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  • MarieKelly
    MarieKelly Member Posts: 591
    edited June 2011

    Those of you who are declaring that breast cancer is never cured are absolutely wrong. Breast cancer is highly curable when diagnosed and treated in an early stage. That doesn't mean every single person who has early stage BS will be cured, but the vast majority are. And just because there is no 100% cure rate for early stage doesn't automatically equate with incurabilty.  True, there is no known cure for breast cancer once it's become distantly metastatic...but most don't ever become distantly metastatic and early stage (when confined to the breast tissue and lymph nodes) is frequently cured...either by surgery alone or surgery and adjuvant therapy.

    I've seen this "no cure" mantra in posts repeatedly over the last 7+ years that I've been here at BC.org and I've noticed that those making blanket statements that there is no curability when it comes to breast cancer tend to be those diagnosed with later stage or distantly metastatic disease.  Well, I suppose from the standpoint of those with stage IV, incurability is the reality and that's the window it's being viewed from... but it's NOT the reality for everyone who has been diagnosed with BC in earlier stages. 

  • Claire_in_Seattle
    Claire_in_Seattle Member Posts: 4,570
    edited June 2011

    I believe the correct title of this article is "5-fluorouracil can Cause Severe Neural Damage".

    First of all, this is only one of a number of chemotherapy drugs.  Then there is a  problem with the statement with the "virtually all chemo patients suffer from some sort of cognitive impairment".

    That is different from the 15-20% later quoted in the article.

    I had adriamycin and cytoxan.  Then followed by a bark of Pacific yew tree, otherwise known as Taxol.  I was fine throughout.

    Most patients have much less chemo than I had.

    Please, please stop posting this nonsense.  Do you really wonder why the rest of us get angry!!!!

    This is not because we have "been duped by the medical/pharma industry" but because we get angry when berated for taking actions that saved our lives.

    There are wonderful people like Britchick out there who do wonderful work everyday saving lives.  I would take her counsel any day over the local health food store owner's.

    This truly has been an education.  In ignorace, in a failure of education, in lack of compassion, in total nastiness......and the jaw-dropping nonsense out there on the internet.

  • marjie
    marjie Member Posts: 1,134
    edited June 2011

    Do the chemo!  You're so young and this is cancer we are talking about here, I know it's a scary and tough decision but you need to know that you are doing everything possible to get this crap gone!  Before this happened to me, I wouldn't even take tylenol, so this whole last year for me has just been a real rollercoaster between the chemo, rads and all the other drugs that come along with the regime....but I know that I am doing all that can be done.

  • nowords
    nowords Member Posts: 423
    edited June 2011

    Everything in life has the potential for side effects. When benefits out weigh risks....do it, is how I decided.

  • lovetorun
    lovetorun Member Posts: 33
    edited June 2011

    Like dexxy I am also 43. No family history.  Dx of Invasive DC, angiolymphatic invasion identified, 1/1 pos node, 2 tumors that surprised us all in the lumpectomy measuring 1.7cm and 1.4cm, low grade, low OncotypeDX(not sure of the # yet), did not obtain neg margins on first attempt, I denied ALND but did get neg margins on 2nd attempt but just barely with some DCIS showing but enough margin to declare negative.

    Would you do chemo?  I am thinking quite strongly about it.  Also went through the routine MRI which lead to a bone scan focusing on something in my sternum, which lead to a biopsy that turned out inconclusive, which then lead to a PET/CT scan to rule out the mystery lesion as not cancer....hhmmmm.  Love to hear some thoughts!

  • flannelette
    flannelette Member Posts: 984
    edited June 2011

    Lovetorun -IDC, 2 tumors, 1 positive node? I may be wrong, but that sounds awfully like stage 2a or 2b. If so, IMHO, you would be crazy to not have chemo.

    Because if you should happen to then go on to stage 4, because you hadn't arrested any invisible metastases that might being doing their mischief unbeknownst to you, well, it was my onc who quietly said, at the end of our first meeting "and of course stage 4 is incurable".
    and I heard him loud and clear.

    I'm sorry that the onus on you Americans is to shop around and have to make such deeply important decisons. I'm in Canada. My wonderful team presented me with a scenario for treatment, which was to give me everything they had, and it was simply up to me to turn down anything i didn't want to do. I had a 6 INCH tumor - that was 2008 - and I had the works, and hey, (knock on wood) it's 3 years later and here I am!

     Best of luck, sorry you have to be here, be careful with your precious life

    Arlene

     

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    Doing chemo is not a guarantee that the cancer won't return.

