I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

So glad Tim is feeling better Bren

OT ... OMG you guys I have fabulous news.  My son just got a job teaching physics at a college in San Diego.  Thank god .. the student loans were overwhelming them.  I'm so proud of him, I could burst wide open.

Bren

Cherryl -- lol!

Bren, What great news. I've taught for 37 years and still would never chose anything else as a carrier. I wish him luck.

WONDERFUL, Bren!  Big hugs to you and long-distance hugs to your son!

Can I have a kir, please?  If there isn't any Chambord, I'll just take the house white whine. 

No news on scheduling surgery yet.  Details to follow.

{{{HAPPYLIBBY}}}

Brenn, What a great testimony going back to school and getting a degree in physics with ADD and dyslexia.

Thanks, Bren and Barbara.  I'm hoping for Canada, too ... I'm considering whining to the scheduler, but with two surgeons to match up, I might be shooting myself in the boob ...er.... foot. 

L

Oh, my gyn's office bullied that doctor's office into moving it up to the 7th -- it was the onc.  I'm now considering divorcing him -- I'd like him to be a LITTLE MORE concerned that I have a recurrence, instead of blowing it off 'cause it's DCIS.  Surgeons are all set, met with them last week -- bilateral with immediate DIEP.  Onc will wait until after.  I didn't want to load up with too many details here until dates were set, etc.  It properly belongs on the DIEP 2011 thread, but I love my peeps here & want to stay put.

XOXO

L

Interestingly, the Universe just sent me a BIG message about that.  A roomie of a colleague of DH's had uni MX w/ DIEP 10 years ago for DCIS -- big deal surgeon in Bethesda. It gets all kinds of compliments, people are called in to see it, etc.  Worked out beautifully, no permanent impairment, everything is great.  Except SHE WAS JUST DX WITH DCIS IN THE OTHER BREAST.  Somebody sent me a message.  BMX is the right thing to do!  Cancer has had two bites -- it doesn't get a third.

Bren ... Congratulations to Luke!!!  You have every right to be a very proud mama bear

Libby ... you better stay put here!  Glad to hear things are lining up ... the sooner you get started the sooner it will all be over with.  And we will all be here to keep you company and hold your hand and provide hugs as needed.   

I think we need to hire a bartender and cook ... anybody got any candidates we could interview?   

Congrats to you and your family, Bren, on all counts.  HappyLibby, do what it takes to make that schedule work out.  I wish I was headed for Canada.  Oh.  No, I didn't mean that.  I don't even have a passport. 

You guys are way behind.  The Bar & Grill's been open all afternoon, and I had a margarita over an hour ago.  I have maybe two doses of alcohol a week, or less... but I was desperate to find an escape from the madness of the Medical Industrial Complex.  Mostly I have margaritas because I like the lime mix -- I un-cap the tequila bottle and wave it over the top of the glass for a whiff of liquor.

I have no idea what dinner will be.  We were out of town for 2 weeks and had run out of groceries before we left; and I've been too unmotivated to drive 14 miles to the nearest store since we got back.  Mac & cheese with hot dogs? Maybe I can find some of that fake crab meat buried in the glacier/freezer, and make fake-crab-meat tetrazzini. Hmm... Mr. otter likes rolls or biscuits; can I figure out how to make biscuits from scratch with canned milk and only one egg?  Am I that motivated???

otter

Bren - congratulations - that is an amazing accomplishment - hope you are doing the Biggest Happy Dance!  Don't let Tim dance too much, unless he's hydrated

HappyLlibby - please tell that jerko of an onc that the C STANDS FOR CANCER -  damn, that attitude makes me crazy.

I am chuckling with how a certain visitor keeps popping in to say how trivial this thread is...ohhh..Athena - I don't mean to giive TMI here - but I gotta go change my panties from laughing so hard!  YOUARETHEBEST!  ROAR...

HappyLibby

adding my cheers to Athenas ( roars) for BLM.  I had the beast in several places in one boob, so lumpectomy was not an option, and I wouldn't have wanted one.  But I KNEW I wanted them BOTH set to "heaven" or wherever boobs go when we're done with them.  Mine were large, and at age 62, as Maya Angelou I think was the person who said it, " having a race to my waist." But I did have to be VERY strong about demanding that they BOTH go. Surgeon questioned whether my insurance would cover, etc. but my decision was quite firm ( polite for me when I'm being very determined;)

And, yup, you guessed it - some not good stuff was in the other Big Boob, previously known as the "good" one!  My surgeon had the good grace to compliment me on "following" my gut.  Too old to go thru DIEP, and more surgery - so just little implants now.  They kinda remind me of small poached eggs.  Mostly I LLOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE not having to wear a bra.

There - now we've talked about bc.  Are all the "visitors" happy?  Or do we still need to pass out pacifiers???  Tho I think Aluminum Foil hats are more fun.

trying to learn to spell - NOT!