Giuliana Rancic early stage BC

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Chickadee
Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
edited June 2014 in Stage I Breast Cancer

Giuliana Rancic announced that her infertility Dr suggested a mammogram though she was going to wait until she was 40. She said that it was caught early and the prognosis is good.



She recently did a report for a group, Bright Pink. Her announcement reflects at least some knowledge and restraint. So glad she didn't proclaim a cure.

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  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited October 2011

    BC ignorance drives me bananas. 

    She adds, "I will be okay, because I found it early." She'll have surgery this week, then radiation for six weeks.

    This doesn't make sense.  Staging and treatment can't be done until node, LVI and margin status is known.  Sounds like she has DCIS, which is the only way they would give her a treatment plan up front, and which should be called out--that's not the same as invasive cancer. Which also usually requires sentinel node biopsy to make sure it hasn't spread.

    I resent the idea of "caught early".  DCIS is not, for instance, "early" IDC.  Cancer also doesn't work that way, screening isn't that honed.  A tiny tumor could already have gone viral, and it puts the onus on the patient.   She will be lucky rather than vigilant if it hasn't spread.

  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited October 2011

    I assume folks like her have access to excellent medical advice. What can be a problem is how they choose to announce it. She seems like someone who might use this to inform and I hope she takes this opportunity to help with good information. She has a wide audience.

  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited October 2011

    Well, I've gotten pretty philosophical about the whole thing.  I'm not sure what excellent medical advice is when there is still so very much unknown about BC.  I agree with you, her report is better than some.  But it is still rife with issues.  With all my "spare time", I should write her a letter.  I bet she would in fact be receptive!

  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited October 2011

    I've been looking for a more direct way to write something to her. Hoping her association with this Be Bright Pink org will grow into something informative. They look to be all about education




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  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited October 2011

    If you find something, let me know.  I should bank some hours being educative.

  • Lady_Madonna
    Lady_Madonna Member Posts: 472
    edited October 2011

    Sorry to jump in on your forum, but I hadn't heard the new about Giuliana's diagnosis.  After reading your thread I found her recent "Today" show interview and while she's clearly a scared newbie it's also clear that it's not just DCIS, she has an early stage tumor and was biopsied and diagnosed in the hospital in LA.

    She may not have said everything perfectly but at least she came forward with her story with the best intentions.  In this month of pink sh*t everywhere and companies trying to capitalize on breast cancer we should treat all our sister with kindness. Especialy the ones who have a voice that can reach the masses on our behalf.  

    Be gentle.  All the best to you.  

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited October 2011

    I actually feel sort of badly for her that she feels the need to come out & speak publicly about it so soon after diagnosis.  Surely she could have had a press release to spread the news, and then asked for privacy on the matter.  Now she's speaking out before she has much knowledge.  I know in my own case, one month after I found the lump I had some knowledge, after two months I knew more, and after six months I had a completely different outlook on things.  To me, she sounds so 'green' and new to the situation at this early point in her 'journey'.

  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited October 2011

    In the celebrity world if they don't speak first one of those nasty tabloids will spin it fast. Hopefully she will continue to control as much of the info as she can. She seems a very likable sort. I wish her well whether she chooses to be a spokesperson or tries for privacy.

  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited October 2011

    Edited to try and be more gentle, it's good advice.

    Misinformation is dangerous.  That is all I am trying to say.  I hope she gets it right, and I hope she's going to be okay.

    Screening doesn't help so many, particularly young women.  I found my lump.  Lucky I did, the mammo showed nothing for years.  I could have died had I waited.The hideous part is, I may still.  And meanwhile, the world sits and wonders how women who are Stage IV didn't "catch it early".

  • eileenr56
    eileenr56 Member Posts: 135
    edited October 2011

    I believe she was trying to let people know that she should be screened early.  I am one of the fortunate ones (so far) that had pure DCIS (lumpectomy and radiation).  I was struck by how fast everything went.  I went to the surgeon and he gave me the names of the medical and radiation oncologists that day, made the appointment the follwoing week.  Everything was scheduled before my lumpectomy.  Of course, it has to be resceduled because I had to get better margins.

    I could not find what kind she had.  I also was assuming dcis because of her talking about being so early. 

    I wonder if this will be a continuation of her reality show.

    That might be good - it may educate people.

  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited October 2011

    Your emotions are understandable. Celebrities health issues are always full of BS. PR people.no doubt. I'm going to do a little wait and see. I wrote to the BeBrightPink.org and suggested they seek to collaborate with her. They thanked me for contacting them but nothing much else.

