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Okay the SE that is doing me in is an itchy/prickly rash on my chest and scalp that started day 5 post T/C. Had a hard time sleeping last night. No OTC creams seem to help. Will call advise nurse soon as they open this morning.
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Thanks rabbit for your answer ..I guess it is what it is,im not going to freack out to much about it .i hope you had abetter day today..im actually awesome back to normal again, except that im not sleeping so good at night but i can live with that.
TeriAC:everything seems like a dream or more like a nightmare, but it gets better , the most important thing is having good people around you , you will need a lot of support.In my case my husband and kids have been giving me the strenght to stand up everyday and im fighting this battle with all my heart and body, this thing is not going to win.... dont let it..we are stronger.And when you are getting your first chemo dont think about it, i just relaxed , talked to my husband and bb chat with friends and everything went just perfect.
good luck to all and have great day!!
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Does anyone know why they give you benadryl? Support nurse was telling me that they give you this before hand but I did not ask her why.
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TeriAC, the only thing I can think of for Benadryl is the antihistamine to help prevent an allergic reaction? I believe that's one of the reasons I'm taking steroids. I took my first two this morning, two more tonight and repeat tomorrow (infusion day) and day after.
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Hi. The benadryl if for to help along with the steriod to stop or help allergic reactions. I did have a weird thing happen on the taxotere. We had about 10 minutes left and my legs starting hurting really bad from the knee down. I told the nurse. She stopped the drip, gave me some more benadryl and it went away all within 5 minutes. She started the drip slower and nothing else happened. Our bodies do not want this stuff in us so they tend to act out. The benadryl helps that.
About the period. Mine have always been erratic. I can go 2-6 months without one. Well, mine did show up the week after chemo and it was ALOT. I hadnt had one since April 16 and I kinda hope that was my last one for a while.
Im doing good. I mentioned about the hair below falling out. Well, last night the hair on my head started. I had it buzzed last week due to shedding and getting it over with. I used my lint roller last night and OMG I filled it up 4 times. Today is worse. I should be silky smooth by the end of the week! I let my kids lint roll my head and they got a kick out of how much was on there. lol. BTW, this is day 16. I have to look at it now to remember. I see that as a good thing. I am feeling so normal (other than my hair) that I stopped counting the days!!!
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So, tomorrow is the day. I get my first round of TC. I'm planning on going into work afterward and again tomorrow, then hopefully deal with the worst of the side effects over the weekend. I'm trying to train someone as a backup for my current job (not because of the cancer, but because of changes taking place here this fall), so it's a bit chaotic.
I work in an academic library and talk to libraries all over the country as part of my job in interlibrary loan. Yesterday, I received a very nice call from a librarian in another part of my state who had learned of my diagnosis and wanted to offer me some support. Turns out she was diagnosed in October. I've talked to her several times during that time and I never would have guessed she was ill. That gives me encouragement.
Someone asked what we're reading these days... aside from the stuff I read up on to understand my diagnosis, I haven't been reading much else. Like ANA_424 said, focusing on complicated things is tough right now. I read a lot of blogs. I'd like to post on mine, but I can't seem to find the energy to finish. And I'm all over Facebook and now Google+. I'm taking my laptop to the infusion center tomorrow.
I have a fingernail question: for those of you who aren't doing icepacks, have you done anything to your nails for protection? I already have terrible cuticles because of my hypothyroidism, but I've heard two schools of thought on painting nails. One thought was a good clear coat; the other said something about dark polish seems to protect the nails from a combination of chemo and light. I have short nails, but I'd still like to hold onto them. I can't really decide what to do here. If I opt to go with color, I'm doing something crazy with them. Why not??
I wonder if I'll be able to sleep tonight...
