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  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited September 2011

    I have armit hair. That was actually the one place I was hoping it wouldn't come back! My underarms have been itching like crazy the past 3 days. Took a good look in the mirror this morning before my shower, and sure enough, there's almost enough there on about half of each underarm to shave!

    I guess that means, pay attention to the itch! Which also means I'm not looking forward to the nether-regions growing back in! Yell

  • thegood5
    thegood5 Member Posts: 478
    edited September 2011

    It was a year ago today that my onc gave me the mind-blowing news that I was stage IV with met on my liver.  Today I am NED and leaving now to go celebrate with a cut and highlight...can't wait!

  • achpurple
    achpurple Member Posts: 290
    edited September 2011

    All I can say is "WOW" thegood5!  You go celebrate!  I got a one year "all clear" mammogram yesterday so I'm on cloud nine with you.

  • carberry
    carberry Member Posts: 1,153
    edited September 2011

    WOW you guys  celebrate your butts off!! and the good5...a cut and highlight?  that is awesome!

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Member Posts: 550
    edited September 2011

    Good5 and achpurple-that is fantastic, have a heck of a celebration, so happy for you.

    LuvRV-I like the way you think. Think I'll show up at son's soccer game topless (course I'll check with him first)-see all it takes is one brave soul.

    Have underarm hair and the nether region as well. I still find it funny though that I'm plucking some eyebrows while others are falling out-make up your damn mind. I even found a chin hair today-gross

  • thegood5
    thegood5 Member Posts: 478
    edited September 2011

    thanks guys!  Love my new do, and it finally feels like I MEANT to have my hair this style!  congrats achpurple...such wonderful news!!

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited September 2011
  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Member Posts: 812
    edited September 2011

    yeah achpurple and the good5!  Way to GO!

  • mags20487
    mags20487 Member Posts: 1,591
    edited September 2011

    good5 and achpurple..whoa!!!  Dancing for you both.  Not a baldy yet but anticipation is killing me.  2nd dd taxol on wednesday so anytime I guess.  This is a toughy for me.  The bmx was easier.  --IDIOT-- guess it just makes it known to the world that you have cancer.  Got a couple of wigs ready and lots of cute hats.  To all of you beautiful ladies who posted pix...thanks..it is inspirational. 

    Maggie

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited September 2011
    achpurple didn't mean to leave you out. Happy dancing for you too.
  • erika-canada
    erika-canada Member Posts: 142
    edited September 2011

    Hi Elizabeth07: Before it falls out badly, my scalp actually hurt and was extremely uncomfortable. It happened 14 days after my 1st chemo. I then got a buzz cut, and after 2nd chemo was as bald as a billiard ball. However, please remember we are each very different. My problem was no matter what wig I bought, after a couple of hours, I couldn't stand it. At home I didn't wear anything on my head. I had extremely little energy and was super sick, so went out only for appointments. After my last treatment I had good enough hair not to wear anything....which was 6 months. I am now on Femora for 4 years and my hair is super thin; along with very bad side effects from it. I had IBC, and happy to be here to complain!! LOL

  • achpurple
    achpurple Member Posts: 290
    edited September 2011

    Thanks Lago!

    I am so irritated that I can't figure out how to post on here - still trying though because people keep commenting on this curly hair of mine.  Has a mind of it's own, but Hey, it's hair!

    Mags - waiting is the worst part of it all.  None of us know how we're going to feel when our hair starts coming out, some wait til the bitter end, some shave it, some leave what they can.  Mine was 21 days I believe, then my head started hurting when any hair moved at all, then started thinning (my hair was pretty short anyway so you could really notice) then I just had had enough and had the kids shave it - then didn't mind being bald (other than it was cold - February).  Had two wigs ready and lots of hats, wore a lot of hats because of the cold.  But was too self conscious about wearing those wigs, like I was paranoid that everybody could tell so I only wore it a couple of times.  Never had anybody act like they really cared what my bald head looked like, plus my kids liked me without the wigs too.  My oldest son got married in July and I barely had any hair so I did wear a wig (mostly for pictures) but my son did not want me to wear it.  Been trying to post pics on here forever, but haven't figured it out yet. But still trying.