    You are young, so you have many years to live with the after effects of chemo.  Some women have minimal long term side effects, and others have significant permanent damage including peripheral neuropathy and hair loss. 

    Chemo is a carcinogen.  It causes a new cancer, frequently leukemia in about 1% of the women who are given it. 

    You say that your current risk of breast cancer is about 11%.  Tamoxifen will cut that in about half.  The lifetime risk for the population of women at large is 1 in 8. Your current odds are not much worse than for someone who has not been diagnosed.

    This decision is a matter of weighing the long term risks with the potential benefits and deciding which risks you are willing to take. 

  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited June 2011

    Clyn - what happened?

    you've been posting for awhile and I've been following your DS, you were stage 1 grade III right? just worried, fill me in, K?

  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited June 2011
    just to clarify, the 11% is with rads and tamoxifen Cool
  • MaryNY
    MaryNY Member Posts: 1,584
    edited June 2011

    Dexxy: I found Clyn's post confusing also. She is quoting Marybe's previous post in the bolded portion. So she's not saying that she herself is Stage IV.

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited June 2011

    dexxy,  My score was similar to yours a bit higher 24. How I decided, because of course the Onc. was leaving it totally up to me was: Would I regret not doing the chemo if it came back. I talked to my family, but ultimately it was my decision just wanted their input. It was the hardest decision I have ever had to make. One more thing as everyone here has said chemo in most cases is doable, but if you're SE's are really severe it can always be stopped or will be stopped by your Onc.as it was in my case. But I know I tried, and that is all anyone can ask out of us.

  • MaryNY
    MaryNY Member Posts: 1,584
    edited June 2011

    Britchick: I'm not sure which post you are referring to as a propaganda post about Oncotype. I looked back up this page and the mention of Oncotype was lovetorun who is herself still in the decision stage.

    I know it's not relevant to dexxy as she is node-negative, but the Oncotype DX test is also now done on women who have 1-3 positive nodes. I had two positive nodes and had the Oncotype test. Because they've only started testing recently in node-positive cases, the predictive value is less than it is for node-positive tumors. They base their predictions on a study involving a relatively small number of women. The more node-positive women who have the test, the greater the data will be and it will hopefuly become a more accurate predictor.

    My Oncotype score of 18 suggested I would have little to no benefit from chemo, but this was based on the small-scale study. I eventually decided to have chemo anyway but did not regret having the Oncotype test as it gave me additional information about my tumor.

    Also I wouldn't agree that the statistics are accurate. I think the statistics are a great starting point and the best way of predicting the value of treatment but we need to remember that they are all based on studies which usually take a lot of time so the statistics necessarily lag. This is a good thing as far as we are concerned as treatments have improved so much. 

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited June 2011

    I think we will know a lot more in the next few years. I know they have an on going study looking at the gray group of people such as me. My Onc. wanted me to be in the study, but I wasn't able to because my tumor had favorable characteristics, and they wanted grade 2 or 3 for small tumors such as mine.

  • ifyoucandream
    ifyoucandream Member Posts: 17
    edited June 2011

    dexxy,

    I've been a lurker here ever since I was diagnosed with IDC 3/22/11.  But today I was inspired to finally write when I read your thread.  My stats are similar though not identical to yours, AND I'm in Foster City!  Had lumpectomy with clean margins 4/15/11, 0.6cm, Stage 2a, Grade 3, 1/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-.  Oncotype score was 15, so initially I was told chemo had no benefit.  I wrote a celebratory email to all my friends, only to have my MO call the next day and say because of the positive node, she suggested chemo even with a low score.  Started chemo (TCx4) 5/16/11 and this Monday will be round 3.  It's really not nearly as bad as I imagined.  Just queasiness and bone ache from Neupogen for a few days afterward.  I held on to my hair until this week; it's down to about 5%, but I'm sure after my 3rd tx, it'll be gone.  I would love to get together with you since we're neighbors, but I have to figure out how to PM, lol!

  • ifyoucandream
    ifyoucandream Member Posts: 17
    edited June 2011

    oh forgot to tell you one more similarity...i'm 46.  oh, one more...i contacted UCSF about cold caps but at the end decided i didn't want to fork out the money, though i believed in the effectiveness of the tx.  they have clinical trials ongoing, like one comparing cold caps to dignicaps but i didn't qualify.  have you looked into it?

  • MaryNY
    MaryNY Member Posts: 1,584
    edited June 2011

    ifyoucandream: I think you made a good decision to proceed with the chemo anyway despite the Oncotype score. But I do think it's valuable to have the extra information provided by the Oncotype. Your Oncotype score suggests that you have a much lower risk of recurrence than you would expect if you just looked at the tumor grade.