  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited October 2011

    Thanks for your support, Chickadee.  I feel like a wild bull today ; )

  • nwest125
    nwest125 Member Posts: 240
    edited October 2011

    I think sometimes we are misinformed right off the bat, When I got my call I was told I was Stage 1, At that time I had only had a biospy however when I went to see my BS I was told she wouldn't know until after my surgery what stage I was. So I think sometimes the people that call us does not give us the right information. I am a year out and still learning something new everyday by all of the wonderful ladies on BC.org.

    Nancy

  • TAPPY
    TAPPY Member Posts: 283
    edited October 2011

    This could all be very well what she wants the "press" to know and report.

    I mean she may not want all the details all over the news just yet....privacy.

    She also has a career to think about - as well.

    I know I tell my work, I will be back and be fine, even though I am really unsure of what my future is at this point.

  • eileenr56
    eileenr56 Member Posts: 135
    edited October 2011

    I was told that I had DCIS when I saw the surgeon reviewing my biopsy.  I don't remember if he said that you won't know for sure until after the lumpectomy is examined. He probably did.  He focused on the DCIS, ER+PR+.  He made me feel like I would be fine and it was very early.  Maybe that's what they did to her. 

    I don't know if my brain could have processed the possiblity of it being more serious at the time.  I remember a nurse telling me that you really won't know if it is stage 0 until after the lumpectomy.  I was not happy with her.  I only wanted to hear about DCIS. 

    she is probably just getting throught the day with wishful thoughts.

  • Lady_Madonna
    Lady_Madonna Member Posts: 472
    edited October 2011

    LtotheK, I understand what you mean about luck.  I had a baseline mammo at 35, just because I had good insurance and my primary care doc offered it.  It was absolutely clear.  Three years later I was lying in bed watching a movie when by pure luck I scratched an itch that changed my life.  I have chills thinking what would have happened with my Her2+ , 1.2 cm tumor had I waited another two years for my repeat mammo at 40.  Something as small as that can make the difference- it's very humbling.  

    I'm mourning the loss of my cousin and one of my best friends, both recent casualties of this insidious disease.  I don't know why I had the good fortune to scratch that itch that night and find my lump while so many of my sisters have a far worse diagnosis than I, but I can honestly tell you my heart aches for them and I'm doing everything I can to educate my friends and family- including asking them to contribute their hard-earned cash to causes the fund research, not awareness. 

    Who knows what my future holds, but I will try to share love and kindness.  I'm sure you and Chickadee and others can educate not only the general public, but us "early stagers" about your particular journey.  There is so much to learn, and we should all be doing everything we can to FIND THE CURE!  

  • thats-life-
    thats-life- Member Posts: 1,075
    edited October 2011

    I just saw her interview a few minutes ago. Ladymadonna, it was the same with me!..i scratched an itch that may, well, extend my life anyway :)...just wondering re the starting treatment without margins/staging etc comment...My whole treatment plan and dx was based on 3 biopsies...they havent graded it...mabye thats why? because i havent had surgery...god that feels weird. Maybe, like me, she had a fine needle aspiration, and clear lymph result? ( I had a few stray cancer cells in my lymph result)...i wonder if they have done body scans? at her age they may not think it likely that she would be stage IV I suppose, but they thought my body scans would be clear too. I misssed the first part of the interview..

  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited October 2011

    As usual, a very educated thread.

    Thought it was important to clarify:  for my personal privacy (teacher, lots of trollers online) I don't list my stage and diagnosis.  I am an early stager.  I'm the only early stager my age I know, and I have made it my job to tell the world that women under 40 are often stage 4 out of the gates.  People just don't get it!

    Love and kindness to all indeed, good words to live by.  And guess what:  I had almost the exact same experience you did, Lady M.

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited October 2011

    She is going by what the professionals are telling her and she will find out!!

  • Member_of_the_Club
    Member_of_the_Club Member Posts: 3,646
    edited October 2011

    I've decided that celebrities and other high profile folks should just shut up for a while when they are diagnosed with breast cancer.  Over and over again, they work out their issues publicly and end up halfway to crazy.  Remember when Sheryl Crowe said radiation (she didn't have chemo) was like being raped?  And over and over again these women announce that they caught it early and are all better because they were such good breast cancer dobies.

     I think they do this for reasons that are common to many of us when we are first diagnosed: (1) they want to reassure themselves and those around them.  I told all my friends that my bc was caught really early, even though it was node-positive.  Why was I saying this?  (2) or the opposite.  LIke Sheryl Crowe they want in on the drama they missed by being diagnosed early.