  • YaYa5
    YaYa5 Member Posts: 667
    edited September 2011

    thegood5, WOW!  congratulations!! your story makes me so happy.

    archpurple, same for you!  you ladies give me so much hope.

    luvrving, you just look adorable. i love your glasses.  i go out in public all the time without a head cover and i'm bald, too.  i've watched to see how people respond and they never really do.  they just act like i'm normal.  one day, my daughter and i were walking through the mall and i said to her, 'watch these people coming toward us.  they'll probably stare at me.'  they walked by us and did double-takes ... at my daughter!  they never even saw me.  i loved it!

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited September 2011

    YaYa5 - I have to say, you were my inspiration for feeling confident going out without a cover.  I've had these glasses for a couple of years, but I usually wear 30 day contacts.  My brain doesn't seem to want to do the "monovision" thing right after treatment, so the glasses work better.  I think people are starting to get "used to" seeing women's bald heads - remember The Voice this summer?  Two of the ladies were rocking the bald. 

    I think we could all raise real awareness this month by going out without a cover.  Imagine if we all ditched our hats, wigs and scarves for the month of October.  Now that might get some real attention!

    the good5 and achpurple - woohoo, woohoo!!!

    Michelle

  • YamahaMama
    YamahaMama Member Posts: 221
    edited September 2011

    thegood5 and achpurple, Fantastic!!!!  Happy for both of you! 

    survivor11, I've also had to pluck a couple chin hairs already, and I STILL have an incredible amount of blonde fuzz on my cheeks, etc., which I may just have to shave again!, but for some reason today I remembered a very important "stray hair" story that I seemed to have forgotten for a while...in February, I had a "nipple hair" that I just happened to notice.  I plucked it, then started feeling to make sure it hadn't just broken off, and that's how I found my lump...  Had it not been for having to pluck that rogue hair, who knows when I would have been diagnosed...  Let's hear it for stray hairs!!!! 

    YaYa5 and LuvRVing, sure wish I was as brave as you two!  Went to Sam's Club with a ball cap on last night, and the cashier said, "How are you this evening, SIR?"  WTF????  I was wearing a purse, and it totally accentuated the breasts!  And, since they're FAKE, they're REALLY sticking out there, compared to my old small ones!  Tongue out  I know she just hadn't really LOOKED at me before she said it, because she corrected herself almost immediately.  I have *maybe* a half-inch of hair right now, so I told her it was fine...I just have really short hair.   

  • achpurple
    achpurple Member Posts: 290
    edited September 2011

    I have a different feeling about myself now that I have been bald and gone through chemo.  Like a confidence I never knew I had.  Through this whole thing I wanted to make sure my kids knew that I would do whatever it took to get through this, to get our family through this.  I am very open to what is going on and what the doctor says; and just yesterday I saw a paper my 8th grader had written about everyday heroes.  Needless to say I cried while I read most of what it said about me, but I was very proud of her not being ashamed or embarrassed to talk about it, and I realized that the confidence I have felt has rubbed off on them.  And we have all been through this journey together. 

  • achpurple
    achpurple Member Posts: 290
    edited September 2011

    YamahaMama:  Yippee for stray hairs!

  • marial
    marial Member Posts: 255
    edited September 2011

    I have used the Sally Hansen cream hair remover for the face for those cheek and chin hairs..seems to work pretty well for me,,I was wondering like another poster earlier if always had all this facial hair but didn't notice it because of my hair hanging in my face..