  • ifyoucandream
    ifyoucandream Member Posts: 17
    edited June 2011

    MaryNY,

     Thanks for the encouragement.  I know, right?  MO was shocked as well that my Onco score was low, but at the end, she said she'd worry about me if I didn't have chemo.  RO said it was either chemo or full axillary surgery.

     Hey, do you know if Onco score is a predictor of how likely BC may be passed down to my daughters?

  • MaryNY
    MaryNY Member Posts: 1,584
    edited June 2011
    Ifyoucandream: No, the Oncotype DX test and genetic testing are two different things. Oncotype DX tests a sample of the tumor and is a test that helps predict the chance of distant recurrence. Genetic testing is a blood test that checks for the BRCA1 and BRCA2 mutations. A positive result means that you and your relatives may be at increased risk for breast and other cancers. A negative result does not mean that you do not have a genetic cause for your cancer; it just means that you do not have the BRCA1 or BRCA2 mutation. Other mutations are being identified, but there is no other test available yet. The BRCA genes (BRCA1 and BRCA2) are tumor suppressor genes. Mutations in these genes can be inherited from parents. When they are mutated, they no longer suppress abnormal growth, and cancer is more likely to develop.
  • dexxy
    dexxy Member Posts: 229
    edited June 2011

    Hey Ladies!

    sorry I was away had to work today, the stress alone makes me so tired, I'll be glad when this decision is all over.

    lovetorun - my honest opinion is you should do the chemo, the node+ would be enough for me.  Did you not have a mammogram last year? did this all happen super fast? all good questions to ask, pertaining to how fast these tumors grew. 

    hey how about if I do it you'll do itWink a BC sister pact? maybe not the best way to make a decision and I'll totally support you either way.  Sending only good thoughts

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    Propaganda is a very strong word.

    If the truth scares you, maybe you should re-consider your position.  Leukemia is listed as one of the rare potential side effects, occuring in about 1% of patients.  Neuropathy occurs much more frequently, but it too has a devastating effect on quality of life. 

    The lifetime risk of being diagnosed with breast cancer is 1 in 8, and heading toward 1 in 7.  The 11% risk is darned close to that to begin with. 

    The population that receives the biggest boost in survival rates from chemo are pre-menopausal women, and even then it is only a few percentage points.  In most studies of older women, the differences are not large enough to be statistically significant.  The exact numbers vary from study to study, but this is not some miracle cure.  Many scientists believe that the benefit comes from throwing those women into instant menopause, lowering their hormone levels in the process.  There are far less draconian ways to acheive the same result, but chemo has never been tested against those treatments.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    This is copied and pasted from the taxotere package insert from the manufacturer.

    http://products.sanofi.us/Taxotere/taxotere.html

    WARNINGS AND PRECAUTIONS

    • Acute myeloid leukemia: In patients who received TAXOTERE, doxorubicin and cyclophosphamide, monitor for delayed myelodysplasia or myeloid leukemia (5.6)
    • Cutaneous reactions: Reactions including erythema of the extremities with edema followed by desquamation may occur. Severe skin toxicity may require dose adjustment (5.7)
    • Neurologic reactions: Reactions including. paresthesia, dysesthesia, and pain may occur. Severe neurosensory symptoms require dose adjustment or discontinuation if persistent. (5.8)
    • Asthenia : Severe asthenia may occur and may require treatment discontinuation. (5.9)
    • Pregnancy: Fetal harm can occur when administered to a pregnant woman. Women of childbearing potential should be advised not to become pregnant when receiving TAXOTERE (5.10, 8.1)
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    I was talking about the all too frequent scare tactics about leukemia

    Since when is alerting someone to a potential danger listed by the manufacturer a "scare tactic"?

    I believe for some women, especially those who are stage IV and getting symptom relief as the chemo shrinks their tumor(s), the benefits may outweigh the risks.  For someone who is young, and whose cancer is stage 1, the risks may well outweigh the benefits.  Every woman facing this decision has the right to be fully informed of the risks before she makes her choices, and too frequently, we see women on these boards whose lives are changed forever by side effects they were not warned about.

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited June 2011

    I might also mention something else never mentioned to me. I had radiation before chemo. I had chemo too soon, and ended up with something called radiation recall. Well in most cases just causes outside burns, but I had internal radiation. So I now have 3rd degree burns on the inside. not a pleasant side effect, and something anyone who has had radiation first should know about.