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@ valbee. Hi Valbee, I try protecting my nails with Silicea Cell Salt tabs. Maybe a little help from the inside will do the trick
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Hi TeriAC, welcome to the board. Many of us have already started our cancer treatments here just recently and we're happy to share our experiences with you. Just look back or ask away. I am only on my 3rd day since my first chemo and so far so good. The onc. nurses administer the first treatments slowly and watch for any reactions. They will instruct you what SE's you may feel. On my second bag - the Taxotere (you may not get that treatment)...I felt a little achy in my arm and a tin taste in my mouth and that was the extent of it. No big deal, and when that bag stopped and she set the next one to go, it all went away. I guess that is wierd, but do-able.
I was terrified that first day. I almost burst into tears when I peeped into the infusion room a few weeks back. They offered a tour and I refused to go - because I knew I would have never went back. You know, I did go back - this past Monday and It wasn't the worst thing ever. We have to do this to get that nasty cancer out of our bodies. I packed a big pink bag of comforts--- plenty of water to drink, my fav. munchies, journal, puzzles, pillow, etc.
Good luck to you on your journey and may all your SE's be minor ones.
pinkpalette
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Sommer, I got Neulasta yesterday. Kinda an emergency thing for me....onc nurse says get in the car and come here NOW! I got claritin on the way home - as instructed. Then somewhere between there and here I started to panic. I felt like I couldn't swallow. I finally took the claritin and laid down. I think my nerves got the best of me. I settled down, which I really hadn't done since chemo and the steroids. I feel pretty good. I have Rheum Arthritis - so I am absolutely not looking forward to bone aches. I have them enough.
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@pinkpalette: Sorry to hear that pinkpalette. They did give me Ibuproven pills (600) for the side effects, which I did not take. But as they are supposed to help, maybe they will be good for you. Claritin is an allergy reliever, isn't it (sorry I am from Europe). I wonder why they gave you that.
I hope you got through that allright!
Sommer
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Sommer, this is all so new to me, and I'm no expert. I figured I would need the Neulasta because with R.A.. my blood counts are all wacked out like an autoimmune disease. I even asked about it before my infusion. Nurse said they checked and my blood was good. Lip service I suppose. I was feeling so good the next morn, I went about my day in a great way and they caught up with me. They suggested claritin to counter the SE's of the neulasta. My guess is an SE is like an allergic reaction. My MO rx'd steroids and benedryl - which I think are also often prescribed for allergy relief to help with SE's during chemo too. I feel Ok, I guess they are working for me.
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Up side to the Chemo: the steroids I took sure helped my knees. I've had two partial knee replacements this year. During physical therapy today I pressed a lot more weight and they are not sore.
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Shaved my head today!! This morning in the shower, I had handfuls of hair coming out, like a dog! I'm at day 15, one day behind Jamie.
went to one of the cancer centers here in Louisville and they gave me an awesome wig (will probably only wear once in a great while) and several beautiful turbins. Also scheduled a free massage for next week and one in September. It's so nice they do this stuff for us!
I went to the dr. today for bloodwork, white count was 2000, pretty darn low but expected I'm told, funny thing is I don't feel that bad, thought I would but I don't. Had a fever of 99.5 and that was after taking a hydrocode so it was probably a touch higher...dr. put me on cipro to be safe. I feel okay....I don't want to postpone my next chemo in one week so hopefully this knocks out whatever is trying to start up.
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Tomorrow marks my first A/C . Trying to be calm about it, but freaking out inside........ I don't want to not feel like myself. I'm terrified of feeling badly . I work full time and can't give it up, but am afraid of not being able to handle everything. One step at a time, one day at time.......
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I was diagnosed in late April. In my lymph nodes both sides, signs in left breast, but big tumor was in the right breast. Has already spread to my spine and ribs, so metastatic stage IV, no masectomy, but started my Chemo on May 23. Doing C3D1, which I learned means 3 chemo drugs(plus other things) every 21 days and Herceptin every week.
Got my port in the Fri before I started what I now call Big C (every 21 days). I too was freaked, but turns out, nothing to it but it is just slightly sore to the touch. Seatbelt bothers me when I drive, so bought one of those cushy deals to put around the strap, helps.