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2011

    marial-I wondered the same thing about the hair as I too have peach fuzz on my cheeks. I am pretty sure I didn't have that much of it. I am going to check out the Sally Hansen stuff.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited October 2011

    so, im sick to death of it!!now, with the hypothyroid, its falling out more everydsy.. i hate wigs, its' too hot.. so tonight i added a few hairpices, and called it even.. i'll have to see if/when they straighten out the thyroid. doc said it could be the taxotere, also, and this may be the way it is.. so, im exploring all options.. what do ya think? not too bad, and cooler than a full wig, for sure..its (of course, ) on the top and front , thats the worst.......3jays

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited October 2011
    grrrr.. im so jealous of you getting yours back!!!    3jays ( but so happy for you!!!)
  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited October 2011

    3jaysmom - sorry you are not getting to enjoy the hair 'rebirth'...did radiation mess up your thyroid?  My RO said there is a 1 in 3 chance of my thyroid being killed with rads.  Not a pretty thought.

    Michelle

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Member Posts: 488
    edited October 2011

    achpurple - loved your story.  What a wonderful tribute to strength and the power of love with kids.

    yamamamama - I also loved that your purse accentuated your breasts.  Too funny. 

    I'm 5 weeks and 2 days PFC and still nothing to speak of...my hair is an underachiever!  Every day I wake up and get home from work and take my cover off and hope I'll see something...nope.  Makes me sad.

    Have a good weekend everyone

  • thegood5
    thegood5 Member Posts: 478
    edited October 2011

    luvRVing~If I were still bald I would so walk around that way this month!  I definitely get tired of all of the pink during the month of Oct., but I am all for anything to make people aware of BC and that they should get checked.

    achpurple~ I also have an 8th gr. daughter and she does the same thing with the writing about it for school.  My 6th gr. daughter wrote something for school about me and I am not allowed to read it...I said that everyone else gets to read it at parents night except for me?  (it will be hanging in the hall).  I think shes is making me a book and wants to put it in and is saving it for me.  This has made all 3 of my daughters much stronger.  Glad to hear yours is handling it well1

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Member Posts: 550
    edited October 2011

    WTH, plucking unibrow area, losing brows on edges. On the bright side, can't lose anymore eyelashes-they have all flown the coop, thank God for eyeliner.

    So hoping surgery on Mon doesn't slow down hair growth, just getting use to having something on my head other than a scarf, hat or wig.

    bcisnofun-it's coming sister, promise.

  • charlottesmama
    charlottesmama Member Posts: 250
    edited October 2011
  • charlottesmama
    charlottesmama Member Posts: 250
    edited October 2011

    Typing on my kids clunky keypad. My hair has grown in way faster than expected. I like the style and hope to keep it. Hang in there babes. It will grow back before you know it. I was bald for a long time and twice. Be bald and be proud.

    xoxo

    michelle

  • Elizabeth1889
    Elizabeth1889 Member Posts: 1,036
    edited October 2011

    I finally went topless!  I am 16 weeks PFC and last week DH and I took a vacation to celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary.  I had bought a swim cap to use in the ocean and pool, but I did not try it on prior to vacation.  It felt awful when I put the cap on my head so I just went swimming with my uncovered head.  It felt great!  I think my days of wearing wigs are numbered now.

  • YaYa5
    YaYa5 Member Posts: 667
    edited October 2011

    charlottesmama!  lordy, girl!  your hair is so adorable.  i love it and i would definitely keep the style. i have so much gray hair, but if it comes back looking as cute as yours, my days of coloring it are over.  you look fabulous!

    elizabeth, congrats on going bald.  isn't it freeing?  i try to go bald as much as i can except for certain occasions, like when i go to one of my grandkids school.  i don't want to scare the little ones although i've found that they usually don't even notice.  YAY for you! 

  • edyem
    edyem Member Posts: 38
    edited October 2011

    I lurk on this thread just to see what you all are experiencing waiting for your hair to return. I had my last AC on Thursday 9/29 and will start 12 weeks of Taxol on October 21st. I've heard that some people have experienced regrowth during Taxol. Has anyone experienced this?

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