mucinous carciinoma
HI, just diagnosed june16, what a whirlwind...not too many people have this suposed rare type of cancer, I am 50 years old and have just started memapause. I am having my lumpectomy on the 15 of july, I am very freaked out...I hear the procedure for the sentinel node test is very painful. Also I was told that my surgeon put me in for an admission..I really dont want to be in the hospital, but then again I dont know how much discomfort or is it more like pain I will be in after the surgery...
my moods are like a roller coaster ride...today I feel very achy and tired and there fore depressed a bit. I have a 9 year old son, and I have explained some things to him, but dont want him to know its cancer, because he will think the worst...sorry Im jumping around...but you all know how it is .
Imput please on pain after surgery and what your telling your kids. thanks all
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I had a lumpectomy in March 2010. The sentinel node injection did sting for a few minutes like a bee sting as stated before. I also had a wire needle localization right before surgery which did not hurt but was uncomfortable as they have to do a mammogram on the breast, use ultrasound to find the mass, then they numb the breast, and place a thin wire into the tumor that allows the surgeon to find the mass.
I was 67 yrs. old at the time of my lumpectomy and came home the same day with a drain that was removed in the surgeon's office the next day.
I did not have too much pain, and tied a small towel on my headboard so that whenever I was in bed I raised my hand and held onto the towel. I also slept on my back with 3 pillows under my arm which helped the fluid drain as I had 6 lymph nodes removed. I had no complications then or now (lymphodema) in my arm or from the 2 surgery sites.
I would tell your son the truth as he will hear bits and pieces and he will imagine the worst - if you don't tell him up front. You can tell him you have cancer and that the surgery will remove the cancer from your body and you will be fine. You will be tired from the surgery, but will recover and be able to do all the things you have always done. If you don't use the word cancer he will imagine the worst - and be convinced that you are dying. So tell him about your surgery and recuperation and that should assure him that you will be fine.
Good luck with your surgery.
Judy
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Faithopepeace.... We have another thread here devoted to mucinous bc. Please join us. I will bump up the thread. Thoughts and prayers to you.
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