After 1st BigC, went home and enjoyed 2 shots of Jose and a beer. Next day back to Center for a shot of Neulasta (to help produce more white blood cells). They warned me....n they were right, the BigC wasn't bad at all but that Neulasta made me think the top of my head and every bone in my body were gonna burst like a melon. Took 5 days to feel better. The weekly Hercetin Chemo, I call H-C does not affect me at all.
2nd BigC and next Neulasta only took 3 1/2 days to feel better, wasn't near as bad as 1st. Now I have finised my 3rd Big C (3 more to go I hope I hope). Took 7 days to feel better, but I had allergic reaction (my eye bout swoll shut) to something and was reacting to Keflex, then Sulfa, then Steroid (because of the folliculitis, if someone wants more info on that lovely ailment jes holler).
Hope this helps those just beginning! Sending everyone positive thoughts and keep SMILING!
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Day 4 of my TC. Didnt manage to sleep at all last night. Tossed and turned in bed, feeling terrible this morning. Is this normal?
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Hi ladies; updates from me now:-) today is day 7 after my first chemo (thurs 7/7) and it was NOT A GOOD DAY!!!! It all started yday evening. I went back to work on monday and have been having good days, the eves have been abit tough but manageable, BUT last evening i started getting the chills first, then i felt soooo tired, took a nap on the sofa while my kids were watching TV and hubby was making dinner. I was feeling hot one minute then cold the next. Took some tylenol xtra strength and lorazepen before bedtime, slept fine. Woke up at 5am and i just did not feel the same, my body was aching all over, i had this tingling feeling on my back that went round my abs then to my legs. I tossed and turned for a while then decided to take another tylenol and lorazepen, went back to sleep, woke up feeling a little better. Decided not to go to work. Had bfast and just slept all day. I called my doc's office regarding the tingling feeling and the nurse told me that its the SEs of the meds we get:-( she told me to take aleve, which helped alot. My mouth feels funny/weird/dryish, thank God i still have taste for food. I am hoping and praying that tomorrow is better; planning to go to work tomorrow.The other thing i noticed is that i get palpitations every now and then.
Dexxy - how are you feeling?
Have a good nite and a blessed Thursday all. HUGS!!
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Misswin- good luck tomorrow, I am also doing A/C (dose dense, every 2 weeks) first treatment last Friday 7/8/11. Saturday-Monday lots of napping and sluggish and also sore from the port (installed Thursday). Was really worn out on Tuesday, stayed in bed all day. During Chemo they gave me Emend and took Zofran beginning Saturday morning and every 8 hours through the weekend. Never nauseated, did have heartburn. Today was a good day, got up and worked and even went out to dinner. Taste buds are good. Neulasta shot was on Monday, so far no pain. But anticipating SE the end of the week and if I do my MO is very forthcoming with a pill to fix the SE.
So I'm thinking about taking Short Term Disability, I get paid 80% of my base rate. This week I missed 2 days of work, so financially its in my best interrest. I just feel like I should tought it out. I mean I am on the computer and I work at home. But even though I had a good day today I am exhausted. Onc nurse didn't come out and say it, but her words were saying do it. Any of you ladies have any thoughts? I know some of you are working through this.
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Welcome Kimberly69. Were you born in 1969? I was, that's why I asked.
Paulamati: Weird, I got my period late by at least a week and it was the day after my first chemo. Wonder if it will be my last.
Today was my second fill-up of A/C. I feel tired mainly because it's a long and strenuous day. Going to sleep now.
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Frances:
Day 4 after my T/C was my worst. I felt like I had been hit all over with a big stick. It actually started the night before. Even the muscles in my hands hurt. It was almost all gone by day 5. Next time I will try to stay ahead of the pain better with vicodin when the pain starts instead of waiting to see if it will go away. -
Snoopy73- I read that a Biotene mouthwash was helpful. The one I picked purchased was for dry mouth. That may help you out. Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.
