfortable. HER2 positive and all the articles about how aggressive it is are scary. However, this still is within NCCN guidelines if the key is to go by the biggest tumor 3.5 mm and not to add all three tumors together. I would be interested in all of your opinions as quickly as possible. I think everyone on my thread has a tumor at least 0.5 cm in size or more.
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I can't say which is the right approach but there's no question that the standard and accepted practice is to determine treatment based on the size of the largest tumor only. When there is more than one tumor, the size of each of the individual tumors is not supposed to be added together.
Having said that, as I mentioned in one of my earlier posts, on this board I've seen many cases where doctors have chosen to add together the size of the tumors - and this seems to happen most often (almost exclusively, in fact) in cases where the cancer is HER2+.
That probably doesn't help you much!
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BlairK I am sorry about the complexity surrounding your wife's treatment. Each bc case is so very unique! I have no experience in this area, but I recall your wife's over expression of her2 was on the high side and I would ask the onc if that makes her particularly amenable to Herceptin. Women who have a lower ratio of over expression and tiny tumors might be different than your case.
My other observation- totally non medical - is that you have received many surprises as you have gone thru diagnosis with most of them being on the worrisome side. Every time you have asked them to be more aggressive it turned out to be a good call. -
blair, my biggest spot was .8mm on the length and .4 I believe on the other direction. The only other thing I had was lcis tissue that was .7mm. Every onc recommended herceptin with chemo, and the doc I settled on said he recommends herceptin for just about everybody...said it moves to fast to just monitor with hormonal meds. Mine was multi-focal. I agree with everyone else. It is very individualized, but monitoring would scare me.
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My wife and I are going to go for a third opinion at a major hospital in either New York (likely Sloan Kettering) or Philadelphia (University of Pennsylvania). I will post whenever this happens. Also, the second oncologist is going to present my wife's case to a tumor board. We both feel that a one month wait in December will not make a critical difference as we continue to search for the right path to take.
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That sounds loke a good plan!
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I have been corresponding with the second oncologist who is very very helpful. Her hospital's pathology department has also reviewed the slides from my wife's removed breast. They refer to the 3.5 mm foci as "isolated nests of cells" as opposed to "a solid sheet of cells". They are not sure that they agree with the characterization of the 3.5 mm area as "full invasive ductal carcinoma" and I have asked them if since these are isolated nests of cells whether it is better to characterize this as "microinvasion". If it is microinvasion then that points even more away from Herceptin and chemo. We are going to get the third opinion doctor's hospital (U. Penn or Sloan Kettering) pathology department to review the slides and give an opinion the pathology as well.
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As of today 11/13 I will stop posting here. For those of you who wish to continue to follow me and my wife's situation, I have a thread under HER2 positive. The latest is that the second oncologist (1) stands by a recommendation of not treating a 3.5 mm IDC HER2 tumor with chemo and herceptin; (2) believes that the 3.5 mm is invasive ductal carcinoma but made comments on the appearance of isolated nests of cells versus a solid sheet of cells; and (3) has consulted with several other oncologists apparently at a conference who also concur no chemo and herceptin. The first oncologist stands by the recommendation to aggressively treat my wife with chemo and herceptin and also is recommending a non-standard TCH regimen - the "C" is Cytoxan instead of standard Carboplatin. My wife and I have an appointment on December 27th (such a long wait !) to get a third opinion and have decided on the University of Pennsylvania. Hopefully it can be moved up although all believe that a delay of a few weeks would not be detrimental to my wife's situation (other than the anxiety of having to wait). All of you during the DCIS and surgery phase of my wife's situation were extremely helpful and supportive and again I appreciate it. The participants in my HER2 positive thread are also extremely helpful and supportive and I am getting a lot of useful and helpful information. This whole situation and the uncertainty around a T1a HER2 positive tumor is weighing on me but I am forging ahead to get as much information as possible. Thanks a lot again and I hope you will have full recovery, good health and peace of mind.
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