    I have to believe these phases pass and they get some perspective, but they should really shut up until then.

     I'm also tired of women being called "brave" because they go public with their itty bitty cancers.  Betty Ford was brave.  Very few women went public before her.   And stage IV women like Elizabeth Edwards are brave because they get up every morning and fight until they have no fight left.  But Andrea Mitchell doesn't get brave points in my book.

  • Jellydonut
    Jellydonut Member Posts: 1,043
    edited October 2011

    When I was originally diagnosed in 2002, the breast surgeon's nurse (who had worked at that practice for over 20 years ) told me "stage II is curable" and she believed it....and then I believed it....for a while...

    I would think Mrs. Rancic had scans done but probably did not want to release too much information too soon.  She got through the Today show interview (alone) without tears and I thought that was hard to do.

    Whether it's Mrs. Mitchell, Mrs. Rancic or anyone else, the women, IMO, should receive only kind-hearted well wishes and prayers for successful treatment and recovery.  They all will have time to learn the behaviour of cancer and what it's capable of doing to a percentage of women. 

    Jelly

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited October 2011

    Member of the Club, well stated.  I agree with your comments.  

     Jellydonut, certainly, kind hearted prayers are always intended to anyone/everyone who has been struck by this disease.

  • nancyh
    nancyh Member Posts: 2,644
    edited October 2011

    Well said, Jelly.  We should be sending nothing but well wishes for anyone newly diagnosed, celebrity or otherwise. I'm finding myself more and more bothered by the negativity on the boards these days.  It is one thing to vent, but why are we being critical of a newly diagnosed...c'mon gals, let's give some warmth and well wishes to Mrs. Rancic.

  • ibcmets
    ibcmets Member Posts: 4,286
    edited October 2011

    I saw the interview with Giuliana Rancic.   She was shaken up and I'm sure she has just begun her research.  I remember being very shaken up and I'm sure I did not convey what was really going on as I was still a bit in denial and extremely scared. 

    I know that things can get worse even if you are stage 0 from the start; but I believe the earlier stages give hope to people that they can be cured.  I know many do not agree, but having some hope for recovery & possibly living a normal life  is not so bad.  I bet it prolongs a person's well being and life in general.

    Terri

  • annettek
    annettek Member Posts: 1,640
    edited October 2011

    yeah, its a b*tch for any person to get bc...we all handle it different but I do believe the shocker is the same to some degree...I feel like crap when anyone nw is diagnosed as this damn disease is equall opportunity to its core.....rich poor ugly beauty famous shy single married....I don't restrict my wishes for health to any class or stage...when someone is hurting their fear is real- it is all relative. Fears and tears are the same.  

  • snicklefritz
    snicklefritz Member Posts: 66
    edited October 2011

    I wish the best for Guiliana. She is very young however so that should be concerning unless she knows for sure it is DCIS or LCIS. Perhaps the nature of her situation is such that the tumor is very tiny and can be contained. we just don't know and we never know so early on. at least she sounds optimistic and hopefully has reason to be. I just have some issues when celebrities who really don't know much about the disease make it sound like there is a magic bullet of early detection that solves the problem. I have been around the block many times as many of us have and we know how this works.

  • voraciousreader
    voraciousreader Member Posts: 7,496
    edited October 2011

    My! My! My! Such a young woman! When will this all end? Breaks my heart that everyday there are newbies....I wish her Godspeed.

  • lrr4993
    lrr4993 Member Posts: 937
    edited October 2011

    I want to second the comments of jelly and nancy.  I am appalled by the continued attack of women who not only are unfortunate in having BC, they are unfortunate in having to deal with it so publically.  The suggestion stated often here that these women should not believe they are going to be okay or be positive about their diagnosis or encourage the benefits of early detection is, quite frankly, embarrassing.

  • kmccraw423
    kmccraw423 Member Posts: 3,596
    edited October 2011

    I think she is just trying to get women to get tested ... but you all are right - she is just beginning her journey ... I just wanted to tell her to go to Breastcancer.org.

  • shannonW
    shannonW Member Posts: 186
    edited October 2011

    For what my two cents is worth...I've seen her reality show on TV. Not an avid watcher but seen it enough to know Giuilana has had many struggles and she lives her life by sharing what is going on in her life. She and Bill have been struggling to get pregnant for quite awhile without success. She's laid it all out there on her show. I kno it's TV but she seems like a "real deal" kinda girl. I've not seen the Today show interview but I'm sure celebrity or not she's reeling from this cancer. And knowing their show it will likely be written into it. I wish her the best.

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