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TeriAC- I tried to talk my MO out of starting Chemo on Friday (my port hurt so bad). He pretty much said you know the way to the chemo room right. So I teared up, got to the door of the chemo room and teared up again, sat in the chair and yes I teared again. It was so difficult to get there, but now I am 1 down and 7 to go. We are all here for you and each other. Positive vibes are being sent your way.
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snoopy, I got some massive palpitations the first few days after chemo, onco told me today that it was probably more stress related than anything...
good luck everyone, hope we all have few SEs!
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Just checking in before bed. Port is a little sore but not unbearable. I am more stiff than anything. It was hard sleeping with it last night because it is sore and uncomfortable. I wonder when I will have a decent night sleep again. I have the port on my left side and I have a biopsy in the morning on the right (this will be my 2nd one, it's for the research study) so now Iwill be sore on both sides along with the dreaded Monday quickly approaching. Man, I hope I sleep decent tonight.
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snoopy73, hope you will better when you wake up. I use Chlor-rinse which I find pleasant.
ewa-swimmer - My aches are still bearable, its the weakness, the gas bloating and the insomnia that are affecting me. Appetite is also gone. Hope day 5 is better. I just got back from my neupogen jab this late morning and crashed out on the sofa for half hour but no deep sleep.
misswim - all the best. think of it as 1 down...
Cathy_C - I told my boss I am off for 6 months. I am blessed in that I have a supportive boss and a good company who is paying for all the private medical care for me and still paying me wages. As this is my 2nd cancer, insurance wont cover anymore. We dont have short term disability here. good to stop working and focus on getting well. Also when we are undergoing chemo, immunity is weak and hence dont want to catch anything out there.
All the best Bless0Mel!
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Hi Guys, for the dry mouth there is a special gel. Comes in different flavors. My dentist suggested it to me. Sage tee is also supposed to help the gums (suggested by the chemo nurse). I also use a sage balm twice a day. Can't tell if it works yet, as it is too early to say, but it surley should do no harm.
Wish you all a SE-free day, Tanja
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Hi all, wasn't on the past 2 days, had wicked bad Se's all around...could barely move. I have rheumtoid arthritis so my immune system is already compromised and the oncologist thought this might be contributing. I just woke- 3AM- and no headache, feel my joints are better, but I am on percoset, and mostly I have a really really sore mouth. I too think I may be gtting a lister/boil down below...OY!
Decided not to wait and called onc regarding a step up to a stronger drug than mouth wash for the thrush. I sent her pictures via email and she had an Rx called in immediately. She says she will have me start the diflucan on day 1 of treatment to try to prevent the thrush again. I just have to get rid of it first.
Glad to hear msot of you are managing well.
Shinypop- how great...People can be so wonderful
J-Bug had read your post and it is all so individual. Sorry that is where this took you.
I made myself take a walk around the block today- had to hold onto my hsuband- lsot 6 pounds in 2 days because I could not drink without pain.Still can't..like my mouth is burning up...but I am hopeful the meds will work within a day or two....
I can see why people give up. I am not going to but my first go was a walk in hell and I am glad at least for this moment I feel a bit better.
I am reading Swamplandia byyoung Karen Russell.... funny, creepy, silly and a good thing to take ones mind elsewhere. Also have David Sedaris, and have a Evelyn Waugh's A Hadful of Dust. Am not getting to them as I though I would but there is always online library book renewa.
Hope everyone is doing OK.
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Dear Susan - so sorry to hear of your bad SEs. Hang in there, you can do it! Can you ask your doc to prescribe you a numbing mouth gargle so that at least can numb away the pain and you can eat something. If not drink fortified milk eg Prosure.
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Thank you Fraces.
I will see if things get better today adn if not will ask the oncoloigist for something to numb my mouth.I am hoping htis s stronger drug kicks in , over te next 48 hours.
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Bless0Mel, I had the same thing, biopsied 4x in right breast and port on left side, the biopsy pain went away pretty quick and the percocets helped the port pain LOL, It's been 3+ weeks for me with the port and I almost forget I have it at times...
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