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited June 2011

    When I was diagnosed, I did NOT want to do chemo. I took all my information to my GP, who has been a wonderful advocate for me over the years. He looked over all my stats and said, "Ruth, you know you have to do chemo. You have ONE SHOT to beat this thing. If even one cancer cell has escaped and is not killed (by chemo), then it will come back and you will be dead." I had the chemo. And more than four years later; so far, so good. No regrets whatever happens because I gave it everything I could....

  • Claire_in_Seattle
    Claire_in_Seattle Member Posts: 4,570
    edited June 2011

    Ouch Kira.  I know I am still healing from radiation, which is now 12+ months ago.

    This one was non serious, and a bit funny.  I wasn't thinking about weakened lower pectoral muscles, and I would not blame anyone for not mentioning this.  However, about 4 months ago, I went skiing on a very snowy day.  I took a different chairlift, and when I got to the top, said "this is a ski jump".  I am not good at getting off a chairlift wearing my x-country skis and knew I was serious toast.

    Then, I realized I would have a very soft landing, so not to worry.  I was right; the powder was like crashing on pillows.

    Where I screwed up, was thinking I would be fine doing my normal 10+ mile loop.  It was semi-groomed, so I pulled both lower pecs real good pushing my body through 8" of heavy powder..  Well, the one on my surgery/radiation side was beyond sore and is just now healing.  Normally, didn't bother me, but when I had a virus, the coughing fits were memorable.

    So yes, things do take longer than you think to heal completely.

    Hoping the radiation recall mess continues to heal, and that you end up just fine there.

    As for the grooming, this isn't the first time in my life I have needed to change my routine.

    Nice though to have my hair a style I actually enjoy wearing.  BTW - I was fine rocking the edgy uber short.  It was the in-between I couldn't stand.

    And I am happy now with my evolving re-invented look. - Claire

  • DiDel
    DiDel Member Posts: 1,329
    edited June 2011

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  • DiDel
    DiDel Member Posts: 1,329
    edited June 2011

    Dexxy i know the thought of chemo is scary. My oncotype RS was 17 and initially I was not doing chemo, then my pathology came back from my mx and they found a 4th tumor 1mm in size but more aggressive than the other tumors suggesting to my onc that my cancer was becoming more aggressive as it hopped from duct to duct. After one onc said no chemo my BS called me to his office at 6am...I felt like I was being called to the principals office. He said to me "I think of you as a sister and definitely a friend...I am not asking you to consider it I am telling you I want to do it." he said he would feel better knowing I did everything I could to fight this cancer. He reminded me that chemo at this stage of treatment was preventative where down the road its a game of catch up. I don't have any children of my own but when I thought about my nieces and nephews who I am so close to, I just couldn't imagine not doing everything I could to ensure I'd be around a lot longer for them. I thought about turning back the day before treatment was scheduled to start after talking to the Oncologist Nurse for my chemo class..the morning I was going to call and cancel my friends father died of lung cancer..she called me crying and begged me to do it. There was no turning back then. My worse side effect was fatigue. I never needed Neulasta shots because my RBC were always good. My onc was impressed ..said I must have an extremely healthy diet to have "hung on" to my red blood cell counts all through treatment. It wasn't the easiest thing..but I am glad I did it. It's not a guarantee but I did all I could. Before finalizing my decision for treatment, I said to my onc I just cant imagine how I would feel if I went through chemo and it came back...to which he replied "imagine how you'd feel if you didn't do it and it came back."

    just something more to think about...also, I never had chemo brain...I work as a tax accountant and had chemo during tax season and never missed a beat.

    Good luck to you!

    Diane

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited June 2011

    That is the big question, and one which, as of now, has no 'for sure' answers, which is why this is such a difficult decision. I think it's like taking out flood insurance; you hope you never need to use it, but if you live on a flood plain, you better have it.

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited June 2011

    actually, sometimes you have to flood your basement to stabilize the pressure and save your house (I live in North Dakota where we are having a terrible flooding situation right now)

  • MaryNY
    MaryNY Member Posts: 1,584
    edited June 2011

    dexxy: in the end it will be your decision. None of us who did chemo have made the decision lightly. You have to balance the known benefit of reducing your risk of recurrence with the possible risks. In deciding what chemo to give you, the oncologist will take into account your age, general state of health and family history. This will help determine which chemo regimen will be most effective while still being well-tolerated. 

    I don't think it's useful for posters to start detailing the SEs or risks of chemo to you. It's the onc's and oncology nurses' job to do that, and they will, should you go that route. 

    I really don't know what I would do in your situation. You didn't have any node involvment and your tumor was small. On the other hand there's your age and Oncotype score. 

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